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Do you know which college in the U.S. is the cheapest? (link)
here go to this webpage and search for the colleges that are cheap!!

http://www.collegesurfing.com/ce/search/?sendroicid=fbf508ad-cd44-4d73-b965-d596cda27f01&sendroikwd=college%20search

and remember there is always finanical aid at many schools!!

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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks! (link)
that's a BIG signal! that says he's interested in you and maybe even wants a future relationship with you!!

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i REALLY like this guy...but im not sure if he likes me ... he flirts with me ..alot..but then not alot if you understand that ..but also i just really wanna know who he likes..but since he knows that i like him i dont wanna ask him ..wat do i do?!..also he is like dropping signs ((i think and my best friend thinks)) that he likes me ....i cant really explain the signes but yeah..wat should i do? (link)
sometimes the natural thing is 4 boyz to flirt! and sometimes their signals can be so confusing ... but maybe he does like you the only way 2 find out is to have someone ask him and if you are brave enough then go up 2 him and just tell him how u feel!!

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OK...me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years. we always talked about moving in together after high school and being friends forever. Well we are both seniors in high school and now that this time has come were both looking to get an apartment together. Well she met this kid who is 20 and he wants to move in with us too. I said that it was fine bc he is a really nice kid. Well she has another bf who doesn't know about this kid who is moving in with us. I really like her other boyfriend (as a friend) and i really like the kid who is moving in with us too. The problem is is that she is leading her other boyfriend into thinking that she is going to be with him forever. Ive tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen. The only reason she is with this guy who is moving in with us is that he gives her everything she wants. He lets her drive and she doesn't have her permit or license and when im in the car with them i dont wanna get caught cuz i dont want my license taking away. Well i've tried and tried to talk to her about it but the only thing she says to me is that she needs to see her other bf (who lives and hour away...the guy who is moving in with us only lives 10 mins away) to decide whether or not she wants to be with him. Well we already looked at aprtments and are moving in the next 2 months. I dont know wut to tell her anymore because i dont want anyone to get hurt!! can someone please hlpe!! sorry this was long!! ill rate good!! (link)
i would talk to her bf now and tell him listen u betta tal to her and then just leave it up to them!! and if she really wants to be with this other guy than so be it!! And i would also warn this other guy that she already has a bf and to stop flirting with her and giving her whatever she wants because she is already in a rleationship!! good luck moving!!

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i have a question about pop-ups, and i didnt kno which category it was under. do yu guyz have those pop-ups and itz like 'shoot the monkey and win a free laptop'? well, do yu actually win with those things? or are they just there...


thx! =) (link)
they are just so u click on it and then they ask u 4 ur home address ((which u should not give out)) and they put u on a mailing list and send u a bunch on things about offers on stuff and i don't think they actually send u what u thought u were suppose to win!!

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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean (link)
sum guys r really embrassed 2 say it face 2 face or on the phone because they know they like u but they just can't say it 2 ur face!! it's hard for guys to say that especially in public!! he luvs u he just can't say it yet! give him time!!

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ok, i have been going out with this guy for maybe 2 and a half weeks. then i keep seeing him talking to this other girl that already has a bf. so i didn't think about it but now he is writing stuff on his hand saing stuff like i love then someones name but he won't let me or my friends c. then his friend said he wrote i love then then the girls name who he was talking 2, but he said he wrote my name....who do i believe and how do i know if i am going to get dumped? HELP ASAP! (link)
i would confront him and say 2 him"if u really loved me u wouldn't be talking and writing things about another girl on ur hand?" see what he says and if u feel there is a break up coming then say to him first that we need o talk and break up with him!! if he is going to be a player then just let him go!!

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alright well I think my friend is going anerxic but I'm not sure..like shes eating alil bit but not as much as before..does anyone know like some signs of it? or like anything she might be eating instead of her regular food..? like she would never make herself throw up because she has braces and an expander and when she threw up when she was sick she thought it was the nastiest thing because it was all like stuck up in it..so if you know anything about it like signs or symptons please help! (link)
signs would be if she didn't eat at all or if her appetite has gone down!! if she was a big eater before u might wanna ask her what is going on?? or maybe talk 2 her parents and see what they think just 2 be sure!!

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My best friend I and both like the same guy. He recently asked her out, and now everyone thinks that I'm mad at her; and I'm not!! I think that she might belive what thery're saying, and I don't want our friendship to fall apart. PLEASE RESPOND ASAP!

~Liz (link)
don't listen to everyone else! friendships shouldn't be broken because of guys it's absurb! just talk to ur friend and let her know u still want to be hr friend and that u are happy for her!! tell her that she shouldn't believe what other people are sayin' about ur friendship!!

