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hey everyone, Carrie here & - i`m back! sorry i was gone for so long, dealing with buisness and whatnot but i`m back soo anything you need or want to know i`m here to answer! if you wish to keep it private let me know in an email with your AIM sn (if you have one) and i will be IM`ing you shortly

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don't get mad at me for saying this because i KNOW that not all gay guys are feminine. but what about the guys who dress really preppy and they have the really girly voice, talk with the hand motions, are friends with ONLY girls, read girl magazines, and always know what girls are talking about. are they gay? because even if people asked them and they'd still deny it, does that mean they're gay and just don't know it yet? or they won't admit it? or does that just make them metro?

It could mean anything. It could mean there not gay but may be in the future, or just plain old metrosexual. You shouldnt judge them or worry about it. There living life just as equally as you and me.

xO.Carrie

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I don't love my boyfriend but I do like him alot and we're good together. The thing is, we've been together for a month and there have been a few problems to do with kissing. We both want to, properly like full on but before I didn't want to. Now I do and he knows, it's never the right time, we don't see each other out of school a lot and it's hard when other people are there. I really want to kiss him, what should I do?

You know what?! Go for the kiss, completly throw him off gaurd and make the first move. Guys totally love it. And i think its sexist to say that "guys have to make the first move" both sex`s are capable of doing the same things. So go for it and see what happens. Try getting alone time with him, invite him over after school or something. Good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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well me and my best friend havnt talked for a a month and a half, and im just finding out now that he is mad at me because one of my old friends and i aernt talkin now, and he doesnt like me cus i dont like his friend, so now i lost a best friend, what should i do? oh and he hasnt told me any of this, my GF had to talk to him cus he is ignoreing me

If he is mad at you over not liking someone he wanted you to like, then he was never really a true friend. Real friends stick it with you through thick n thin. Try talking to him, and if that doesnt work, as hard as this might sound .. you might have to both just go your seperate ways. Theres plenty more truthful people out there. You just got to find the right one. Good Luck.

xO.Carrie

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Hey. I love your layout! How do you get your own backround on it?? and how do you get the words to move?

Thanks!! Your so sweet. Well I got my own background by finding a picture I liked. Then I saved it to a file on my computer. Then went to:
www.photobucket.com and uploaded it onto there site. They gave me a URL of the picture. I copied that URL and Pasted it in where it says. "URL of Background" under Profile settings. Then with the moving words, i used html. You can get this html at: www.funky-chickens.com. Hope I Helped!! Good Luck!!

xO.Carrie

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20/female

I met this guy online, and he's 36. Yea old but I didn't plan on going out with the guy. He said he liked me and this guy is looking for a serious relationship. I am not, and I just want to be friends. We still talked on the phone, and online when I told him that I didn't want to be more than friends. Well he awlays got mad because he really likes me and he thought that if I talked to him more and more I would change my mind about going to visit him. He would always mumble stuff on the phone and I hated it so much. And when he did it another time, I was so pissed off. So I emailed him, told him that if hes trying to get me to come visit him that its not woking. That its rude to be saying what he says about me not coming to visit, and that he has to understand that we will only be friends. He understands but I'm scared he's not going to talk to me anymore. Because if he was trying to get me to change my mind.and if he knows its not working. I dont think he's going to try anymore. But this guy is so cool, and a great *friend* if he doesnt call this weekend I'm gonna be pretty sad. I regret sending the email, but on the other hand I dont regret it. Because I'm always hiding my feelings but this time I stood up for myself. Sorry its so long. I will rate you 5's!

If he is your *true* friend. He`ll call. If he is worth it to you and if he cares as much as he says he does. He`ll call. Good Luck.

xO.Carrie

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me n my bf had been together for about 8 months and ten this thing haoened which wasnt suposed to hape. We beat eachother up n thats wen we broke up. But unfortunalty it has been his last year so he left. i feel so alone without him... Ps. we were very close to eachother. We made out every day..

