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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her?

if he truely loves you, he will respect all of your decisions. if you dont want to have sex with him and he pessures you, dump him. but trust is escential in a relationship and he says he wont, so he might not.

i was a virgin when i started dating my boyfriend and he told me that he would not pressure me into sex. he didnt. i made the decision.

you just be yourself and stick up for your beliefs. dont let anyone force you into something you dont want to do.

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i herd somewhere that if a guy does you from the back you cant get pregnet.is that true? and if it is does that meen your still a virgin. alot of people on adviceators say having sex is inserting the penis into the vagina so is it not considered sex if he inserts it in the back? thanx to all that answer!

this all depends on which way you are talking about.

if you are talking about anal sex, then no you cannot get pregnant. and as for your virginity, its all in the way you look at it. it is a type of sexual act so in my opinion you are not a virgin if you do this but someone else might think differently.

if you are talking about like doggy style sex, then yo can still get pregnant because his penis is going into your vagina. a condom is nessisary and virginity is lost.

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Well....I come from Puerto rico and in Puerto rico there is a tradition when you turn 15....Well...I want to make a BIG and Huge Sweet 15 Celebration and I need lots of money to save.......So this is my question!!!!!

Umm How can I save money because I cant get a Job...So How Can I get Money and Save it!!!!!!


I dont get Allowance!!!

HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP!!!!!!!

the first thing i have to say is whoop whoop. puerto ricans are the bestest. i myself an puerto rican and my grandma and mom are already planning my quince for november. so congrats on this celebration.

well, as for money, babysitting is a common job for someone our age. i dont do it too often but it does pay well when i do. also, if you have a skill like playing piano or you're good at social studies, you could teach or tutor someone for a fair price. selling some of your old, unwanted things in a yard sale can get you some extra cash too.

when you get the money, put it in a special jar or something so you make sure not to spend it.

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Ok me and my girlfriend plan to have sex soon, the thing is that it is both of are first time and i know that sometimes it can be painful or uncomfortable for the girl. so i need some tips and advice on how to make it less painful/uncomfortable for her so she can enjoy it to the full. i dont like the idea of hurting her

It is most likely gonna hurt her no matter what but fingering her first can help to get her ready. Also, going slow and not too hard at first is also good. Ask her ever once in a while if she wants you to stop because it can get very painful for her.

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To start out, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we plan on getting married. I'm still a virgin, and I really want to loose it to him soon. Since he is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. But, I heard your first time hurts really bad, and you start bleeding as soon as you start. Is this true?

I mean, I know a lot about sex, and everything. And I am sure I am ready. I just want to know about the pain, and bleeding and all. I mean, my boyfriend has a rather large penis too. Any websites will be helpful. Thanks. =]

i lost my virginity to my boyfriend who is about 3 years older than me and has a large penis. the first time for me was painful, but i only bled a little. like the pain was tolerable but i used tampons, rode my bike on a normal basis, rode horses, did stuff that could tear my hymen. the first time is different for everyone though.

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15/m
hey.. I just got a myspace.. and I was wondering-where can I get a cool layout .. for a guy..
please don't suggest:
www.pimpmyspace.com
or anything full of girl layouts...

I've tried looking through google.. but they were all girly- even when I typed in "myspace layouts for guys"

thanks!

http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=layouts

i LOVE this site and it as layouts for guy and girls. just look under the sections for the type of layout you want.

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Well, tonight was my fourth time having sex. It hurt a little at first but then it kinda felt pretty good. It hurt very bad the first 3 times.
It felt like i wanted to like scream [in a good way]

I was wondering if this is normal? cuz i always heard it hurts until the 10th time. But, maybe a myth? hah.

Well, thanks =]

for me, it hurt alot the first time, and at the very beginning of the second time.

your situation is normal. mainly cuz everyone is different. there is no certain amount of time that it is supposed to hurt for.

and screaming is good. noise is good. my boyfriend loves it when im noisy. he says it makes him feel like a man. you might've orgasmed.

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this is a wierd question.. i know it depends on each girl but do you bleed ALOT ALOT if your still a virgin and the guy is big? like how much blood?

i lost my virginity to a guy who is big. he understood that it might hurt for me and that i might bleed so he went slow and not too hard the first time. after that time though, it was all smooth sailing. i only bled a little my first time.

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I am looking for a breed of dog (mixed is fine) that is especially good for children, and it would be great if it did not shed much. Thanks for any suggestions!

my answer be a chihuahua as long as you get it as a puppy and train it properly. if you do, they are gentile with little kids yet are fun companions for the older ones. they are also convenient as they can fit in a large purse.

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Where can you get funky iPod cases for less than $20?

I've searched everywhere. Even Google.

Please only answer this if you own a patterned iPod case, and you know exactly where to find one. "Maybes" are not helpful at this time.

haha i can help you here.
i bought this super coolie book called iCan iPod.
it has such cool stuff in it about iPods.

here are several sites that have TONS of cases.
a majority is under $30.

www.delapod.com
www.beckysbeads.com
thinkdifferentstore.com
everythingipod.com
store.apple.com
www.ebags.com
www.dlo.com

hope i helped any
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alright i am 14/ female and i am going to be a freash man this year, so since for the past like for ever i have been playin tackle foot ball on the teams with all the male class mates of mine i figured id try freshman foot ball, so i did, but today i just coulndt do it, our skool is very competive in the foot ball department and all, and even my own aunt and unkle think i shouldnt play cuz im gurl, and i must admit i was pretty good too , but today i quit because im sick of being th eonly girl and i wasnt having any fun, but then all day i have been crying because i REALLLY love the game, and i dont want the people who did support me to go to thinking that gurls cant play and then they next gurl could have it even harder then me, idk, well i guess my question is what should i do next? i cant even stop cryinbg for more then 2 hours

well if you really love the sport, you should have gone for it. you could always see if they have another tryout. i used to play roller hockey. i was the only girl but i didnt let that stop me. i used it to my advantage.

but if you really dont want to play football because you are the only girl, you could try aother sport. lacrosse is simular to football and is for boys and girls. field hockey can be an agressive contact sport if played right. there are always options.

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ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes

well, nothing beats a condom but i will admit that my boyfriend and i have done that. i was in your situation a while ago. he just took it out and i havent gotten pregnant yet. but i still get worried every once in a while. and that's the worst thing. but if you really want, tell him to get a condom or no sex. if he gets mad, then he's not for you.

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School is about to start in a few days, and I'm planning what to do with my hair. I normally put it in a pony tail because my hair is so big. I sometimes put it in a pony tail while it's wet and then use a clip...looks really nice. But that's all I know I can do that I can put up.
Does anyone know any styles to put my hair up in a nice style that's easy other than a pony tail?
Please if you do, can you give me some steps.

My hair texture: I have curly, black hair that looks thick but isn't. It gets kinda big when it's down so I put it in a ponytail. I have course hair too.

Thanks!

well, you could always straighten your hair to take away some of the thickness and to try something new. i have curly hair that's like that and my straightener works wonders for me.

also, sometimes i put my air in a side pony tail or pig tails. childish? yes but WAY cute? YESSIREE!! i also tie ribbions in my hair as an added bonus sometimes.

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what does having your cake and eating it too mean?

it means that you cant always get what you want

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