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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do

aww hunny..tell her how you feel, it sounds like you really care about her..talk to her, who cares if she has a b/f..that cant change the way you feel..i def. say you SHOULD tell her how you're feeling..!! you're so sweet..more guys should learn how to be like you..good luck sweetie..hope she has a change of heart and gives you a chance..

xO`Lexi

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Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz?

i personally hate girls..lol i have like 5 girls..that im really close with..girls honestly annoy me..almost all of my close friends are guys..i love it, they're always there for me & they don't just run around and worry about their make-up..haha if i were you, since i'm in the same position, i'd keep the friends you have now..who cares if they're guys or girls..they're there for you and that's all that matters..it's perfectly normal.

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Hi.. well, here it goes. There's this guy, lets say his name is Luke. Luke is really cute and he's a yaer older than me, sometimes he is sweet to me but just to prove to his boys that he's tough sometimes he is really mean. His younger sister, Michelle, is my best friend (she's 2 years younger than him.) Anyways, to my sister and Michelle he makes fun of them but to me he just teases me a little, nothing too bad. When we all went out last week he kept following me and stuff and staring at me and telling me to race with him and trying to make me catch him. I don't know, everyone says it looks like he likes me but he wont admit it to my sister or anyone else. His 'boys' won't tell me either. They say he has a girlfriend named 'Ashley Marks' but Michelle would know because they go to the same school and she never seen any girl named Ashley marks with him and she says its a lie. I really want to go out with him but if he doesn't admit it I won't get too far. And also i really can't tell him I like him unless he tells me first because my mother said not to because she doesn't want people at her office to thinkim a huge flirt...(his mom and dad work for my mom and dad) I want him to tell SOMEONE he likes me and I want to know if he likes me...help...

hmm that's a tough one..well hun, all you can really do is talk to him..tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels..as for being a "huge flirt"..i don't think that's it at all..you just like some1..that's perfectly normal..anyways..iduno what his deal is, i mean he lies about having a g/f?..he teases ya'll?..and he acts all tough around his friends..? that's pretty immature if you ask me..
i HATE when guys act differently around their boys..but that's up to you..if you really do like him then i say talk to him..that's the only way you can find out for sure how he feels ..

-if it was up to me, i'd forget him & wait til' he grew up a little and was a big enough boy to admit that he liked me and show his feelings for me in front of his "boys"..then maybe if he does like me, he'd rezlize that he needs to mature a lil bit in order to have a chance with me,[a lil playin hard to get]but like i said that's just my opinion..

hope that helps a lil..if you need anything else..i'm here & ill do my best to help!!=)

xO`Lexi
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Well, I'm really good with guys when we're not going out. I can think of anything really quick to make them laugh and to have a good conversation. But when we start dating I freeze up. i even try to pretend that I'm not dating him and he's just my friend so I can act like I was before. But i get so speechless! its like i dont want to say anything stupid or embarassing..

a lot of girls are just like you..
my advice..don't worry about saying anything stupid or embarassing..be yourself..obviously they liked you for who you are, b/c they asked you out when you were "joking around and having a good convo"...so keep doing that..just be yourself ..don't worry about what you're saying and be all paranoid..if you do, that'll just make it worse..you are who you are and shouldn't change or worry about what your saying for any1...just relax & have fun

hope that helps..xO`Lexi

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Hey. I'm having my boyfriend over on Satarday, I have the house to myself and everything, and I want to make him dinner, but I have no idea what to make!!! Does anyone have any ideas, or recipes???

no good ideas or recipies..maybe try asking him what his favorite food is, without him knowing why you want to know..and surprise him wit it..xO`lexi

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when you look under "columnists" .. how do you get those stars next to your name?

the more high ratings you get, the more stars you get..xO`lexi

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hey

ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~

oh god..that sounds like me..i'm in the same situation, well was until like a week ago..he called me his babygirl, and sunshine, and kissed me, and held hands..etc..yah anyway..lol i was confused..but ima tell you to do the same thing i did..talk to him..ASK him what's the deal.."are we going out or not"..ask him how he feels about you..you could turn out like me with a wonderful b/f..or just find out that he is just a horny lil boy tryin to get some..lol i doubt it tho..i think he likes u, i mean he says he :loves: u..just talk to him!! =)

hope that helps..xO`lexi
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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )

i wouldn't say obsessed...i'd just say inlove..the only thing you really can do is talk to him, find out WHY it can't be right now..
maybe he's just scared that it could ruin your friendship..iduno talk to him..that's what i would do..hope that helps..goodluck sweetie..
xo`lexi

