Okay... I hate my life and everything right now. All my friends are in fights with eachother and me! And their is a nasty roomer going around my school that im not a virgen any more which i still am! And b/c of this roomer my 3 month boyfriend broke up with me. Im 13 by the way! So i dont know what to do! None of my friends will talk to me,eachother ugHHH! There are nasty roomers going around with them too. Everyone is making fun of me and my friends. Please Help Me! I Will Rate & Give Feed Back too =)
Welcome to the drama that is junior high/ middle school. 1) People are always going to talk about you and your friends. some people out there... its what they live for-to cut people down constantly and start rumors for the heck of it no matter how much it ruins your life. 2) if your boyfriend would dump you without hearing your defense... then he wasnt that good of one.. try to explain it to him even if he wont listen. 3)go to the Bible for answers.. before you say anything... my life was as messed up as yours.. i had no friends... no boyfriend (never have) and all these rumors going around about me... then i started havind a daily devotional and really getting to know God and things have gotten somewhat better.. change is meant to be and it will always work out forthe better eventually. trust God.
hope it works out for you.
GOD BLESS~ aeromonkey
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A friend of mine is having trouble finding a date to the prom. She has even asked most of her guy friends. All of them are either taken or dead-set against going. I suggested to her kidnapping and blackmail already so please do not inform me of those options. My question is, what should she do?
Bummer.. i know how it feels. Just... tell her to ask one of the guys a second time and tell them she just wants to go as friends and they'll really have a great time as friends.
Also, she might be having a problem in her approach.. guys really hate girls that go... PICK ME PICK ME! all the time.. i found that out the hard way. (long story)
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O.k. I have a.d.d. and all my teachers Know it, but they push me to hard. I told them about my issue just in case they forgot, but they still push me to hard. Should I tell my parents? One of my teachers was going to give me a d-hall for talking, which iz stupid. Wat should i do about all of this? Sighned, Confused
Teachers are always going to push you to the limit to see what you can really do. You can whine all you want, but that's still the truth
Sure, you have a.d.d. this is common in the u.s. and other places recently. Even though you have this disorder, you still have the ability to accel in work and school and shouldn't use it as an excuse when things get piled up. just try to do your best and thats all your teachers really want....and your parents. i promise.
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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?
and why?
It doesn't matter what age difference.. ok there is if there's like 50 years difference, but an eight grader going out with a seventh grader isnt bad. It's how much you love them or they love you. Most people who fall in love.. it's most likely a little age difference.. years.. months.. days.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time now. I love him so much and he asked me to marry him. I told him yes of course because I have never felt this way about anyone and he is flawless. But the thing is, I am only 16 years old. And latley, aka as of two days ago, I have been having doubts and it doesnt feel the same. Nothing happened between us, it just feels different. I want to love this guy again, because the love I had for him was perfect. I dont want to lose him for feeling this. What can I do to 'rekindle' the flame again?
It's called cold feet. It happens to practically everybody. Try spending some romantic times together. Like walks on the beach and simple stuff that still means alot. Think about what first attracted you to him and the day you first met and all that stuff.
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Does anyone know of a place (online or a store) that you can get dog tags (the necklaces) with your initials inprinted on them?
Thanks!
try any local army surplus store. when i went with my cousin, they were only like 5 bucks.
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im not sure if u will answer this but i need help really bad ok ijm 15 yrs ol and i weigh 190 lbs. im fat!!!!!!!!! i wana be down to at least 130 by this summer wat are some good workouts and diets i could do that oesnt cost any money? plz help
UM... no money? not much. there's always walking atleast 30 minutes a day, the crunch, and a sit up. Go rent some pilates videos for dirt cheap at blockbuster or something. Pilates works.. or get a yoga ball.
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wow, these people have issues...
I don't really see how this is a question, but im sure you've had your share of issues, too. Any real questinons? ask away.
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I'm 15 years old and really confused.See there is this guy that i really like and he likes me to but theres a problem. I already gave him two chances befor and i dont want to get hurt again. Plus my dad isn't to sure about him and most of my friends keep putting me down about it. All i wanna do is do what i feel inside but it seems like its getting harder and harder to do!
follow your heart. it will hurt, but in the end.. .that's what you have to do. Friends are friends when they want to be. when it comes to you liking someone. they don't seem to get it. they find one thing about him that they know will get you mad and they pick at it and pick at it until you explode. If you've given him so many chances already, maybe it isn't meant to be.. three strikes.. you're out.
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How come everyone thinks im mean? all i do is tell the truth. I gues they just cant handle the truth. Do you guys appreciate it when people tell you the truth or stupid lies? I would rather know the truth not stupid lies people tell me to feel better gosh.
Whats your opinion
Ya_gots_to_luv_me :)
The truth hurts.. some people, i'll amit like me, can't handle it in certain areas. There is never a right place or situation to lie but it happens. I'd rather hear the truth upfront to my face than lies to my back.
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My question is, why does it seem like an overwhelming amount of the advisors on this web site are teenage girls? I'm serious about this. Is it because they have more time on their hands, have a stronger feeling of needing to give advice, need more advice.etc.etc? What do you think the reason is?
because we have more issues and know what people are going through or need help from others we don't (i don't) have extra time, but feel like i have to try to help other people out that are going through the same stuff as i am. (which is a lot)
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my best friend is ditching me for her boyfriend, hes basically taking my place and i feel like she just wants to be with him and doesnt care about me anymore.. and i was wondering if anyone knows any songs, quotes, or lyrics that might have to deal with something like that.. or does anyone know any good quotes about life or changes
I don't know any good quotes other than what my bff told me when she said we weren't friends anymore... "people drift apart" "you're just jelous becaus i have a boyfriend" "Best" friends can be a pain in the butt sometimes, but when their boyfriend dumps them they expect you to be there to catch them after they've treated you like crap. I like listening to anything slow that makes you cry when im mad. But, don't let this friend get you down. She'll come around. Live life to its fullest.
