Ny name is Kerry Jeanne. I'm 19 in my second year of College. I'm about to transfer to another college in Southern California where the weather is beautiful and the city is alive! I love to give people advice and help them through sturggles in life. I happily live with my amazing boyfriend and roommate. I have a bulldog and a shih tzu. I'm very crazy, happy, outgoing, optimistic, funny, sweet, caring, and a total introvert. I'm spunky and always have a smile on my face. If I could have it my way, I'd be goofy all the time but when the time is needed, I know when to get serious. Life is great:)
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Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Coldwell Banker/Sophmore in College
Age: 19
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Member Since: January 22, 2009
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There's this boy at my school. He's new, I'm a sophomore and he's a junior. Every time I see him in the hallway, he's checkin me out! And I think he's the cutest person I've ever seen in my life. The thing is, we have never talked, and probably never will becuase no classes, no mutual friends, and different groups... the groups part means like I'll never run into him at a party (he's kind of into the skater scene and I go to the weekend parties, and also I'm more popular than he is). So were not in the same group, but he is actually so attractive to me and there is just so much tension between us and I wanna hook up with himmm!! I have no idea how to approach this situation because theres a lot of setbacks. What should I do about him? (link)
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There's nothing more sexier to a guy then self-confidence. Next time you see him in the hall, walk up to him and say something like "I noticed you're new here, are you adjusting well?" and maybe this will strike up a 5-10 minute conversation - you never know. If he's into you he'll act out on it, but it sounds like you're going to have to make the first move. Good Luck!
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this is kind of a weird question and maybe it isnt even possible, i wouldnt know. but is there any natural ways to make my boobs bigger. i know thats a really awkward thing to ask but i feel like mine have gotten smaller or something..i dont even know. thanks for your help (link)
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Getting on birth control usually tends to make boobs bigger, also certain exercises help build muscle which can make them appear bigger. Besides that, unfourtunately there isn't any diet us women can go on to make our boobs bigger, or in my case smaller:P
Good Luck!
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What are lifted pills? Are they dangerous? Please tell me what they are asap.
I know they're legal but are they unsafe? (link)
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I believe a lifted pill is a pill that has been coated with some sort of drug, perhaps acid which results in a stronger high. Try www.urbandictionary.com and type it in. It should give you a more appropriate answer. Good Luck!
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okay so im going to do this "diet" where for 2 weeks all you eat is vegetables. well i was wondering because you're not getting very many calories because vegetables don't have many, would it be okay if i had maybe every other day a "bad food" item. only one? like maybe have a brownie one day or a hamburger from burger king one day or somethig like that? will i still lose weight? (link)
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The amount of calories contained in a hamburger or a brownie can be as many as you need in one day. They are very fattening and unhealthy for you. You may think you will only have one but before you know it, your whole diet will turn into junk food because your taste buds send endorphins to your brain telling you that those fatty foods are what make you happy leaving you wanting more. If you cut them out completely having a strict diet you will be more likely to lose weight. Also, add some chicken to your diet to keep you healthy and your immunity up. Good Luck!
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When my boyfriends sucking me it feels so incredibly good yet I always am making him stop its like the peasure is too intense. What could be the reason? (link)
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The intensity probablly means you're about to have an orgasm. Let him keep going to see what happens! Good Luck!
