well i think i know whats missing.love.i used to love someone and i do feel a little stupid saying that considering im thirteen (but im deeper than most).im not saying my heart was broken or anything like that.i just stopped caring about them.but i was happy then.my life dosnt suck but i miss loving her.now i just dont care about her.i still feel like an emotionless monster with a hole in my heart.people really dont know me.istay home most of the time.im really shy and quiet.i can barely control my face its just always blank and expressionless and everyone thinks im mad but i could be in the best mood all day.so what's missing?
well you are right when you say you are to young to love someone considering that you Are 13. but i don't think it's love that is missing. Also i think that's just the way you are. i will tell you what i think you should do. Be open to people even if they see that blank expression on your face, talk to them warm up to them and get to know them while they get to know you. people are made different. you are not a monster with a hole in your heart. everybody has emotions yours is just afraid to come out because perhaps you don't ever want to find someone that you might stop caring about, but thats okay.
P.S-i am shy and quiet to but i try to talk to others and with that they warm up to me.
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Whats my future?
20 yearl old female Dorothy
i can't tell you your future, anybody that tells you they can is a liar. only you can decided what your future should be and You can ask God to lead you to the right part.
your very young and you still have time to do things. try different things and find one that you want to stick to.
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im male 15 almost 16 im gay ive been with my boyfriend almost 6 months hes 16 and i love him a lot and im not sure if it was too soon but i told him that i love him he didnt really say it back im a bit worried do you think hes too nervous or just not ready to say it or maybe it was too soon what should i do? should i worry about it?
well you just completely told your boyfriend your feelings and him not saying it back should i assume worry you. maybe he isn't ready. give him a little time. he will come around. in the mean time don't worry about it too much. And yes i do think he is a bit nervous. and saying your feelings for someone you love is never too soon or late (unless they die) in the meantime just e with him and go about your normal lives. before you know it, he will be like "i love you". so really, don't worry too much about it
hope i helped
bye bye
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I am a 20 year old female, and to give a better idea of myself, I go to school full time and work part time and would not describe myself as a huge partier. I was going out Saturday night, and my curfew is usually 2am (my mom is a big worrier). I was going to a party and asked my mom in advance if I could stay out a bit later, and we got into an argument and she refused. I ended up not getting a ride home until 3am, and my mom was up waiting for me and was furious. I didn't purposely do it out of spite, but nonetheless, it happened and she said my curfew was now 1am and if it happened again, it would keep getting earlier. How can I fix this situation? I admitted I was wrong, but I still felt that I deserved a yes to my request earier for a later curfew. Is there anyway I can get her to see my side? I just want some compromise.
Please don't take this the wrong way. You are twenty years old and your mother gives you a curfew of 2.am. Wow i admire you for that. you must be a very good daughter. most people will just curse at their mother and then tell her that they are adults and do whatever they want. wow i can't believe your mother doesn't realize how a great daughter you are and how lucky she is. at the same time i think she is worried here you are all grown up and she is afraid you will leave her soon. so whatever chance she gets she wants to keep you close by. tell her again what happened and ask her to understand. if she is not listen, sit down with her and don't change your story keep telling her what happened and get her to trust you again.
BYE! HOPE I HELPED>
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What is a quick and not so painful to kill yourself or how do I die? I'd rather not kill myself, I want someone else to do it for me... how do I go about doing this?
Woah...
I am not going to sit her and give you advice on how to kill yourself without even knowing why you want to do it in the first place (not that i need to) if someone else does it, it will be murder and i don't think they is a person in this world that would be soo stupid to do it. Beside suicide is not an easy and painful thing. it's not easy for the person doing it and it's not easy for the family that have to leave with it for the rest of their lives. Look whatever is going on, i know they is a trusted person you can talk to, go talk to them. taking yourself from this world when God hasn't said it's your time yet is going to be considered a sin. I am a christain and all i can do is pray for you and ask you to do the same so that God can help you
PLEASE Don't DO IT.
consider my response and everybody's else on here
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Well there's this girl I love, she cheated on me while she's away & despite what she did I still love her & miss her & want her back. Should I fight for her love ? What should I do ?
WOW! you don't want to spent your time regretting on what might have happened right?
I think it sounds like you really love her. if she feel the same, then she will feel sorry for what she did. In my opinion why not? take a chance. Fight for her love. save yourself some time and work things out. although at first your trust for her will not be ready, in time you will learn to trust her again which is the key ingredient to a great relationship
HOPE it WORKS OUT
BYE!