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i feel like im so clueless all the time i dont know whats going on ever with my freinds and i kinda feel like im invisible and sometimes i feel like my freinds arent really my friends and im just there with them and not really freinds i dont have a best freind i thought all my friends were my best freinds but i dont think so what do i do? i feel like moving to another school but that wont do anything so ive just decided to be miserable.... (link)
aww ... cheer up! :) maybe u need to talk to ur friends about this see what they think!! involve urself within their conversations invite them places show them how much u care!!

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I have a new boyfriend at university, but I find myself keeping this news from my friends at home because I don't want it to get back to my ex-boyfriend, becase he is in a very fragile place at the moment and it would really hurt him to find out that I've moved on to somebody else. What I'm trying to do is protect my ex-boyfriend, because I still care about him and don't want to hurt him any more than is necessary, but I feel bad for misleading him and my other friends. Would it be better to just come clean, even if it hurts him in the short term, or should I wait until he's in a better place until I break the news? (link)
i think u should be honest with ur friends and ur ex boyfriend ... even if it does hurt him he should know!! just get it out there now and don' wait becuz if u wait to tell him he may not think u trust him!

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What does the term i.e. mean? Does it mean something like "For example"? I'm not sure. If you could help me out that'd be great. (link)
it means "for example"!!

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my mom and dad r seperated and i got into a fight with my dad one weekend (every other weekend)and he said he didnt want me to come back.... why does he hate me... what did i ever do to him?! I used to be hhis pride and joy.... what happened??? (link)
he doesn't hate u! he was probably just angry because of the seperation he is not in anyway mad at u! he doesn't hate u sometimes parents take out anger on their children it's normal just give him sometime and some space and i bet an apology will be on it's way soon!!

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(14-f) Okay..i met this guy ova tha summa...n we r real g0od friendz..well i am crushin 4 his older brother big time !! hes a junior(im a freshman) and he can drive..well last night he came ova to my house n it was me him my friend steph & one of his friendz...well we were hangin out n stuff n it was SOO AWESOME !he has a g/f but they r sorta...ech right now...they r both confused n yeah but anywayz...i like him alot n last night we hugged n stuff..n today i was tlakin to my mom n she said that since my friend Steph wont be in town tomarrow i should call up th guy i like n ask him if he wantz ta go see tha movie Saw with me tomarrow...just as friendz...i like him so much..n i would pay for myself n stuff so it would be as friendz but it would be so nice to hang out wit him like just us !! n my mom REALLA approves of him n yeah...my mom n sisters n stuff think i should call n ask him but wit tha phone im SOO NERVOUS !!! PlZzZz help ! should i just go ahead n call him ?? PLZ HELP ! Sm0ochez (link)
GO FOR IT!! good luck!

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im 14 years old and i think that i am losing my friens. I say this because they dont invite my to partys anymore and dont really talk to me!.....am i crazy or are they still my friends? (link)
i suggest u ask them! that's the only way you'll find out!! good luck!!

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ok, does any oen know any good ways to get rid of hiccups? and fast? and is it bad if i get hiccups on an almost daily basis? please help me out
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try 2 spoonfuls of sugar!!


Hey everyone, I was just wondering if anyone could tell me your favorite places to shop online..I'd prefer ordering my clothes online because they always come in different sizes, I'm mostly an AE girl..so places like that are a plus..thanks alot :o) (link)
limited too
weathervane
aeropostle
old navy
gap

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i know you can practice to hit higher notes, is there any way to pracice my lower notes? i can go high, but i cant seem to hit low notes in singing. (link)
if u are a girl i wouldn't suggest practicing to go lower on ur notes because u will ruin ur voice!! but if u r a boy then i would practice and do warms up by doing warm ups from a high note to a low note!! ask a lesson teacher to help u!!

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i have had a friend for a very long time. she tries to control my life and everything i do. i cant have a life becuase of her. if i do anything without her she get furiouse and plays a huge guilt thing on me. i dont have the courage to tell her, but i cant stand her! she is constantly taking over my life, and my mom doesnt even want me to be friends with her. i dont know what to do, please help! (link)
what do u mean control? what do u mean like does she not let u go places or socialize with others? maybe she feels that she will lose u as a friend and has problems socializing with others! it could also be seperation anxiety!! just talk to her and be up front with her don't hold back if u 2 r friends then u have to be truth to one another!! just don't be mean about it ... don't raise ur voice just try to sit her down and talk!! good luck let me know how it goes!!

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Okay i listen to music videos on Yahoo.com and like when i sign in with my yahoo name like if i click on a music video it wont play! but when my sister does it on her name she can listen to them! well shes not here so i cant ask her to long on on her name so do any of you guys no how to fix this? thanx i rate 5's! (link)
i would write to yahoo and say u have a problem with makin' the videos play!! if i was u i would try it a few more times and press the refresh button and maybe see if it works then!!

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