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im karlyn.
i love volleyball.
and soccer.
and my boyfreind.
people tell me im good at giving advice.
so i joined this page.

ask any questons you have. cuz i will answer.
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okay the board i want is the burton gtwin. but where im getting it only has it in 153 cm. I am about 5'5/ 5'6 and weigh about 125. my shoe size is about an 8 1/2. is this the right size board? if not, what is ? and what size boats and bindings do i need? if it helps, i'm getting all burton. (link)
hey so your board should go up right under your chin. so i guess you will have to measure it. as far as boots go, basically your shoe size maybe a 1/2 size smaller so they are snug. and you will want step in bindings. they are the ones that you just "step in" and strap your boots into


I'm going to winterball.. And I was wondering what kind of hairstyle I should get?
My hair pretty much does anything, so that doesn't matter.
If you could send me a site or anything that has good hairstyles that'd be great!
14/f
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well if you 'winterball" is anything liek my winterfest, then its a lot less casual, but still you would wanna waer a shorter dress, and with shorter dresses it looks best with your hair down, or at least half down


OK this is a reallllly weird question, But me and my friend are 13, and she is in a size 36 A and i'm in a 30-32 A.....and she alrdy has cleavage!!! But i dont, and i was wondering how big your boobs have to be to get cleavage lol, i was wondering if there is anything i can do to get it? (link)
hey well for starters, the number, such as 32 or 36 is how big around your chest is. So it doesnt matter if you have a bigger number, you will have "A" size boobs. As far as cleavage, it's all depending how you wear clothes, and bras you wear. Even if you have A size boobs you can wear a push up bra or soemthing and you will have cleavage.



I'm trying to get my music from ares over to my itunes. I clicked open external then it just goes to Windows Media. I don't know how to get it over to itunes. I've tried dragging the music, I also tried clicking file then clicking add folder to libary but that don't work either.. How could I get my music over to itunes? Thanks in advance! (link)
okkk. so go to to where you can see the name of the song. just like the file it's self.
1. Right Click ON it
2. Click Open With...there should be more than 1 choice.
3. Click on Itunes and you're song will open there.

hope that helped!


I, just like everyone else, want a flat stomach.
I've done crunches, I've done cardio and the
pooch and buldges are still there. My best friend
has totally flat abs and she followed the
same routine, so I got fed up and I quit.
(btw, 15 female, 122lbs)

Now volleyball seasons back and our
uniforms are long sleeve and spandex so
everything shows, I really don't want
to walk around school with buldges.
Does anyone know any routines to keep my
tummy flat?
Thanks, and I'm sorry for the usual question
I've tried so much, and nothing has worked. (link)
hey...the main problem that everyone has when they try to get a flat stomach is they are doing the wrong exercises.

you need to work off fat, because you can have the strongest abs ever, but there still is fat over them, so just work that off. swimming is a really good exercise to trim off fat, and you dont even feel like you're sweating.and trust me i know how you feel about those spandex jerseys, i play volleyball too.

good luck!


what are some fun ways to make out? anything..techniques, ect.

thaqnks=] (link)
welll theres not much you can change about the actaull making out. but you can try doing it with an ice cube in your mouth. lol seriously. ive done it, and its differnetn and fun..

but also you can just do it different places...just change it up.


me and my bf have been dating for 3 months today! and i love him... i really do! and he loves me too! we pretty much been each others first for everything! first real love you know? and well we talked about having sex tomorrow and i really want to but i want peoples oppinions! i'm 14 and he is 16 but we are both fish in highschool!

also how much does it bleed when a boy "pops your cherry"?! (link)
Ok wow. first of all hun. I think no matter where you live...that's illegal. And if you're asking people's opinions on here, then you're obviously not 100% comfortable with what you're doing, which means the timing definitly isn't right.

Trust me, I'm 16 and i still dont even think that I'm old enough, because I think of it this way, I mean, if you have sex now, then once you get married...What is there to look forward to?

I would say don't do it.


I'm lesbian. My girlfriend was fingering me and she tore my hymen. Does that mean that I'm not a virgin anymore? I'm 15 and I've never had sex with a guy...

