My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
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hopefully i can make this as short as possible, so here we go (by the way i am a male and am 15 years old, going to be a sophmore next year); the person i like to portray myself to be is a really nice and caring guy who is what some people would call not as much a guy as guys are, but anyways, there is this girl who is really really nice, and really really fun and energetic, she is always "bouncing off the walls" and also has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, i really enjoy being around her. here is some more information: i didnt know how to let her know how i felt about her, because i look up to her as a rolemodel as the person i want to be like, funny, smart, and just plain fun and not perverted or anything, like she never curses or says sick jokes or anything like that, so anyways, one day after school i stopped her and told her that i thought she was really cool and she in turn said the same thing to me, and i told her that i never thought i would meet anyone else like her. to finish off the information- i am moving in about 3 weeks, leaving state going off to somewhere else because of parent complications and what not, and now i just want to get to know her better; she did give me her email, but knowing her she doesnt check it except every month or so, so that it does not get deleted, because it is a hotmail account, so if i am lucky she will see the email i sent to her asking her if she would want to go for a walk and talk sometime so we can get to know each other better, but i dont think that will work. so anyways, here is my question- i want to find a way to ask her to do something with me (and by the way she doesn't want to date anyone or get into a relationship, that is why i want to ask her on a walk), but i dont know what to ask her to do, i thought of asking her for i walk, so we can talk more, because i want to get to know her better, so i dont know what to ask her, and second of all i dont know how to contact her, so far i have just been waiting to see if she will reply to my email, but i dont think she will, so i want another way to ask her, and i am not so sure about calling her house or knocking on her door and asking her that way, i only have 3 weeks left before i am gone and will not be able to see her again, so i just want some advice (and by the way she doesnt use chats either), so i would really appreciate it if someone could send me some advice, thanks a whole bunch if you do! (link)
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That is so sweet. You sound like you definitely meet the standards to the person you want to portray when you're older...
Talk to her...from what you said about you telling her that shes a cool person is a start. Just simply ask her if she wants to take a walk down to a store, a park, or just down the street anywhere that's close by to just get to know each other more. Make sure you tell her everything you feel. You don't have to tell you you really LIKE her or anything...but make sure you tell her that you respect her as a person and that you enjoy being around her. Tell her that you want to be there for her and be her friend and open up to her a little bit...
From how you described her she seems like an awesome pertson to be around. You sound like a great guy, and you show how you care by typing to us which makes ME want to be around you...because you seem so nice...so why wouldn't she want to be around you? Girls like caring boys...that's the bottom line. Just tell her what's on your mind and I'm sure only good could come out of it...
Remember, you only have three weeks so try to make the best of those days before you move...don't hold back.
~Gessyka
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I'm fifteen years old and completely in love with a twenty-one year old guy. We have both liked each other for about 2 years now. However, the guy I like has never acted upon his feelings because of my age. He respects me, which isn't a bad thing. But how can I make him see that I'm mature enough to be his girlfriend? How could I coax him to get into a relationship with me? (link)
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Wait...how do you even knjow this guy? I seriously doubt you love a 21yera old MAN...wow please wait until you're 28...if he really loves you back he'll respect that you want to wait...just three more years...and then you're free...
Please wait...
Seduction?? Don't do it...seriously kid...just leave it be until you're 18. I know you think he espects you but if you even think he's showing any sexual/strong feelings for you then you don't want to be with him too. You're a minor and he could go to jail...that's not right.
If he starts to seduce you or touch you in any way get away from him and tell somebody...
~Gessyka~
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female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no (link)
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Um...nobody can really tell you what to do and even though I believe it's not right for a 15 year old to have sex, we STILL cannot tell you what to do. I really don't think you should. Please don't...I don't want you accidently getting pregnant...please...just do me a favor and think od tehg consequences. I know you love this boy...and I believe you...just...please don't.
~Gessyka
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I have a friend named deana she keep ditching us for her boy friend s we ditch her i don,t like her boyfriend every time she talk to me he pull her away what should i do? what should i tell him?
write back
thank you metra (link)
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Hey...
I know it must be hard for you when one of your friends has a new boyfriend but what you have to do if try to call your friend on the weekend to go to the movies or to go over each others houses...and if she always blows you off for her boyfriend then just try to understand that she must still care about you...if you guys are true friends right? Did you ever try talking to her about the situation adn if so...how did she take it? Your best bet is to just try to talk to her about it or try talking to her boyfriend to see what the deal is.
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I wanna go get my tongue pierced but im scared that its going to hurt real bad..is it going to hurt??? what does it feel like??? Im 19 but another thing is if my mom finds out she'll be really really really upset and mad at me and i think i might be kicked out of the house...is there anyway i could hide it from her????? PLEASE HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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If your mom will seriously kick you out of the house, then I wouldn't do it...I'd wait until you move out.
