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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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We are doing a preformance and in it we are doing Tom Cruise in Risky Buisness. We tried sliding onto stage, but the wood and stage is not slippery enough. Does anyone know any ideas to make our socks more slippery? Thanks.
You could put baby poweder in and all over your socks, or you could put furniture polish. This will make it pretty slippery.
Hope i helped =]
I am 18 years old currently seeing a man for about 3 months now. Nothing has been made official, and i'd like to make it that way.. Problem: His last girlfriend of two years left him so "emotionally damaged" he says he'll never be as happy with me as he was with her. He's afraid to get into a realtionship, obviously. I can't just leave him because i've never felt this way about anyone before. If anyone has any advice or wants to know more, let me know, Thanks!
My advice to you would be dont push him to be with you, when he is ready he will be with you. Be there for him when he is having a hard day and be understanding. This will be something that he will probably never get over but he will move on from. It will take time so be patient! Thats all he needs right now is for someone to support him and be there for him. When he is ready he will realize that you have been the one their the whole time and he will most likely want to be with you!
Hope i helped =]
How does one achieve a level of "coolness?"
Your level of what we would say "coolness" is usually based on what you wear or who you hang out with, even what type of music you listen to or the things you like to do.
I wouldnt try to achieve any level of "coolness" its pointless and no one should care. be who you are and love it
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So my ex boyfriend of over a year...i hadn't spoken to him til today. He told me he missed me A LOT! he keep saying A LOT and he was really happy to hear from me...he still cares and loves me...he is VERY unhappy with thee situation..it will be a week that we haven't been together.
The reasons for the break-up:
Long distance
Needs to get things in order
I can't get over it and I feel that our feelings for one another are really strong. What should I do? I want him back.
This is really hard. Ive been in this same situation. Your always going to love him no matter what. If your guys didnt talk for a year and then he came back into your life your going to still have feelings for him.
Talk to him and tell him how you feel about the long distance thing and getting his life in order. If he cares about you enough and if you guys are truly in love things will work out. You guys will probably work if you try it again.
Good luck & hope i helped =]
Well, Ive liked this guy for a really long time (2 and a half years)...and ive been wwaitin a really long time to see if he likes me back because i already told him I liked him.But now i want to forget about him and move on but i cant because i see him everyday. So please help me.
Put your focus on another guy. Obviously this guy that you like now isnt worth your time. If your really into him and want it to go somewhere then talk to him and maybe see if he feels the same way. If not then find someone else to like, there are plenty of good guys out there!
Good luck & Hope i helped =]
afte i shave my legs i get red bumps on my leg how do i get rid of them ?
Use shaving cream and a new razor. Dull razors is usually what causes it. When your done shaving put something on it like baby lotion. =]
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I have had a stuffy nose for almost three days now and I hate it. I cannot stand this any more and I want my nasal passages to be clear again! What are some quick fixes to relieving a clogged up stuffy nose? Any home remedies that I can try? Maybe some sort of over the counter medication (something that works FAST though)? THANKS
Vicks! i know it smells and feels nasty but put it on the very insides of your nose. It'll clear up your breathing =]
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The guy i like has a girlfriend which i just found out on friday when me and my friends saw him at the mall. But when he walked by me he didnt even say hi like he always does and his girlfriend was staring at me like alot. So why do you think he acts so shady around me?
P.S. I already told him I liked him.
He might have made the mistake of telling his girlfriend that you like him, and she asked him to not talk to you anymore. Or he told his girlfriend that you liked him and he didnt wanna mess anything up by bein all buddy buddy with ya at the mall. Maybe it could just be it was because he was with his girlfriend.
Try asking him why he acted so weird and see what he says. And if he is weirded out by the fact that you like him tell him sorry you didnt mean for that to happen and you can go back to being friends and pretend like nothing happened.
Hope i helped =]
im 16/m
thers this girl who ive known for like a week. we've been talking alot and everything is going good, but i dont know how she really feels about me,rigt now its just chill.
but homecoming is like in 2 weeks...i asked her if she was going, but she said that she might be busy on that day, but for some reason i dont wanna let that stop me. i dont wanna give up.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Ask her! if you dont you know that your going to regret it. If she ends up being busy dont get down on yourself because she already told you that she might be busy. But hopefully she doesnt have plans and you guys will have a good time.
Good luck and hope i helped =]
is it okay for a 19 year old to date a 24 year old? just curious to everyone's opinions :) thanks!
Yeah there is nothing wrong with that as long as you guys are ok with it!
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ok so like if u go out to eat and then you kiss your boyfriend right after, wouldnt the kiss like taste bad or something????
It wouldnt taste bad, you both just ate so your mouth is just the same as his. It is always nice to take a mint or gum with you though so you make sure your breath never smells bad!
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ok this is wierd but i have been with my bf for 4 years. i love him but i am starting to think our relationship is not as strong as it used to be. now we met online in a group for wrestling fans. well in the past year i have been chattin with this one guy and we exchanged phone numbers nd we chat alot and we call each other and swap pix often ... i am starting to feel the same way i did before i moved in with my current bf. like, he anawesome guy and i think i may be falling for him ... but i still love my current bf. whatni wong with me? some one just tell me im insane. what am i feeling and why?
This is completly normal, especially for people who are in long relationships. Your not in love with this new guy, yes you might like him a lot but you wont love him as much as you do with the person you've been in a relationship with for 4 years.
Your boyfriend will do the same thing, he will look and talk to other girls that he might like but its normal and there is nothing to worry about. Just try not to let this new guy get in the way of you and your boyfriend, It happens a lot and it never turns out good. You dont have to stop talking to this guy but maybe dont talk to him as much and let him know that your perfectly happy with the person your with and your not looking for anything serious.
