Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
Sometimes i might be brutally honest but that's what people need!
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Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
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Age: 21
MSN: missy_meliss@live.com
Member Since: February 18, 2010
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Hello, I am wondering if there are any good sites that have information as well as multiple pictures of the Victorian style dresses and lolita sort of things? I would also think there should be some outfits for males as well. I've looked everywhere, but I'm having trouble finding the right kind. Mostly darkly colored ones is what I am looking for, or blues and purples maybe?
Thank you :)! (link)
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www.google.com/(insert whatever ur looking for here).
If your trying to find clothes, or something just google it. you dont need this website for it.
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Oka I need to know where can a 14 year old get hired in Cincinnati please help email me back at chris.phiffer@yahoo.com (link)
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Mcdonalds anyone? Ding frys are done
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i wanna pierce my nose what do i do? (link)
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You go to a tattoo shop, or to a piercing place. Guessing that your not 18 though, so you'd have to convince your parents to sign a release form.
Good luck with that.
Word of advice...nose piercings look tacky. They scream WHITE TRASH as soon as someone sees em
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before i proceed with my question i would like to point out that i have never nor will i ever do drugs.
alright, now on to business. why is it that when people get high they say stuff that is actually smart and deep!? or at least that is what i think.
idk i just always wondered why people say things that are so deep when they are high. (link)
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When people get high, they tend to think about things more. They process each thought more so they wipe out anything stupid, and what comes out is something that you may have thought of before, but not wanted to say. Like...If the color Blue that i see is blue to me, how do i know its blue to you? What if my blue is your orange, but you think that its the same color, because ever since we've been little kids we've been told that This is blue and that is orange.
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Why is ex girlfriend's so annoying (link)
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because they is immature and you is posting dumb questions.
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I'm thinking about joining Facebook but I hear there are pro's and con's. I'm told the banks, police and federal agencies monitor all the information posted there that others cannot get. I'm also told I give up all rights to whatever I post there and that it is recorded forever. This sounds like I might be putting my personal freedom and privacy on thin ice forever. My friend was denied a car loan because his bank said they read he was planning a vacation to Hawaii on his wall page. A student from a nearby college committed suicide after someone posted a photo on his page that showed him kissing another man. I want to share things with my family and others but is it really wise to put myself at risk like this? (link)
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Jobs and such things can find your information on facebook, but guess what, you can make your profile PRIVATE. No one can look at it or even search it. Only way you can add friends is...if...YOU...add them.
Go ahead, make a facebook, and have your friends and family on there. Its not that big of a deal.
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how many miles is it from de land florida to jacksonville? (link)
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www.mapquest.com
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Where can I buy the new Japanese trend of jean skirts with painted see-through motives that make you think you are looking through the skirt? (link)
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They arent a new trend, Japan has had them for years. You have to find a website online that ships to the US, that will accept usd (american currency) and transfer it to yen.
Its hard to find a website that will do that...also, they are really ugly i dont know why you would want one, it just screams slut.
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ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have some trouble in the road at the moment or i dnt know. well it started in the summer when he was at his friends house and i saw pictures of him his bestfreinds lil sister and her sisters friend together with him it upset me that i had to find out on facebook but everyone told me it was not a big deal. okay fine. well 2 weeks ago i went through his phone and found out he was texting her but he was one wording her like ya sure okay idk. but still he texted her back. and turns out he texted her a week before that too well she texted him and when i tried to find out how they exchanged numbers im hearing that she got it from someone its just not clear. okay well last night my friend told me that her friend was talking to her in gym and said they talk all the time and that he said to her that he doesnt love me anyomre and that he still likes me but they cant talk till we break up clearly we didnt break up and apparenlty she tried texting him but he wont respond. well i told him and of course same story shes ugly i love you i dont like her and everyone is saying the same thing that he wouldnt do that yadaya but hers my deal why would anyone lie about that like thats a really big lie and to start stuff you know and im just really like well i didnt think he would do that but why would she lie about it i just dont understand ans so i messaged her and saying i want to know if you two really talk because if so you can have him forever because i dont want him if you guys talk and if you dont and you lied about it your just pathetic and need to get a life basically. i dont know what to do i dont want to live like this any more this been going on to long and im sick of her looking at me all the time and just so you know if i confronted her i more than likely will rip the bitches hair out and i dont want that. (link)
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She likes him.
He hasnt broken up with her, theres no evidence that he cheated on you. Texting someone else isnt a big deal. He wasnt flirting with her. You said so yourself.