But then again, if you KNOW FOR A FACT that she won't kick you out (and she's not just saying that)then I'd go for it. You're 19...you're an adult...you can very well pierce your your tounge without permission and without a problem...
BUT...if it risks you MAYBE being kicked out of the house for sure (and you can't afford that I'm assuming by the way you said in the question)then just wait...
~GL~
Make the right decision...
~*!*~GeSsYkA
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Would you want to date someone that turned down a romatic evening to watch a baseball game? Is that grounds for dumping him. P.s it would have been the first time with him. (link)
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No, you shouldn't dump him for that. Especially for that one time. It WAS going to be your first date so you have to remember that maybe he was self-consious or scared.
Maybe the "'idea" of romance scared him because maybe he had some trouble in the past.
Did you ask him why he cancelled? Maybe there is a logical explaination for all of this...and just because he turned the date down doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
Were you guys ever friends at one point BEFORE you two thought about dating??
That could also complicate things. Maybe he's afraid it will hurt the friendship in he long-run.
But then again, if you guys never really talked much before you decided on dating, that could also be the problem too. Myabe he wants to get to know you first so if you guys decide to become a couple you could be successful with that.
There are many different options. You should talk to him about it and if you can't confront him then write him a letter, an email, or instant message him if he has a screen name. It may be easier that way.
~Good Luck~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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what is a cammal toe
- annonomous (link)
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wedgie in the front =(
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I am so proud of my sister! My sister is a model, and is best friends with Hilary Duff! She is in the movie Mean Girls, with Lindsay Lohan! I just reveived a modeling contract, but I am sorta jealous that my sis has been acting for 4 yrs! I am going to be in a movie, but hres is so much cooler, and she is so luky! She met Chad from the OC at the movie premeire! Hes sooo hot.
Please Help
Winona (link)
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Winona...I'm not trying to be mean, but I seriously think you lie...
I'm not trying to be mean either...I'm serious.
For example, that person on your advice column is Mandy Moore...so, there's a lie right there...and
Oh...and what movie are you going to be in might I ask??
Please add that in additional info for all of us to see =) thank you.
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What you said to that girl must of been horrible . Why did you curse cherryblossom010 out when he/she asked you a question, and why did you curse jaci out ? That was rude, and I know that you feel persecuted , but that was so wrong . Oh, and I'm ask Courtney so if you want to curse me , I really don't care . I know that they shouldn't listen to you if you give bad advice, but that was cruel . I have given bad advice , but not intentionally . I feel for you . Just don't take your anger out on others, and no I don't need to take my own advice . I'm giving you a piece of advice telling you to drop the drama and cursing because, no one wants to read it, and I definetly don't want to hear it . Got it. Good . Have a lovely day . I know you appologized but you were wrong . (link)
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wait what? You sent this question to MY inbox...I did not cuss ANYBODY out...
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HAVE ANY OF U PPL HAD THEIR PERIOD????????? WUT DOES IT FEEL LIKE??????? DOES IT HURT!!!!!!??????? TELL ME I NEED TO KNOW! (link)
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Well, let's see....
Before you get your first period, you may feel stomach sick...but it's really nothing to worry about.
Usually you get your first period while you're sleeping..and you just wake up with it.
It doesn't hurt at all...it actually just feels like you had an accident (went pee-pee in your pants in other words)hehe
*sigh* Having your period sucks! I WAS ALWAYS SO PARANOID ABOUT IT! But...you get used to it...and I hardly get any bad cramps myself *knock on wood* but it's different for other people...
Different people feel different ways.
Good Luck with that.
It's really nothing to worry about.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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Okay, this guy likes me... A lot. I don't really feel the same way about him. I like him as a friend, that's all. I've told him this, and he just can't accept it. He always comes up to me, and asks for my phone number. I'll tell him no, politely. He got so desperate, that he looked up my number & address in the phone book. He has it all memorized! It's so creepy. He even follows me to all my classes! He also tried to kick my crush. It's all getting so weird, and really out of hand. I've asked him to stop, and that just fuels him even more! I know what he's going through, cuz I used to be head-over-heels for this one guy, but I didn't go so far that I followed him, memorized his every word, etc. I want to report him, but he's really violent so I'm afraid he'll hurt me or something. He already abuses his younger sister, and I don't wanna be next. I just don't wanna get involved with this guy! HELP. (link)
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Give it a week or so, and if he is still pulling the same old crap then REPORT HIM. Make sure....because you never could know what's up with him. Just make sure you tell him to stop...because if you go to somebody and they ask if you defended yourself, you have to be able to say you told him to "Stop"...otherwise they will think your crush didn't realize it. You know what I mean?
