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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.
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Ok, i know this is really really bad but... me and my neighborhood friends, well the 3 of us, got together after school today and drunk sum alcohol and if that isn't bad enough we smoked banna peel after (to get high) idk why i did it..I'm a straight A student and com from a good background and hang out with goos school friends. Unlike my other 2 friends it had no affect on me but turning my pupils huge, and they're still like that now. I feel rele guilty and don't know wut to do...! Wut does it mean when ur eye pupils get rele big? And should i convest to ma parents or no way!
You probably gave in to peer pressure or you weren't thinking. Express how you are feeling through something you love to do. When your pupils get big, they let in more light so you can see more. Your senses probably increased so you can do a lot more things than when you aren't high. Tell your parents that something happened and you aren't sure where to turn. They should understand
I like a guy in my grade but there are few problems. First, all my friends hate him. And then he is about a foot shorter than me. And then of course, the popular girls of my grade are laways flirting with him, though I doubt any of them would actually date him. I sit next to him in one class, but I can't ever talk to him. It would be awkward for me to ask him out because I'm not sure if he likes me because he's always trying to impress his friends who don't like me, but when they aren't around he's nice to me. How should i approach him?
Don't care about what your friends think. They can't choose who you like, and who you go for. In class talk to him in a casual way and tell him how you feel.
i think i have social anxiety. i have loads of the symptoms from this site i went on, like i'm scared to be anxious, and also when a teacher tells us we can ask for help, i can't, incase anyone is watching or listening and i might make myself look stupid, or something. but the thing is, my mum doesn't believe me, i broke down in tears in the car today and i said i probably have social anxiety (i'm scared because i have to do work experience, i've been placed in an estate agent and i don't want to BE an estate agent). she thinks i'm just shy, but the thing is, on this site it says people will often say you are just shy, but it's worse than that, i do want to be all social but i get scared i'll make a fool out of myself. what can i do about it, cos it's affecting my education and i don't have a social life =( thanks xo
If you need to ask questions, you can always go to people after class when no one is around. DOn't care about what other people think when you ask a question. People in your school probably feel the same way you do. You can always do some research for yourself and see what happens. Slowly make some friends and you can always talk about your problems with a counselor or someone you trust
Sorry its long.
My best friend is coming to my school, she went there once but people dont remember her because it was like 2-3 years ago. Well She is short and pretty and she has nice clothes and she is coming to my school on friday and I am afraid she is going to get into the popular kids in my school. How can I provent this? I dont want her to think the I am one of those friends who doesnt want her to hang out with anybody but me, you know. But I also dont want her to make bad choices on friends and then loose her other friend.
Keep with her, always hang with her and see what she does. Maybe you can hang out with the people that she wants to hang out with. Talk with her and see what she plans on doing.
Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--)
My views on FWB is that you are still friends but not as good as you used to be. Things change and thats ok. Outcomes are that you both get time to think and time to yourselves. Benefits, you get to make new friends and you can stop thinking about wishy-washy details that don't matter.
Hey! Ok, I have to give a speech in 2 weeks about the Great Wall of China. We're studying China and you got a list of things you could make your speech about and I picked the Great Wall. You were allowed to have a partner, but only one of my friends is in my class, and she's friends with another girl, so they're partners. I have to give a speech by myself, and I'm so terrified. I've never liked speeches. It's so hard and I always forget what I'm supposed to say, even if I've rehearsed it a thousand times! And to make things worse, it has to be a MINIMUM of 5 minutes. I'm so scared and don't know what to do. Does anyone have any tips on not being scared? And any good ways to memorize a good speech? And also, any good sites about the Great Wall would be appreciated. Thanks so much!
Imagine the audience as all the people you know and think about something you would all be doing. You can recite your speech to your family and even some friends but you can make the groups you recite it to, gradually bigger that way it seems more like an audience. SOme good websites are AskJeeves.com (just type in your question and a whole bunch of websites for China will pop up) Google (lotz of info) tons more. Plus there are encyclopedias and books tooo
I have a big eating disorder, and no, it's not anorexia.. it's the total oppsite. I'm addicted to food.. :( But mainly 1. Chocolate. I've lost alot of weight, but then I drastically gained it back because I just can't stop eating chocolate. It's weird, I have to have at least a peice of something chocolately every day, or else I don't want to eat because nothing seems appealing. I bought my boyfriend a ton of chocolates for our 1 year anniversary, but he left them at my house and doesn't want to get them untill this upcoming weekend... and my God i've eaten a ton of them. There's at least 300 chocolates in there, and i've eaten like 30. I can't stop eating. I just have completely no will power anymore, and I need some motivation. Someone please help me. I'm running out of solutions.