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Sporkster here, and I've got a question for you lovely people here on Advicenators:
I've got this "friend" of mine who's been rather...hard to get along with lately. You know who you are, "friend." Anyway, in Study Hall one day she just errupted like Mt. Vesuvius. I mean, over something so petty she just blew it. My boyfriend had moved to another table to take a quiz and she came over to sit with me. There's this stupid rule my SH teacher came up with stating that only two people can sit at one table until ten minutes prior to the bell rings. My boyfriend finished and came back over, and right before I was going to tell him to wait a minute so I could finish talking to her she just..."*slams book together, packs up bookbag, moves* Fine, I see who's more important, I'll just move! *mutters incoherently*" I just was...shocked. She didn't even give me a chance to tell him that I needed to finish talking to her. Anyway, she's been really sore over this for the past week or two. I mean, she doesn't sit with my boyfriend, me, and our friend anymore. She never talks directly to me, however, she has this obsession with talking ABOUT me. She's lied about my boyfriend and me, giving people the impression that I'm some sort of slut. This is really starting to annoy me. Not the fact that she's talking about me, but that she's lying about me. I really do wish she wouldn't be so sensitive and...paranoid. Our friendship has been an ongoing battle ever since my boyfriend and I have been going out. I don't really want our best-friend friendship back, I just want to come to terms with her and "agree to disagree", if you will. But she won't even compromise with that! I've tried everything you could possibly think of and then some, but she doesn't want to listen to a word I say to her. Can anyone offer some sort of ideas for getting her to just listen to me for five minutes to sort things out? Any input would be appreciated, though I am looking for good, well thought-out, helpful answers. Thank you in advance for every good answer.
It probably would have helped, "sporkster" if you didn't tell that friend when she called to apologize, to not be friends anymore..excuse me , best friends. She is sooo not jelous of Tucker, she's mad because she does feel left out and has a right to.
Anyway...she said she was sorry (like every other time we...you fight) but that wasn't enough for you so you're not friends anymore, just like you wanted. About "lying" about you. She has enough crap going around about her at school than to start mess with you...even though she knows you've said stuff about her. (she's heard things)
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hey everyone what do you say is "in" style these days lol - I am size 00 and ned to knoe ware you get it
nothing is "in" for very long. DOn't follow the crowd..have them follow you. set your own statement with what you wear and someone's bound to pick up on it and you'll be responsible for a new trend. Clothes are a way to express yourself..not others.
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
Um.. beauty is more than skin deep! You may be a barbie clone, but if you lack a good personality and good loving soul, you don't have anything. And, The "ugly girls" they arent attractive, or popular, but they aren't single...like you.
Sorry to be harsh..it's nothing personal... it's just i'm sick of all the pretty people getting relationships. and then complaining
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hi my name is james but ppl call me jimmy.there's this girl that i like/love with all my heart,she is all i think about.i tell folks i dont really like her but i do.because i dont wanna get hurt b/c she dont like me.wut should i do?and if it doesnt work out call me sometime.
Well... 1) You should really question if you love her or not...if you really love somebody, you shouldn't be afraid to tell somebody.. I'm no one to talk since the guy i've liked doesn't think of me than more than a friend, but 2) let her know...take a risk. You never know, she might be hiding her real feelings about you and love you as much as her
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I like my friend, hes so fun to be around & I think at one point he used to like me too, you know how you can just tell? Besides, i used to nag him about who he liked and at that point, he would say that he was shy and such, and that he didn't want to ruin anything if he said something. Anyways, after a while, i started to like him and it was obvious hehe. I told him I like him and wells he told me to call him back when I had a chance to talk about it, when I did, he ignored the subject and wells i thought something was there but i guess at that point there wasnt. Anyways, nowadays, it seems like he likes me again, doing the same things when he might have liked me, but on and off..and i think i still have feelings for him..should I ask him about it?
Follow your heart, not what we say. If you really truelly love him to the point of insanity, than go for it...You might get hurt, but go for it.
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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do...
People are always going to say stuff, but it would help if you had a girlfriend.. ok that's a little shallow, but if you do decide to get one, make sure she loves you back and doesn't think you're gay and just said yes to say yes. There are some out there that don't think you're gay... you have to find them and make friends with them. I know how you feel..I get called a lesbo sometimes because i have no boyfriend.
That's what is wrong with our society today. They judge if people are gay by their hair, speech, or dress, and don't get to know the real you. Just , don't change yourself to fit in. Then it really will be worse.. for that special someone who love you for who you are.
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hey i was the one who wrote you earlier about Bo Bice.He is my favorite guy an American Idol.Do you like him.My favorite girl is Carry Underwood.
Who doesn't? Bo rocks my socks... I like anthony too, but anybody's better than constantine. He...just isnt a good rocker like Bo. As for the girsl..I'm glad mcKayla is gone... and Carry is awesome.
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Hi. This message may be kind of depressing to you, but here it goes: about 5 yrs ago i got into the shirt dealing buisness. i was making a few thousand a week. but now that the schivo case has come out people quit buying shirts. i bought a huge house about 2yrs ago and know i'm in debt. the bank already took my ferrari, my mustang and my 1964 t-bird. and can you belive this, they took my farrot, rufus, along with my lama, tina.
what should i do??....write back asap.
P.S. want to buy a shirt, only 300 bucks.
whoa! dang someone is living the sweet life... why don't you get a job or two that doesn't involve shirts and instead of blaming the schivo case.. pray for her and her family. As for the shirts... If you down priced them a little, it might help.
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