Ignore her. She likes him, he likes you, so shes jealous. Who does he come home to every night? (Figuratively of course)
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heyy!i was wondering if you guys knew of some new,sweet love songs...i need them cuz im making a cd for my guy and i want to dedicate some cute romantic songs for him!
thanks! (link)
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Yeah because thats what guys love listening to, cute little love songs. Why about music he actually likes?
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this guy i work with gave me his number and wrote it down and left it on my windsheild. he said that he would give it to me if i wanted him to work my shift this week b.c im working a lot. but he didnt when he left and i was glad b.c i have a boyfriend of 2 years and yes we might not be on good terms right now but i would never text another guy no matter what he was doing im deeply in love with him so when i found the number i thought it was cute he did it like that but i dont want it so i threw it out. i dont want to tell my boyfriend and start shit because i want to be with him and not break up. did i do the right thing? (link)
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Okay, lets be serious here. The Guy wasn't asking you out. He offered to work some shifts for you. He probably needs some cash and figured he could help you out at the same time. If you work somewhere where trading shifts happens often it would probably be a good idea to have everyone's numbers you work with.
You should have kept him in your phone but put him in as john (insert name of store where you work) that way its obvious who he is and that's there is nothing going on.
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My boyfriend won't change his Facebook status. Mine says in a relationship with so and so, but his says single. We've been dating exclusively for TWO YEARS now. What do I say to him to make him understand that this hurts me because it stirs up a lot of drama when you click on his name from my profile and on his it's glaring at me: SINGLE. Do you think maybe I should wait longer, or am I right to ask him after two years to update it... (link)
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Its not a big deal.
So he doesnt want to change his stauts? Big whoop. Who does he date? You. Who does he sleep with? You. Theres no reason for you to make a big deal out of something like this...its FACEBOOK. 10 years ago, this wouldnt have mattered at all because facebook didnt even exist.
Your putting to much importance on something that doesnt matter at all.
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are the questions that i post too difficult for anyone to answer? or do you guys only know about sex and drama betweens friends? (link)
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Well considering that we dont know who you are, and we dont know what questions your asking, this question is a bit pointless isnt it?
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my boyfriend and I are at the point where we just fight all the time. I dont know why. I say he pushes me into theses fights, he says im too confrontational etc. etc. blah blah. Its just stupid and we keep creating more problems. It isnt fun anymore. I dont know what to do. Does it sound like maybe we should just move on? Any advice please. (link)
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Yes, you should move on. If your fighting then your not happy. If your not happy then your wasting your time.
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Well i used to be really really jealous and me and my boyfriend of four years broke up because of it, because he kept lying to not hurt me, and it bothered me when he watched porn and stuff, but later he begged me back and he said he loved me & wanted me back. So now that we were together i asked him not to look at porn and if he wanted pictures or something i would send him some and even though i'm trying to get un-jealous like before i wouldn't let him go out without me(yeah i was psycho lol) but now i let get him get away with a lot but i still have jealous thoughts every once in a while, so the day before i wanted my moms number that he had on his phone and i had just gotten a new phone so i asked him for it and he didn't want to give it to me so i got suspicions? And i was like are you doing something wrong? Later he admitted he had porn on it, and i got kinda upset in my head, and later i couldn't stop thinking about it and i was sad and basically said told him i know it's because they look better or you fantasize about other girls but i was saying it not asking it.It was really supposed to be a rhetorical question. And he said well i do fantasize about other girls cause you're the only one i've been with, ( i told him he wasn't supposed to answer and he said he didn't know) and that hurt me really bad and i was like so you'd go with another girl and do her and he said "i just want to" and i was like so you do want to, and he said yeah. Like is that normal? Should i be mad or break up with him? Like now it disgusts me cause we're not even married like i know that happens to married people that have been together for a long time, but us i'm young i have the same body as the porn stars except without the fake big boobs mine are real so i just don't know how to react or what to do. i Just hung up on him cause without saying anything cause this happened right before he went into work so he didn't call back.
Please just tell me your opinions. (link)
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Hi, Im a girl and i watch porn. My boyfriend does as well but we dont watch it togeather.
There is nothing wrong with porn, it has been around as long as there has been people. Not just on film but drawings, and carvings. Nudity and sex have been apart of peoples cultures and lives for thousands of years.
Yes its wrong that he told you he wants to have sex with other girls. But its not wrong to watch porn. Guys are visualy excited. They like watching sex, as much as they like having sex.
I dont know if you've ever watched porn, but i would suggest you check it out. You might find that its not as bad as you think.
Talk to him, and find out if he needs to take a break to get over these feelings he's having. If he feels the need to sleep with other girls just because your the only one hes slept with, then hes a waste of time.
But heres a word of advice, wether or not they tell you, EVERY guy watches porn. So good luck finding one who doesnt.
