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I was recently dumped and have absolutely lost my appetite. I don't want to eat, move or do anything at all. Is this depression? (link)
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Try to eat anyway. You're probably not depressed- just really sad and upset. There's a difference.
It's normal to be really upset and mope around after something like that happens.
I'm the same way after i get rejected. Exept I eat way more and i can't stop.
Try watching movies that are really, really funny. (try any of the austin powers ones especially the 2nd one or meet the fockers) That will get your mind off of your problem and you'll be laughing so you'll feel better. It really works!
Get together with a friend and do something fun.
Or just do something you enjoy. Get into that mode where you forget about other things.
Or you could just wait it out. Sooner or later you'll get tired of moping and you'll just get over it.
TIME HEALS EVERYTHING! :)
i hope i helped.
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What does a typical orgasm ALWAYS consist of? I know I have involunatary movements/shaking thoughout my entire body for a few seconds (along with extreme pleasure). Then about 5-10 seconds after that feeling goes away, I sometimes experience the same thing again. But that's about it. Am I experiencing an orgasm or is there more to it? And if I am, does that mean I'm having multiple orgasms? Thank you! (link)
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Yes, that is an orgasm that you described. And yes, you are having multiple ones.
lucky you, i can never achieve multiple ones.
haha.
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well i have a banana and my "other" has a cucumber if ya no wht i meen so.... how do i do it w/ mi other (link)
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I'd just have him put it in/out your vagina. But i'd make sure it's washed thoroughly and if it were me I'd put plastic wrap over it just to be safe. I wouldn't want to get my vagina infected.
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i just asked my friend how the math quiz and test was. she told me to stop asking her and she said no offense what should i say should i saw k oor fine ill just ask lizzie(another friend thats in the same math class as her) then. i just dont wanna sound mean (link)
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i'd just say something liek "oh okay." and go and ask another girl. :)
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hello i have a bit of a problem
well... it all started out when i went to a porn site
and i started to rub my penis
i found out that i had succesfully ejaculated for the first time!!!
i was thrilled
and i did it agian and agian and agian
like i was addicted
now i do it two/three times a day i know that masturbation is healthy sexual activity but is it masterubating exxesivly bad
or harmfull to my body????????????????
please4 give ur help fast before its to late
no but seriously
btw im eleven years old (link)
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I'm a girl and I'm 3 years older than you are, and I masturbate about 4 times per day. There's nothing wrong with it exept that after a while- you MIGHT start to get really bad headaches during masturbation if you do it more than once in a 12-hour period.
But that's not something to worry about.
have fun with ur penis haha.
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For next year I wanna be lableled because thast the style. But im not as small as them. So how small do you have to be to be able to fit ing like Aeropostale, American Eagle and other stores.. And if you know any other stores that are lik that feel free (link)
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I'm not as small as those anorexic bitches either. I'm 5'2" and 154 pounds, and (in american eagle sizes) I wear a 14-15 in pants/shorts and a 12-14 in skirts. I used to be 180 pounds and I would wear an 18.
If you want to be emo/goth you can order extended sized clothes online at hottopic.com if you can't wear an 18. (to get that size in american eagle/delias you have to order it online)
Aeropostale clothes are liek too small. I can wear their XL shirts and their L-XL sized bathing suits but their bottoms are way too small.
but, believe me- you might like being labeled for a while, but after some time you'll HATE it and you'll wish that everyone didn't associate your name with some retarded label that doesn't even mean anything.
Why can't you be happy being yourself? You don't have to dress dorky or anything. That's how I am- I'm mostly prep, but also sort of emo, but not completely emo prep. I wear clothes from brandname stores, not only designer, i wear emo makeup, and yeah.
I just wear whatever I like as long as it isn't super dorky.
I hope i helped.
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14/f
so my crush and i already know that we like eachother..and so today he called me at like 8 in the morning. but i didn't mind. the problem is, he's like sooooo quiet on the phone. i was shy, but I was the one to keep the conversation going...so i wasn't trying to be rude, and i asked him,"are you shy?" and he was like NO. of course not. and my friend thinks he's shy BUT I DOUBT THIS SO MUCH. he's not the type to be shy. so what do i do?? and is he really shy?? (link)
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most guys come across as shy when they're talking to girls.
If he's your age, chances are he's never had any experiences with the opposite sex.
But he'll probably come out of his shell after you two have been seeing each other for a while.
i hope i helped.
