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i'd say i'm good at givin advice ,but to be honest like eveyone here thinks that they're good .i take my answers pretty seriously .most of the time the reasons my answers are right is because i've been there and done it twice .im not the average teenage girl giving advice either .im a fabulous ,trash-talking ,one of a kind ,jealous ,confident ,dramatic ,beautiful ,crazy ,funny ,creative ,tv watchin ,outspoken and blunt chica;D .so i answer all private questions and ignore ratings

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to guys really like big boobs of just perky boobs how much do they like to see and do they like to see you bra straps how can i be way sexy but not asking for it?

they like both. and they do like bra strap. weare a tank. it shows your brea but in a plain and simeple way.

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what is giving head im so clueless how do you give it??? and what does you cherry pop mean is it just some weird way of saying having sex for the first time just wondering

head- blow job.
cheery- virginty lose, its your first time

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ok im going to get my belly button peirced, do i sleep in the ring, or do i take it out do i swim in it or take a shower in it? when do i take it out? or can i leave it in like all the time. also with earings, can i sleep in those, do they give me a certain pair i have to wear for a certain number of weeks? srry i have ALOT of questions

sweetie DO NOT take it out before 6 moths. its needs time to heal. i suppose you can swim in it. yes you can sleep in both peircings earrings are for just 6 weeks so DO NOT take those out either

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This is a question for teenage girls. My daughter and I have always been very close. She's always been very open with me and willing to share things about school, friends, boys, etc. Now that she's 13, though, things have changed some. Sometimes I can tell she's upset about something, but when I ask her what's wrong, she doesn't want to talk about it. I realize this is normal, that she wants some privacy and doesn't need her mom butting in on everything. But I also know it sometimes helps to talk about things instead of keeping them inside. I want her to know that I'm here for her and that she can tell me anything. Should I keep trying to get her to talk, or should I just leave her alone and hope she'll open up if she needs me?

your right she shouldnt keep things to herself but no offense but a mom isnt the best person to go to. counceling wouldnt help because its just telling her that you want that information even if it means getting a total stranger to get it out of you. be patient. encourage your daughter to go to her friends house. kids will tell their friends the secrets and whats troubling them more. DO NOT get too invasive. like go around her room searching for more info. thats the WORSE possible thing to do. if its troubling your daughter that much she'll crack on her own. just watch to see for any unfamiliar or even scary behavior.

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My boyfriend and I just bought a new home and we had a housewarming party over the weekend. We had a friend named john and a niehgbor we never met before hanging out touching, groping, problem is they are both married. His wife was at home with the kids, and he went to the neighbors house and slept with her. My boyfriend and I were stunned. He has been married for 10 years and his wife is sweet and pretty, neighbor girl 25, he is 38 and she is UGHHH! What do I do if I am talking to his wife in the future?? He is a dog and I am digusted. To tell or not to tell?? By the way he was pretty sober and never mentioned anything about marriage problems in the past. My man and he just went to vegas a few weeks ago and my man said he was well behaved.. what gives?? are men this disgusting after all?

well the truth is some men have that little somthing inside them that makes them want to do stupid things. just thankful you found a good one. i think you need to tell the wife. but do it privately. talk to the guy and the woman who cheated (seperately). you should tell how you feel about this whole thing. and yah sure the guy has been sober but who cares. if people just went around doing bad things and then acting sober that shouldnt replace what they did. sober just means their sorry but still needs to be punished. he wasnt sober when he was sleeping around! and that slut needs a big talk to. tell her that she messed up a relationship thats been good for 10 years. and dont be afraind to get harsh. their both adults they can take it

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I started dating this guy a little over two weeks ago and it's been pretty hot and heavy. He's really awesome and I like him a lot. He's leaving tomorrow to go work in California for 2 months to make money. I've known about this since I met him, so it's not a big deal. Well, not until today.

His family had a little party today and my family was invited. Well, one of his friends was there hanging with us. He was really awkward and detached and I felt like I was at some random person's party imposing on them and their friends. There was like a 5 minute period where he actually treated me like his girlfriend and otherwise it was like I was just another one of his friends.

Again, he's leaving for 2 months. When I left the party all he did was give me this awkward sideways hug that isn't even intimate enough for FRIENDS. It wasn't even a real goodbye. I was really shocked about how he acted. He was so different and it pissed me off and hurt a little bit that I was just...there.