Um, I dont think its to chill to have one another beating eachother up. Thats kinda like abuse .. on both of your parts. But I know love is a hard thing sometimes. Especially to leave. Try calling him and possibly sorting things out? Or maybe finding someone new to help you get over him. Good Luck.

xO.Carrie

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heloo0o i have a ques thats a lil embarasing but i hope i can get help...and quick!! **read this for details**---->(((((i have alot of pubes (ew), and not just in one spot you know, like, when i wear the typical V-shaped (iono whats theyre called hahah) unnnerwear they are as noticible as the hair on my head!!! they come out at least 2-3 inches past it, like on the edges and sidees hehe. and i hate it soooooooo much!! why you ask?! BECAUSE i cannot let other people c me in my undies!! and im always like hiding when i change in the locker room because ughh iono its not good. i know i should be discoraged or w.e but its awfull!! im only 14! also, during the summer UGGGhhhh i want to wear these cute bikini's and i just wanna b lyk everyone else but i cant!! man i nevr new that juss having hair can be so stressful!! well anywho back to my question)))))****whever i shave down there(even with special bikini stufff) i get SO red and bumpy, and not to mention BLOODY!! eek! and i tried removing by wax and it got even bloodier!! and i do delpilariyyes or w.e and they dun work. and anyting else//also it looks like my hair is still there even tho u cant c it! well plz help me i shouldnt hav made it SOo long but its the only way that i can say what its like!!!!!!!! help!!!

Wow, Find a really good razor (with a slight expense), those are always the best. Then use shaving cream .. a good brand, not a cheap kind. Then use lotion to reduce bumps. Good Luck, that must suck. In the mean time if your embarassed in like a baithing suit, wear boardshorts for now. Make it cute. Like matching bottoms with tops. Dun worry girl its all normal. Just gotta treat it right. Again, good luck.

xO.Carrie

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Last year I was cool nd evry1 kne who I waz but this year ppl r callin me by my friends name bcuz she looks xactly like me now, she died her hair my color has almost the same style as mine the same face the same frame nd etc. I kno i should b flattered but im not I want my life back! Ive told her this many times but she doesnt get it! Wut should I do?

Here`s a good one. Change your look!! Change can never result in something bad. plus you might have some fun outta this. Good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.

id say, yours parents sex life is none of your buisness and hopefully you dont want it to be. There just trying to "spice things up". I think you shouldnt worry about it.

xO.Carrie

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well im a freshman and im in this boys class i really like him and hes in 11th grade.. he always talks to me and is realy realy nice and always just looks back at me and smiles. last thursday night i went to a football game and he was there and sat next to me. friday in school he was like why didnt you even say hi to meee? and i said sorry and then he said why are you shy around me and i relized i liekd him, that was why!.. i started talking to him alot more and he talked to me on monday morning he came in class and talked to me right away and asked if i had a sister because he saw a girl that looked just like me.. my cousin said that thats kind of weird, she thinks he just wanted to talk to me, and its a weird pickup line i dunno lol.. he also said he lives nextdoor to my grandmother .. he still talks and always smiles to me in the hallway and i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me cuz hes always with other girls too... how can i get him to know i like him? thanks.. if you think i should tell him i like him tomorrow to his face or in a note, what should i say in the note or to his face? im so nervouss i might even have my friend tell him but.. i dont know.. thanks alott

Okay, lol. First off .. guys are kinda weird. haha weird way of putting it but i mean if you just met him, i think you should give it time before you tell him you like him. Guys dont like being rushed. And especially dont have a friend tell him. I think you should just give it time. Seriously, wait until you`ve gotten to know him a little better and until your complelty comfortable around him. Then when the time is right you can tell him. And about him being around other girls, its ok for guys to have girls as friends .. dont you have guy friends?

Hope I helped and
good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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Hey yawl i have a question,ok here it goes.im in the popular group (not to be conceited)but my friends are too and well they kindof get on my nerves sometimes.they brag alot,and they think they are all that and that they are the best things in the world.and they r really bossy.oh yeah we are all girls.and they are always always annoying me.should i tell them how i feel?or let them keep on? thanx Haley

Well first off, the word "popularity" is conceited. I`m not trying to be rude but it is. You girls are too mature for all of this and you need to stop labeling yourseves into a group that may think your better than everyone because your "popular". And if your friends are really bugging you try making new friends, and inviting the ones you may not normally pay attension to into your group of "popularity". Like I said i`m not trying to be mean, im sure your a beautiful sweet girl but you need to look past being the "best" or the "most liked" and look around at all the other people you can make friends with that you might not see as "popular". Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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Okay I have this friend and she has been my friend for about a year. Anyway she is like always bugging me she never shuts up and she always bugs me and my boyfriend. She is always trying to get us to do things, and she makes us on the sims 2 and made me get pregnant on the game and him have an affair with the maid. I mean she is a really good friend but she is always like butting in to our relationship and it gets on me and my boyfriends nerves. I just wish that she could but out of me and my boyfriends relationship. My boyfriend thinks that she likes to try to make us do stuff because she can't get a boyfriend.
Please Help Me
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

