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Age: 15
Member Since: May 31, 2005
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Last Update: January 23, 2008
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I want to make jello filled balloons like in the movie Now and Then.

I've googled this and only get things that say "fill the balloon with jello and such and such" but nothing specifically telling me how to go about this..

so if anybody knows how to do this or knows a website please help!

thanks much!! :) (link)
Just when the jello is still in liquid form pour it into the balloons and then put them in the fridge to harden.


I have a twin sister, and we are 2 minutes apart at birth, me being the eldest. My mom has always stressed to us that favoritism is highly inappropriate and rejected in a parent-child relationship, her being a victim of favoritism herself. But currently, I feel that secretly, my mom favors my sister more, and a lot of times I feel invisible to her. She rarely has time to listen and value my opinion on things, and this has caused us to grow apart.... What can I do to make my mom see and understand how I feel?

Thank you. =)
15/f (link)
Just talk to her about it. I know thats probably what everyones been saying, but seriously it should work. Just tell her you feel like your growing apart over this and explain how you feel. Hope I helped.


i think i may be bipolar or something like it how do i tell some1 i tried tellin my grandmother but yeah i dont think shes pickin up wut do i do ?
ps: i cant go to my mom or dad (link)
Well if you can't go to your parents just say "Gram I think I might be bi-polar..what should i do" and she what she thinks. There's really no need for dropping hints for this kind of problem expecially to your family.


My man's birthday is July 3rd what can I do for him? I want to do something that will just like blow his mind. Any ideas?? He'll be turning 22 and he is a Marine if that helps. I rate. (link)
You could take him somewhere he loves going or just spend the night/day at his/your house with him watching his favorite movies and eating his favorite foods. Like they say-- Little things mean the most.


In choir, we're singing the song "For Good" from the musical Wicked, if you know it. We had an audition for the solo at the beginning ("I've heard it said that people come into our lives.....but I know I'm who I am today because I knew you"). I had practiced singing it in a head voice. But I forgot that if I sing longer than 45 minutes, I can't sing any lower than the E above Middle C in a head voice. The director, suprisingly, called on me first, and I remembered that it had been 2 hours, and I definitely couldn't sing the low B in a head voice. So I had to sing it in a chest voice. In front of the whole chorus. Being a soprano, I have barely any experience singing in a chest voice. Nobody has ever heard my voice alone except for the director, so I was scared shitless. I was shaking all over the place, and I sang horribly. It was just awful. The director was totally suprised, since she knows about my stage fright woes. And the other girls did much better than me. The director knows I'm a good singer, but my audition was ghastly.


I'm sooo embarassed. What do you guys think of this situation? (link)
If she knows your a good singer, tell her the situation and ask her for another audition. Even if it may not seem really fair, you can always ask. Or say "I know this may seem wrong, but may I audition again, and explain why" Hope I helped


I have lived in my town for 8 years of my life and now my family is probably moving to a town about an hour away. when we move i'll b a freshman next yeAR( I'm a girl by the way) i don't know how i am going to possibly make new friends!! How do i talk to people and not seem all shy and stuff? I want to make new friends right away, but HOW? i need help!! Also when we move I'll have to break up with my boyfriend that i love so much. How can i deal with that too? I'll rate i promise!! (link)
Usually when you move to a new school most people will talk to you and want to get to know you. That's how it is around here at least. You'll be fine, I've moved enough times.


i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox (link)
Sorry hun but I think thats too young. Everyone nowadays keeps getting devorced and everything not long after they get married and at 16 I really don't think your going to have to want to go through with that. Sorry hun


ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO?? (link)
just try to make some new friends and have fun without them. you never know they might end up being jelous and want you back but you have the chance to turn them down then


Long story short a teacher who taught me last year (but i still have to see around)has never liked me and vice versa as she has a nasty habit of picking on students in a ridiculously childish and unprofessional way. Well I've always refused to be intimidated by her and although I've never been rude I've always stood my ground.

