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Q: Ok So i have this guy that i reall ylike and he is soo sweet. I really wanna tell him so he will like me or have a chance of asking me out...Im 13 too he is almost 14. He is in 8th and i just want him to know. My friend offered to tell him or ask him if he ever would but i'm scared that will make things akward!! This guy means alot to me and i have no idea how to tell him. He always says hey to me and waves to me in the halls but it's kinda like as best friends...and he has been hanging out with a 15 year old..:( How do i tell him without making it akward because im not gunna be like i like you and i want you to like me.....Please give me advice!

XoXo, Missy May
i feel you man.
its so hard
but if you want to be smart, dont tell him itl be awkward and it will ruin your friendship
so far mynes a secret and ive been likin the guy i like for a year..
and it is really hard but i am not gonna tell him cause im sure that if i will tell him he will act so abnormal
most likely not talk as we should
anyway.. play it cool and be his friend.. or if you want get closer.
:) hope i helped


*Israa-- M.

Q: hey ive been always wanted to know something
some girls NEVER in thier livves.. ever get thier periods..
why is this..

i have no idea..

Q: I'm 19, my boyfriend is 20. I'm not religious whatsoever, but my boyfriend is muslim and his family is very religious. He's met my whole family and they love him. He's forbidden from dating outside the race/religion, and me, being white and very un-religous makes it worse. His family has no idea of us & he's not even worried about it, saying "we'll take care of it when it comes down to it". I worry constantly because I think we have a future together! What am I supposed to do? Never meet his family?
hey look
im muslim
and it is forbiden to date..
and honestly..
if you really cared about your boyfriend
respect his religion
i mean what if in christianity
sex was forbidden before marriage??
ok would u do it ??
i mean you both have to respect eachthers desicion
you dont have to date in order to have a future together.

Q: okay so i hav this friend who i think looks like she's about my age and she is but alot of ppl think she's like 10 years older then me. How old would you say that she looks?

http://i202.photobucket.com/albums/aa319/ilanna92/s1604040292_30039149_4876.jpg
umm yeah what do you mean she looks about your age..
we dont know how old we are to judge really..
haha anyway she looks around 14-16

Q: 13/f

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hope i helped.....

Q: is it ok for a girl to ask a guy to homecoming?
yeah, it may be awkward but its something that will inspire other girls to do the same
to be like
guyz are just like girls

Q: Ok so you know how people say that everything means something wel when you drop something and a guys picks it up for you does it mean anything cause i dont think it does but my friends keeps saying it does
no, lol well if like he smiles at u you all the time and does that.. maybe he does..
but if hese just being friendly
he could only be friendly..

Q: 15/F

I've been seeing this guy around school a lot lately. He's so fine. I know that seems shallow and everything but I could not stop thinking about him. So last week I went home and looked him up in the yearbook. I'm a sophmore and he's a junior so I knew where to find him when I looked up his picture.
When I finally found him I realized who the guy actually was. I already know him....he's friends with my ex and I met him through my ex before. I couldn't believe it because he dyed his hair over the summer and let it grow out...long story short he looks nothing like he did last year.
So that night I went to my ex's myspace page and found him and added him to my friends list. He sent me a message asking who I was and once I told him he remembered me and we messaged each other back and forth for a while.
I found myself CONSTANTLY going to his locker..walking by his table at lunch...finding out every where he hangs out...it was crazy.
I told one of my friends i liked him the other day and she went up to him and started to cause a scene shouting "IS THIS HIM??" "IS THIS THE GUY YOU LIKE???" I almost died...
So since then I haven't seen him much....he's been avoiding me and telling all of his friends that I'm his stalker!!! I've never wanted to get with a guy so badly before. What should I do to make him see that Im a normal girl who just wants to get to know him better??
wow how embaracing
personaly somthing like that happend to me but it was about a pic i carried of the guy i liked..
anwyay just play it normal like NOTHING HAPPEND just be like oh hey
how are you
ya anyway i gotta get to class.
see u when i see u ..
and stuff like that dont be shy
like i went the next day to skoool
and i was like all
normal
i just sat there
and talked
just pretend it neverhappend
hope i helepd bye

Q: 15/f
A lot of people think I'm shy and label me as a that.
However, I'm really just quiet rather than shy-- and I'm definitely not shy at home or when I feel strongly about something.