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I haven't been to church in 5 years which was when I was 9
well I'm agnostic and I'm going to church tomorrow with my boyfriend and Its alright with me I don't mind
but when i was 9 and went to church I wore dresses
Well I'm about about 15 now and I'm not going to wear a dress especially I'm going to be hanging out with my boyfriend all day I don't want to be all dressy
So I was wondering if just jeans and a regular t shirt would be fine but I'm still not sure what should I wear?
thank you (link)
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i used to go to church, and i usually wore a casual but comfortable skirt (not a slutty little mini one, but one that comes down to the knees or lower) and a nice-looking shirt like a polo or something.
But if you MUST wear jeans- try to pick a dressy-ish shirt and nice-looking shoes like flats. It's not like anyone's going to shoot you or anything for wearing jeans. haha.
wow lucky you- i'm the same age and i can't even get a boyfriend! i'd die to be you.
have fun tomorrow
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how can i motivate myself to want to work out? i mean, i end up going anyways because my dad makes me but i never want to go..any tips on getting myself motivated?
thanks! (link)
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I used to have this problem, but you can distract yourself easily while working out by listening to music you love. And try to only think about the music- not about working out.
I usually look forward to working out because it makes me feel good, and i can just release all of my tension. Plus it's where I do a lot of thinking.
If you didn't already know this- exercise releases endorphins (chemicals that make you feel happy) into your bloodstream.
so that should help you.
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for the past couple days i have had really bad constipation. i was wondering what types of foods cause this and what foods get rid of it? (link)
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eat tons of fruit and vegetables, especially bananas.
that should help you.
if that doesn't work try a laxative. but it should work!
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After I masturbate, and I get an orgasm, I can't do it anymore, because I'm not like, horny anymore! Why not?
How could I change this
Thanks in advancee (link)
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usually I can still do it 3 more times after my first orgasm, only it's just not as good.
but it's natural to stop after you climax.
there's nothing wrong with u lol.
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I go to the worst school in the area. The girls are bitchy sluts (I'm not saying that out of spite, what these girls have done...) and the guys are just stupid manwhores.
The school is run down, and because I'm the most real person in that place I get picked on.
I dunno...It doesn't really hurt me what they say, but no one seems to care. It sucks how I'm the only kid in my year level getting CONSTANTLY picked on.
I have no friends either, someone spread a rumour about me bitching about them behind their back and without proof or hearing my side of the story ditched me.
Anyways, I seriously can't take this. I can only move schools in 6 months and I can't even take one day. I don't mean to sound like an attention seeker here but I once overdosed on pain killers 'cause of school and I'm scared I might do it again.
Obviously there's nothing I can do to stop it, believe me I've tried.
But my question is: How should I manage 6 months of school? If I can find a way to manage it, even slightly it will help. (link)
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I was in a similar situation last year, about getting picked on, and it was CONSTANTLY happening just like you stated here! so i probably can understand to some extent what you're going through.
I switched to homeschooling this year though and it was better. At least I didn't really have to deal with assholes and bitches anymore.
I would really reccomend that you try homeschooling. You could explain to your parents this and maybe they'd let you do it?
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Okay i know this is really a dumb question but what's orgasm? (link)
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if you masturbate, you'll know when it happens.
it should occur about 10 minutes after you start.
i hope i helped.
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ever since i was 9 yrs old ive masturbated now
im almost 16 and i still masturbate, but instead
of doin it 2 or 3xs o day i now do it over
50xs A DAY!!!! is there somethin wrong with me?
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am i the only one? (link)
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Haha I'm the exact same way- masturbation is like my life. And I do it 92814708237478324 times a day.
If you want to cut back some that's fine. liek i've found that whenever I do it if i stop after the first orgasm i reach, then the orgasms are a LOT stronger and more intense.
i hope i helped.
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There's this quote - "A girl should be so hidden in God that a boy has to search God to find her"
I believe in it, and I believe that if a boy has had to search God to find a girl, and while doing that - found God too, that they are meant to be, that God has a plan for the two of you.
Now the question is: how do you "hide in God" ?
How does a guy search God to find me? It doesn't really make sense to me.
Thanks! (link)
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Well this is how I interpreted that quote:
by "hiding in God" i think that this person means being very, very Godly and trusting in the Lord with ALL of your heart. Not denying anything He tells you, etc. And also not appearing slutty and desperate, as if your only purpose in life was to be "sexy" to try to attract men. Because that's not what God wants for us.
And if a boy had to "search God" to find you, it would mean that he had prayed for a Godly woman to marry, and trusted that the Lord would send you to him.
