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i'm erin. extremely fidgety at times. i have a very passive aggressive personality and i'm determined to get the things i want. helicopters give me the creeps. weather is my true love. lightning makes me happy. penguins are kind of awesome. very OCD. i don't like odd numbers. i very rarely type in capital letters, unless i'm answering a question. everything must end with a period. and that's about it. :)peace. love. penguins. ♥
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how do i get rid of it ASAP?
by burnnn i mean
i ate something hott, and it burned it.
not like spicy.
but temp. wise.
Hmm.. try sucking on ice cubes? Haha I've done that before and it usually helps. :]
do guys really care what a girl vagina looks like?
because i know everyone is different, with the size of their libias and all of that..so which do you like better...big ones, or small ones?
thanks!
I'm a girl, but honestly, it probably doesn't matter. Guys are just glad to get some action in the first place, the majority of them aren't going to care. :]
ughh ok this is really embarrassing and thank god my name doesnt show up with this. But... how do u makeout? like ppl have told me and stuff but can someone actually give me like really goood guidelines?
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out-for-the-First-Time
i know this is kinda a sick question but i was wondering if there is a way to make it taste better in the vaginal area?? and i was also wonderin if it is okay for a guy to eat you out if you have a yeast infection?
As long as you shower real good before doing that, you should be fine. I wouldn't suggest using anything scented, because it could irritate that area.
I would also advise you NOT to do anything if you think that you have a yeast infection. If you think it's a possibility, see a doctor.
heres what he said:
My idea for my flier/poster is a myspace train.
And you hvae the look I like
the whole, not mainstream but still good looking thing
so I would like your permission if you I could put you on my flier thing?
what does it mean
i know what he wants
but when he says "the whole,not mainstream but still good looking thing"
I think he means that you're not like all those other over-the-top, fake-looking girls. You have a natural beauty. :]
i've only been going out with this guy for a month and a few weeks. well the other night when were messing around (not sex, which we haven't had) he told me he loved me. well i didn't say anything back cause i don't love him, just like him. well after he left he texted me and said that he meant what he said and i told him i like being with him but i dont love him. he said that's good enough for him. well this all happened sunday night and that's the last time we hung out. he's called me and always asks how my day is going but it seems like he's always making up excuses to not hang out now.
it's spring break and he is always at baseball but tomorrow he has the whole day off and i don't have to work so perfect chance to hang out right? well, no he's going to be with his friends. which is totally fine but don't you think he could take out like an hour of the day to at least like eat or something with his girlfriend?? are these signs to a break up? i sound pathetic.
I think you're probably overthinking the situation. I tend to do the same thing, so I know how you feel.
I don't think anyone here could tell you exactly what he is thinking, but here is my guess:
Saying "I love you" to anyone is (should be) a big deal. Since you don't necessarily feel the same way, he is most likely feeling pretty vulnerable at the moment. He might have said it was fine that you didn't say it back, but think about it. What would you have said in that situation? He's probably a little embarrassed, and therefore being a big stand-off-ish at the moment.
I think what you need to do right now, is give him a call or try to see him in person. Text messages aren't gonna cut it. Let him know that you don't want to say it unless you mean it. And even though you don't love him yet, doesn't mean you don't like him a lot and want to continue spending time with him. I'm sure he'll come around.
Hope that helped, and good luck to you. :]
this girl who i really dont talk to asked me to call her in as her mom. shes really good friends with my friends, and she said if she gets caught she'll take all the blame. so i did it. today i was called to the office, they asked if it was me. i didnt no what to do so i freaked and said no it wasnt i promise. i left and he said if your lying there will be serious trouble. i decided to go back to talk to him after school to confess, but he wasnt there. i left him a note to call me into the office tomorrow. what should i say?! its hard to be like, well hey i lied to you im sorry, because i went into detail in my lying you know! so it will make me look so stupid and bad! im so scared of getting suspended, i was just trying to be nice to that girl. im in sports, i CANT get suspended! please please please help me im soooo scared ill be in trouble for lying, i cant stop crying! but going to tell the truth is best to do right? sorry its long please answer!!!
ps. i NEVER do anything bad. ive only ever ditched once, im an A and B student. all thats on my record was excessive tardies 2 years ago. Im truly a good kid! just caught in a bad situation
I've been in almost the exact same situation as you, so I can really relate. Once when I was in 11th grade, my "friend" brought these prescription pills to school and put one in my purse for me to take later. I was never actually going to take it, and I was planning on throwing it out when I got home. But someone saw us that morning and turned us in. I knew nothing good would come from lying, so I just told the truth.
Unfortunately, I did get suspended. But because I was so honest and cooperative, the assistant principal made the effort to let my parents know that, before I got into too much trouble.
Luckily for you, I doubt you'll get suspended. In my case, drugs were involved, which, as I'm sure you know, is highly frowned upon at ANY school.
You'll probably get into some kind of trouble, such as in-school suspension or detention, but maybe not. Even though you lied in the first place, coming back to tell the truth showed true maturity and responsibility for your actions, and I'm sure your school will appreciate that.
In the meantime, just try to relax, and if you haven't already, give your parents the heads-up that you could be in trouble, but that you're really sorry and never meant any harm.
Whatever happens, will happen. You can't stop the future, but you can still learn from it in the end.
I hope that I was of some help, and good luck to you. :]
Would you rather love a loser or lose a lover? Why?
It depends what you mean by loser.
If you mean loser, as in high school nerd, then I'd rather love a loser. When you're in love with someone, you can see past their flaws, and it shouldn't matter whether they're a "loser" or not.
However, if you mean loser, as in some jerk who treats you bad, then I'd rather lose a lover. Who wants to be with someone like that?
Hope that answered your question. :]
I'm 16/f
My older sister is almost 20, still living in our parents house, un-employed, and about to quit college. My dad doesn't really say anything about it, but my mom is now heck-bent on me going to a top-notch college, getting a job as soon as possible, and all the things I want to do socially with friends doesn't even matter. I understand that they don't want me to end up like my sister, but I find it unfair. They were never this hard on her, and let her decide. Heck, she didn't even get her drivers license until last year! And now it's gotten to the point where they are catering to her every need and pushing me out into the world without warning. With that said, How do I talk to my parents about this? I want to do all of these things (drive,work,etc.) but at MY own pace.
Thanks,
AngryYoungerSister
First off, you have every right to be angry at this point. But try not to let it get to you as much. Your parents really are trying to do what's best for you. They don't want you to end up like your sister.
As for catering to your sister's every need, it's probably only because she needs their support right now. Having no source of income is probably very hard for her. True, she should really try to get back on track, but for now, let it go.
I think the best thing for you to do right now is to have a good, long talk with your parents about how you're feeling. I'm sure they don't even realize how much pressure they're putting on you. Assure them that you DON'T want to end up like your sister, and that's why you're going to try really hard in life. But at your own pace.
They're your parents. They love you and just want what's best for you, so I see no reason why they wouldn't understand.
Good luck with the situation, I wish you the best. :]