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arite i'm 15 i been goin out wit this boy for almost a month n knew him for like 2 1/2 or w/e cept it's online. he lives somewhat close n everything n he's my age-ish. he really wants to meet me cuz we have real strong feelings for each other, strong as they can get over the computer. i've seen his pic he aint seen mine but i told him everything i look like, eyes hair, and that i'm overweight. he said he doesnt care n he just wants to be wit the person he cares for this much. i'm a naturally shy person n i'm even more shy/scared now cuz i don't want to lose him. how do i meet him n not be shy or scared? shuld i trust that he doesnt care about looks? what do i doooo?

This relationship honestly can't go anywhere over the internet.

I'd say you have to meet him.

Of course, it'd have to be at the mall, or another very public place, and you'd definitely wanna bring a friend or two.

Maybe you guys should call each other first, and talk on the phone for a while, before actually meeting.

Contrary to the thought, not all guys, are shallow egotistical, meat heads.

This guy could honestly not care.

I'm sure if he did, he wouldn't be talkin' to you online.

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Okay well when I go to my campground this weekend. I want this boy to like me. What should I wear. What accesories sould i put on. How should my hair be like besies just plan down.and I kinda want him to ask me out. What should I do??

Here's the thing, guys don't wanna be forced to ask a girl out. Guys know when a girl wanna be asked out. Most of the time a guy won't do it, UNLESS you come out right and say it. It's not cool tryin' to play innocent like it's a surprise, usually that'll just get you the title of... B*tch.

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Ok i know this isnt the sexiest thing people have to say on here, lol, but im a girl and no matter how much i brush or how many times i use mouth wash my breath smells 10 minutes later, i know its gross. Mints and gum fade away and dont last i want something that will keep my breath fresh, could there be something wrong here?

I'd have to go with halitosis. Might wanna check in with a dentist.

If you don't, carry around Listerine Pocket pack strips, because they kill the nasty germs in your mouth that cause bad breath.

Plus, even if the mints and gum fade it's still nice to carry around in your pocket to help other people out with bad breath.

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when is the best time to take a prenancey test? i heard 3-4 days after you were suppossed to have you period, 12 days after you have sex, right after, a couple of days before your period is suppossed to start ... i'm so confused!!!

I say when you start vomiting, and then when your stomach starts to bubble out.

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ok well you see my b-day is commin up and i had this huge cat fight with 2 of my bffs adn then they were like umm we don't wanna be your friend never call adn then now teyh wanna be friends again and they are like yea what r u doin 4 your b-day adn i don't wanna invite them but i have to!! ahhhhhhhhhhh adn then their other friend who was my best best best best friend in 5th grade haha and we were like a triangle of bffs adn then one called me a bitch adn we hated each other so i didn't talk to the other and then now they both wanna be my friends and i don't wanna invite both of em to my b-day party but the other knows adn she is .like i cna't believe you when we have only been"friends" again for a few days!! ahhhhh ok well help i have no idea what to do!!!

your #1 fan- ^_^

Just tell them all that you're not having a thing.

Then like right before you have your shin dig call everybod you want to come.

It is YOUR party, you have the right to invite whoever you wanna invite.

It's not like they should be wanting to go if you're such a terrible person, that they wanna have a cat fight.

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the past year me and my mom have been fighting a lot and im sick of it! i always think that things will get better but they dont. yesterday she was supposed to go on a couple of erins but before me and my sister were fighting (which is normal i mean we were just getting annoyed by each other) so then she just stays home and a little later says that she wants us to come w/ her. so rite when we're about to leave my friend calls and asks if i can go swimming w/ her and i asked my mom and she said ok. then like 5 seconds after i hung up i asked her where my swim suit was and she starts screaming at me that i cant go and that shes late for what she wanted to do today so she was gonna leave me and my sister alone while she goes out and said i have to call my friend back up and say i cant go. i said that i couldnt do that cuz i just told her i could go so i started screaming to her how i hate the way shes always screaming at me and how she always changes her mind and that i hated my life. then she told me that i needed to go to a doctor but what i need is for her to stop all of this (which is never going to happen). then she starts watching tv and i said how come you aren't leaving and she said that she couldnt leave me alone the way i was acting and i told her that its not me or my sister's fault that she didnt go before cuz we told her that it was fine and we wouldnt fight before, but she just keeps saying how its our fault because we were fighting. finally she says that i can go so she wouldnt have to deal w/ me so as i was putting my swim suit on she starts screaming at me that i have to get downstairs in 10 seconds so when i was goin out the door she starts really really screaming at me w/ a mean glare that im grounded for everything. that nite when i got home she was a little bit better so i wanted to walk my dog but she wanted to come on a walk to so she was there but when we were on the driveway i asked if she was mad at me and she said yes so i went inside and didnt go on the walk. also that nite at dinner i asked if she hated me and she didnt answer. i really dont like her but i just wish she would stop all of this. this kind of thing happens like every day and i hate it! sorry this is so long, but id appreciate any advice.

Maybe your mom is menopausal.

My mom goes crazy too.

Then she complains of being hot.

Who knows?

I tried to stay logical with my mom and her behavior than just jumpin' out and callin' her crazy.

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i'm kinda depressed cuz i'm not captain of my sports team senior year and i think i would've been really good at it and i was just hoping somebody else could relate to me or boost my spirits a little :) thanks

I know what it's like to be robbed in high school athletics.

