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hey im jasper im 19 i love to help people and hang out with friends
Website: myspace/1soulofanartist
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Location: new york
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I was talking to my boyfriend and he got a boner. I happened to glance at it and he noticed me looking and got real embarrassed. I can understand why he'd be embarrassed but now he's scared to talk to me anymore. I don't think it's gross or weird. It's natural and I wish he could see that I don't care. He doesn't have to feel ashamed or anything around me. He makes me horny too. TMI? Sorry! (link)
ok well it is because he thinks your hot tell him he gets you hot too and please if every guy in the world acted the way he is there will never be any boy-girl contact.


Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL! (link)
now the bleeding will stop it's maybe your period changing cycles k dont worry


Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...

They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"

I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!! (link)
ok now just make something up he's only 5 he'll forget soon.


So many people in my grade have a b/f or g/f but they don't take it seriuosly. In the hall all they do is say "hey" to each other, they talk to each other on-line about "who knows what?" and in their binders they write "I love----". They don't talk on the fone or anything like that.I feel so left out, but if i ask a girl out it would be weird for me to be going out w/ a girl and telling everyone, but the girl wouldn't look me in the eye or anything like that. it's so stupid. What could i do so i don't feel left out? (link)
well just talking to chicks may be hard to do but just do it and dont worry thing will unfold.


Hey! Im looking into seeing broadway shows, i love watching them and i was wondering if anyone had some they'd like to recomend!?
THanks a lot! (link)
good shows are wicked and must see the lion king.


well my friends suck, theyre always rude to me and get on my nerves. i try to help with their problems but they just act like im an idiot. anyway, i try to meet new people and talk and get together but no one wants to..and they already have best friends. what do i do? (link)
hey dont even sweat it because if they are really your friends they wont just act like total asses to you. to tell you the truth its kinda happining to me but its kinda best we move on.


hey. alright, im kind of nervous about shaving below my belt. does it itch growing back? how do i prevent razorburn? should i just use shaving cream? what about nair? if anyone could give me some tips or adivce on doing it, that'd be great. (link)
ok now it really doesnt matter some times it itches and for razorburn put lotion it soothes the itch.if i were you i wouldnt use razor cream it just makes a mess.


ok well you see i have mayjor problems because im in love with this kid who i cant be and well yeah were cool and all and he flirts but hes a ladies man you know and i love him so much and well i dont want to say anything b/c i dont know how he feels but please help me should i follow my heart and let my family and others hate me for a guy that may not even be interested and if he is what happens if we dont stay together i mean im willing to give my virginty help im in over my head please answer asap (link)
ok now if you think you are inlove with this dude
then you can always just tell him how you feel if
he is an ass about it then forget him k




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