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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex? (link)
there is no certain age you got to be to have sex you just know when you are ready mostly becuase of raging hormones lol ]

you will just know k

I hope I helped

jessica


Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks.. (link)
Making love is where you acally love the person you are having sex with and having sex is where you are just doing it for fun and just playing around

I hope I helped

jessica


my friend said that my other guy friend had a boner... and i didnt really no what it ment....what is it and how can u tell? (link)
k a Boner is what guys get when they are Horny (turned on) well I guess he was turned on about something and you can tell that a guy as a Boner by looking at there pants his penis will be sticking out lol

I hope I helped

Jessica


I really like this kid and i don't really know him that well but my friends have told him that i like him and stuff so he knows i have his screen name and everything but im too shy to talk to him about liking him or anyhtingg help

i rate 5's !! (link)
I got an IDea well you can give his sn to me and I can Im him or you can im him and just act like you don't really him and talk to him get to know him Well have you ever saw A Cinderella Story well if you have do that k

Just talk to him for a while

I hope I helped

Jessica


hey, do guys think it is nasty when a gurl cums when he is fingering her or if she is already wet when he goes to finger and not to be personal but have you cummed when a guy fingered you if so what did he do? (link)
well i think that guys think it is good when a girl cums when he is finguring her because then he knows that he is making her feel good and he is actually doing something.

I am 14 and have not had any kind of sex

I hoped I helped

Jessica


can you get any STD's from being fingerd....i didnt cum or anything like that ...but i was fingerd and it was my first time and i worried (link)
yes you can get stds from getting fingered

I hope I helped

from Jessica


HELP PLEASE..WILL RATE HIGH

here's the background information:::

last night..i went to the homecomming game with my friends. i hung out with a group of my really close guy friends for a while. i recientally broke up with my boyfriend..and my close friend (( im just going to use letters )) D asked me to take a walk with him. so i said alright, and we talked about y i broke up with my bf E. after a few min..he held my hand and he told me that he respectes my decision about what i did. also that night..i hung out with my friend C..we were fooling around..he said something random or stupid, and i'd kick him cause it was so annoying..but thats the way we are...anyways...today, my friend D imed me and told me that i shuld go out with C...i found this totally random and asked him y he thought i should. he told me that me and C look good together...which..i dont really kno for sure.....my other friend ( a guy ) told me that he thinks D likes me and tried using the whole " C && me makes a good couple" to distract me....


my question is....is it ture that he could be saying that i look good with someone else to hide his feelings for me? (link)
yes I think he is just hideing his feelings I think you should ask him how he feels about you and ask him if he would ever go out with you if you like D go out with him I think he likes you.

I hope I helped

form Jessica


hey im just wondering if u could help me out.
okay.my best friend wants to og out with my exboyfriend but i still love him.a lot.but maybe them two going out might help me get over him.but hes my firsl love and the first guy i ever cried for.but my best friend used to like him a little before me and gim started going out .i guess its my fault .well should i tell my friend how i feel?or should i keep it to myself?even i f they r beraking my heart?
-friendship or love
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you should tell your friend how you feel because if you don't I think you will regret it I know this because I have had the same problem but it was with my sister I didn't tell her how I felt and now i regret it because every time I would see her with him I always feel sad.

I hope I helped

from Jessica


ok look it has been about 5 weeks now that i had sex.. well i didnt want to.. wat happended is that my brother had one of his friends coming up and im 13 and the guy was 17.. and wen i went in my room he was on the bed just sitting there and starring at me. he told me to come over and i did well he started to kiss me.. and wen he did all i said is that i just wanted to kiss.. but he started to touch me down there and i was scared i pullrd bak and said dont i just wanna kiss. and he said ok well we started kissing and he did it again he was kinda forcing himself on me well then it lead to ''''sex'''' i dont no if i should tell someody about it i mean i did it but i didny want to... help (link)
ok did he force you or not if he forced you to do it and you said no then that is rape but if you did something to well i think if it was what you wanted i think you should keep it to yourself until you want to tell someone until you feel safe

I hope I helped

from jessica


can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives. (link)
yes you can have sex when you are pregnant

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What's is mean when you like jacking yourslef? or something like that cause one kid at my school said that he saw this guy "jacking himself"? i dunno if that's the write word or not? (link)
it means he was masturbateing k well

I hope I helped

Jessica


ok i've had my period for bout 5-6 months. And if been at the end of the month but this time if hasn't happen i got it at the end of September but not at the end of October? Is this normal? What's wrong? (link)
this is normal

i hope i helped jessica


What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly. (link)
ok just do what your heart tells you if you like the guy then take a chance say yes and see where that takes you.

I hope I helped

form Jessica


Okay so there is this boii at school and he used to like my alot but about a week ago he stop smiling alot is it me? I really love him and I know he still loves me this is the last year for the school and I don't think I'm ever gonna see hm again!!! I'm scared PLEASE HELP ME THX (link)
Fisrt if you guys are going out then ask him how he feels about you
if you guys are not going out then ask him out or just say youi know what I like it when you smile but you have not been latley so what has been on your mind it is me or jsut some famiy problems or something
so just ask him in a nice way and don't jsut jump to conclusions

I hope I helped

from Jessica


Hi. I'm 13/m and my sister is 14/f. Last night she was IMing a friend from another state who said he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend. Then they got into a discussion on why it's right or wrong to have sex before age 16. My sister believes that she should wait until she is 16. I belief any pre-marital sex is wrong, and I refuse to lose my virginity until I am married.