I know this other person (a guy) who is also considered shy-- and he acts super nice, NEVER anything but happy.

Basically, I'm just wondering, if you are "shy", do you act crazy and outspoken when you're comfortable?
yeah haha
they do
cause when a quiet, shy person is in a place where thyre not comfortable they feel so not comfortable and when ur like in a place where you think your free and you can do whatever you want then youll just be crazy and play it cool
hope i helped
later

Q: 15/f Ugh..I can't stand talking to teachers. I'm a good student and all and I'm nice.
But when it comes to asking about grades or something, I'm always hesitant and afraid. I have a situation right now. My teacher made a mistake with one of my grades, and I e-mailed him. But I have a feeling I may have to talk to him. I'm really afraid to. ;_;..What should I do ?? =(
hey!
ok me the way i tlk to my teachers i just play it cool im like
"yo mr.. blah blah blah blah blah *
you get it ..?
dnt be afraid
take a deep breath
then go talk toh im
its easyy!!
hope i helped
byee

Q: so i just started dating my bf who's six years older than me (don't worry its legal so thats not the issue) and he just broke up with me and it's the first time i've actually cried about a boy. He says i'm too young and he couldnt' live with himself. can i prove to him that i'm older than my years?
lol no you shouldnt .
honestly
io know you like him but you should change yourself for a guy..
he already left you arent you scared he would leave you again?

Q: I need a video clip of Joh Travolta dancing to "walking on sunshine" in the movie "Look who's talking" anyone know where I could find it?
Youtube.com

Q: Some of the people I call *friends* are saying crap about me. And I know there not really my friends, we just hang out.. Well they get all surprised when I get pissed. They've made fun of my weight right infront of me! Like I wasn't even there.. and I've lost 15 pounds.. which to me is awsome. I've only told my very very best friend Becky this someone who sticks up for me when they bitch, and I love her. Shes sooo supportive because I am on a diet. The people who bitch know im on a diet but instead of being like WOOO there like Finally.. Well I wanna tell them to step off or get bent, I know there not my friends and I have been breaking apart formt them but they seem to be like fallowing me.. Brianna is like KING ands the worst and I wanna kil her. Shes gunna be like =O what did I dooo??? when I bitch slap her 'cross the face!
Err anythign will be helpful and about my diet.
Ive been doing 10 sit-ups a night.. and ive been going up by 5 every week. I walk\jog what I calculated to be a mile atleast everyday.. or atleast I tryy. And I havent been eating as much.. The problem with my weight is mostly my POT BELLY, and my jigle-like-jello thighs. But my weights not going as fast as I would like so any tech-nec that hasworked for you without costing a lot of money would be helpful/ Im just tired of being made fun of because of my wight.
And when I hit my goal weight there gunna be the ones pissed! Now they'd have no one to bitch at!
whoa mama chillax haha
you have every right to be angry though
tell briana to back off
seirosuly i dont even know her and yeah i wanna slap her :D
stick to what your doing but do more sit ups and run more.,,
i kno how it feels to be called fat
it gets to me too
but we have to be strong
and make that person infront of us wronge...
i kno i didnt help much
sorry
byee

Q: Ok so i have this friend but i dont konow if he likes me as a friend or wants to be more then that, anyway we have homeroom and last period together in last period we talk all the time and when i'm not looking at him he stares at me and when i catch him staring at me he smiles at me then if i tell him my dads picking us up he'll say your dads picking us up when he knows i mean my dads picking me my sis and my bro up but he says that stuf on purpose to make me laugh and when were going to the buses i was with my friend and he was in front of us and i guess he heard my voice so he turned around and smiled at me for like 5 seconds and almost fell down the stairs......he plays football too but he can't play rite now because he fractured his wrist i dont no if he likes me or not and thank you so much to everyone who answers this you've been a big help just saying this ahead of time

P.S. he's a little bit shorter then me and i don't no if i should worry about that i mean his hottness makes up for it by alot!!!!!!!

thank you so much
Lol how cutE!!! as soon as i read the whole fell down the stairs thing i was like hahaha lol
anyway aw oh my gosh he so likes you!! :D:D
i mean c'mon hahah by lookin at your face and about to fall CLEARLY he was lookin at your hottness
lol
;)
anyway
no its not supposed to bother you
if hese short
who cares
it doesnt matter
;)
take caree