I'm clueless!
Please help. (link)
If you ask me...I would say no. But then again, that's because in my opinion losing your virginity is when a girl and a guy...well ya know. do their thing. but since you might not ever do that its really just up to you. some people say that you arent a virgin anymore if you had an orgasm...so its really whatever you want to say...
sorry to not give you a direct answer.


Alright, heres the deal. I'm 16 years old and a little while ago my boyfriend came over and we fooled around a little bit..and we went a little further than we usually do, but were careful all the same, but still there was a chance that I could've gotten pregnant. I don't really need to go into it because the next day i got my period. But i don't know if that makes me safe or not..? Because i got my period the next day, does that mean I didn't get pregnant? I'm starting to get nervous as I think back on it. (link)
hey i was actually in the same situation as you were. i got my period the day after. i'm not pregnant. if you got pregnant you're period might have stopped afer a couple days then started later, or it would have just stopped completly. so you jsut have to wait, and if you are nervous, take a pregnancy test, it calms your nerves, trust me


16/f. Eh, I feel like such a goody-two-shoes all the time. The other day, my friend asked me, "what's the craziest thing you've ever done?" and I couldn't answer! The only thing I could think of was, like, driving in my friend's car when she couldn't legally drive people yet. Gosh, what a rebel I am, right? Haha. Idk, I just feel like I never do anything daring or extreme and it seems like all of my friends have. The farthest I've ever gone with a boy is like, hold hands and most of my friends have gone way farther and have had like a lot more boyfriends than I've had. Ugh. I mean I'm alwaysss studying and taking school way too seriously and yes, I make the honor roll and get good grades, but seriosuly, I'm afriad I'm gonna wake up one day when I'm 30 and think to myself that I wasted all of my teenage years and never took a chance doing anything fun. My sister, for example, is always out all the time doing sometimes crazy things, but she always has fun and spends her time doing exciting things with her friends; I go out sometimes but I'm always home at like 9:00 and sometimes I'm just sitting home bored on a Friday or Saturday night with no plans and my sister is ALWAYS out at an awesome party( I honestly can't remember the last time she didn't have any plans; maybe like 4 years ago?). I love my friends and all, but the most exciting thing we do is go to the mall or out to eat. What I'm asking is; what can I do to have more fun and do something crazy so I can look back on my teenage years and know I had a good time? Sorry this is practically as long as an essay, lol. (link)
Listen, don't try and change to fit in. Keep your grades and study habits up, they will help in the long run.

but set aside some time for hanign out and having fun, especially on the weekends, just go and hang out with some new people, and just let loose everyonce in a while. just dont be afraid of anyhting and go for it.

live by this....
you only have one life...live it to it's full extent.


i had sex for the first time today
it was hard for him to get it in for a while cause im pretty tight i guess
he got it in and it was okay
but we didnt do it for long

after i realised i bled all over my bed
more then i thought i would
it was horrible
but i covered it up well!


is this normal?
its like quite a few hours later and im still bleeding a little bit
is this okay?!?!?!!

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hey hun.
you dont have anything to worry about. you just "popped your cherry" which is basically like tearing a thing layer of skin, so theres obviously going to be some blood. it might bleed for a few days, but you really dont have anything to worry about unless it goes on much longer than that...



The 2 troubles I'm having with in volleyball are Diving and Blocking... so I need advice on that

Diving- is there any way to prevent floor burns and make it easier for my arm to slide on the floor? How do you rollover on your shoulder blade when you've made the pass?

Blocking- I am scared of getting hit in the face, any advice on how to solve this? I also close my eyes when I jump, how do I keep my eyes open?

