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Ive got 3 groups, and I dont know which one to hang out with...I dont want to reject any of them. 2 of the groups have only girls in it, and the other has 3 guys and 5 girls. I kind of want a group with guys in it, but i dont want to tell my other friends, because they'll think im crazy.
And if I ask them to all hang out together, they wont want to, because Sarah (one of my friends) and 2 other friends, dont like one of my friends from the other group. And 3 other friends, dont like Sarah, because they think she's too much attention. Im in a bad situaton! I dont want to diss anyone, and i dont want anyone to hate me!
Help!

maybe you could make time for each group at different times of the day.

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hello everyone i am a 13 year old girl. i want to start buying some clothes from aeropostle and hollister. but the problem is i am very small. i weigh only 85 pounds. the smalls are aeropostle and hollister are too big. is there is a smaller size at those two stores? if so please tell me what size

i rate high

yea you can probly find xs. those are what i wear, you just have to search for them.
hope i could help

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SRY THIS IS LONG ILL RATE A 5 TO ANY1 WHO ANSWERS IT!!!

okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!

oh god im going threw the same exact thing its crazy. when i read this i was liek wtf lol.
its very complicate and hard to choose. and the 2 guys i like are also very good friends. i have desided to just be friends with both guys and once in awhile i mess around with them lol.
but i have know idea what to do.
sorry i couldnt help more

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My mom won't let my peirce my belly, and i have wanted it for two years now. I have tryed to convince her that i want it done but she still says no! Any ideas? Please help asap!!!!!

hey my mom was the same way. shell eventually come around if she doesnt its not the end of the world. youll just have to wait till your 18. or you could always do it yourself. or keep naging and maybe shell see how much you really want it .
hope i helped

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Female,16
The guy i like is really shy about girls, hes never had a gf before, and we are really good friends. ive liked him a long time, and i figured it was just time to tell him. I guess he really had no clue.. yesterday i talk to him alone after school, and said you know i like you and he was silent scuffing his feet and half smiling and he said THANK YOU.. tell me what is that suppose to mean? thank yOU!? and then he said wow this really caught me off guard i i.. and his friend walked by and siad lets go, i need a ride home, so hes said well i guess ill talk to you later and left...do you think maybe he jsut didnt know what to say, usually he'd say oh well lets jsut be friend or somthing like that but he said thank you, and its such a neutral comment... plus most people i know think he likes me.. so do you think maybe he was jsut caught off guard and didnt know what to say or what?

he probly was just caught off guard and was so surprised he didnt know what to say. he probly does like you and is kicking him slef in the ass right now for not saying anything. i would bring the subject up again, and see what he says this time.
hope i could help

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hi, well i have been very confused lately on my sexuality. i've always been dating guys and shit. but this year, i think i've been atracted to girls as well. i mean, im still atracted to guys, but i think i am to girls too. i've made out with alot of girls, but that was for like fun and shit. but now i really think im attracted to girls too. am i bisexual? and if you have rude comments, save them for your self.

this could mean that you are bi but it could also just be something your going through right now who knows. give it some time and im sure youll figure it out. if you are it is nothing to be ashamed of.
hope i could help

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we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore?

well you could either tell her strait out that you guys arent as close as you were. or you could just push her away, like if she calls u and wants to hang out just tell her you have other plans, she should eventually get the hint.
hope i could help

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i like a kid, and like he is mean to me, and my friends asked him why he didnt like me, and he said cuz i'm stupid. but i'm not, i just say a lot of random stuff.but like everytime he talks to me hes all smiley, but the problem is that two other girls in my grade flirt with him. so i feel like i have a competition and then my other friend likes him, and she is closer with him, and i really want to go out with him.

you shouldnt feel like your in competition with those other girls, if this kid likes you like u like him then the other two girls dont matter to him. and if they do u probly dont even want to bother with him.

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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!

i really wouldnt worry about this your still young the right guy will eventually come along. the longer you wait and the older you are the better it will be trust me. and when you get older i bet your friends will ahve made so many mistakes that there gonna wish they never did and there gonna hate you b/c you didnt
hope i could help

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Hey I was wondering where I could go (website adresses) to find some good quizzes, other than www.quizilla.com. Thanks I will rate high!


http://www.i-am-bored.com/ www.smilepop.com
www.Youthink.com
http://www.thespark.com

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Hey ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for not too long since the 19th of April but i have known him all my life and i like him and all but theres a problem he is movin to Georgia and we live in Texas in the begining of summer and i got told by his best friend that he is dumpin me the day before he moves which is alright since i dont do long distant relationships anyhow and i got told to dump him this or next week so he dont get to it first so which should i do i need some help!
Love Kayla

well i dont think it matters who breaks up with who. ad i really dont understand why you guys are even trying b/c its obviously not going to work if your already planning the break up.
hope i could help

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okay, well i like this guy hes my neighbor and he just broke up with is girlfriend like a week ago and ifound out that he likes my friend. but she doesnt like him back. he talkes to me sometimes like on the bus mostly and i know he likes me because my friends boyfriend that is his friend saw that in my friends phone i love ryan who is the guy i like and he told him so idk what to do if i should stop liking him because i really like him i have for a couple of years no please help i rate high*

well i wouldnt stop liking him b/c its obviously not just some fling thing if you ahve liked him for a couple of years. and it would probly be really hard to just stop like that. get to know him better and become better friends and see what happens.
hope i could help!

