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I think Im losing alot of weight, but I am or was 90 pounds and Im 11.. and now thes epants that fit dont fit anymore.. I dont like to eat for some reason.. I once skipped lunch in school.. and plus i heard from a teacher the lunch ladies dont wear gloves nor hair nets.. Its awful! I only drank milk that day.. and people keep saying I look skinnier, IM not anerexic and I dont wanan be I try to eat as much as I can! But I dont like food.. Its kinda hard to explain...
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Well if you are 11 (I am 12) then I don't think you should be worrying too much about losing weight. I understand what you mean by you do't like food. SOmetimes all I feel like eating is juice but I know that if I don't it could hurt me so I try to eat. I agree with not eating the cafetaria food so you should prbablt just bring your own lunch. If you don't mind the people telling you you are skinny then there isn't much to worry about but try to make yous you eat enough.
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how can u tell if someone is flirting and what is the body language if you're just close friendz? what are the fliting hints frm guys? (link)
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Well it really depends on your age. Guys in middle school or so seem to always want to be around you and talk to you or they completely avoid you. If they avoid you there isn't much you acn do about it but if you want a guy to notice you don't just try to look cute every time he walks by. Actually go up and talk to him.
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How do I tell my my really nice friend that she wears WAAAAY too much makeup? She's pretty underneath it all, but I swear she puts on so much makeup nobody knows what her real face actually looks like anymore. I don't want to hurt her feelings, I just want to help her out. (link)
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I'd just straight up tell her that she doesn't need it because she is already beautiful. If she says it is because she wants to look pretty for the guys then tell her how are you ever going to know if they really like you and not just all the make up your wearing.
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Ive just started babysitting and i dont no how much i should charge and hour. any ideas? (link)
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Depends how many kids. I'd charge 6 dollars a kid an hour.
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Hey adivce culumnists. I have a Question I write poetry and am wondering what you think of this? The last poem an this question is published by eternal portraits. I really don't get support with poetry.
I have three poems I want you to look at and tell me what you think.It would mean alot to me! Thanx!
What A Wonderful Life
As a young girl lays in bed one night.
She thinks of her life happenings.
She thinks of the smiles.
She thinks of the frowns.
She thinks of the tears that have been shed.
She thinks of the feelings of having her heart broken.
She thinks of the feelings of having her heart mended.
She thinks of all the people she knows and smiles.
What a Wonderful Life!
The Song Of Spring
Spring come to me Please don't leave me here alone!
Bring to me the song of Spring
Bring to me the Tulips and Daffodils.
Bring to me the Blue Blue sky and Green Green grass.
Bring to me the chirpping birds and the Buzzz of the Bees.
Please don't leave me here!
I'm tired of the gloom and doom!
No more cold cold days
No more fog to to see!
Leave the rain and wind behind!
Bring to me the song of Spring
Lord I Wonder?
Lord I wonder why I feel alone?
I know thou watchest over me.
I know thou watchest me come closer too thee.
I know thou watchest me go a stray from thee.
I know thou lovest me, then why do I a stray from thee?
I lovest thee, thy Lord then why do I 'cause thee pain?
I thank thee Lord for loving me, I thank thee Lord.
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Heres a tip. Go thorugh a written opy of your poems circle your favorite words and any other words you didn't circle just take them our because they are just clutter.
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I like to eat the crumbs, and small ones first, even if I have to dig deep in the bag. Sometimes, I dump them out to get to the small ones. People think I'm weird. Am I? (link)
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Ummm, I guess. It's a strange thing to do but if you don't want them making fun of you just pretend like it's a joke.
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my boyfriend wont kiss me because he doesnt know how to kiss. im not a very good kisser either. im afraid to make the first move becuause i think he will pull away b4 i get to his lips and i will look like an idiot. how can i get him to kiss me? should i send him a site about how to kiss on email or what? i really wanna kiss him. (link)
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Well, if you are young: don't push the kissing because it can be a lot of pressure. A couple of kisses on the cheek here and there and he will probablt feel a little more comfortable. And find out if he actually wants to kiss (try asking his friends, it always worked for me)
If you are old(not OLD old, like highschool): DOn't be afraid to go in and give him a kiss. Chances are he will realize that kissing isn't all that hard and be more comfortbale with kissing you.
Hope I could be of some help!
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i have blonde...little bit lower then shouldner length hair. its kinda shaped like a mullet. but cuter lol. and it goes diagnol from the bangs to behing my ear. anyways.. need a way to style it. and im not poor but my family is having a bit of money problems right now...where can i get cheap clothes that still look really "cool"? i wanna look good 4 my soon 2 be boyfriend and i really really need some new clothes lol. well, thanks 4 any help! bye! (link)
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Be simple but trendy. You don't have to buy all the ultra-expensive clothes but I would save money for those you-must-have clothing. Be cute but simple. Also look for really good bargains. Banana Republic has really good sales most the time. Have things that really add pizazz to the outfit. Tank tops and hoodies are always cute and (usually) pretty cheap.
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my son is 9 and we live in quite a rough area, hes always enjoyed playing outside with his friends until some of the older boys started jumping out on him and grabbing hold of him as they knew how upset he`d get, i had a word with these boys and they appologised and said they didnt realise they were getting to him as they did. however they still did it for the buzz of it and he`s terrified to go outside the door now, he doesnt play football or anything he loved doing and i really feel for him as i can see hes down about it, what do you think i should do? (link)
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Do you know the parents of the boys who were jumping him? If you did you could go talk to them. Hopefullt their parents are really strict and will teach them a lesson. To get him back into sports I would ALWAYS be there when he wants to play outside, this way if those boys do come up they will see you and leave. Try getting him involved in organized sports with supervisors.
Hop I could be of some help!
