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i love my best friend, what do i do????
i am a lesbian and i am in love with my best friend. she told me she liked me a year ago and i told her i liked her too but when i asked her out a week later she told me she was straight and rejected me. We are still friends now. she has gotten over me but i still haven't gotten over her. Right now she says that i am the only person she trusts and that i am the last person she has to talk to. So even if what i should do is take some time away from her, i dont wanna hurt her and make her lose all she has left, so now i dont know what to do! Help me!
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If you ask me, I really think she like you too. But she can't act on that because she has gone her whole life on being straight and if she just changes and becomes a lesbian, how will that impact her, negatively/positively, i think she is afraid and i think when she says she is the only person you can thrust, she means it. so i think you should be there for her and hopefully you will get over her or she will finally admit that she does have feelings for you.
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this is a really hard subject. she meant it when she said she liked you. what she meant was that she needed you. something is going on in her life and she needs you help and love at this time. she may not need a relationship. i understand you love her but give her time. if shes straight dont push a rlationship onto her. you will find theperfect girl i promise <3
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my ex-husband would be a perfect person for this question we were best friends for 4years and he fall in love with me the very 1st day he meet me or so he says but i always told him i was not into him like that and we were just going to be friends well he never gave up hope and always keep me in is heart and after what he call for 4 years of hell we got together and it was not planed no one asked the other out it just happen and i believe that was because he never gave up on me. if you truly love this girl never give up because done of us no what the future has in store for us maybe it wont work now but you never no what going to happen. i do want to tell that it wont be a easy path if you decide to stay he friend and love her from a crossed the room because when she dates other people it will hurt really bad but if you think that there is some hope for you guys in the future then follow your heart (anything wreath having is wreath a fight)
now on the other hand if you don't think she will ever come around then try and then your feelings go but not your friends a good friend is hard to find and it sound like she is one and you mean a lot to her. wish you the best and hope that helps cc
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