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Q: I am thinking about majoring in accounting soon. Can experieced Accounting majors or people that are in accounting now give me some insight on what to expect? Is it hard? Is it time consuming? etc, thing like that. Thanks

My older brother was in the Navy and did Accounting. After his four years now he is going to college for Accounting. If its something you truely want to do than it wont be so hard to concentrate on the course. Time consuming is depending on the person if you are good at studying and can understand it well. someone with a photographic memory would find it less consuming than someone who needs to read it a couple times. take your time Good Luck, FYI my brother loves it.

Q: Is it true that you never forget your first love? i am in a serious relationship and have been for quite a few years, but i do not think i could ever let go of my first boyfriend. i find that i cant fully give myself to my current boyfriend as i always wonder what if! i am happy im really happy, but i do always wonder what if things had been different... should i try to forget my first love? is it healthy to forget? i think he will always hold a place in my heart that no one could ever fill. i havnt seen my ex for years, snce the day we broke up. do you think it would help me move on if i did see him?

you will never truely forgot your first love. but you can remember the good times as a past experience. a way to prepare for what to come which is your current boyfriend. if your so happy dont think about ifs in the past. or what oculd have been think about what has happened you are happy now dont let your first love interfere with that ( even though he isnt actully doing it , its just your mind) focus on your current relationship

Q: Well, i have this guy friend (more than a friend, less than a boyfriend)

anyways... He recently just got the cloud strife collectible figure with the sword.

And with christmas coming up, i was thinking about getting him the collectible with cloud and his motorcycle.

Now, im not sure if that would be stupid considering he already has the collectible of cloud and his sword.

But, i also know how much he loves the motorcycle, and seriously like everytime he sees it he gets so giddy and goes crazy lol

SO, my question is...Should i get him the collectible with the motorcycle because i know how much he likes it? Or should i not get him it because he already has the collectible with just cloud and his sword?

Thanks!

i'm not sure what that is but if that is ow he acts everytime he sees it. why not? itll mean more to him that you pay attention to how much he likes that thing. they are two different collectibles so its not like your getting him something that he already has.

Q: I'm 17/F USA and taking college classes so dont treatme like a kid. thank you.
I was watching pretywoman and ws wondering.
Why is prostitution illegal?

Technically woman do it for the money and most men go find a prostitute because its a easy way to cheat on their wifes and not having the third party obsessed with them. a way for stds to be spread. man sleeps with her the man sleeps with his wife prostitute sleeps with many men. its just another one of government roles

Q: My costume for Halloween is white... (just a head's up: picking a different costume or not wearing one isn't an option). The thing is, I'm gonna be on my period. I'm not a tampon kinda girl. ANYTHING I can do to protect my costue (not to mention my dignity!), or any kind of fast solution, JUST IN CASE?

toliet paper rap it around 2 or 3 fingers and put it on each side of your pad.

Q: When a guy calls you a cunt, what does that mean?

Their calling you a vagina

Q: I see gas prices dropping left and right, especially since the economy started to go into a crisis with the DOW and all losing so many points recently. Where I live, gas prices are about $2.79, forty minutes away I heard it's $2.49, and into Ohio I heard that it fell to $1.99 today. I can't remember the last time gas was under $2.00 per gallon!

So, gas prices are lowering and making things a little bit easier, but why are grocery prices rising still? I would assume that since transportation (the gas the vehicles use is what I'm going by) is cheaper for shipping then prices of groceries would fall along with the gas prices.

Is there a good reason why gas is lowering but food is still going up? I don't understand why gas prices are lowering anyway! Can someone please explain what is going on now?!

gas prices are dropping because people arnt filling their cars as much. less vacations less driving or walking, ridings bikes, public transportaion.. food prices are going to stay going up ( although i heard wal mart was going to cut their prices although im not sure how true that is) everyone needs to eat so everyone will continue buying food.

Q: Ok so i'm going to get a monroe piercing sunday and im freaking out big time. i really want it and im not going to chicken out but i just want to know if its as bad as i think. so just let me know ur experience or whatever thanks a ton

a girl i know got hers done and said it didnt hurt.

Q: im a 20 year old male and i live in Canada
im dating a 14 soon to be 15 year old girl.
i wanna know if this is wrong? and if i have a problem.
i didnt think i did, but all my friends say i do.
so now idont know
i really love this girl

it is wrong unless she was older. dont ask me why thats just the way the law goes. i mean you two could be dating with no sexual contact what so ever. just dates movies.. and that would have to go on until your law always you to, to be together in that sort of way.

