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my acoholic mother


Question Posted Friday July 2 2004, 7:45 pm

hey my mom is an acoholic and she was like always drunk when i was younger. and it was horrible i mean she would fight with my dad all the time and she would throw things and pretty much the only memories of my early childhood is of my acoholic mother. well like 2 years ago she went to aaa classes to stop drinking. well now she is starting to drink again and just about everyday she is drunk and i can tell. she drinks no matter where we r but she does it sercretly. then when we r at a store or something she makes me feel really bad if i dont let her buy something with acohol. wat should i do i mean do i say something to her or wat? i mean i love her but she needs help......again.


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TexasBaby07 answered Monday July 5 2004, 5:48 pm:
well first off talk to her first... n make sure you tell her how you feel.. tell her you are scared tell her you love her and care about her n you dont want her to go back to drinking again... and if she doesent try to change then seriously go talk to sum1 else... talk to ur dad or sum1 like when school starts back up tell a counsalor... ne1 that you know that will help... becuz she dont need to go back to her old self again... i know it is scary... very scary... cuz i went through it w/my dad... n at times he starts to do his heavy drinking again... but i always talk to him about it... well i hope i helped! xoxoxoxo -Kayla

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cowsoink answered Saturday July 3 2004, 4:24 am:
Im soo sorry to hear what you're going through. It must be rough. I would look in the phone book for a rehab center where she can go. I truely hope that your mom gets better soon and that you do too.Thanx, bye!

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sweetjewel answered Friday July 2 2004, 10:41 pm:
you could try to talk 2 her or try calling a hotline

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Derfel answered Friday July 2 2004, 7:56 pm:
I really do feel for you in this situation. Dose your dad know she is drinking again?, what about other family members? Because you really shouldn't have to deal with this on your own. The problem with alcoholics is they do not accept they have a problem and their for trying to persuade them to get help is very difficult to say the least. Where you go from hear is a personal decision for the family, based on the specific situation but try to stay calm as hard as it is and, as I say don't attempt this alone. The whole family need to come together on this one because your mom is the first victim of her drinking, but her family is the second. God bless
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