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Okay I asked the question earlier about my blood on my pad ( from my period ) was brown. Well now I checked again and it's so dark its black. Is this STILL normal or do I need to talk to my mom about this ?

This is normal. It just means that it's old blood. A lot of girls have different colored periods. Sometimes it can be really red, while other times it can be a dark brown, or ever black.


If you still aren't really sure about this and you're still a little freaked out, just talk to your mom; that's what they are there for. :) ♥

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how do i put up a pic?

When you sign on to your name, go down to "Profile Settings". Here, you'll see a place that says "Upload A Picture Of You". Click on "Browse" and look for the picture you wish to upload. Once you found it, scroll down and click on "Submit". And your picture should be on your column.


If the picture is too big (which tends to happen a lot), you can go to the following website to re-size it: http://www.imageshack.us Then, just get the URL of the picture you uploaded (the last URL on the page) and put it in the "URL Of A Picture Of You" section, then scroll down and click "Submit". ♥

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http://fashionbug.charmingshoppes.com/Shopping/product.aspx?product_id=FM002607&nav=FM

Anyone think that shirt is cute cause i want to buy it

This is a really cute shirt. And yes, I think black would be the best color to get it in. ♥

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if there any site with good music that liek when i click to it ..it goes to windows midea player ill rate you a 5 please help and i know cd zic but i hate it

You can check out; http://xsao.net You just search up the artist or band you want to listen to and you can listen to all their songs off all their C.D.'s.


http://www.xanga.com/music_galore is a great site, too.


You can also go to this website: http://www.accuradio.com/hits/# It's a online radio and you're able to change the stations to what kind of music you like best. ♥

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my parents are gay and my friends are not my friends any more because of it what do i do?

Just because your parents are gay, doesn't give your friends the right to stop talking to you. Your friends should be friends with you because they like you. They shouldn't just ditch you because of your parents.


If they were your true friends, they'd still be by your side. But this shows, that they aren't good friends, at all. I suggest finding better friends, sweetie. Ones that will like you for who you are, not for who your parents are. ♥

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Today when I went to change my pad ( I'm on my period) the blood was a dark red pretty much a brown color. Is this normal?

This is totally normal. The brown colored blood is just old blood. Nothing to be worried about. ♥

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How do i do those link fad things? the ones with the names and things

Do you mean the links where you write a name and it is clickable? If so, this is how you do them:


< a href="URL for the site">"Whatever you want the link to say"< a > Then, just take away the spaces inbetween the < >'s. ♥

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can i delete my Advicenators account? if so, how?

You can't actually delete your whole column. The only thing that deletes is your questions, personal information, everything besides the page itself.


The link to do this is: http://advicenators.com/deletec.php ♥

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what is the golden shower?

If you're into the whole kinky deal stuff, then you'll be doing the "golden shower". It's this big sexual thing and for some people it "turns them on". It's when you pee on eachother, while you're both showering. Isn't that gross? ♥

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what does the spanish word mierda mean in english?

It means "crap". ♥

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I can only reach orgasm (either from masterbating or oral sex) when my legs really straight, have lots of muscle tension, and are touching the floor. Ive tried to practice with them bent but I just can't get off that way.

It makes me sad to think I wont be able to have an orgasm during sex because i can't keep my legs straight and close enough together. My boyfriend thinks I'm weird. Is this normal? What could I do? Why am I like this?

This is normal. Everyone has different ways to orgasm. All girls are different and there's nothing wrong with you, nor are you weird.


I don't really know what you can do. You could try having sex more with your boyfriend, different ways just to see if you can orgasm. Other then that, I really don't know what else you can do, I'm sorry.


You might want to check out this website, though: http://www.coolnurse.com/sex_stuff.htm It might be some help to you. ♥

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what are some good techno songs? i want every one you know.

Hermes House Band - Country Roads.
DJ Sammy - Heaven.
Dan Balan & Lucas Prata - Ma Ya Hi.
Axel F - Crazy Frog.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Darude - Sand Storm.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
DJ Aligator - Blow My Whistle Bitch.


Also, the band "Mindless Self Indulgence" has some pretty technoish songs. Here are a few:


Mindless Self Indulgence - Shut Me Up.
Mindless Self Indulgence - Straight To Video.


If I think of anymore songs, I'll be sure to add them to the list. ♥

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how do you get backgrounds and stuff one your myspace?

http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacelayouts.php
http://www.myspace.com/hey_lyts
http://www.myspace.com/omfglayouts
http://www.myspace.com/viiislayouts
http://www.myspace.com/static__layouts
http://www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?type_id=3


These are all great MySpace layout sites. To actually get them on your MySpace, just put them in your "About Me" section. ♥

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what does gut mean?
like... " gut from the side"

It means to stab, or cut something. ♥

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It says my pictures too big.. How do i resize it?

If the picture is too big (which tends to happen a lot), you can go to the following website to re-size it: http://www.imageshack.us Then, just get the URL of the picture you uploaded (the last URL on the page) and put it in the "URL Of A Picture Of You" section, then scroll down and click "Submit". ♥

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if my period wasnt late at all and its only just started and not really really heavy does that mean that im pregnant?

Have you had sex? If not, there's not way you can be pregnant. There's still no way you can be pregnant if you have your period. Don't worry about this. Your period might just be changing. Every girl is different. Sometimes you'll be heavyer then others, it just depends on the day, I guess. But to answer your question, no, you're not pregnant. ♥

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hi my name is jordyn i m female and 17 yeaes of age. k i m a virgin and so is my boyfriend. we have been together for about 1 year now hes ready to move on and loose his virginity. her is the problem...
i dont know if my area is to hairy? kind of dumb? i dont know if its sopose to be shaved and if so how is the best way to go about it? i really dont know what to do about it. PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i really need help.

Since you and your boyfriend have been together for a year, you should be comfortable around him enough to ask him this question. It really depends on the guy. Some like 'down there' to have hair, some don't. It really depends. Just ask him how he likes it, then take it from there.


Best way to shave; always shave with soap and water. Next do a dry shave. Shave the way the hairs are growing and you should be fine. It's simple, just like shaving your legs; just don't press so hard. After you are done shaving, put on some handcream. This will get rid of any razor burns/red marks, (if you have any.) ♥

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im making something for my b.f. for his birthday.. i need an idea of a quote i can put inside.. nothing to corny.. something that has some meaning.. any help ? will rate

http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES
http://www.holliesquotes.com


These two websites have loads of love quotes. I'm sure you'll find something that you're happy with. ♥

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how do you get a pretty background on myspace!?!?

http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacelayouts.php
http://www.myspace.com/hey_lyts
http://www.myspace.com/omfglayouts
http://www.myspace.com/viiislayouts
http://www.myspace.com/static__layouts
http://www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?type_id=3


These are all great MySpace layout sites. Enjoy! ♥

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My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me?

Santa isn't really real. But no matter how old you are, Santa will always be a part of Christmas. ♥

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