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He wants to join the millitary
okay my boyfriend and i have different veiws of the millitary. i hate the millitary and he wants to join it. we made a deal not to talk about it but he always brings it up and then we get in a fight what shoud i do?
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Well, you could try something like when your together and talking say- I know we made a deal not to talk about this but I just wanna say something and then just tell him how much you'd miss him and everything if he does go into it. But just remember hun, you can't always decide his future for him.
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If he feels so strongly in favor of it that he truly wants to join, then it's not something that he's going to feel differently about in the near future. It sounds like it's ingrained in him and it's part of who he is. If you're that strongly against it then that is ingrained in you and that's just who you are.
If you are dating with the long-term goal of finding a mate, then the two of you probably shouldn't be together. If you guys got married one day and he joined the military, you would be resentful and he would be upset that you weren't supportive. This would lead to major problems in your relationship. I think there is someone out there who is a better match for you.
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Gosh my boyfriend does the same thing but about becoming a NAvy Seal.. I can understand what you mean.. I mean you can`t really stop him even though you want to so bad.. Just ask him not too cuz of how you feel.. *tell him how you feel* constantly remind hyim if you have too.. ♥ Dez
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You should stop being a god damned liberal and accept it.
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well..agreeing to disagree is the best answer in this case. you each feel differently on this opinon..so just you respect his opinion and he will respect yours. if it comes up in convo just keep telling him to agree to disagree
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