So, to sum it up- this quote is telling you to trust in God for finding a husband, because He has chosen someone for you, and therefore you don't need to worry about relationships/marriage. Just place your trust in God for these things- and they will happen the right way!
Also- I just wanted to tell you about a little miracle that happened to me that's related to this- this past september I prayed EXTREMELY hard that God would send me a boyfriend, and that night at my acting class, this perfect boy(exactly what I wanted) told me I was pretty and got my number and asked me out. All that night! And I firmly believe that God intended us to have a future!
We are even planning on getting married once I'm in college.
I really hope I helped- send any more questions my way. :)
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with my makeup, i wondering how i could do it differently. I have very large blue eyes with VERY long eye lashes. All i do now is put on a little bit of foundation to even things out, and no blush or anything because my cheeks are already VERY red then I put VERY little eyeliner on my top eye lid along with mascara on the top and bottom lashes, and then eye liner on the bottom of my eye lids.
i want to still look presentable, but i want to change things up, any ideas?
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try a new eyeshadow. get one of those kinds that has the different shades that are supposed to bring out your eye color.
you could also use a different color of eyeliner.
Or you could try the smokey eye look- it may or may not work for you... but it's worth a try! it'll definately look different.
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i need bigg help. i got in huge trouble awhile back & my mom moved out to my grandmas house in the country. and my mom gives me chances to prove her i can move back with her. but every time i get a chance i fuck it up. like last time i came home drunk. && she says i`m to wild. i have a boyfriend up there and i love him to death. i wanna move up there but i need to change before august. i dont see what i`m doing wrong. i`m the average teenager. yeah, i party, i drink, and i hang out with guys. but who doesn`t. i used to not be like this until i got in high school. how can i change ? someone please help (link)
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The only thing that can change you is not a person- but it's God. Read the Bible, and attend church regularly, and after a short time if you allow God to change you, it will happen! It takes time to understand why, but PLEASE don't think "ew, religion. that's just so dorky." just trust me on this. God really is real! I'm a teenager too and I might be out partying and getting drunk too if it weren't for my relationship with the Lord! Christianity is more than just going to church and praying. It's the most amazing thing in the world, it truly is! I'm not just saying this! No one even has to know that you're a christian!
God has changed so many souls- and He will change yours too if you just give Him a chance!
so I hope I helped.
ps: God really is the only thing that can fulfill our souls. Believe me!
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i love my body. i admit. if i could change one thing about my body, it would be to make my legs sexier.
i have thick thighs. i want my legs SKINNIER, not more muscular.
does anyone have any REALLY specific advice? not just, "eat healthy & excercise." but eating a SPECIFIC food [ like apricots or something ] & specific excercise? any other tricks? (link)
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There is no way to just make your thighs alone thinner... But in my opinion- "sexy" legs aren't skinny. They are slender or average, but slightly muscular.
But if you increase the amount of cardio you're doing and cut your calories some, you will lose weight off your legs.
hope i helped
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does anyone have any success stories on how exercise has affected their lives? (link)
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I could tell you so many stories!
but this is the most important:
When I was 9 and in 4th grade I was obese and I hated myself and was always mad at myself. Then I took up figure skating, and I seriously lost so much weight so fast it wasn't even funny. Because of the endorphins (chemicals that make you feel good- released through exercise) flowing in my bloodstream i was pretty much always happy! I got in extremely good shape, and felt better about myself.
so YES- exercise is one of the most important things in life!
send any other questions my way. :]
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this week all my friends are on vacation. seriously like every one its ridiculous.
WHAT CAN I DOOOOO
i dont have a pool theres a community one but im not going alone because thats weird and not fun anyway
?????? im going to be out of my MIND help me PLEASEEEEEE (link)
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This is what I do when I'm bored: write stories, go on bike rides (it helps a lot), go for runs, listen to music, watch movies, watch movies of myself when i was like 2, plan my life (career/wedding/etc.), play piano, sing, read, answer questions on this site, myspace, facebook, paint my nails, put together outfits, make up a dance and keep doing it until it's perfect, go through old crap and just re-visit my past, etc.
all of those things have cured my boredom before!
but I actually enjoy doing nothing. you can be like that too! just learn to like it.
you could go to the community pool and just tan by yourself and listen to music. I go to the pool alone all the time, and it's fun if i'm tanning.
you could see which of your friends aren't on vacation, or you could try making a new friend!
i hope i helped.
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