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What to do
Dear amazing people,
One of my best guy friends who I just happen to like is gonig out with this girl...lets call her Shelly. I over heard her talking to her friends about wht shes going to do friday because they dont want to invite my guy friend (alden). I heard her say I can go to 1 and 2 but not 3 and I think she meant base wise. I wanna tell lden but it would break his heart and he would proably think I was lying what do I do??
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first tell Alden..if your really good friends w/ him he should believe you..but if not be like i care about you..why would i want to hurt you like that?! nd then if he still doesnt believe you just tell him i tried to tell you..nd then when he finds out((becasue hes going to in the end))you just have to comfort him nd make him feel better! but dont worry..after the 1st time..he'll always believe you again! i hope that helps! good luck!♥
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definately tell him. i used to have bad feelings about my best guy friend's girlfriend. i told him and turns out she was cheating on him. me and him are closer than ever. we both made a pact that we would listen to each other open minded and never lie to each other. if he was really your friend, he would take your concerns to heart.
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truthfully i dont see whats wrong with telling him. its not that bad unless he wanted to go all the way. i would tll him and if he doesnt believe you he just doesnt want to believe the truth, like he cant handle it.
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I can understand why you want to tell him, but it may backfire on you, and he won't want to be your friend anymore. And if it turns out you are right, he will be even more mad at you just for that reason. He'll be embarassed and feel like sh*t, and won't want to talk to you. I think it might be better to let him find out for himself, that way he'll be made at her, and then need you for moral support. Of course, anything you can do to put him in a better position to find out....... well that would be ok. Just look as surprised and disgusted as he will be.
Michele
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