So just tell him to stop evrytime he harasses you, and in a week or so if he doesn't stop, tell
somebody right away. Make sure of it...this isn't something you should forget like a homework assignment or something. I'm no trying to care you but if you said he was violent, and you have a feeling something bad will happen, then yes...report him.
Good Luck,
*hug*
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
In additional info can you please add how long this has been going on for? Thank you...because if we know that me and other advicenators could probably help you much more.
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Hey It's Here To Help a.k.a. Gessyka
YOU'RE SO MEAN Advice1300. I'm going to find a way to kick you off advicenators. You tell people to kill themselves and use profanity towards them?? What is that? You obviously are depsperate...you probably have nobody. Listen if you have anger TALK TO US ABOUT IT! Don't call anyone names.
*stifles laugh* you're sooo....ugh!
Get a life you little baby. People deserve better advice then from someone like you.
Who agrees???
Don't ask Advice 1300 a question...she may pop another blood vessel trying to think of another 'great' insult to your question. (link)
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*gulp* Okay I'm sorry.I just got a little steamed. It's not like I don't like her...but she's just so mean...I'm not a mean person, but I was in a bad mood that day, so I apologize okay? Sorry....but I just felt bad for the people who asked her questions....
EVERYONE IGNORE HER IF SHE SAYS SOMETHING MEAN! That's what I should start doing.
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Hello peoples,
well i was just wondering what happens when a guy goes through puberty, like i know about girls (duh cause i'm a girl) like they bleed but what happens to a guy? Do they have to wear anything? Like I know girls have to wears pads and tampons, do boys have to wear anything!!! Please please please please tell me!!!thanks (link)
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Um...w-what they said?...
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I just got to this new school and a boy goes there that ive know just about my whole life and we hate each other and we got into a fight and I have a huge bruise and im a girl he likes to pick on me. (link)
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Don't fight back with him. He obviously has issues if he can't fight a man....come on! Even I can fight a man. (I'm not saying that men are stronger then women though), BECAUSE THEY AREN'T! Do you see men trying to have babies?
Go to the guidance counsler and principal if he tries to hurt/tease you again. Ignore him though. If he picks on you and you don't pick on him back, he'll get into even MORE trouble...YAY!
Seriously thoughm don't mess with him back...you don't know what could happen and I'd just leave it be. THe next time he does anything to you whether verbally OR physically (or both) then tell somebody right away even if it doersn't seem very serious...because things like this CAN be serious, but you just may not realize it at first.
GL,
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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There's a building here on campus that was once a dorm--4 stories, brick, built in a U shape with a courtyard in 1926. It has been closed since the mid 80's because of "safety reasons", and I have heard of asbestos, suicides, hauntings, and molestations that have occured there.
The first time I went there, with friends, at night, they went in a window and I kept watch. Not ten minutes later they came tearing back out saying "did you hear that? Did you hear that?" but I had heard nothing but silence--apparently they heard a wailing squeal and thumps and the sounds of pipes striking pipes as they wandered around--but I, just outside the brick wall, heard nothing.
I was suitably weirded out.
When I went again, some time later with a pagan (and grandson of a shamaness) friend, we stood on the walkway that connects the two arms of the building (somewhat raised, hollow and full of pipes, apparently) and something underneath us began to clang, crash, scrape and raise a horrendously loud and erratic noise on the pipes under the walkway--not rhythmic, not explainable. The hairs on my body stood up and I felt energies spiking and swirling all around me. We left pretty quickly.
I was somewhat put off, but I went back--each time feeling the energies very very strongly--the feeling was as if you were walking into the high security prison and up to the cell where Hannibal Lecter is kept. My heart raced and my pupils dilated and I moved silently, respectfully, on a hair trigger.
Each time I came, the kicking would begin in the pipes--hollow, clanging, loud--day or night, no matter what time it was. Sometimes it was forceful, sometimes just a thoughtful tapping.
Over the course of about 4 months, I have frequented that building and become extremely comfortable with it. I named the pipe-kicker Daniel--and I go there after classes to sit on the steps, lean back, and meditate and just be with his energies (it helps me to think of it as 'he'). It has become a powerfully cleansing place, and many philosophical thoughts have come to me since I began to spend time there. Once, in a meditative state, I felt hands touch me ever so gently on my back, and a weight near my shoulder, as if someone had placed their hands on me to look over my shoulder and was leaning close. It was a bizarre but emotionally strong moment.