One year I was shootin' for my letter in track.

I wanted to go to this one meet really badly.

It was in over a mountain pass, and it was an invite thing.

I talked to my sprints coach, and she said "Yeah, you could compete there."

Then she went and talked to the head coach.

A week later I asked up on it, and she's like "Oh I'm sorry, I didn't get you registered."

End of the track season rolls around.

I'm excited.

I'm wasn't sure if I was gettin' my letter.

I had the potential.

Well, it turns out I was ONE meet short.

If my head coach had sent me I'd have gotten it.

Grrr...

That was my sophomore year.

I was upset, and now I'm entering my senior year, and I haven't competed in high school atheltics since.

Dropped track and football.

Meh.

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wut can you do to make your butt bigger..im 13 and i want to make my but bigger im 100 pounds and i got a nice butt, but it can be bigger..plz help..i rate..and i dont want andy bullshit about how i dont need it to be bigger i'll just give u a 0!..haha

i rate!

Stuff it.

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

Oral sex is when you talk dirty.

You have sex through verbal words, which happen to be oral.

You guys are sick that talk about suckin' on wieners and stuff!

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i just got a blender. what are some good recipes...you know like smoothies or something. thanx!

I like to put my heart in a blender and watch it spin around to a beautiful oblivion.

Hehe, I like that song.

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hey im 13/f, and i really want to get a second hole in my ear. My dad told me he would convince mi mom i could after mi bat mitzvah, but he didnt. mi mom said it would be mutilating my body(even tho i already hav 1st holes). what should i do? i mean, im a "teenager" and i feel i have the right to get my ears pierced(again). please help! what should i do? signed,
::need.help::

You should tell your mom she mutilated her body by givin' birth to you.

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what is face astringent?

It's a string that entertains your face.

Well, that's what my brother told me.

Hope I helped =)

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Ok i have Black heads... they are like HUGE pores... does anyone know how to get rid of black heads.. the thing i did was pop them... but there is to many! any suggestons..

i rate..

Paint your face white, and add a nice layer of gloss...

What I do... personally, is just deal with it.

You have them.

That's how you're meant to be.

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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all?

Well, the first time I had sex with myself it didn't hurt.

Then one day I did it like three times.

My wang got all swollen and stuff, and it hurt really bad.

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thanks for your help, but i do play alot of sport (at least an hour a day) could it b damaged already?

You're probably only damaging it further.

Having the bone rub into others.

It's eating the bone away.

You should just go to the doctors...

It's twenty bucks... with insurance I bet.

Then you can just see if you'll need it to be taken care of.

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Okay I'm 14 and there is this guy Patrick (16) he has a crush on me which would be fine because i can survive that but he is also in a wheel chair and thinks that he some big-shot and all the girls at church are disgusted with him (as am I) because you can't get through a meeting with out him raising his eye brows and mouthing something. I have told I have no intrested in him and when I did he just stared at me for months with a look of hatrid almost. He is a very spoiled kid and gets his way no matter what. I don't normaly say things about people that have disabilitys but I am so tempted to stop to my meetings because of him. I don't like him, I've told him, Ignored him, Been completing nice (Bad Idea to be nice made him think I liked him) I have even had my friends to tell him. He just doesn't get it. Don't tell me to tell the adults because they think its so sweet! PLEASE.
Only the Young Women can see what he really is; A spoiled brat. so any advice on how to stop him would very helpful.

Signed,
Disability Patrick

I'd have to say push him out of his chair as well.

Maybe then you could beat him with it.

If that doesn't work break his arms and leave him completely imobilized.

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Hey I want to loose 100 pounds in 1 year! Thats my goal. Anyways. What are some excersizes i can do and how often,how long and ect to do them. What food do i eat? And do you have any sites? That can help me. Thank you so much i will rate everyone a 5 if you help! Ill even rate you if you didnt help because you tried lol.

Are you crazy?!

I recommend liposuction.

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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!

Well, he's a "nerd" and he's had sex, ya say?

Nerds don't have sex.

He's lying so you'll think he is cool.

Contrary to popular belief not all guys are out there for some nookie.

He very well may be sincere.

I believe if it came down to sex or you, he'd choose you, and hopefully that'd work for all guys and girls.

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im 13 and i have about a couple girl close friends, but they seem to be changing in front of my eyes. It doesn't bother me, but the thing that does bother me is that, everytime im with my guy friends all these girls seem to get mad at me and stuff. Ive learned to ignore it but it's starting to get bad again, and the guys are starting to call me a smut or slut or something, and its starting to piss me off. Do you think they r jealous or mad or what? What should i do?

Girls your age crave attention.

Just look at the clothes they wear.

They're probably a little upset, that you're spending time with your guys than you are with them.

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Okay, here's my issue. I'm 18 and I've been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 months and we're starting to get really serious. The only problem is that his brother is incredibly rude to me all the time. I've known both guys for a long time, and his brother used to be quite nice to me. Its just since we started dating that he's begun treating me like dirt. I've asked him what his problem is and he won't admit to having one. My boyfriend claims that he's just "not a people person", but he is much ruder to me than my boyfriend realises. Help please!

He's probably jealous that you're with his brother and not him...

Watch out for some other hints.

He could very well want your nuts ma'am.

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