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Ok well there is a guy that seems to like me. I've known him for a while and when I first met him I thought he was the best thing ever made, no joke. I was extremely attracted to this guy for reasons I can't really describe. We are into the same stuff and all but sometimes he can be very judgmental about people which is a huge turn off, but still I always liked him. But over time I figured nothing was going to come of it because although we talked and all, he never made a move. So I decided to try to stop liking him, which kind of worked. After that, I started liking an old friend who ended up asking me out. That was over winter break. Now, with school back and all, the guy I liked before and I have to work in a group project for theater. And all the time he sits extremely close to me and he, well I don't know what he does, but it's like I can feel his energy saying "I LIKE YOU!!". So there I am, having a blast from the past crush on this guy, while my boyfriend is off at another school. I love my boyfriend (not in love but love) but whenever I'm around this other guy all these feelings come back. I'd never cheat on him though but it's just feels wrong to think of another guy this way. What shall I do? (link)
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It's his loss not to make a move on you. Also, a lot of guys play mind tricks on girls to make them think they like you when they're not. It builds there self confidence when they have insecurities. It's actually kind of funny - don't give him the attention he wants because he's not going to do anything with it. Keep your boyfriend who does a good job at well..being your boyfriend. Don't make a mistake with someone that probablly isn't all that into you. Good Luck!
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now. and i know i love him. but i guess im bored. im not atracted to him anymore, i think bout other guys all day expect for him. i dont know why i feel this way. i dont know what i want to do and i dont want to do anything drastic before i know what i really want. can anyone helppp (link)
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I went through the exact same thing with my ex of 3 years. Honestly, it's hard to admit it but it sounds like you've just lost the love. It's time to slowly move on. See if you can end things mutually. Once the love is lost unfourtunately there is no repairing. I am now still very good friends with my ex and maybe you can too. Once you've moved on you will feel relief and confident in the dating world again. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Good Luck!
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i like this guy who is 4 years older than me. he used to be my manager and we talked alot through text message and back when he was still my manager we were flirting alot and he said Rules are meant to be broken but you just cant get caught. he got moved to another store, and hes leaving in a couple of weeks to go there. for 2 weeks he was being cold to me, then i messaged him asking him to come to a party with me, and he said that he will try but wont be sure because he couldnt get a lift. i ended up getting him a lift, but he told me that he will call me when he is ready to go but i still went and when i got to his house he said that he will come later because he didnt want to ditch his friend. i understood completely because i would do the same thing with my best friend, but i was still a bit pissed off.
then i texted him after the party saying "Damn you missed out on alot tonight" and he was like "Were still young, nothing that i cant make up for another time i hope..are u working tonight?" and i said "Well you missed out alot :P"
then later i said "You have to make it up to me for ditching me.." and he said "Really? Well i have the weekend off if thats any help.." and i said "Yeah it helps .. so what you gonna do to make it up to me?" and he said "Im still working on it..i could use abit of help" then i said "Sorryy youre on your own for this one.."
i was thinking maybe i could message him saying "Are you interested in me at all..or am i just being a jerk..?"
i really want to know what is going through his head! any ideas ? (link)
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A guy four years older than you? Sounds like he just wants one thing - and if you're willing to give that to him...cool. If not, I'd stay away. If he was the type looking for a relationship or something more than a friendship then he'd be acting on it and it sounds like he's not. Good Luck!
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recently i bathed my dogs and changed shampoos. ever since that my vagina has been itching. I'm not sure if this is the cause or if i have an infection. I don't have an STD because there are no absesses or sores. My boyfriend has no STDs. Is there anyway to solve the problem without going ot the doctor? Or can anyone tell me what the itching is? (link)
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It sounds like a yeast infection. Try over the counter monistat and it should get rid of the problem quite instantly. Good Luck!
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Hey there, im 16f.
Do you ever wonder why we were put on earth, what is your purpose in life and things like that? Well, im starting to think im wasting my life away. I live in a small town and I just want to get out in the world. I wish I could pursue what I want, but I don't think I can until I get my licence. My life is the shits, i have a family that treats me bad they don't understand me and wont listen to try to understand,I have no friends here, and no one truly cares about me. I don't want to hear anyone say there is people who care because you would think the same thing if you knew the people here and were in my position. I have good grades, an outgoing personality, and I am a caring person. But no one sees that, they look beyond me. I really just want to leave here and do something with my life. Do you really think I can get my licence and then pursue my dreams on my own? Is seventeen a decent age to try things on my own, to get out while I can and be who I am meant to be? I want to be somebody. Nobody treats me like im anything. (link)
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You are very young. Unfourtunatly in today's society you need to get an education to be 'somebody'. You sound intelligent, and you sound like you have goals. You also sound like you are feeling very unappreciated for all that you do. Finish high school, Apply to an amazing school - finish your education and then prove how great you are to the people who didn't think you could amount to anything. You're too young to show them now but someday you will be able to. You have to work your way up in this world - it's impossible to just start out successfully. Good Luck!