If you dont feel yours and your boyfriends relationship is as strong talk to him about it. And honestly tell him about this guy that you have been talking to i promise you will feel a lot better about it. and open relationships are the best.
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I am a girl and i am straight. but i happened to be atracted to this lesbian at my school and i have been with a girl b4. we didnt date we kinda just fooled around. i know i like guys and that im gonna marry one but why am i attractied to a girl? i know i could never like do shit sexually to a girl but i could be with one casue i like there personalitys. so would i label myself a bi?
I would say that your straight. Honestly i dont know too many girls that hasnt been attracted to a girl or ever not done anything with a girl. Your just curious and your trying to figure out who you are. There is nothing wrong with how your feeling so dont worry! I would still label yourself as stright unless your want yourself to be bi. honestly its completly up to you!
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15/F. Here's what happened, pretty straight up. This boy was totally ONLY using me to get some action, so I broke it off with him. Then a guy that I was kind of close with/friends with saw that I was really vulnerable and tried to get me to have sex with him... but I had enough in me to say no to him. Well now I just feel like SUUUUCH crap because I feel like guys only want me because of the physical stuff... Like does my personality really suck so bad that that's all they want? I just feel like shit, and once again, pretty vulnerable and I don't want to just fall into another trap. So please, how can I avoid getting hurt again and running to the first guy who shows interest? I don't trust myself right now.
Ok here i go....
Firstly pretty much all guys are horn dogs, and even when you get the ones that say they arent. They are. And this happens to girls everyday. Guys will say anything and everything to get down your pants and when they dont get what they want, they lose interest or they get pissed at you and make you feel like shit.
Honestly the only way to avoid this is to not trust anyone, when you first meet a guy dont fall head over heels for him right away. Let him know that you want a relationship and not just a fool around buddy. If he sticks around then he might be worth your time, but still be careful. You would be surpised at what a lot of guys would do.
And secondly there is nothing wrong with you at all! I dont know you but im sure your a great girl, guys are just assholes.
Hope i helped =]
Let's say on the date,the guy seems VERY interested and talks to me later that night after the date.
He hasn't called me or texted me since then.
That was Saturday night and it's now monday night without a call or text.I would be fine with texting him or calling him,except for I had the last word ..and I don't like to seem obsessed.
I was thinking about calling him Friday to see if he wants to hangout again ,if he doesn't talk to me before then.
Yes or no?
If he doesnt text you by friday then i would text him but just be like "hey whats up" and see how that goes before you ask him to hang out again. Maybe even ask him why you guys havent talked all week. But if he doesnt text you dont give in and text him before friday, i know it can be hard but if he wants to talk to you he will text you!!!
Good luck!
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I need help getting over a guy i dated for a little over a year and a half! I know breaking up with him was the right thing to do because in the last few months he was basically just using me for sex. He would never talk to me or see me unless he thought he would get sex out of it and if i told him i loved him then he'd just bring up how we should have sex. The problem is that when we first started dating he was so sweet and I miss that part of him and I really don't know how to stop. It makes me so sad. Ive been crying for hours. I guess this sounds pretty pathetic but i really loved him. I already tried the whole find a new guy thing and that really didnt work very well... i have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP ME
I know how this is, i am actually just getting over my ex! its relly hard, but always try to keep yourself busy. be around the people that make you the happiest all the time.
And when you think of your ex you dont think of the messed up things that he did to you, you only think about the sweet things he did in the beggining of the relationship huh? Well sit down and actually think about it and how messed up what he did was! and tell yourself that you deserve better! I know that this is hard but it works. Just keep your mind off of it as much as possible.
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i used to dye my hair a whole lot, but now it's pretty much back to my original color. about half of it is my natural color and the other half has been dyed a little bit and is a blondish color (my natural hair is dark dirty blonde) and is below my shoulders. i am looking for a red hair dye that is temporary and is guaranteed to come out within a month at most ( wont stick to the blonde dyed part too much.) specific brands would be helpful.
Sally beauty supply has just what your looking for. It is called Clairol Jazzing Sheer haircolor. They have it in ruby red and it is only 6.49 a bottle. When you first wash your hair your blond will have a tint of the color in it but after washing your hair a few times it will go away. And this is a temporary color that only lasts about 3 weeks!
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Oh, the website is http://www.sallybeauty.com/Sheer-Haircolor/CLAIRL39,default,pd.html?cgid=Hair05-03
Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
This is completly normal to be attracted to someone else. You will do it and so will your boyfriend. Dont worry about it, it will pass. There will be another guy in the future that you will be attracted to too and its not that big of a deal as long as you dont have anything with him.
I know that it may make you feel bad, but really there is no reason to worry. And if you and your boyfriend are really close you may even consider telling him how you feel that way he can do the same. Ive always said whats the point of having eyes if you cant look?
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so a lot nights, i just can't fall asleep. any suggestions how to make this happen faster?
On the nights that i cant fall asleep because im thinkin about too much i usually just think of a blank piece of paper in my head over and over again and i can usually settle down and fall asleep. Sometimes putting on light music while your laying there will help too!
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So I am a girl and I am in my first relationship with a girl. We have been dating for about 3 months. Well none of my family knows and I feel im not being true to my girlfriend because they dont know. Like when I stay at her house I tell my mom im somewhere else. I am scared to see there reactions but I am in love with the girl. They say its hard comming out but how can I deal with this? She wants us to get our own place too.
Just be honest with your parents, if they love you they will support you. And if not, its going to be hard but they are going to have to deal with it because they cant change who you are and how you feel.
Just sit them down one day and tell them that you are attracted to the same sex. Yess it will be a shock to them but it will get better with time i promise!
Good luck & Hope i helped =]