BYE
PEACE
MUCH LOVE

Q: last night i had a very bad dream involving my boyfriend and my best friend. i caught them having sex in the shower. and of course i beat the hell out of her. i started crying and forgave him. which i know is stupid. because once a cheater always a cheater, right? why am i having these dreams. i heard that dreams come true most of the time. how can i prevent this? i would hate to lose him & my best friend. i love this guy so much, more then anything in the world. he means so much to me. i trust him with alot of things. but someone told me that he has been cheating on me within the past 2 months. i also got a phone call from a girl and told me that he had sex with her. i confronted him about it, but of course he said no. how do i know thats true or not? the friend ( she has a boyfriend )in my dream got kicked out of her house, and needed a place to stay,and her boyfriend is best friends with mine. and he asked my boyfriend if she can stay the night at his house. and he let her. i trust them both. but he has a reputation as a player. he says he has changed but how do i know?


16/f and 19/m - we been together for 7 months.
i am not goin to tell you that you have to let it go .. no i think he may be cheating on you AND maybe hese not .. i mean maybe cause you always think about it then you keep getiin more and more dreams beleive me its yourimagination but you seeyou cant let this situation go so easily somehow try to find a way to know if they both are seein eachoher.. ask him where hese going
thenask your friendwhere shes going
hope i helped...



Q: Okay, i moved about 3 months ago and i had to leave my best friend behind :(. When i left she was mad and slammed the door in my face, we worked out that whole argument and everything is good but we miss eachother terriably! I mentioned to her how my mom had to go back home(thats what i call it) next week and i might come with her she got excited and asked what day, i told her wednesday but really we're going on monday, i want to suprise her but i have no idea how to go about it. I'm hoping we'll get there before she gets home from school so i can sit on her steps with a sign or something. But do yall have any good ideas on how to suprise her? Keep in mind its been about 3 1/2 months since we've seen eachother. THANKS!!
aww how cute lol
okie here it goes
dont sit on her stairs!!lol belike in her room haha likee when she comes backk from skool let her mom belike "they called and said they coulldnt come .. lol then whenshe goesto her room you pop out okie??haha
hope i helped
telmme how it goes
muchlove
peacee











Q: I'll make my story short. I like this boy, and no I'm not an immature little brat who's too young to date. Anywho, I have a crush on this boy very much and this guy rejects me saying that he doesn't feel that way about me. But he's been hanging out with everyday and says he misses me and hugs me plenty of times. I like him so much but I really want him to like me back but all I get from him is that he says I'm like his little sister which is totally embarrassing and lame. I don't know how to get this guy to like me, when he likes to hang out with me all ready, and I don't get why he wouldn't like me! It's just hard and I need someone's help. How would I make this guy like me more than a little sister? He's not like any other guys. He's very blunt and shy to share his emotions but when it comes down to it, he does say what he feels. And I want him to like me more than a friend really badly. If he hangs out with me so much, I don't get why he doesn't like me more than a friend. Please help! Thank you.
omg i have the SAME EXACTT PROBLEM IM DEALING WITH RITE NOW .. i like this boy nd he takes me like a lil sister.. and they tell me that he cares about me alot and stuff and i cant get over him ...
well you see he doesnt kno i lke him
so i still like him
but if he were to know
and rejected me
i would move on with life
honestly since he knows you like him
go up to him and be like
why dont you lik me
and if you already asked that tell him how you feel im sure he will try to get you over him

good luck=[
it sucsk i kno

Q: I'm 15 years old... What generation do i belong to? I think generation x is my parents generation...but I'm not sure. Can anyone help!
what!!???

Q: hi...do all girls play hard to get couse theres this girl and i dont no if she likes me or not she knows i like her but shes like ok then he likes me or is she jus playing hard to get and if a girl is playing hard to get what do you do.
well no not all girls play hard to get but you see
she wants you to follow her
and stuff
it will get tiring
but if you really like her
make her feel important ;)

Q: Ughhh ; ok ` im 14 going on 15 & my boobs are smaLL ''/ Like A cup , idk why .... aLL my friends are bigger than mine . my 13 year oLd friend is in a fuckin size C cup! . its so embarrising ?

when wiLL they grow? & any way to speed the process up ??!!
hey Yes they will If God wants But you just have to wait ...

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