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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can












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ok so i watched the blair witch project.. it was pretty weird... but i was wondering if that footage was real or not... does anyone know?!?
im so confused... because if that was true... holy crap but if it wasnt.. that was the gayest video EVER!lol. thanks a alot!

it was real woods and everything but the witch thing was fake.i was talking about that with my friend last night, that ironic

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OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?!

ask them to do something with you.or find another group of people to hang out with

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Hey i love my jeans with holes in them and i have a couple pair of jeans without holes in them. i was wondering how i could put holes in them so it looked natural not like i just took scissors and just cut a hole in them. thank you! xoxo_*

i would cut a tiny hole and then rip holes in it

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I am in a situation where i know i am eventually going to end up fighting one or maybe 2 people, one is smaller than me and one is bigger, i dont need any paficists telling me not to fight, its unavoidable, can somebody give me some advice on how not to get my ass kicked and preferably to kick theres, im m/15 5 foot 9, and quite strong, just havent been in a real fight before.

i would bulk up. do some push ups(those help because thats where its coming from)use a punching bag like in boxing because it makes your punch stronger. i would punch in the face,stomach(sometimes)and stuff like that. dont make the first moive because some people are just talk and cant fight, well actually a lot of people are like that. since its going to be you and 2 guys i would maybe bring a friend just in case because it wouldnt be a fair 'game' if it was 2 against 1 so bring someone that can handle themselves

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ok so..i broke up w/ my bf cuz his friends threaten me and fight w/ me and stuff and i just couldnt take it anymore..and now i think it was a bad idea to break up w/ him..wat should i do?

talk to him. thats the best you can do and give the reason why you broke up with him. and maybe he will talk to the people that threatened you.hope it works

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Ok I can't decide if I should go to the movies with strangers tonight. My friend knows this girl from another school and they are going to the movies, and their supposedly bringing a bunch of hot guys. My friend wants me to come, but I don't know if I should. I'm just shy. These people are all the same age as me. I don't have a boyfriend, and I do kind of want to meet guys, but I'm nervous. I don't know, should I just go out with my normal group of friends tonight?

its really great to meet new people. a way of being more outgoing. just be yourself and have fun. one of them are bound to like you.i say go with your friend to meet those people

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i've recently become a vegitarian. my mother is worried that i wont get enough protein, what are some foods that i can eat that contain protein (besides meat, obviously)?

eggs and peanuts

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I am sick to death of my brothers!!! I have 3 brothers and no sisters. Since it's summer break, i have to put up with them all day every day. Most of my friends are on vacation. I can't invite anyone to my house because my mom just had surgery and can't handle it. I'm allowed to go to somebody else's house, but I can't just say "Hey, can I come over to your house?" So basically my question is: How can I put up with my brothers all summer?!?
HELP!
P.S.--- My family can't go anywhere cause my dad is in NC and my mom can't drive because of her surgery.

it depends on what age your brothers are. like if they are young they can play a video game or in the pool, or sprinkler. if they are older they can maybe play video games or something that is their hobby.just maybe try to avoid them.

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Dear amazing people,
One of my best guy friends who I just happen to like is gonig out with this girl...lets call her Shelly. I over heard her talking to her friends about wht shes going to do friday because they dont want to invite my guy friend (alden). I heard her say I can go to 1 and 2 but not 3 and I think she meant base wise. I wanna tell lden but it would break his heart and he would proably think I was lying what do I do??

truthfully i dont see whats wrong with telling him. its not that bad unless he wanted to go all the way. i would tll him and if he doesnt believe you he just doesnt want to believe the truth, like he cant handle it.

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well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do?

i dont know the law that well but he grabbed you so it was in self defence.

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i'm 15 male when this girl calls i don't know what to talk about i really like her help me !!!!!!!!!

ask her about her day.
what shes doing right now.
what hobbies does she do, ask her about them

things like that

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Is it true that not eating can make you GAIN weight rather than lose it?

(it's not that I'm planning on not eating, it's just a question)

yes, you lose all the weight while you are not eating and then when you start to eat you gain weight because your metabolism slows down.

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16.f -- i met this guy at a party i had this past weekend, hes 21, and really nice .. he seems like hes into me and invited me to his party this saturday. the only catch is that hes 21, and hes 1 of my sister's, boyfriend's best friends. Either way, i'm probably going to go to the party, but i just want to know if yall think i should "persue this"..?? thanks yall

you should go, have a good time.but just to warn you if you have sex it will be rape.