Now she knows I won't be intimidated she's taken to spreading false but relatiely harmless rumours to my teachers behind my back. And just today I found out she's been telling people I've changed my mind about a university place I've accepted which I certainly haven't. I have no idea where she gets these things from or if she just akes them up but I've had enough and really want to say something to her about this incident in particular (as obviously if it gets back to the university it will not look good).

Any suggestions as to what I should say that puts an end to it without being rude?

I'm leaving school in a few days if it helps.

Thanks for reading (link)
Hm that is pretty hard. I guess I'd just say to stay after class one day and talk to her. Just explain to her that there really is no need for false rumor spreding and that you'd like to end the grudge. Hopefully it'll all work out.


Im Graduating on the 6th of June and i need help to figure out a song. What song should it be? I want something about saying goodbye and probably upbeat but slow is cool. (link)
My faves probably..

Graduation by Vitamin C


well i am 13 and having my second child. that pretty much says it all. help? (link)
1) please please please don't have an abortion
2) next time try birth control//condom
3) be more careful sweetheart


Well i have brown eyes..and BLAH! i hate them..they are so dark and ..to me ..ugly!
all the gorgeous girls have blue eyes and i really wish i could have blue eyes..and im definately not getting colored contacts..my brown eyes make me feel so ..ugly. i always say to myself..if you were to have blue eyes you would be so much prettier..and i like this guy..but i think he likes his ex again..and what does she have? blue eyes. and i have brown hair..so on me i think it looks so ugly! i dont want to dye my hair blonde tho haha. on some girls brown hair and brown eyes is gorgeous..just not me. what do i do..my brown eyes are making me feel so..ugly.. =[ (link)
I'm sure there not ugly. Pretty much everyone hates how they look, but theres gonna be someone out there who thinks your beautiful and likes you for who you are. So don't worry about it. Just realize everyones different and beautiful in there own way.


Is it normal to be this paranoid? Like, I always close the window and watch my back because I think there's a camera or even a person watching me. But the thing that happens almost 24/7 is that when I write something personal, like a diary entry or something along those lines, I think someone's going to find it, read it, let everyone know about it, and ruin my life if I keep it around. If I put this stuff on the internet, I think someone I know will find it and do the same thing, or use it for blackmail. Is it normal to be paranoid like this? Is this even called paranoia? (link)
Uh I really wouldn't worry about it too much. That happens to me too. Also some other things, but if you really are worried about it maybe talk to someone you can trust about it. And maybe they can help you out.


Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves? (link)
I think it could work. You never know whats gonna go on in the high school world!


ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high (link)
Nope your not overweight at all! I'd actually say your pretty skinny. The taller you are the more your weights spread out so you can't really tell how much you'd weight just by looking at ya!


i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend told me that he said he liked me but how do i know if its true and also i am very shy and they said at our next basket ball game he was going to talk to me what should i do? (link)
just chill even though your shy you should still be able to talk to him dont worry about it if he talks to you just be normal like you are around your best friends--im sure hed much rather you be real than fake! And if you need to tell him that your shy im sure he'll understand


This may seem like a syupid question to some of you, but i've lived in LA California all my life. I was talking to my cousin on the phone (who lives on the east coast), and she mentioned something aout a 'snow day'. Ummm, what is that? Could we get one in LA? Thank you! (link)
It's where the snow is pretty bad, so we get off school for the day. But, you just have to make them up later in the year. And no, you probably won't ever have one in LA.


i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it? (link)
No, just don't get too too into it. Just don't let like every guy touch your butt. And sometimes its fun to yell at them =P!


I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.

I give fives. (link)
Well, personally at my school, I don't think anyone at my school cares. But, just don't make it seem like your a lesbian or anything and flirt with the guys you like and stuff like that. And sometimes its better to be single, so don't worry about it!


okay my boyfriend and i have different veiws of the millitary. i hate the millitary and he wants to join it. we made a deal not to talk about it but he always brings it up and then we get in a fight what shoud i do? (link)
Well, you could try something like when your together and talking say- I know we made a deal not to talk about this but I just wanna say something and then just tell him how much you'd miss him and everything if he does go into it. But just remember hun, you can't always decide his future for him.




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