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bored?
me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now. and i know i love him. but i guess im bored. im not atracted to him anymore, i think bout other guys all day expect for him. i dont know why i feel this way. i dont know what i want to do and i dont want to do anything drastic before i know what i really want. can anyone helppp
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I went through the exact same thing with my ex of 3 years. Honestly, it's hard to admit it but it sounds like you've just lost the love. It's time to slowly move on. See if you can end things mutually. Once the love is lost unfourtunately there is no repairing. I am now still very good friends with my ex and maybe you can too. Once you've moved on you will feel relief and confident in the dating world again. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Good Luck!
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my friend had this same problem with herboyfriend of 2 years. why dont you try doing something exciting and not something you two would normally do. like instead of dinner and movies, try go karting and mini golf or try kissing him iin public instead of in private, anything differant from what you guys had before, just something to spice up your relationship so you wont have that feeling of boredom with him. but if your still thinking about other guys even after trying out new dates with him, sit down and talk with him about how he feels things are going between you two
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ik just wut u mean. I've been dating my bf for almost a year n a half. I am completely in love with him and ik I wanna marry him but lately it seems like I don't want to have sex or kiss or anything really. the best thing is to just analyze n c if he's rly who u want. so I hope I've helped. even just a little
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I know how you feel. The relationship has hit a big downer and bump in the road. It's the same old, same old.. same guy, different day. You might have, like you said, just stopped being attracted to him and therefore, might have lost the feelings you once had. Do you guys see eachother everyday? If you do, that could be a reason why. Couples that constantly see eachother have no time to miss eachother and it gets old, quick. Is he romantic at all, and do you go on exciting dates? Maybe you're stuck in the rut of dinner and a movie every single friday night? You could try something new, and go somewhere neither of you have been before..which could ignite the flame again. If you're still unhappy after awhile, it's time to let it go. You need to go after what makes you happy and gives you butterflies!
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