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DOES ANYONE KNOW OF A PLACE WHERE i CAN GET SOME CUTE CURSOR CODES THAT ARE COMPATiABLE WITH MYSPACE?THANKS!

http://myspacehtml.cjb.net/

thats where i got myne..hope i could help

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i cant stop bitting my nails and my mom wont let me get acurlic is there anthing that will make them grow ffaster or make me stop bitting thx bunches!

theres a nail polish that you can buy at a drug storee that makes you nails grow faster.
also may paint them yourself i know when i have pain on my nails i dont bite them.
or may buy fake nails from the store and put tehm on yourself
hope i could halp

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ok, i know there is a site to get all this cool stuff to contruct a myspace page it is not pimpmymyspace.com or anything like that.does anyone know which site?

this site to change the colors of everything:
http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/index.htm


and this site to add really cool things:
http://myspacehtml.cjb.net/


hope i could help

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13 female

when i was born i lived with my grandparents becasue my mom had a bad life. she sold drugs and lived in alot of places wich we not suitable for kids. and so when i was 2 my mom came to my house drunk and kidnapped me. my grandma didnt try to get me beacue my mom was way stronger then her and so she just let me go. * i dont live with my dad becasue when i was born i was a mistiake and my dad is a player* so my mom went to jail and some lady returnded me when my mom was gone *but now me and my mom are okay* . and so when i was 4 it was the FIRST time i ever saw my dad but i couldnt really see him becasue it was like 10 o clock at night and he didnt want to come inside. and after that visit from when i was 4 i counted the days weeks months hours years miutes and seconds from the last time i saw my father. and finally i saw my dad again when i was 10 and he expected me to act like nothing happened and he was like all can i have a hug blah blah blah and my grandpa told him that if he wanted to come that day he just cant leave me again and yes he did.. he didnt come back and i didnt hear from him or anything and im 13 and i havent heard from him in 3 years but its not like i want to or anything. i just have mixed emotions. and im the "tough" one at my school because i dont open up or talk about my feelings. well at night i dream about me and my sister haveing this "Perfect" family with my mom and my dad but then something happends to me and my dream shows a picture of my dad getting killed and my mom dying ( my sister has a different dad and i have like 3 other sisters that have different moms and i dont even know them) but after my dream i wake up with tears in my eyes and me all sweaty. but heres the thing.. i want my life to be good. but i dont want anything to do with my dad and my dad is gonna try and talk to me over the summer and my other grandmaw too but i just dont want to be a part of them. my questions are.. how can i tell them i dont want anything to do with them. and what do i do about these dreams, and how can i open up and talk about my feelings

sorry its long but ill rate 5's to any good answer

ok first off i want to say sorry about all the things that have happened to you at such a young life. i went though some bad things when i was younger to. no one deserves to go threw those things.
so about the whole thing with never wanting to talk to your dad. i dont think your dad has been the best person to you and he has made bad decsions but he is trying and i think you should give him another chance. tell him if he wants to see you he has to stay and he cant leave you and if he does again then kick him out of your life.
about the drems im not realy sure what to do. maybe see a shrink and talk about your feelings to them it might seem hard at first but it gets easier tust me.
hope i could help and everything gets better.

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k im 14, 5'8 and 110 lbs...so yeah im really slim, but not in a gross way. anyway, i've been getting alot of exercise lately because i started training for jr olympic volleyball...on the other hand, i've had a huge appetite and been eating a ton. also for background info, i have a very high metabolism. anyway, i've noticed im starting to get a bit of a tummy and it makes me feel sad! its probably diverting attention from my boobs too...whats the easiest way for me to get my flat stomach back (and don't suggest anything dietary...i love food)...specific exercises? thanks

thats easy you want a flat stomach so to some sit ups or crunches everyday. you have a flat stomach in know time
hope i could help

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Alright well me and this kid have gone out twice fer about 2 months each tyme and we kinda broke up fer a month and we both went out with different people! so then he asked me to hang out with him and we hung out all this week and it kinda leaded to us having sex.. but i didnt think it was a big deal becasue he always tells me he loves me and stuff but everytime were together his ex-girlfriend calls him and it really makes me mad and then he kinda tells everyone were just friends but then he tells me were in love but i dunno what to do?

it sounds like you want more then just friends with benefits.
you should ask him out. if he says no theres chances that he lied and he doesnt really love you he used you for sex.
if he says yes he probly does like you.
hope i could help

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My 9 year old cousin is coming up tommorrow. Any ideas on how to amuse her for a few hours? I was thinking maybe giving her a little makeover, or something.

yea a makover sounds cool.
you could maybe get some good movies or tv.
play board games or video games.
hope i could help

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ok well i like this guy chris and my friend christina knows i like him and she pinched his ass today right in fromt of me and then she goes do you like jess and he said no and i was about to like crya nd then andrew was like yeah i know you like him jess and i was like no and i dont know if i can face him again and hes in my 1 2 5 period class and in 5th period theres only 3 ppl me andrew and chris .. what should i do?ill rate high

i wouldnt let something like that embarrass you. he probly just thinks that andrew was jokeing when he siad that. just act normal like you always do around him.
hope i could help

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