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its time to say goodbye?
okay so me and my so called best friends arent getting along to well. we fight alot over boys and other things. okay so i decided to have a get together u could say of them all and well we went to six flags. and my so called best best friends crush was there and he wanted to see ME and her so we meet up with him and he huged me first and i got cold so he was worming me up by holding my hands then he satrted holding my best friends hands so i droped his. and then she made me sit on all the rides by my self so she could sit with him. that pissed me off so then he droped her hand and picked me up and was holding me. well my crush was there too, but when i saw him he was hooking up with some random girl! witch pisses me off but yea. so me and my freinds started walkking away and my best friend was like ha ha he doesnt like u any more thats funny. so i was in a bad mood all night bc of her and her crush was getting clingy on me and i pushed him away yet my friends say i was flirting with him witch i wasnt at all! should i leave them behind and go with my new frinds i made this year? they make me smile and we all are big flirts so we never get mad at each other and we all ways go to partys together and have fun where my other frineds dont like what i do.
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maybe you should talk to your "old" friends about it. tell them that seeing your crush with another girl realy hurt you and what she had said hadn't help the situation. a friend is someone who is there for you when need them. not to critize and put you down.
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I don't think that you should be mean about not hanging out with your old friends, but sometimes people influence the way you feel. If there are people that make you happier than your previous friends, i suggest that you give those people a chance. I am sorry that you had a such a bad day, but any friend that laughs at your misfortune is not that great of a friend.
i suggest you talk to your friend and tell her how that comment made you feel. Like I stated earlier, it always nice to have new people to hangout with especially when they make you happy. However, don't completely ditch your old friends. Also take some time out for yourself, show people that you have a life outside of them. Show that friend of yours that you can live without her for a day or two. Hope that this helps:)
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Well, of course staying friends with people is hard. Everyone changes as they grow up. I suggest you don't break it off with your old friends in an ugly way though. Don't announce that you don't want to be friends with them anymore, just gradually slip out of the friend ship. Don't take all their calls all the time. Don't hang out with them as often. Just keep it peaceful so they aren't your enemies. Just because they aren't your friends doesn't mean they're your enemies, right? If they question why you aren't ever available to hang out with just shrug and say you are just really busy. Goodluck! Hope it goes ok!
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