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

i think that's pretty kewl..your more worried about yourself then crushin on guys! ha i love u! lol no but really all of my friends are like in love with every hott guy in the room..i'm more like u tho, i have a b/f now..but b4 i was just like w/e..if sum1 approaches me then ok, but if not then i'ma have fun and b single..i think worrying about skool, sports, MYSELF..and family is more important then obsessing over a boy..so no i don't think that's weird at all..
xo`lexi

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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!

i rate high! =)

all you can do is be honest and tell him, that hurts less then leading him on..don't be like well i think your ugly..lol just say you think a "friend" relationship would be best..i'm sure he'll feel a little let down, but he'll get over it..atleast he'll have a new friend..xO`lexi

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I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say?

you can completely solve that problem..just make sure it's with a guy who really likes/love/cares for you and who won't judge you or care if you're a bad kisser..

also you could try telling him..just be upfront with him that your a beginer..it's actually a good move to make..i mean not only will you not have to worry about being embarassed, but also, you can "practice" with him..which could be LoTs of FuN..and you'll get more experience..

if you don't wana tell him tho, you usually can't tell if sum1's never kissed or not because every1 kisses differently and there are so many diff. ways and styles of kissing.

hope that helps..=)..don't worry bout it, it'll come naturally..when you're done, you'll be like wow what the hell was i worried bout..xO`lexi

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Ok, i'm 13/f and my neighbor is 14/f, we were talking one night and it was like 9:00 so it was dark, so i went in the basement and he followed, i was putting the laundry in the washer and he came up behind me and put his arms around me, i liked it so i turned around then he kissed me and we made out, a lot. we went in the very back yard on the picnic table, no one can see it cuz its too far back, and he layed on it and i sat on his tummy, he had his hands on my ass and we makeout more then he fingered me and rubbed my boobs, and we made out more then we had to go in cuz it was 11:00, we were going to do something like that again but i went on vacation, and now i havnt seen him, should i bring it up or never do it again? was it wrong of me? we have also talked about sex, i want to but i dont want the condom to break, what shold i do about everything??

omg your 13..hello..thats not sumin to brag bout on here ..that's def. what i'd call a hoe..>13

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whats bipolar mean?

i myself wasn't sure either, here is the dictionary definition..

a major affective disorder that is characterized by episodes of mania and depression.

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what does "sic transit gloria" mean? i know it has something to do with sex, but what EXACTLY does it mean? thanks.

umm not sexual..means glory fades..xO`lexi

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i don't have a father figure in my life. my dad is a jerk..he tried like almost killing me before..and i don't see my step-dad as a father! do i need a father figure in my life? please help! i rate high!

i don't have a father figure in my life..i haven't since i was 2..i'm not 15, have tons of friends, hav good grades, and am all around HAPPY..i did it all without him..so NO you dont NEED a father figure
xO`lexi

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in 1 year i have to choose between field hockey and soccer b/c the 2 sports take place at the same time!! I do not wantt o choose but i have to so what do u think i should choose or what woule be a good way to choose?
Thanks for the Help!!

Field Hockey..*sigh* hockey players are sexy! =)
plus its a unique sport, a lot of people can play soccer, but it takes sum pretty mad skill to play hockey..really in the end its up to you tho..choose the one you're best at, or you enjoy the most..don't just base your decision on what we tell you..hope that helps a lil..xO`lexi
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What the hell does IDK mean?

i-i..d-dont..k-know

i dont know! lol

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on the song milkshake what does milkshake mean?

omg lol people! your *milshake* means your whole package, everything you have to offer, your body, brains, personallity..it's not just sexual!

xO`lexi

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ok i wanted to put a marquee on there and i did. It has an ugly red backround and i tried to get it off a million times and it wont! how do i get it ofF? can you look at my page (angelxforever) and see if you see it? it might just be my computer
thanksss so much!!
-casey

yes i saw it, but it wasn't an ugly red, it was baby blue with a black backround like the rest of your page..xO`lexi

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hey
umm a couple days ago this guy asked me out but he didnt really just ask he was like umm so if we like eachother maybe we should hook up sumtime . .i'm kinda confused . .can sumone translate pleas?thankss
kelsey

sounds to me like he wants to go "out" with you, like not b/f,g/f..but as in on a "date"..get to know each other better..ya know what i mean?..most likely he does like you, but he wasn't askin you out-to be his g/f-..lol ok confusing but you know what i mean..i hope =)
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