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My friend was in rehab for a few months and I was not allowed to have any contact with her. So, in that tine frame, I kind of have a new best friend. I got really close to this one girl, and she's probably a better bestie then theo ther ever was. My old bff was secretive, a liar, and ha horrible mood swings. She had a lot of great qualities too, but I'm just worried if anything will be remotely the same. She was my best friend, but I've kind of moved on. I still will befriends with her but not really bffs.. I'm also one of her only friends. She has like two others besides me. How do I handle this? Should I stick with her even though I don't really want to?
hey!
In my opinion, coming out of rehab, she will expect you to be there for her and for someone to help her get her life back on track. i know she might have put you through a lot of pain, but i think you should help her. Yes! if you don't want to be her best friend, just tell her. tell her that at this point you can't trust her enough for her to be your best friend and that you should take things one at a time. But at the same time, tell her you guys can still be friends and that you will help her if she needs it. will she be hurt? probably. will she hate you? No! if she is good person, which i know she is, she will understand and she will appreciate all the help you can give considering her situation. who knows maybe in the long run, you might learn to trust her again. just maybe!
GOOD LUCK
BYE! HOPE I HELPED
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im 16 male and im gay and i really like this guy hes 17 i have liked him for awhile i didnt do anything because he had a boyfriend they broke up about 2 months ago i still havent told him ive been waiting for the right time is it too soon after he broke up with the other guy like him a lot should i tell him or flirt to see if he likes me what do i do?
if he broke up about two months ago then then i think he has moved on....
if i was in your shoes, i will go for it because maybe soon he will find someone else and then it won't be you. so tell him you like him before he moves on with another person that will leave you waiting again for a break up.
with best hope
Good Luck!
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does the bible say to pay preachers give bible v,
Corinthians 9:6-7: "But this I say, He which soweth sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth bountifully shall reap also bountifully. Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver."
"Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him, that there be no gatherings when I come 1 Corinthians 16: 2...
I did some research and realized that no you do not have to pay preachers, no one is forcing you. but God does say if you bless a person, you will receive ten times as more. you give from your heart. also A church is God's home and when you give, you are not necessarily giving to the preacher but to the church itself which is to God since it's his home.
Give from the hear. what you give you get more of and don't give if you will regret it.
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around this time, we're all sneezing and coughing and stuff, but how can i tell whether or not this is just allergies or if i'm actually sick? i'm sneezing, coughing, runny nose, phlemy throat, and stuffed up nose. its one of those things where i cant breathe through one nostril. who can tell me how to tell whether this is a cold or just allergies?
it depends on the season that is one big clue to determining if its a cold or allergy. like all the symptoms. sneezing, coughing, runny nose, phlemy throat, and stuffed up nose. that happens to me when i get allergies each season. if it was a cold, you would get a lot of headaches and feel like sleeping all the time
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Anyone Belive or know if you go to heaven and if your married or a couple and something happend one of you. You not be with that person or not be married?
well as far as i know, if you are married and good Christians, followers of God, if both of you go to heaven, i don't see why not be together. IF you mean like something happens to one of you like one dies first before the other (God Forbid), then That really shouldn't change anything as long that you both go to heaven. you will still be married to that person and etc.
Hope i helped...
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im almost 15 male and for awhile i was unsure but now realise that im gay im really attracted to guys havent got much interest in girls i havent told anoyone about it theres a guy i really like were friends we hang out a lot together hes the first guy ive had strong feelings for im not sure what to do im nervous to say anything to him he might freak out im not sure if hes gay but how do i find out do i tell him how i feel?
hey! i understand...
as much as i have sympathy for you, telling him that your gay is not the first step for you. wow it's good that you realized your true self. the guy you like, you have to first try and find out if he is gay or not. don't come on too strong and yet don't make it obvious that you like him. if he is your friend, he will understand and answer you, make sure first that this is what you really want to do. if he is gay, tell him you like him, if he is not, take time but still tell him and get it off you chest!
hope i helped
"not easy. but not impossible"
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my friend was over my house she acts like a stud we switched cell phones for 2 day during them 2 day i got over 15 messages from her girlfriend saying stuff i dont even want to mention should i ask her is she gay or play like i dont know
sinceraly "cluless"
you should definitely mention something about those fifteen messages. don't come on too strong and say something like "are you gay girl"? At the same time say it so that she can answer you without feeling embarrassed. because if she finds out you knew something and didn't tell her she might be angry and also if you don't tell her soon, you might find yourself starting to avoid her and making excuses to leave etc.