Q: I dated someone from May 24 to October 14 this year and he broke up with me because he got bored of me half way through our relationship and other reasons. I know we weren't together that long but I loved him, and the way i felt for him was stronger than any feeling i've felt with other guys in the past. Thing is, 3 weeks before we broke up, I found out I was pregnant. He was excited about it at first but then started questioning whether we were even slighty ready financially to look after it so I think that was one of the other reasons he left me.

After we broke up, i felt like I had to get an abortion, so I got one last week. Now, I feel like Its my fault and I feel like I've killed an innocent unborn child because I made a mistake of trusting my ex when he promised to be by my side no matter what. I called up my ex a couple of nights ago and he said he doesn't ever want to talk to me again, one reason because I made him pay for the abortion(his mum paid but my ex has to pay her back) and because he doesn't care about me anymore, he said he doesn't care what I'm going through either. Since we've broken up couple weeks ago and since the abortion, he's been out clubbing and even started flirting with another girl.

While he's doing that, I'm here going through hell..crying every night and every day because im going through something that my ex and I should be going through together but he left me to deal with it on my own. I don't want to see anyone or talk to anyone because im in more pain than i've ever been in my entire life. I'm isolating myself from everyone and I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so alone and worthless..I just want everything to end, i don't know how much more I can handle..

you go after what you want and if it doesnt want you back than it didnt deserve you anyways.
i was 15 years old when i gave birth to my child now. if you dont have parents like i did who was there for me every step of the way. helping me emotionally and fincailly. you wouldnt have been able to support that child. i my self dont believe in abortion you had to do what you did for a reason you go with your first instinct and you did. the way you are talking now. it sounds like if you even did have that child he wouldnt have been there for it. and every child neeeds their father. my sons father isnt in his life. but im engaged now and that guy is. move on. get with your girl friends for a night take your mmind off things flirt be a little crazy eat some ice cream. its hard to take in. but everything happens for a reason. god must have wanted you to have an abortion or else you wouldnt have done it.

Q: I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to change your font/colour/style of writing on MySpace.
I would like to change these things when I am comenting on people's profiles and also when I am writing on my profile.
Please help me, if you only know how to do one of these things it is ok, just please tell me :DD
Thanks!! ♥

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Q: In a family of six, it's pretty hard to be the center of attention all the time, but yeah, my brother is. He used to be into drugs, he was suicidal for a little while, he was arrested for aggravated assault (threatening with a knife), and just random, angry breakouts he's terrible at controling. Well, my brother has a girlfriend, who he, for a reason absolutely NO ONE understands, is "in love with". He's 16 and she's 17. She is probably one of the most annoying people I know. I don't even understand it because I know a lot of people that have a like personalities with her and he hates them. His "love" for her is absolutely unexplainable. Now, my parents are divorced and my dad's planning on moving to another state to be with his fiance soon, which is great because I would absolutely love too move, as would my dad. Honostly, I believe if it was just my dad, his fiance, and I living together, we would make a near perfect family. But, something is stopping my dad from moving. My brother said that he will not move and leave his girlfriend behind. After what I said earlier, plus the fact that my dad is the only on who can control him PLUS he HATES my mom, I think it's pretty obvious that if my dad moves away, my brother is gone. He'll probably end up running away and going to jail somehow. My dad doesn't want him to get in trouble and he doesn't want the extra stress to be put on my mom. Basically, the only way he will move is if he comes with us. Which he won't do because he would be leaving his girlfriend. So technically, his girlfriend has complete control of the outcome of this situation without even knowing it. Now, as much as it sounds, i'm not wanting them to break up just for my benefit. I really believe he would be a lot better off without her. She calls him in the middle of the night and if he doesn't pick up, she freaks out and gets a ride to our house or thinks he's mad at her or something. Really, he's been working a minimum wage job anytime he's not in school to pay for his car and HER cell phone plan that he bought her! Of course he would be exhausted from working that much! She has to spend every waking moment with him, whether he's tired or not. He's really suffering from sleep deprivation. I just don't know how to make him see how bad she is for him. He gets really touchy on that subject about whether or not we like her so he would probably rip my head off if he found out the whole family was talking bad about her and trying to get them to break up. I just don't know how to go about it all. Help is much appreciated!! Thank you!!!