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i dint knwo what to put this under but its REALLY important to me...... On November 8, 2004 my friends killed herself on the railroad tracks in Bayport, New York and i cant find her obituary online for free anywhere and its really upsetting me........Please help me find a website for FREE obituaries



THANKS SO MUCH!,
Alex

sorry about your friend. this might be one but im not sure http://www.funeralplan.com/obits/

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when i was younger, i was a bit chubby and i was really self conscious about it...it sucked being too big for dress up clothes. i was one of the first to wear a bra and get teased by the boys. i had a lower voice than most kids in my grade and i would feel akward singing with the class. well now, i finally took controll over my weight and im known for my singing ability as a strong alto. sounds great, but i still feel out of place. for me its a blessing to wear a size 5, when its fat-pants for someone else. i feel kind of not-as-good because im a young alto. am i making too much of this or can anyone relate? thanks in advanced and you deserve a 5 for readin this.

well not many can sing alto, and you sound like you made a lot of improvement not just in your voice but in your confedence.you should be proud of what you have, not many can lose that amount of weight as you are describing it.you shouldnt care what people think as long as you are in yourself.

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O.K. I'm not trying to be nasty or anything but my boob is like really sore and it has been sore for like 2 days now. What should I do?

umm i think all you can do is take a pain killer thing like advil, they are probably just growing

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im 5'7 and 168 lbs. i have lost about 10 pounds since last year. and i got such a big boost of confidence. im starting this exercise program in 3 days called power90.they claim u can loose up to 40 pounds in 90 days,I hardly ever excercise, so this may be exactly what i need:) i am excited because i go back to college in 2 months. the truth is i have been obsessed with my weight for 2 years now. I dont ever over eat, so i cant imagine why i gain so much wieght. if there is any advise that can be given, i am willing to ty. because i am 100% focused. please share.

you might be gaining weight because your metabolism is slow. but exercising will help you a lot. just put all your effort and it doesnt matter if you are slower that other people as long as you dont quit. good luck. drink a lot of water it will make you lose weight and make your face look slimmer

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so i went to school with this boy whos like my best friend..and we are STILL close but not like before..he I.M.'s me and is like do you have a boyfriend and im like no and hes all like oh i have a girl friend and she wants to go to the movies with me do u know any good movies? so i told him and i guess they are going tonight. the problem is that i like him and he use to like me too but i dont know what happened..its like he pushes me away and goes for all of my friends. so should i just forget about him? PLEASE HELP!!

it sounds to me that he likes you. i mean who would ask you any good movies to go to? its like braging. and he goes to your friends to make you jealous. talk to him

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Wow okay. well these 3 friends made me cry today. im in 7th grade and i dont cry normally and they were yelling and making fun of me today and yesterday. one girl said i ditched her when i was waiting for my other friends and then we went to go swim with them and then they left us and it kept happening. my best best friends now hates me and called me a fake today beacuse she thought i was saying alot of chit about her, and i wasnt i spend almost everyday with her in the summer i went to basketball team with her i dont hate her or anytihng! and then the oither ones i dont know, but i dont know what to do now, and they made me cry today and i dont wanna lose them as friends but i also dont wanna continue being best friends with them, but they can get the whole school turned against me. and i dont want that. they arent as popular as they seem but they have a way to get everyone else mad at me. i just dont know what to do, i ask my other friends but they dont know either. it seems as if everything is always blamed on me and now i dont know what to do beacuse they wont believe me on anything. i really need some help, if you could please give me some advice.

i know this isnt going to be good advice but go up to them and be like 'if you want to talk shit about me, say it to my face' and the they say something and punch her. or say stuff back to her. im bad at this stuff but thats what i would do. and today these 2 girl go into a fist fight and everything because they were talking bad about them and so she held her down by her neck and punched her non stop and now her face is all messed up.so yeah.maybe talk to them one on one.

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ohk my Q' is what do you have to do to be able to do the crossed out letters on aim ? cause i wanna put it in my profile ! thnx

go to your profile and then right click it, go to fonts and under the selection of what you are going to use like the font(i think) and check 'strikeout'

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