Later in their conversation (I was being a little brother and looking over her shoulder) he said that my sister's boyfriend wants sex too. My sister said no, but the other guy was just like "ooooooo yes he does". Then I remembered that theory that all a guy ever wants is sex. Hence, the song Punk Rock 101 by Bowling For Soup: "She thinks that it's love, but to him, it's sex!"

I don't trust her boyfriend. I've transferred a call to my sister, and he really didn't sound all that great. Also, my sister refuses to let me meet him in any way. He can't come over, because I just can't meet him. I tried to IM him. My sister told him to block me. What the hell?

I'm afraid of two things: number one, does he want sex? Saying no is probably harder than it sounds... and number two, will this change her image of him? Will she be consious of the fact that he may or may not want sex? I know if I were in her shoes, I would. I don't know... I'm just worried for her... (link)
ok the thing is you should be worried for her but if she decides to have sex then that will be her mistake so i would say back off

the thing i am 14/f but i don't want to have sex yet but I am not going to wait until I am married and I don't think you will because thats what all dudes say until they get drunk at a party or just meet a real cool girl

the thing is just keep a look out and if you think it is going to fast then talk to her it might seem a little weird but she will remeber the talk and not have sex until she is really ready

I am in 8th grade and over half the kids in my grade have already had sex

I hope I helped

From Jessica



I'm 14/f and I'm a virgin. I have only kissed and had a guy feel up my shirt. Recently I have found little white bumps 'down there' and I don't know what they are. It's starting to worry me. It kind of hurts but not really. I sort of look like a white head. The kind you can't pop. Of course I didnt try popping it. I had one between my thigh and it went away. Now I have 1 around my womb and my vagina part. I don't know what to do :-( ... help plz (link)
ok it sounds like it could be to things

1. Shingles if it is Shingles then don't worrie as much but if it doesn't go away in like a week then tell someone about it becasue you might have to go to the doctors

2. Herpies this can be passed by kissing so and if it is Herpies you need to go see the doctor now tell your mom about it or someone that you can trust now you can go to the school counsiler if you trust her and ask her aobut it

but if it is Herpies i would do something but wait a week and if it goes away then it was just Shingles

well I hope I helped

From Jessica


Do any other girls have a list of qualities that they want in a potential boyfriend? I have a list of about 20 things that I want a guy to have before I date him.
For example, he must be a non-smoker, have a good job, live on his own, be neat in appearance, have a vehicle, and no children from a previous relationship. These are just some of the things. I had one guy ask me out but because he lived with his mother and smoked I turned him down. Another guy asked me out and he had a 5 year old daughter, so I turned him down to. Some people say I being too picky, well I tell them I just have high standards.
Part of the reason for this is because my last boyfriend was a total loser. He was on welfare, he didnt have a car or a license, he was dirty, he smoked, and was financially and mentally abusive to me.
Do any other woman have high standards? And do you think I'm being too picky? Also do you think I'm scared of being hurt again so that is why I strive so high, and subconsiously I'm doing this so I won't have a boyfriend again? (link)
well you might be soing the right thing to have high standards because in a relationship you want everything to be perfect so keep going with your list
ther is somebody out there that matches your standards

I hope I hepled
Jessica


Im pretty late...and I'm 16 going on 17 btw I feel like an idiot and I know its all my fault. Anyway how am I gonna break it to my parents? (link)
well don't tell your parents your pregnant untill you really know if you are

and if your parents love you they will know that it happend for a reason

make them understand

I hope I helped

Jessica


SORRY IT'S LONG BUT PLESE HELP
Ok where do I start?Let me first explain that as a girl I'm not pretty but I'm not ugly either,I don't get attention from boys especially not popular ones I only get attention from older men and other people that I would so not like to date
But recentley a quite popular boy has seriously been onto me and he tells all my friends and everyone else how much he likes me and how he thinks I like him.He is like really popular and can have any girls in schoool he wants so why me?the thing is I don't actually like him. I mean I want a bf and all cause I've never had one but I'm not that desperate,he's like really sweet and all and my sister and most of my friends like him and think we suit eachother but I just don't see it.I have been trying to come up with plans that can get rid of him but none of them ever suceed and last week I over heard him telling his friend that he was going to ask me out and when he does I don't actually want to say yes but I need a good reason to say no don't I? just incase he asks why I don't want to go all in explaining how I don't feel that way about him so my only option is to say that I already have a bf but I don't like lying so can someone like tell me how to get one and QUICK PLEASE (link)
ok don't say you have a bf just tell him you like someone else and you have for a long time
or ask him why he notices you now


I hope I helped

Jessica


I recently asked a question about my ex boyfriend but ne'wayz. He likes this girl and i dont really want him to go out with her because i still have feelings for him! i dumped him tho so i shouldnt care but i do! I can't go back out with him cuz I need to obey my parents (at least for awhile) how can I stop loving him???
Thanks,
Missing him to death! (link)
well you made the same mistake I did
the thing is you just can't stop loveing him you can't stop what you really feel.
well if this dude is too old for you and that is the reasone why your parents won't let you go out with him then ask your parents how much older are they apart
you love him thats all you can't stop someone from loveing someone else
and for your boyfriend just tell him to hold on a little longer

I hope I helped

From Jessica




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