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I have a very adorable cat named Kiwamu sitting on my lap, but sometimes, when she miows, i'm not sure what she wants. I'm pretty sure it just means she's board, but I can't always let her outside. She always has plenty of food out, and she knows where her litter box is, so I'm sure it is just because she wants attention. How can I keep her entertained when I can't let her outside? (link)
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Yeah. I have four cats so it's kinda hard to keep them all entertained. What I sugest you do is you can go to the pet store and buy some toys. My cat LOVE the balls that have bells in them that they can toss around. You can also get cat nip which seems to keep them forever entertained. Cat nip spray you can spray on favorite toys or if you want to try something you can even make a simple pillow filled with catnip and it usually makes them go crazy. Hope you can figure it out!
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My hair looks good when I first wash and dry it, but over the course of the day it just goes really flat and looses all its sexy waviness and body. I've tried switching shampoos, using mouse or gel, all sorts of things, but nothing seems to work. What's the trick here? (link)
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My hair is the smae so I usually wear it up. Try drying it upside down to get more body. Also try getting some body miximizing gels.
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I'm a volleyball player - does anyone know good excercises to work on my jump? (link)
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I am a volleyball player. Jump rope. Thats THE BEST way to work on your jump. ALso a habit you can take up is doing your approach to jump up and hit things (signs, lights, doorways). Hope you get better!
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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating? (link)
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Not at all! I'm 12 and already a couple of people have asked me out (I have said no to most of them just because i wasn't interested)/ It's completely natural for someone at our age to be intersted in boys. Don't be worried, she's smart enough to know when to get out. Good luck!
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I'm really confused at the moment. I have this friend. We have been friends for about 8 months. But since January me and him have become really close. I have had loads of friends that are guys but I am his first friend whose a girl. We are always hanging round in college together. People seem to be getting the wrong idea. Anyway a few days ago we were in some real quiet place and he said he was confused to whether he liked me in that way or not. So he tried to kiss me. I didn’t want to because I thought it might change our friendship. I thought it might ruin it. In the end we kissed. It didn’t change anything. I still don't feel for him in that way and he doesn’t feel for me in that way. But then yesterday we kinda kissed again. I don't know what to do. We don’t like eachother in that way so why do we keep doing this. I feel bad afterwards but we aren't hurting anyone. He hasn’t got a girlfriend and I haven’t got a boyfriend. Is this wrong? (link)
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Your not doing anything wrong. If you both feel comfortable with the realationship you already have then I would keep it that way. Don't feel pressured to change anything because it's your desicion not anyone elses. Good luck!
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gonna make this as brief as possible i have a step daughter she is nothing like my two kids she is bossy demanding and tries to run the whole household and gets away with way too much her dad does nothing she gets out her window at nite when we sleep she is very wild she grew up without a mother most of her life i have only been on the scene about 2 yrs she basically hates me so i have to go thru her father with anything i have to say about her and he says i am always being negative towards her but im not she is just unbearable at times all he does is play on his computer all day all nite ignores me and her what should i do .....desperate sorry about the punctuation and the grammer i am terrible at that (link)
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I would talk to your husband and make him realize that his daughter is out of control. Don't try to be the only "bad guy" in the situation. Ask her if she sneaks out at night and if she says yes (which she probably won't) then just have a talk with her. If she says no then what I would do is while she is at school get someone to install a lock on the door that only you can unlock. This we teach her that you are the boss and should be respected. (Also if she tried to sneak out any other door stay up late to catch her in the act.)
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A PERSON IS ONE OF GURANTER TO HIS FRIEND WHO HAS TAKEN LOAN FROM BANK. THAT FRIEND IS HAVING ENOUGH PROPERTY WHICH HE CAN SELL AND PAY OFF THE LOAN. BUT THAT FRIEND IS DENYING TO DO SO. HE IS GOING TO SELL HIS PROPERTY AND DECIDED TO MAKE PARTIAL PAYMENT OF LOAN TO THE BANK. IN THIS CASE IS THE GURANTEER WILL SUFFER? FURTHER THE ANOTHER GURNATER IS THAT FRIEND'S COUSIN BROTHER. BUT BANK IS NOT SENDING ANY NOTICE ABOUT IT TO THAT COUSIN BROTHER WHO IS ALSO GURANTER.
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I don't know much about loans or property tax but next time you ask a qustion make sure it isn't in caps and REREAD it so it makes sense. Talk to a loan broker (sorry, I'm not sure if thats the correct name) for advice.
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I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
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The one beer you had might have been drugged. Did you see the person open it? If you didn't chances are you were raped. I would definetly tell your parents. You need help and you need it quickly if you want to catch who did this to you and/or if you want a abortion.
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Most my friends have seemed to not care about me anymore. They all just care about other friends now, and never have time to even just say "hello" to me, but they have time to spend time with other people for hours on end. I feel so betrayed, these people that i called friends just don't seem to care anymore, I hardly ever talk to them anymore, when when i attempt to, i get responses of "uhuh" or any other word related. What can i do to get them to actually notice me? =( please help! (link)
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Well the real questions is do you want to spend the time and effort into trying to make them notice you or do you want to just drop them and find some new best buds? If you want some attention just outright ask them what is wrong with them. If they just keep ignoring you then you definetly need to just stop hanging with them because they aren't "friends".
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How can i make a room feel calm
and want to work
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Clean it out a little so it is just a simple space. Have the nessasary items in or on your desk and fill it with things that you like (i.e. posters, picture of loved one, that sorta stuff)
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i'm 10 and just got pregnat. young?... i know! Should i tell my parents?
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Your ten?!?! Pregnat?!?!?! What have you been doing!?!?! OF course tell your parents or else you will be stuck with a 2 year old at age 13!
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