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Q: My boyfriend keeps asking me 2 give him a hand job. I tell him maybe later, or make up another excuse. But the truth is I've never given one. My question is how do I give a hand job? And how would I know if he's enjoying it?
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I had the exact same problem, but instead of telling you how, I'm going to tell you theres not a way how, you do what feels good to him, you have to kind of ask him what feels good, and maybe you're not close enough if he doesn't know you havn't given one, if I were going to do someting sexual with someone, I'd make sure I knew about him enough to where I could write his lifestory. But thats just me, and trust me, closeness helps, that way when you go about doing it, you won't be embarresed.
-TheTeenGirl
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Q: My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
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The way you're stating the question, sounds like you shouldn't do it, its normal for a (straight) girl to not wanna have threesomes. Its also normal for a guy to want a threesome with another girl, so I'm thinking you shouldn't do it until you're comfortable, make sure hes not pressuring when he brings it up, just tell him you're not ready and not comfortable rather than you're not sure, he'll get the hint faster.
-TheTeenGirl
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Q: Well I have this best friend I have known since 1st grade. We were always together. Well as we got older we started not to talk. And now that I am in Jr. High I never even see her all that much. Well just not that long ago, I heard some news about her that really hurt my heart. She has been involved with drugs. And when I say drugs I mean the really bad stuff. The next day I pulled her aside and told her how much I was worried and that if she needed help I was willing to give it a try. But unexpected she took it the wrong way and started yelling and saying how I need to say out of her life and that noone can help her. And so I dont know what to do at this point! I really dont wanna see a best friend of mine ruin her life infront of me. What do I do???
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I think you should write a long letter saying how you meant it when you told her she was worried, but I doubt that will work too, so theres really not much you can do about that.
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Q: ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!!
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I'm thinking you should talk to him and confess how you are feeling about these other girls, and if the conversation goes well, I say you give it another shot, but if the same thing happens, you should consider finding someone better you deserve.
-TheTeenGirl
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bio
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82313
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