Here comes the crux, if you've stayed with me this far. The college is tearing down Daniel's (as I think of it) building in order to build a library on top of it. They won't say when they're building it, but they've started digging huge trenches and tearing up and laying in new pipes. There are small backhoes and piles of dirt and stacks of pipes--they have begun to rope off some areas--I can still get to Daniel's walkway, but the stillness of the place is beginning to spoil.
I don't want to lose my connection with the spirit I now think of as my friend. There is another walkway, in a more active dorm (built on the same blueprint, but still open), that I would like to move him to--but how do you move a spirit that may or may not be irrevocably attached to his area?
I know almost nothing about spirits and don't know if he's a manifestation of the building, an aura, a person, or what. Does anyone know if I can safely move him somehow--preserve him--so that I can still feel his presence? It would break my heart to lose Daniel.
I am quite serious about this--any constructive ideas you can give will be appreciated. (link)
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Wow...that must be a wonderful experience. (and don't listen to Advice1300), because I think there is such a thing as a spirit still lingering after years and years. Just because bad things have happened in that building, does not mean Daniel is a bad spirit. It mnust be great to have a companion like that who watches over you.
As for Daniel's building being knocked down, I'm not quite sure what can be done. Maybe Daniel will reside in the Library once it's put up...I don't know for sure though. You should talk to him...I know he may not respond, but tell him that he has to stay for you. Tell him how you think of him as a friend, not an "It". Tell him unless he passes over you want to keep in touch with his spirit. Also see if he will give you a sign as to how he feels about this. Put three things in front of him and say "move this object if you're upset about this" or "move this object if you don't care" or "move this object if you're still not sure about the situation."
Do you get what I mean by that?
Tell him to move the objects to get his response across.
It kind of sounds idiotic or whatever...but I think it's a great idea to communicate with Daniel.
~GL WiTh ThAt~
If you need any more help email me and tell me. Okay? Good luck. I hope my idea works for you...
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Ok I can not stand this girl at my school she is a total b****!She thinks that she is popular but she isn't she is sooo mean tooo everyone.I was friends with her but then I started to date her ex- and she got so mad!!!!And she already got a boyfriend after she dumped her ex-!I just can't stand her!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!
signed,
HELP (link)
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Ignore her...if you're not friends with her anymore then it really shouldn't matter...you know? And if she brings up the fact that you went out with her ex-boyfriend, then tell her "you obviously got over in so I got into it." And just walk away.
~GL~
Hope this helped.
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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my boyfriend thinks my freinds are silly people but they are not (link)
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um...kay
What really matters is what you think of friends.
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Everyone says I am really rpetty, (if you wanna see me, then go to http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=winona1992
but Ive done everything to look different. When I have a new boyfriend, he only wants to have sex...help
(PLEEZ SEE MY COLUMN SO U CAN HELP ME MORE) (link)
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?? I looked at your picture and that is a picture of Mandy Moore. Nobody can miss what she looks like...
And...it's not like I know what to do about your boyfriends...Personally, I think you're freakin' lying about the whole thing. You know you don't look like that. That's DEFINITELY A MODELED PICTURE...not just something taken out of a Kodak...derr....and that's not even you.
YOu lie.
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Hey I have a question it seems no matter where I go I hear a song by Hilary Duff and I see her on Tv. Naturally I have nothing against her or for her. Now What is so great and what isn't? Don't tell me she is a good role model because a good role model would encourage a person to be comfortable with themselves and she isn't example: height. Think about your future example Bys a 400 dollar vintage shirt for a "BOYFRIEND" so just comments would be great.
Cspinoza1 (link)
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Personally, I think she sucks. My cousins next door neighbor met her and I think you said you met her too...but my cousin said that the next door neighbor said she was a total jerk! I can understand that she was probably nice at one point...but I'm assuming she SLOWLY became meaner. The fame can do that to you...
She's an OKAY actress SOMETIMES and ONLY SOMETIMES...but she's terrible at singing. I bet she is a jerk and it's not like I hate her...but I'm just furious at the fact that she's famous for her 'singing' when SO MANY OTHER people out there have so much more talent and who deserve to be in the spotlight.
I'm betting Disney just wanted to make money off of her because of her 'cute' face. ERG! I'm so furious about this.
I'm sorry...I shouldn't of even answered this question...I just wanted to VENT!!!
ARRRGHHHHHHHH!
*smiles* Okay I'm better now...*sigh*
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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What is the average size of a boys penis my
boyfriend is 16 and he is 4 inches long and
hes self conscious about it. (link)
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Um...why? It's not like he's going to walk around with his pants off...um...right? (I hope I am right).
I have no clue so I'm sorry, but I don't know why you chose to ask ME this question. But I do know that it starts to fully grow around the age of 21...so tell him that.
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