It's not like I wanted us to sit there making out in front of everyone, but some affection would've been nice. We're really close normally. We've done a lot together in such a short period of time and last night he told me LOVED me. That's not how you treat someone you love, that's for sure.

I sent him a message on MySpace telling him by and to have fun and I'm intending to leave it like that and let him make a move to call me if he wants to. I feel like a big baby and like I'm overreacting, but it just seemed so rude and just...awful. I don't know how to feel.

Am I overreacting? Is letting him make the next move a good idea? What should I do? Any advice would be great.

well your definately right. thats not how someone treats you if they love you. im guessing theres a little comunication problems in this relation. its not like your bf can guess what your feeling. you need to tell him and maybe even make the mooves yorself. it sound like your bf is busy going places so hes probabally preoccupied with what he needs to do. as for the party he needed that time with his friends. your his girl so he probabally planned on calling and messaging you alot over the time he was gone. that little goodbye hug he gave you wasnt all that special i agree with you but he might be hurting deep down.some people just hurt in different ways. some do long embracing with kisses. but some like to be tough and stick it and have a little contact before they break it all down.

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For the past few days I've been having these dreams of this classmate of mine and after three days I start having these feelings for him.My heart dos'ent stop beating and it hurts my chest.Then I realize I might have feelings for him,but I'm scared to death.He do'sent have girlfriend or anything but I'm just scared to know that I might like him but he may not like me.I mean, he do'sent even know me that well and I do'nt know him that well.All we Know is just each others names.I'm really scared of this feeling.

i would like to say to talk to him privately but i know what your going threw. get yourself noticed. laugh loudly to show you have a sense of humor. smile to show your friendly. make alot of eye contact even without staring at him. make sure you stay close-by without stlking him. make sure you dont stress out. love tress like that can cause head aches and such. make sure you keep it a healthy crush

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If I baught a waterproof disposable camera, could I take it underwater and use it to take pics of stuff underwater? Or is there another kind of disposable camera, names would be great if there were. :)

i dought it if its a cheep disposable camera. but they do have cameras designed just for underwater. im sorry but i dont have any names

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I don't personally wear abercrombie or hollister, because i know longer like it. mostly because, loser people pushed me away from it. they told me that i was being a follower, and that i should get my own taste in fashion. well, that was my taste in fashion. i actually liked it. i wasn't just following the crowd. and now, that i dont shop there. im like lost, i never know where to go. and thats not fair, that they always bugged me about it. and i even see like, on here, where people say that if you buy that stuff, then you dont know what fashion is, and your not grown up because you cant get your own opinion on things. well isnt that kinda being judgemental? i mean, not everyone is just following the crowd. i dont understand why some people make such a big deal out of it. i mean, why cant people just wear whatver they want? its just clothing? why dont those people just care about themselves? and worry whats going on with them?

i honestly, dont get that. so if your one of those people who told people that people are followers who wear abercrombie, or whatver. just someone please explain this to me.

well abrecrombre is preppy wear so most likely preppy people told you that.they werent being nice or fair and you are so right. but thats not a good reason to stop wearing those clothes. even tho i see why you did. the could be jealous and think that there the only ones to wear those clothes. i personaly dont wear abrocrombre (i dont like it) but sweetsz do whatever you want. and if your friends dont like it then its their personal problem and you should get new friends

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Where should I go for our first date??lol..when should I do that!and one thing ..Should I kiss him and hug him on first date.I found that I crush on him.we always gave a kisses in out mails or whatever..sometime he made a joke like "am I gonna get a kiss when we met?"..dunno..please tell me.

ok so its your first date. the easiest place is the movies. since the relatonship is new you might want a place with no talking but still snuggle with you bf. or if you take things fast then a nice dinner. its more romantic and sophisticated. (movies are better) if you want to kiss the boy then go for it. hugging is cute and easy but still affectionate. a perfect little reminder that you missed him. hug him whenever you see him!

hope that help you sweetsz. ask me for anything! =)

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so i know this kid and we'll call him tom. tom flirts with me a lot. he desont try to make it subtle or anything, either. he gets in my face and tells me that we're going to date one day, and he's going to kiss me, and hugs me every chance he gets. im not a flirty person, and as much as i actually like tom's advances, it;s hard for me to flirt back, especially when people are watching. i mostly end up laughing it off and backing away. last weekend though we were at a party and i told him to stop. i was laughing when i said it, and it's not like its the first time ive ever said it, either. i was jsut nervous because he was telling everyone how i liked him and wouldnt admit it and everyone was looking at me. so after i told him to stop, he backed off. he seriously backed off. like he ihgnored me for the rest of the day until we left at around 9, and then he asked for a hug. he hugged me for a good five or six seconds but he was no where near as flirty as he usually is.

