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I'm outgoing and I love to do outdoor stuff. Thanx for asking me questions and I hope u love my answers. I love pigs and cows. They rock all sox!=-)

~*nick name's*~:sammich=chelsea,and ham=amber
~*fav. movies*~a walk to remember=chelsea, slcpunk,donnie darko=amber
~*fav.colors*~green=chelsea,and blue=amber
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O and yall look at this poem and no I didn't write this one!:


Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head


advice

What should I do for my 18th birthday thats coming up in 2 weeks?

I think you should have a big party.

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(note: anyone who answers this will get rated by me)

Anyways, I just met this guy out of the blue by chance online. He's my best friend's boyfriend's friend, so I know he's not some sweaty old perverted guy pretending to be someone else online. It seems like we're both pretty interested in eachother; however, he just broke up with his girlfriend recently and he's been having a lot of trouble recouping from his past relationship. They broke up recently so I had no clue if they were going to get back together again soon, so I had decided to not get involved. But then he started calling me pretty and asking if I wanted any gifts cuz he wanted to buy me something... etc. Now I'm not sure what to do. Should I get involved in his recent relationship with his ex gf? should I just stay away from him?(there's no harm in that because I've never met him in person) Well, I'm planning to meet him in two weeks, and I need to plan on what to do. Please help!

I say that you should follow your heart and tell him how you feel.It won't hurt because he evadently likes you the same way.Well write me back and tell me how it goes.Thanx,bye!~Chelsea~

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okay i have this neighbor ill call him bob n his best friend who ill call fred last year bob n i had this thing but now its over -or at least it is with him i know how i feel i know it sounds really immature but i love him. well anyway fred has asked me out and i dont know what to tell him . hes really sweet nice n kinda cute but im in lovw with his beast friend. what can i do

I think that you should tell Fred no and explain why. Then tell Bob how you feel and hope the feelings are mutual.Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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Does anyone know any good buddy icons sites? I really hate doll icons, so I need some good sites that don't have a ton of dolls.

www.badassbuddy.com

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well im 13 and i weigh between 110-115 and my legs are big and its all fat and my family said i have a beautiful figure and i like it and all but it to much fat for me i used to wear ones and now i wear 7 and i wanna try trimspa but im not sure if i should are not i need help and i tried exersize and it doesnt work!! help me plz
o yeah and i have had ppl tell me i wasnt skinny but i like my curves i just dont like being so big

Well I wouldn't trust it cause it was just a commercial and im really not sure if it really works. Try a low carb diet and a yoplait yogurt diet because i lost 8 pounds in two days. I hope this helped. Write me back and let me know how it goes. Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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Ok I created an account on here a couple days ago, I loved giving people advice and was so happy! Well when I told my mom what I was doing she kept getting on my case and wanted to know EVERYTHING that I was doing and saying to people. Well then she told my sister and my sister got my mom on her side and they are saying that I shouldn't give people advice b/c it may backfire! Well I mean should I still visit this site and give people advice even if my mom and sister say not too?


P.S.-If it does backfire it wouldn't really be my fault would it? The person didn't have to take the advice, I was just giving them ideas and voicing my opinion right?

Your mom should understand your feelings if you just explain them to her in your own special way.And even if the advice doesn't go through then it wasn't your fault. You were just voicing your opinion like you said. I hope this helped! Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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ok well my brother is 15 and he just moved to our house from his dads. My best friend is not allowed to come over because my mom is worried they are going to do stuff (if ya kno wat i mean) anywayz she is 13 and brother wouldnt do that. wat should i do?!? thanx 4 the help!!

xoxo,
me

My advice is to try to explain to your mother how your bro wouldn't do that. Have your brother explain to her how he wouldn't do stuff like that to a 13 year old girl. She should understand if you went through all that to tell her. I sure hope your friend can come over soon and she'll feel comfterable about it. Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone.

I say talk to people there and make friends. Don't wait for them to come to you. Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )

- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ?

neon green or like pink or electric blue!=-) i hope i helped u p.s. those are pretty good colors!

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Im anorexic, i dont know how to stop, i try to eat, but when i do i throw it up, i was on a diet to loose weight but i dont want to loose to much, im 13, 5'6, i did weight 122 pounds and now i weigh 78, i think im at the perfect weigh, but im feeling tired and lightheaded and my face is pale, i really need help and im afraid to tell anyone :(

Well, everyone is the perfect wieght, but you're not right now. Your wieght before sounded great. The only reason it was so high was because you're tall, not fat. You need a counselor or you can talkto me ne time you like. I really hope this helps, im worried and i really am eager to learn how it turns out. Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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ok well, me (a guy, 16) and one of my best friends (a girl, 16)have been friends for over 10 years, since elementary school. Recently we have gotten really close and we really like eachother. we talk all night on the phone and we fall asleep on the phone together and we talk like half the day everday. today at 7 she left to california from florida and she'll be there for a week or so. we really care about eachother but i dont know how to proceed with the relationship. we both know just about everything you can imagine about eachother and we talk about anything that comes to mind. we havent gotten a change to see eachother since the 12th and ill probaly see her the day after she gets back from cali. we havent kissed or anything yet. im not sure how to proceed with the relationship becuase i dont want to mess up our relationship and friendship. she means the world to me and thats the last thing i would want to happen. If you could help me out id greatly appreciate it.

thanks for any help, brandon

Wow, ummm.... i think you should make a pact to stay friends even if you break up cause you to might just be perfect for each other, which it does sound like.Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~

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I know this is a stupid question, but it has been bothering me for a while. I watch a show called Faking the Video on MTV. I caught the end of an episode. They were kicking off Thurston, but apparently something bad happened. They said they were going to sit him down instead of suprise him because of his "delicate situation". If someone saw this episode, please tell me what terrible happened. Thank you!