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i want to go to this party but i'm not sure if my dad will let me. How do i ask if i can go? answer ASAP 2 hrs til the party! will make people favorite columist And give fives!!!
Just ask him
"dad, there is a party tonight and i was wondering if i can go" "my friend _put friend's name here, will be there"
"I am not sure I am okay with that" is what he will probaly say
" what about if i give when iget there i call you, and give you the phone number or something"
you probaly won't like this but it is the best chance you have at going lol.
Good LUck and i hope he says yes.
Just ask him!
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okay... so im 13 and my boyfriend just turned 14 he want to do setain thing that im afraid if i do i will get pregnant but the thing is i havent started my period so do think i will get pregant if i havent started my period.
woah, No i won't advice you to give up your virginity to your bf just because he turned 14. you will be in 7/8 th grade and that is just to young. what if you don't spend the rest of your life with him, you will look back and regret it forever, No i won't advice you to do that. And yes even if you haven't started you period, I am pretty sure you might get pregnant.
Please Avoid that!
Sarline
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Is 13 two young to date?
f 13
in my opinion it's too young to date. give yourself time or another year or so. that way you can make better choices on who to date. and also if you ask your parents, they will probably say yes lolz
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i am a lesbian and i am in love with my best friend. she told me she liked me a year ago and i told her i liked her too but when i asked her out a week later she told me she was straight and rejected me. We are still friends now. she has gotten over me but i still haven't gotten over her. Right now she says that i am the only person she trusts and that i am the last person she has to talk to. So even if what i should do is take some time away from her, i dont wanna hurt her and make her lose all she has left, so now i dont know what to do! Help me!
If you ask me, I really think she like you too. But she can't act on that because she has gone her whole life on being straight and if she just changes and becomes a lesbian, how will that impact her, negatively/positively, i think she is afraid and i think when she says she is the only person you can thrust, she means it. so i think you should be there for her and hopefully you will get over her or she will finally admit that she does have feelings for you.
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Well,here's the thing.I've started to feel strange around my guy best friend lately.It all started when we were at my place,he gave me a hug and I accidentally tripped when he was spinning me around,so we ended up falling,him on top of me.I was blushing furiously,and so was he.Every time he hugs me I feel this strange warmth,and today when he gazed straight into my eyes,I felt like I was going to faint and started blushing.Also,when he was hugging me before we said goodbye,I felt myself relax completely and when he let go I was angry he did.I think I'm falling for him...
girl you are definitely falling for him. does are all the signs of having a crush on someone. and by what you say, i think he has a crush on you too. go for it.
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Hi, I was wondering: I work at a pizza place, exactly how you tell your boss that you want to quit, that you've found another job, or just simply don't want to work. Should I make up an exceuse?
Just tell him you want to resign don't play around the bushes. just tell him you want to quit and make sure you are making the right decision thats all there is to it.
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the other day i was beat by my dad so bad im 16 and a guy but i can't stand up to him. he punched me in the nose once an threatened to kill me so i took a shotgun an put it to his head an told him to back the f*** off. i thought i made the point clear to him but the next day he had iron knuckles with him an nailed me in the forehead. im lucky i barely felt it i guess over the years ive become almost immune to pain. but i dont know what to do to have him stop without cops or foster care getttin involved i luv him to much even tho he busted my lip and my forehead open. luckily im ok i dont feel dazed or nothin from the hit. im lucky i moved backwards with the punch so it didnt get me bad just a lil blood. but if i hadnt moved i could probly be dead rite now........... any advice would be helpful............ but toher than my dad i have a goood good life an grl im a QB for my highskool and i make straight A's.... i need sum help plz
WOW!
the first thing i want to ask is, what causes your dad to act this way? normally a parent will be proud of his child for getting straight A's and being intelligent. wow! I am sorry to say this but you can only take soo much. Like you said if you hadn't moved the time he puched where will you be right now? i know you love your dad but at the same time you have to do what is best for you because when you do that, your not only helping yourself your saving your dad from doing something that he will feel soo much guilt about if it happened. and your only 16? i pray that you recieve help in this sitaution from someone that can help you and that you can trust. maybe have an intervation... just a suggestion. but at first try not to get in his way, if that doesn't work find out the what triggers his actions and try to avoid that...
bye is you have updates on things i would really be all ear! hope i helped
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