then i went to my friends house at about 1 my friend got on myspace (duhh) and he messaged me asking her asking us to come to his house because its the next street over. we said no and he promised not to touch me. we still said no. i really just didnt want to because i was ready for bed. he was being really overly nice about me and he usually likes to tease me.

i think im bothered that he isn't focusing all his attention on me, and i know thats shitty because i didnt treat him all that well when he did.

but seriously wtf is going through this kid's head and how do i even begin to apologize or tell him that im interested? :[

well its like what they say 'you dont respect what you got till its gone'. start acting the way you used to. laugh and make him feel better. he wants to tease you and make you laugh and feel close to you. you just temporarily hurt him. he thought it was all fun and games until you actually called it quits.

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is there any kinds of shampoos without sodium laurel sulfate because i am allergic to it. thanks!

try NEXUS

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Im so confused.

Okay, In Pirate movie #2 Captain Jack Sparrow dies Righhhht?

Who comes back in the end?
Its the person from the 1st movie.

I dont get it, why does captian jack die?

Help pleasee!

he never died. it just shows him entering the mouth of the cracken. he probabally cut through it all. the director made it like that so everyone would be sad think jack was dead and then be all surprised when he comes back to life

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Basically I just need a quick confidence boost from any girls out there that read this. I just want your opinion of me based on my description and tell me if your a girl would you like me or not. I am 5'10" and 150 pounds. The weight is solid muscle not that much body fat. I enjoy playing sports. I am a quarterback in football and play tennis pretty well. I drive a mustang and dress casually yet I guess what you could call preppy. I have black hair, brown eyes, and perfect white teeth. Please I just need a quick confidence boost for when I flirt with girls please send me your comments. Thanks.

well it all sounds good but i really dont go for the preppy dressed. i like baggy sag pants. and long tees. but everything else sounds pretty good

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yeah, i normally wouldnt go there, but here it goes

alright, whats an ingrown toenail?
how do you know when you have one?
how do you get rid of it?
worst case senerio?


sorry this is kinda gross guys

my friend julia had this same problem sweetsz. u can tell when the tip of your noenail stats to dig into your toe and it starts hurting when you walk. u get rid of it by sergury

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I am sick of using liquid foundation because it's too thick & gross, but my skin isn't that great to go without it (or with just powder alone). I was told to use a tinted moisturizer instead of liquid foundation. Can anyone suggest a good brand that's not too icky & still does a pretty good at covering up?

bare minerals sweetsz

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i'm 17f. i'm still a virgin, and me and my bf are thinking about having sex. i'm worried it will hurt too much. whats some things you can do to yourself before sex to make it not hurt as much! any advice, thanks

lubricants lovey

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okey, im 14/f and i dont have really acne but just pimples here and there, but it drives me crazy, everyone else has clear skin, and i want that. ive tried almost literally every skin treatment and nothing has worked. but now im wondering does ProActiv Solution work?

different acne solutions work for different people and it might work for a short period of time but then your skin get used to it. (i use clearail)it worked for my friend julia. and it works for jessica simpson, diddy, and kelly clarckson. and could help for you 2 but its best to get a sample first to make sure.

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Umm well im friged, but my boyfriends not. And he wants to snog me, but I don't know how!

then tell him that now is not the time. you dont have to tell him you dont know how. get info from your friends or something. dont let him push you. you want it to be right and romantic and he has no right to push up on you if you dont want it.

hope that helped sweetsz! if you have anymore questions just ask! and tell others if they need help.www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=CheerCandi

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Okay well I have this boyfriend, and he wants to snog me. But I have never snogged a boy and I don't know how! I just told him im not ready...

well he has no right to push you. you do whatever you want whenever your ready. snog is a serious matter and you want it to be romantic and to feel just rite (in a romantic way not nasty lol). get info from friends that have already done it. and when your boyfriend pushes up on you tell him no means no.

hope that helped sweetsz! if you have anymore questions just ask! and tell others if they need help.www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=CheerCandi

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