Love, Lauren

This is actually really sad. His dad was in the hospital and he had to go home and see him. He arrived just in time before his dad past away.Great question. Thanx, bye!

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Okay so when I went out with this friend I met I was having fun until , this really cute!! guy came along I could tell he was alone, My friend went off for something to eat, I stayed , i went over and tried to talk to him but he just looked at me finally we spoke he was sad because his gf moved away and now its his x g/f , but I told him I would try to help , but when we talked for an hour I got to know him ... alot more. Hes 16 andhis names CJ , he asked me out and Im only 15, I like him alot , but is he Prince Charming for me??? PLz help ,, Jenipher WBASAP!!!

So there's a one year difference, so what? He's seems fine to me.Go for it!Thanx, bye!

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i am gay and i think my mum knows, what do i do?

Well she's ur mother she should know and she should exsept u for who u r. If she doesnt she will eventually come around.You should always be honest with ur mother, or eles she will try to set u up with a lady and keep askin u y u havent gottin married yet! thanx for askin,bye!=-)

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How should i flirt to let this girl know that i wanna get with her. She is so sweet and nice. But she is a year older and im goin in to 10 and she gona be a senior. and she my bestfriends sister. I don't know if she has a thing for me but the other night she was playin with my phone and then i looked at it the next day and her num was in it. I also was good friends with her when i was lil but we want to differnt school and now im go to the same school as her and became good friends with her brothers

Try just talking to her because girls really like the sensative kind of guys u know? Take her somewhere special and ask her to be your girlfriend there. I sure hope this helps. Thanx, bye!

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hey my mom is an acoholic and she was like always drunk when i was younger. and it was horrible i mean she would fight with my dad all the time and she would throw things and pretty much the only memories of my early childhood is of my acoholic mother. well like 2 years ago she went to aaa classes to stop drinking. well now she is starting to drink again and just about everyday she is drunk and i can tell. she drinks no matter where we r but she does it sercretly. then when we r at a store or something she makes me feel really bad if i dont let her buy something with acohol. wat should i do i mean do i say something to her or wat? i mean i love her but she needs help......again.

Im soo sorry to hear what you're going through. It must be rough. I would look in the phone book for a rehab center where she can go. I truely hope that your mom gets better soon and that you do too.Thanx, bye!

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ok. i am 13. and just recently i fell in love for the first time with this guy but then he moved a few months ago to like the opposite side of the U.S.A.! Before he moved we went out like 10 times on and off. I was so in love! and after he moved i was very very heartbroken and I still am. and we still talk on msn messenger and AIM all the time. and we are still really good friends. but for a while he has had a gf. since he has moved he has gone out with a few girls but sadly their relationships didnt last that long and now he is really in love with this girl. And even tho i am happy for him it still hurts me and it kinda seems like he still likes me but i cant be sure. i know i still love him but i told him i didnt bcuz i am really trying to get over him. but i cant tell if he likes me or not! and now he is coming bak here to visit in a few weeks and he said hes going to come to visit me. and i dont know whats going 2 happen!!! bcuz i still really like him and he was my first love and i dunno if he likes me or not ne more...i think he probly doesnt but we have never really hung out as friends cuz we were basically always gf and bf. i dont know what to do!!! Plz help!

If you truely love this dude then your heart will do the talking and destiny will take its course.Plz im me back so i can see how it works out. Thanx bye!

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Is there anyway that you can make...down there...taste better?

I sure hope not cause thats gross. How old r u ne way and why are guys or girls down there?

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What would u do if U had a b/f or g/f Break up with u ??? me well I have too boys on my mind how do I get themn out??!!!! Jenipher

You see how they feel and if they dont have the mutual feeling you'll find someone new real soon.Just like i did.He's a football player!O ya! O sorry you know you'll find someone new cause every beautiful woman does. I can tell that you are just by the way you write. I really hope you understand what im saying.Thanx, bye!

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well me and my bf have been going out for 3 months (ish) and we havn't got past kissing on the cheek. i really do want to kiss him properly and he wants to kiss me but we're so shy. what do we do? i'm a 13 year old girl.

Well, you should be past kissing on the check. Its completley normal for a guy to be shy around a pretty girl. You should just make the first move and kiss him on the lips when you're sure he'll kiss back. Make sure the timing is just right. I hope to hear from you again soon and hope for the best. Thanx, bye!

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