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i'm 13 and haven't had a period yet. i know that's normal, but most of my friends have had theirs, and htey give me a hard time about it. first they'll say i'm not a woman, then they'll say i'm lucky! it gets annoying. what do i do?

-punctationless

Yes thats normal no one is the same and start the period when there really younger and some when there older if you feel lucky or not lucky its just something you have to wait for to happen
everyone developes differently
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I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!

--KeLs--

there is loads:
Paige
madison
adam
holly
alyssa
piper
wyatt
daniel
daisy
mckenzie
cameron

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i have this friend who thinks she's like really hot, but she's isn't. whenever you're at the mall or w/e she always all "that guy is so staring at me" or "he is so checking me out", when the guy is staring at ME. how can i break it to her w/o wrecking our friendship?

Tell her to stop been so obssessed with her looks and that shes not really hot and guys dont look at her

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I really like this boy, and he is in 4 of my classes. I have no idea whatsoever how to talk to him. I mean, we talk, but never about anything interesting. My friends all know that I like him, and they think that he likes me. What should I do?

Talk to him casually just go talk to him when your in class or if you have to be in pairs ask him if hes going with anyone
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yeah everyone i know can dance and stuff but i cant any tips on how to start?

Why not join a dance club its a great way to learn new moves and you can make lots of friends
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Hey
sorry this is kind of a wierd question and please dont delete i really need to lknow...like what is sexually harrasing(sp)? Liek what does a person have to do inorder for it to be sexually harassing

Its some one why making you feel uncomfortable by making a sexual move e.g touching your legs or chest and more
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why are love handles called love handles? explanation please! :)

Love handles are part of your waist that guys like to hold onto some girls have them and today curves are in not skinny
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Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??

Why not try talking to him about it and why not try talking to loads of different boys he will see what hes missing if you talk to loads of guy infront of him and laught and stuff
he will be begging for you
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ok im really selfconsious about my boobs but recently i had mark onmy boobs and they look like strech marks and i dunno y i would have them i mean my boobs aint even that big and im not fat of anything.. wut could it b from?

ahhh..
shaiina

If they are strech marks it means that your growing and you boobs are getting bigger dont be worried if you want to get rid of them there is a special cream to help its called coco butter and just rub it on the marks and they should faid but they wont go completely
but they will be less noticable
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ok i have a best friend...that is a guy he is so awesome we get along so well...but i think i'm starting to like him...we have already talked about how it would be if we dated...that we don't want to ruin our friendship...i mean he did say that it would be cool if we dated we are just scared that things arn't going to work

but when girls sit there and say o i love you, your so hott...it really pisses me off he knows this becaouse i have told him...i just don't know what i should do about it...because i really want us to have something more...i'm just scared of our friendship

Why dont you just have ago
if you dont like it stay good friends and you never no it might work out
i bet your a very pretty girl
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i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do?

Why dont you just grow a fringe
thats probley the problem with a fringe it can some times make your forehead look big if i didnt have a fringe i would have a big forehead
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i have a fever and my throat feels like its bleeding and when i swallow it hurts really badly, my mouth also produces thick spit which is kinda nasty... if any of you have any advice as to how i can get rid of this please help. thanks

Eat throat sweets or go to the doctors see if theres anything he can give you u might have an infections
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ok, so i like have this guy friend... and i like really like him alot, more than a friend. Last night i went over to his house with my best friend and he invited her crush over too... it was weird because like for a half an hour they kept asking us who we liked... if it was someone else i probubly would have told them... but now they are going to keep bugging us and i usually crack under that kinda pressure.. but i cant crack this time because im afraid it would be weird... and he wont like me as a friend anymore... because he doesnt feel the same. what should i do.. i mean im not like pretty.. im not ugly... im not popular.. im not a geek... but i dont think that he will feel the same and i dont know if i should tell him...
should i...
[a] not tell him and say i dont like anyone
[b] tell him and possibly kill our friendship
[c] stop talking to him
[d] try to see if he likes me first

which one.. or do u have a diff suggestion..
plz i need help
sry if this is like wayyy too long but i really am confused and it would be great if u helped

thankz a billionz

Why not just ask him out to the cinema or bowling something like that you only live once go for it
lol
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this probably happens alot.. me and my best friend came to a public school for the first time.. and she met a guy who shes supposedly in love with.. it bothers me alot because they are constantly together and she totally ignores me.. but when hes not there she acts normal around me. i told her about it before and she apologizes.. but she does it over and over again. they are always showing pda and they always have to be alone. im not jealous.. i just want my friend back

Well why dont you just walk away and see if she needs you then if that doesnt work
talk to her about it and tell her that you feel left out
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okay my friends name is holly and her boyfriend's name is zach. theyve been going out since about december, maybe a little before. i basically set them up because they are honestly the perfect couple. its just that sometimes i feel like she prefers to hang with him over me. i was in the hall talking to her one day and then along comes zach and i was in midsentence. then she just walks away with him. I WAS IN MIDSENTENCE! she didnt say goodbye or anything. its sortof making me wonder. i dont know if its just jealously - but my other friends are noticing it too. honestly - they are perfect for each other. and i dont want them to break up. this past weekend we went to the movies and she asked if she could take him. i wanted it just to be us girls but finally she convinced me that he had to come. she said 'im only over his house today for two hours and i never see him' when she sees him everyday for at least like 2 hours. how can i let her know that she sortof needs to let him go, not break up, but detach herself from him when it comes to going out to the movies or anywhere with FRIENDS? im sorry this was so long, but i rate high! =) thanks so much

Oh right well why dont you try talking to her tell her that your happy for them 2 but you feel left out because you feel like she wants to be with him more than you if she feels like its more important to have a boy friend then you should walk away she doesnt deserve anyone as special as you
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I have problems. I always do. The problem is that i try to make people feel sorry for me so that they'd go on my side and so that they wont be mean to me anymre. Is this right to do? My "friend" saw throught that and said that "Your pathetic man, you really are". Am i really?

Well you shouldnt be making people feel sorry for your self if your the one t blame if not talk to your friends and try and work it out
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My boyfriend & I have been trying to have a baby for the past 4 months, but I can not get pregnant! We already know his sperm is good because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Could having a disease cause someone not to get pregnant? What kind of disease? How do you know if you are in-fertile? Why would I be in-fertile? WHY CAN'T I GET PREGNANT!?!? :0(

You no not straight away you will be come pregnant you have to work for it and it should
happen soon enought
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I have this friend and she seems kinda perverted, she's never had a boyfriend or anything. When i go to her house and change into my p.js or swimsuit or something it seems she is always watching. and she ALWAYS talks about how big or small someone's boobs are! I told her to stop talking about stuff like that and that i think she is a pervert, but she thinks i was joking. I just wish she would shut up!

Why dont you ask her about it and why she is so obssesed if you are beginning to feel uncomfortable just have a break from her
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does anyone know any really good shampoo and/or conditioner that works well and is good for oily hair?

Thanks!

Nutragena
i do no where abouts you live so it might not be out over there
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okay well today at breck fast at school..i was talking to this kid Pat..and i was talking to him...and my good friend that im in t fight with and i love...was trying to talk to me and i sceam to him DOMINIC DON'T EVER TALK TO ME AGAIN!!! it sliped out and i don't no what to do..now he wont talk to me!

PLEASE HELP!! I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH!! I RATE HIGH!!!

Just say your sorry let him cool of for a bit then apologise to him
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