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I wanted to be put on birth control pills and I went to my doctor like suggested. He gave me the pills and explained about them but said I needed to be on them for at least 1 full month before they became completely effective and I don't end up pregnant. When I asked here before somebody said they are effective immediately. I told my doctor that somebody said they were effective immediately and slightly laughed and was like I hate how teens get these stupid rumors and something like that's how so many girls wind up pregnant. Who is right? My doctor or you guys? (link)
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Your doctor.
Don't believe people over a doctors advice. Why would he lie to you
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My boyfriend and i had sex and we used a condom. afterward, he took off the condom, put on hand sanitzer, used a hand sanitizer wipe, and fingered me like five minutes later. i'm freaking out about the possibility of pregnancy because i feel like he could have touched sperm when he took off the condom, and apparently hand sanitizer doesn't kill sperm. but, i also thought that if his hands were completely dry before he fingered me, which they were, it would be okay because sperm is killed when it dries. also, he used a hand sanitizer wipe, so that could have at least wiped the sperm off of his hands. so, am i okay, or should i go buy the morning after pill?... (link)
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Your not pregnant. Relax.
Unless the condom broke and sperm got inside of you your fine.
You should probably let the fingering happen BEFORE sex not after. It makes no sense after, unless he cant make you cum.
Relax, good job for wearing a condom.
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My parents will NOT listen to anything I say. They told me my curfew is at 8, right, and I told them that I needed it to be at 9 or 10 because of stuff I want to do and they totally IGNORED me! Then I told them I wanted to go to the beach this summer with my friend and her bf because they're old enough and her parents let her but my parents were like, "No, you'll get into trouble!" and this crap about how a 16 year old girl shouldn't be away from her parents like that. I told them it would make me HAPPY to go to the beach w/them and they were like we'll they would schedule a time to go to the beach as a family and that is NOT what I said! This is stupid because I'm almost grown up and they should let me do what I want to do and be an adult like that. I mean this is just stupid. Everything I tell them I want to do they pull some crap like if there's a party then they want to know the SPECIFIC names of adults that are going to be there and they want to know if drinking is involved and I tell them I can handle myself and that I'm a woman already and they just won't listen. How can I make my parents listen to me and do what I want them to do? (link)
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You live with your parents, you follow there rules.
You are 16 years old, your not 18, your not 21. Your not a legal adult.
When you have your own bills to pay, your own car, your own house, then you can make your own decisions.
You honestly just sound so immature right now that its no surprise that they want to know everything your doing. Its not unreasonable for a parent to want to know where your going, and who your going with.
10 o clock is not a time that a 16 year old should be out. You may not think it, but its dangerous out there. People get raped and kidnapped every day.
And if drinking is involved with something you sure as hell should not be there. Your going to get taken advantage of one day, and your parents are going to tell you they told you so. Your not a women, your a child.
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My bf and I been together for like 3 months. He's grate. Love him. And then we started off kinda diffrent than most couples cause we hooked up @ a party of my friends and like went at it and he told me he liked me after and that was that for us. We never use condoms tho and he always always cums in me. we probably do it like idk at least once every day but sometimes twice not always?? Anyways my period aint come yet this month and I'm like am I pregnant? What are the ODDS of getting pregnant like this? Cause I told if you have sex EVERY day then you cant get pregnant cause his sperms go too low and there aint enough to cause pregnancy. mom knows we been doing it so R E L A X were cool (link)
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Well, the odds of you getting pregnant like this are GRATE!!!! I'd say about 120 percent chance of getting the good ol' pregos.
Never using condoms is probably the most dumb decision you could make. You probably dont want a kid, so what are you going to do? Keep it? Abort it? Put it up for adoption? No offense but i dont think any of those choices are very good for you.
You seem so immature that by keeping a child you would probably destroy any chance it had at a normal life. Abortion is just like the easy way to cop out of a bad choice, and continue doing what youve been doing wrong.
And adoption, well thats just like giving the child a reason to hate you forever.
Any of the ways, your screwed, so my advice is, buy a pregnancy test. If your mom really knows about it, then everything should be GRATE and you can R E L A X. if you are pregnant, go from there. See a doctor, talk about your choices.
If it turns out your not pregnant, then please take what im about to say to heart...CLOSE YOUR LEGS AND GET A CONDOM ON YOUR MAN
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I take birth control pills and have been for 2 months now. I was talking about it to my boyfriend and he was saying how we wouldn't have to use condoms if we were to have sex since I'm on the pill now. Is that true? Can you get pregnant while on birth control pills or not? (link)
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Yes, you can. The pill is not a guarantee against pregnancy. Nothing is. You should still use a condom.
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