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bad dream.
last night i had a very bad dream involving my boyfriend and my best friend. i caught them having sex in the shower. and of course i beat the hell out of her. i started crying and forgave him. which i know is stupid. because once a cheater always a cheater, right? why am i having these dreams. i heard that dreams come true most of the time. how can i prevent this? i would hate to lose him & my best friend. i love this guy so much, more then anything in the world. he means so much to me. i trust him with alot of things. but someone told me that he has been cheating on me within the past 2 months. i also got a phone call from a girl and told me that he had sex with her. i confronted him about it, but of course he said no. how do i know thats true or not? the friend ( she has a boyfriend )in my dream got kicked out of her house, and needed a place to stay,and her boyfriend is best friends with mine. and he asked my boyfriend if she can stay the night at his house. and he let her. i trust them both. but he has a reputation as a player. he says he has changed but how do i know?
16/f and 19/m - we been together for 7 months.
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When i have dreams like that, i don't think nothing of them. And i see by having a dream like that means it won't happen ever.
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You had the dream because you were worried that he was cheating on you. That doesn't mean that just because you dreamed that he cheated on you, that it's really going to happen. But since you've been hearing that he's cheating on you, it's been on your mind, so he had a dream about it.
It doesn't mean anything except that it's the biggest thing on your mind right now.
So, to try to get it off your mind, get it out in the open and confront him about it. Tell him exactly how you feel and how it's been affecting you (such as the dream). You could also tell your friend about it.
Chances are, that you know deep down whether or not he's most likely cheating on you. I was cheated on by an ex that I was with for years, and I regret not waking up and paying attention to the cheating. Instead I lived with the jealousy and dreams almost every night (yes I dreamed about him cheating on me most night) So, it's up to you, if he is cheating, whether or not your going to put up with it, or are you going to be stronger than that?
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Dreams do not always come true-that is false. Have you ever had a dream about flying?... Ever happened?
I understand how you feel about this, babe. I have been through the same thing-but my advice will be everything but personal. Dreams usually tell you what your subconcious is thinking and your dreams have a way of being very intuitive about your everyday life. It seems like you trust your bf, but your still skeptical about things. I suggest you keep doing this, because there is ALWAYS a possibility. And your a very smart girl for realizing this and the fact that he use to be a player. I think your a little worried about if he's faithful to you and JUST you... But you should really sit down and have a conversation with him and ask him where he see's this going and if he takes you two seriously. Since you have heard of some possible incidents its quite possible he could be. Talk to your friend (though I doubt she would do anything to hurt you that way if she's a real friend) she may know more than you think.
Hope all ends out well.
Goodluck.
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i am not goin to tell you that you have to let it go .. no i think he may be cheating on you AND maybe hese not .. i mean maybe cause you always think about it then you keep getiin more and more dreams beleive me its yourimagination but you seeyou cant let this situation go so easily somehow try to find a way to know if they both are seein eachoher.. ask him where hese going
thenask your friendwhere shes going
hope i helped...
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