I am going to explain my situation and maybe you will understand. my parents divorced (we all lived in Ohio) and my dad decided to move to Missouri. I have a 1 year old son and my moms boyfriend had been beating me so i had to drop my friends and move with him. I work full time, raise a child, and have a boyfriend that im in love with you cant blame his girlfriend for the problems. she is probaly just worried about him when she calls and likes seeing him because shes in love with him. my little brother moved to missouri with us at first then he started rebelling threating to make him self get kicked out of school to run away back to ohio etc. your brother will do the same thing. to get here to see his girlfriend. your brother will have to start not hating your mother to stay there. if he doesnt want that your dad is gonna have to force him to go but hes going to just rebell

Q: I have a dress and it is mainly red and a bit of black, (http://www.simplydresses.com/body_types/detail.cfm?key=283826&v=PD&cat=slender) - the white bit is actually bright bold red. and i just want some makeup to work with it, i just don't know what! any ideas will really help.. i have looked through some sites and they don't really help me, thanks!

i wore a bright red dress for homecoming one year. for makeup i had white eyeliner for eye shadow, reg. eye liner little think not to much.. and mascura

Q: is it possible to get pregnant after you give a guy a hand job...and then finger yourself?

technically yes. if you have sperm on your hand?

Q: okay so me and my so called best friends arent getting along to well. we fight alot over boys and other things. okay so i decided to have a get together u could say of them all and well we went to six flags. and my so called best best friends crush was there and he wanted to see ME and her so we meet up with him and he huged me first and i got cold so he was worming me up by holding my hands then he satrted holding my best friends hands so i droped his. and then she made me sit on all the rides by my self so she could sit with him. that pissed me off so then he droped her hand and picked me up and was holding me. well my crush was there too, but when i saw him he was hooking up with some random girl! witch pisses me off but yea. so me and my freinds started walkking away and my best friend was like ha ha he doesnt like u any more thats funny. so i was in a bad mood all night bc of her and her crush was getting clingy on me and i pushed him away yet my friends say i was flirting with him witch i wasnt at all! should i leave them behind and go with my new frinds i made this year? they make me smile and we all are big flirts so we never get mad at each other and we all ways go to partys together and have fun where my other frineds dont like what i do.

maybe you should talk to your "old" friends about it. tell them that seeing your crush with another girl realy hurt you and what she had said hadn't help the situation. a friend is someone who is there for you when need them. not to critize and put you down.

Q: im 13 ive been single 4 about 3 weeks, and its been ok i guess should i go after someone or not?

your 13 .. be a kid dont get caught up in the relationship drama.

Q: i heard that you can get std's from using other people's lipstick and lip gloss. Is that true because i used one of my friends and then someone told me that i could now have an atd and that is not good because i am only 16.

You can only get an Std during sexual intercourse or and open wound.. Example: if a friend of yours cuts her hand and you help her clean it up and you have a cut on your hand and her blood gets into your cut..

Q: 16/f

Over the summer I broke up with my boyfriend Troy for a little while because I started liking this guy, Steve. Me and Steve kissed a few times (when me and Troy were broken up, of course) and he was adorable and we both ended up liking each other a lot (we never went further than kissing. He lived in another town far away and sometimes he would come up to my house and just chill with me. When me and my boyfriend started dating again I let Steve go so i could focus on making my relationship better. Steve decided to get a girlfriend just to piss me off and he ended up hating me. I haven't talked to Steve since the beginning of August. I think about Steve all the time. I get butterflies in my stomach just thinking about him and how he used to kiss me and hug me. I think i might be in love with him because I can not get him off my mind and its almost been 4 months since we've talked or seen each other and I'm still not over him! One time over the summer when me and Troy were broken up Steve asked me out and I told him I didn't want a boyfriend. Like am I stupid? I had the strongest feelings for Steve ever since I met him and I turned him down. I'm so confused and feel kind of heart broken which confuses me even more. Do I love Steve? Should I just let the thoughts go and focus on my boyfriend? Should I start talking to Steve again? Please what do I do help me. I think I'm in love with him I'm almost sure I am. (And I may add that I don't think Steve hates me anymore because it's been so long.) So Please, any advice would be great!

Me or anyone else can't tell you if you love Steve or anyone else, from the sounds of your question you should go after Steve and don't be afrid of rejection " go after what you want and if it doesn't want you back than it doesnt deserve you anyways" but for your current boyfriend you haven't mentioned much about him you need to straighten things out with him. tell him what's going on if your in a relationship and thinking about someone else. thats leading the other person on. After you and Troy are over. Then talk to Steve.. but dont run back to Troy if you and Steve don't work out.. but from the sounds of it .. it sounds like you to will work out Good Luck.

Q: 14/f

How can I make it in the industry of acting?

you have to start slow like commercials and stuff like that. look it up online. call people.. look for places that interviewing for commercials. more commercials you do people will start to here about you.

Q: okay. so yeah this is a weird question and i feel really stupid for ask this but when i shave well u know down "south" i cant ever seem 2 get it smooth... can some one please help me with this thanks and again im sorry for the weirdness of the question

i do mine all the time and it comes out smooth i run the razor different directions like up wards than down andleft and right. good luck

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.