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well to start off there is this guy named Jay and he and i were always together, dating constantly but never really official, we didnt make it official bc he was moving to another country, weird i know but we kept in touch alot in the begining of his move kept up with birthdays and holidays then a month pass by and no talking happend. :( well then my birthday comes and he calls me i was extremely over whelmed with my feelings for him and and started to cry again over him. well then two to three weeks later which leads to now he calls only bc he misses me and wants to talk to me. he gets all i miss you, i need you, flirty, remembering the past of us. im really trying to get over him. and he is the one that said its okay to seee other people and move on already. im trying to move on, there is this guy named Adam and i've known him before Jay and well i started to like him and he likes me back, and Jay saw us talking over myspace and asked what was going on between us? i told him that he was just a frined, did i do that bc i still have feelings for him? should i have said that we are talking? i like both of them the same i think. and well i dont think im in love with Jay anymore, he broke my heart. I did something that i rereted with this guy, i think i only did that bc i needed someone to love me, since i thought Jay doesnt love me, he comes back when im happy and moving on and when i need him he isnt there. so anyways is he just messing with me bc he hasnt found a girl in his new location? and he knows im always going to be there? well im clueless on what to do i like both Adam and Jay the same but one i loved with great emotions and the other one is like a best friend i can settle down with.
any suggestions?
btw: sorry for the long story. (link)
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I knew a guy JUST like Jay. He's holding onto you for security reasons. He's keeping you around because he know's you'll be there for him when you need him. But when the tables are turned he's out of the picture. I suggest you move on from him and cut out most of your contact with him. Try just talking to him trough email once a week so you dont lose touch with him. This show's him that you're moving on and don't need him anymore. Showing him that you need him makes him see you as weak and you're not weak - you're strong. Give the other guy a chance. It won't be easy but once you have lost all feeling for him, you'll feel a big sense of relief and happiness. It will make you more confident and independent. Good Luck!
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There are two treadmill i'm considering right now. There's one sorta expensive one, and the other is cheap. I know i should hold up and wait till i can actually buy the expensive one, but i'm not sure when i'll be able to get it. I could afford the cheaper one though, and i was wondering if i should buy it. BTW the tradmill is a proform 400X and i'm not quite sure about the other one. Should i buy it...or wait a few (maybe 2-4) more months?
Does anyone have a proform 400x or similar one? how long will it last?
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From reviews, I suggest waiting to buy the more expensive one. In the mean time, get a temproary gym membership where you can still get the same kind of work out and get a feel for different machines. Good Luck!
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I was petting my dog (a female shit zu) and her belly/chest has a bump on it about an inch or more wide and an inch up its squishy and she doest yepl when we touch it or push it but I'm worried!
What is it?! (link)
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I have a shih tzu as well and he too has the bump on his belly. It's totally normal, nothing to worry about. It's an umbilical hernia, caused from cutting the unbilical cord too short. It means nothing and she's fine. No Worries. Good Luck!
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Try:
Forever21
Urban Outfitters
Heritage
Good Luck!
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i forgot my straighter on, it fell on my white carpet. Got WAAY to hot and burnt my white carpet. Any suggestions? (link)
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Cut the burned part out. Good Luck!