Well, why dont you try talking to her? It`s always good to stand up to what you think is right. Tell her that this is your relationship and not hers. Theres two seperate relationships in this situation. The one you have with your boyfriend, and the one you have with her (friendship). You need to make that clear that there two seperate things and you take it into offence when she "butt`s" in. I hope i helped. people butting into your relationship seems like it can really be a pain. Good Luck.

xO.Carrie

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ive always wanted to be on a hip hop dance team but never have and i really wanna be on one..how can i get on one? my school is gay and doesnt have one...i live in waterford michigan if you know anything plz lemme know. im an okay dancer but i dont know if id be good enough to be on a hip hop dance team...grr someone give me some advice please! p.s ima white girl lol

First off, your skin color has nothing to do with the way you dance. I`m white and i do all sorts of dance. It really depends on your spirit. =]. Next I think you should look into community districts around your town, perhaps do some research on google. Type in something like: Dance teams in Waterford, Michigan. Something like that. Or you can ask around to one of your friends if they dance and where they do it. Dance is such a wonderful thing to expierance and i think its great your interested. Good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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i have homecoming this saturdayy.. and i have no clue how to do my make up.. i have dirty blondish..hair andd a light blue and dark blue glirtty dress.. and i have green eyes.. and how should i do my hair! any tips! plz plz ill rate ya ;]

Aw wow what a fun question!! Ok so I think maybe you should where your hair half up and half down, with mega curls. just like at the bottom and maybe a few sprial curls. Really sexy. hehe Then I think you should wear Dark blue eyeshadow with a light blue shimmer to go over the top a little bit. I hope i helped. Have fun at hommcomming!! Mines in a couple weeks im pretty excited too!!

xO.Carrie

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a friend of mine wants her nose pierced... which side do you pierce if you r straight??!?!? she has her eyebrown pierced on the left... so wht does she do?!?!?!??!?!

Hah I dont think it matter what side you should get your nose pierced on. Sexuality is usally in the ears ( as oddly as that sounds ) but if i were her i`d get it on the right since she has her eyebrow on the left. Kinda make a change you know? Hope I helped!!

xO.Carrie

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Okay ..i got a really bad grade on my spanish thingy .. i got an E and ive never gotten an E in my life. I mean i got grounded for a C and who knows what will happen with an E .. im too scared to show my mom so i thought about forging bcuz i've done it before but im afraid that like one day im gonna have a parent-teacher confrence and my teacher is gonna show her that and her be like i never signed that. i dont want the simple answer honesty is the key or whatever i want what yall would do! i rate really good =) please help me now!!!

Been there, done that. You know i know you and everyone else doesnt want to hear this but "Honesty really is the best policy" forging it isnt going to help. Just tell your mom your sorry and that you`ll try harder. Your mom is proud of you no matter what and if it comes with a lecture, dont fight back just agree with everything she says. Trust me, arguing back is not the way to go. I`ve learned that the hard way. Hope i helped.

xO.Carrie

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im only thirteen and this guy is slitting his wrist ova me. I just found out the other day. He has asked me out like 10 times and evry time i said no, i dont like him. I signed him up for counseling and he convinced them that he stopped... just the otha day i found out that he IS still slitting himself. If I send him back to the counseler person then hell do the same thing. So what do i do? I dont want him to get hurt b/c hes one of my really good friends, so should i go out with him even if i dont like? Or should i let him hurt himself ova me. Help please!!!! ILL RATE YOU!

morgie

Ok this is a mayjor issue. Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you think hes a great friend and you love his personality but not in "that" kind of way. And tell him the only reason why your telling a counsiler is because you care. And if he doesnt stop you as a good friend NEEDS to go to a counsiler or an adult immidiatly and tell them what he`s doing. Tell them that he is lieing about stopping. I think they will talk to him and put him on a suicidal contract. Anymore questions, just drop one in my inbox. I hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

It`s called trust. Tell him if your going to be doing anything "sexual" with him that you need him to not go off and tell other people. Make sure you are both ready sexually and mentally, and use a condom. 13 is a little young to be having sex so make sure you go for what you REALLY want. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!

Wow you rock gurl! Saving yourself is the way to go i`m proud! Wow and this guy is being a jerk if he isn`t listening to you. Tell him that this is important to you and if he doesn`t understand that then he`s out. Good luck babe, and stick with abstinence, it`s your commitment and dont let one guy that you dont even know if your going to spend the rest of your life with, change that.

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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

Hun, Not all guy`s go for the "brittany spears" or "christina agulara" skimpy look. This just goes to show that your boyfriend is VERY mature and cares a lot about you and only you. You might even be taking this for granite. Cherish this boy and hang on to him.

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