Find other foods that don't contain chocolate. Throw away anything thats chocolate and it will help motivate you to stop
i'm about to have a bath and wash my hair, can you help? every time i wash my hair, i use pantene pro-vo, then i blow dry it, and it's really frizzy, even when i use all the frizz ease products on it. how can i stop the frizz? is there any particular way to wash my hair, or how to rinse it easily after putting in shampoo/conditioner? when i've got out of the bath, what should i do to my hair? i have stuff like gel spray, mousse, frizz ease, heat protection spray, hair straighteners, hair spray and stuff like that, but i'm not sure what to use and in what order, because i really need to stop the frizz tomorrow, i get really fluffy/flyaway hair and i'm getting teased because of it =(
Don't use so much hair products because that can actually make things worse. Stop the frizz by noy using a lot of shampoo/conditioner. Only use about a nickel or quarter size depending on how short or long your hair is. Don't use all those hair care products because they are known to make things worse. Maybe you aren't completely rinsing shampoo/conditioner out of your hair, but that happens. Straighten your hair every morning, our put your hair in differnt styles and that will help control the frizz
well i'm 13 and i'm a female and i totally broke out on my forehead and i have a dance coming up!! i need help on how to get rid of it fast!! any advice or suggestions? also, is it because i ate chocolate or like junk foods? (i've heard that the reason people break out...)ThAnkS fOr uR HeLp!!! *i RaTe*
Wash your face real well every morning and night with soap or face wash. DOn't cover them up with makeup because that can make things worse. Junk foods aren't the only things that cause breakouts. It can be sweat, stress, makeup, or just putting your hands on your face. Avoid that as much as possible and thigs should be fine.
ok when i was 13 i dated my boyfriend nows best friend... i am now 16... he was my first love... i was in love with nathan (my boyfriend nows best friend) for almost 4 years....i have just recently got over him... i got over him when i was 15... i am now 16... paul(my boyfriend now) doesnt understand how much work it took to get over nathan... now paul still talks to nathan.. but i need nathan out of my life and paul is bringing him back into it... i dont know what to do to keep paul but also keep nathan out of my life... i dont want to tell him to chose cuz thats not right.... please help!!!!!!
i do rate!
Keep your boyfriend. When Nathan comes into the picture, don't be rude about it, but think about a way to leave it be. You can always avoid Nathan if you choose. If you don't want Nathan in your life, let him know how you feel!
I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...
Morning sickness, wierd eating habits, crankiness, but if you want to be 100% sure, take a test
Anyone know of any good jobs for a 13 year old to earn money other than helping neighbors or a lemonade stand?
Babysitting, helping around the house
i have like this girl at school and like she like hates me cause like she thinksim a prep wich i like am and like i want to like jump her but i like dont want to like humiliate her u know like wut do i do
Don't jump her, ignore her. She wants you to react badly.
Ok. well yesterday I asked a question about breaking up with someone without having them hate you. I broke up with him.. and now i am regretign it SO much!! sometimes i think that i ruin everything good that happens to me.. everytime i feel the same way about someone... i tell them i dont like them for some reason.. why do i do this? is it because i think im just not ready? or am i just a heartbreaker..? help pleasssssssse!!!
You probably just aren't ready and thats ok. You will know when the times is right and then things will be more clear
does anyone know any really funny jokes or any joke sites?
ebaums.com has jokes
Is a disco party a good party for a 12-year-old turning 13? My little sister is thinking of doing that for her birthday, and I was wondering what everyone thought.
I think its a good idea for a party. Sounds fun
At lunch time i sit with all my friends and stuff and later on in lunch some guys come join us well theres this ine guy named Brian and sometimes he'll message my shoulders just outr of the clear blu,and flirts with me and other stuff but shuld i flirt back?? I really like him but he has a GF
I jst need some ideas please ill rate
Flirt back and see what happens
ok theres this girl and I like her but i want to stop. see theres this guy and hes a big sweet talker guy, the guy that everyone loves no matter what. well i've liked this girl for a long time and I told her i liked her and she said she liked me to and then the sweet talker comes along and i get so pissed cause he cant stick to one girl. well it just breaks my heart whenever she ditches me for him and the girl and i are good friends and well i know i cant get over her by forcing myself and i dont know how to tell her this. can you help?
Get over her! Think about someone else and other things that will help clear your head
I love my bpyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys. This is the problem..
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I love him a lot. Before I ever went out with him I always likes this other guy! Lets call him Mike. Well Mike and one of my best friends went out off and on for about 5 times. I never told anyone that I liked him and no one knew. Now Mike told me he liked me and he wants to go out with me! I dont know what to do because I like Mike also and I like my boyfriend. There is this new guy who came to school and I think I'm starting to like him to. I already feel jelous when someone flirts with him. We talked a couple of times tho and I like him. My boyfriend is very complicated at times! We have had some issues but we all worked it out! I dont know what to do!!! I like all 3 of these guys! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I love him and I also want to go out with Mike and I like this new guy! Please help! I`l rate good I promise! Thank you.
Stay with your current boyfriend and go on with him! Become good friends with the other 2 and talk to them about your feelings.
ok.. so i totally screwed up talking to this guy i liked at skool... see im fine when i talk to guys but i get tooooo shy when i like them. so the plan didnt go so well to tell him that i like him.. and now i feel so embarassed because i was soo shy and im all mad at myself and stuff... soo tomorrow i was debating on weather or not i should go to school and i want to but i dont kno wut i would do or say so if i do go to skool and run into him what do i do or say? or should i not even go to skool? pLEASe HelP!! i rate high!
Don't be mad at yourself. Talking to boys can be difficult especially since you have no idea how they will react to what you are saying. IF you run into him, tell him that you feel bad about what you said and you can try again by thinking about something else that doesn't make you shy. Just go to school and act normal.