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my boyfriend of so far 2 years wants to get married really bad because hes a marine overseas and he wants that relationship before he goes out to war. but the thing is since i dont see him alot, i dont know how he would act in everyday communication. my dad puts my mom down everyday throws things at her and fights with her every moment, but tells her he loves her.im afraid of getting into one of those relationships. what do i do? (link)
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It sounds like your father has temper problems. If you can compare your boyfriend to your father in a bad way then he's not what you want. Don't marry him unless you are 100% ready. As far as the everyday communication goes - you could write him a letter every single day and I'm sure he would very much appreciate that. You're very brave for going through your loved one leaving for war. Good Luck!
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Im 20/f and my girlfriend is considering joining the army. We have been together for 2 yrs and now have an apartment together. She has thought about joining before but now she is serious about it and its because her friend (who is also her ex girlfriend) is going. I see her reasoning for going and all the perks that would come along with her joining but I dont want her to go. And it kind of hurts my feelings that she's more worried about her friend going to the army then she is about leaving me behind. She knows I dont want her to go but I told her that whatever she decides I would support her. I just dont know how to handle this. I mean, she does talk about it bettering us and coming back to me and everything but I know that she would be gone for quite a while and there is always a chance she wouldnt come back to me. I want to be supportive and I want her to know that whatever she decides I will be here and I will love her but I dont want her to feel like Im perfectly fine with her going. i just dont know how to find a happy medium. I dont know.. This is just real tough and any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
P.S.- I would love to hear from people who have had their significant other go away to the military and how they handled it. But any help is appreciated. (link)
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I've never had a significant other go away to the army but I couldn't even begin to imagine how hard it would be so I do have to say you are very brave.
If I were in your situation, being supportive is almost all you can do. It's something you have to be very strong about (and it seems like you are) If she know's how you feel - let her know you will love her no matter what. It hurts you so much that she's leaving but if thats her dream and what she truely wants then you support her 110%. As far as the ex goes - if they broke up on good terms, there's a reason she's her ex so you should have nothing to worry about. Good Luck!
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Hi, I would really appreciate some help on the following issue please:
My training routine is 6h/week of wing chun, 2h/wk of boxing (includes intense fitness, sparing etc..), 2h/wk of body pump and 1h/wk of spinning
Total of 10 to 12h per week.
I have noticed lately I get out of breath really fast, i.e. i start running for 2/3 minutes and I'm already out of breath !! which is ridiculous...or I spare at boxing for a few minutes and get out of breath ...it did not use to be like this a few month ago..I don't really understand, it seems the more i train the worth it gets...
I eat very healthily, my weight is 69kg for 1m74 and I am 40
Anyone experienced what I'm going thru ?
Can anyone help or make any suggestions ?
Thanks in advance.
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You could be experiencing asthma. Try consulting your doctor and see if you can get on something called Advair. It's like an inhaler but better for your lungs. You should experience quite a difference when on it. Good Luck!
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I tend to break out on my cheeks alot. My face is clear everywhere but there and nothing seems to help. I've tried different washes and spot treatments, and they just won't go away. Does anyone have any recommendations for good products that have helped? Or any home remedies too? Thanks! (link)
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Talk to your doctor - it may be embarassing especially if you're young but they help SO much! Before you go you can first start out on a generic version of proactive. Proactive is very expensive and if it doesn't work then you're waisting your money. There's a brand by Neutrogena that works quite well and it's very affordable. Home remedies never really work, as much as we all wish we could just zap our embarassing markings - it's never that easy. Another thing that works very well if you're not on it already is birth control. See if you can get on a low dose of birth control and it should clear it right up. Good Luck!
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hi(: well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months and I love him dearly (link)
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You know what most guys love? They may never admit this but guys enjoy something very meaningful. Since you're broke and you're young I suggest you make something special. Find a picture of you two and frame it, but decorate the inside of the frame with maybe heart confetti or other crafty gadgets. Another great idea is baking cupcakes or cookies. Most guys love sweets and it's a gift you both could enjoy. Good Luck!
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