Thanks, you're all amazing (link)
hey ok. for diving. there really isnt much you can do about the floorburns. ask any volleyball player...they're always going to happen. but just be careful of the way you hit the ground cuz you can dive and not skid your arm on the ground. and as for the roll...you kinda have to flip to one side then basically to a backwards sumersault. its hard at first but when you're going fast it really works well.

for blocking...9 times out of 10 you arent going to get hit in the face. unless your like 10 feet tall then the only thing making it over the net is your arms and hands, so they are what is going to get hit. just make sure that when you are blocking a ball you push your hands over and snap your wrists so that the ball doesnt come down on your side cuz thats when you run the risk of getting hit in the face. and you shouldnt close your eyes because you really most liekly wont get hit. its just something you have to get used to.


hey...i got this big-ass bruise from my brother slamming my arm in a door...twice...and its all like dark brown and yellow...and i know that it turns yellow when its getting better but it keeps getting more brown and blueish instead...is that bad? what do i need to do? (link)
hey. a bruise is just broken blood vessels and basically old blood in that area. so ice it...but theres really nothing else you can do. dont worry about it at all.

:)


What's the differnce between french kissing and makeing out? Cause people always say there's a differnce, but I see them as the same. Cause they don't they both involve tongue? I don't know, I'm confused. What's the differnce?! (link)
i think they are basically the same thing. but people just refer to making out more. and i think that when people think of making out they think less tounge but thats really not true.


Alright, im having trouble finding something to get for my bestfriend for christmas. Gift cards are outta the question. I have to get her something good she is my BESTFRIEND. What are some things you are getting your friends? and also she has started shopping at hollister and i was thikning f getting her a shirt or something but i dont shop there so i dont really know what shirts from there are good, what ones do you like?

thankss in advance
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hey well i know you said gift cards are out of the question...but i did this for my best freind once. but you kinda have to be willing to spend money on her.

i bought her a cute purse and wallet. and then i bought a few gift cards for like 5 or 10 $ each and put them in the wallet and put it in the purse. and idk she liked it.


alright, well i need some songs about a girl liking a boy and everything.

and i'm not really into rap. more rock kind of stuff, so if you could just name me any songs you'd know, i'd really appreciate it.

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hmm. well theres really tons.
but a good ones is
i caught fire...by the used?

and lots by graham colton band and all american rejects and some by cartel



so technically, im not having too many troubles.but i can never think about anything to talk about on the phone iwth my bf.we just started going out and on the phone, we're always silent.i get the feeling im makin him bored when i dont talk.we get into subjects every now and then but on for a few minutes.and im always thinking, "should i talk to him about my day?maybe i should ask him random questions?" and its so confusing.i hate my self for being shy (link)
hey dont worry. you just started dating. things are gonna be weird at first. it was the same way with me and my boyfreind. just talk about eachother. you learn soo much about your boyfreind, and then he will learn about you, which in turn brings you two a lot closer, tell him how your day was, tell him anything. just be open with everything. hes your boyfreind, im sure he has things he wants to know.



I have had sex with girls before and I like it when I am doing it except I want to stop and when my friends that I do it with come over we say we wont but it seems we always do no matter what. HELP PLEASE I am a Christian and I dont know why I am doing it I feel bad after but then lust comes in my life please help me get rid of it. HELP me give ideas or anything cause right now I feel my lust coming back and my friends in the other room waiting for me I said I was checkin my mail help what do I do.....!!!!!!!!!! :( (link)
hey. well just realize that...yeah ok so you're not supposed to have sex before you're married...but then again...look at all the people who have. you're not a bad person. i know how you feel. but if you dont have a problem with these things...why dont you just do everything but sex? and make sure that you're freinds know that.

OR. if you dont want to do anyhting at all. then just straight up tell all your freinds how it is. i know this is cheesy, but if they dont like you for it...then arent they just using you? real freinds dont do that.

good luck :)


14/f =]
so, im having my boyfriend
over on saturday so we can
exchange christmas gifts and
maybe watch a movie? i'm not
sure what movie to get and what
other things we could do. also,
i need conversastion starters so
things dont get awkward. i hate
that =/ i know, i sound pathetic
but i've been spazing for the
past week about it. also, im baking
him cupcakes and making him a huge
card out of poster board. i was
wondering should i get something
else? if so, what? (link)
hey hun.
first things first.
hes your boyfriend already. you got the hard part over with. he oviously likes something about you. so just be yourself. dont stress over what movie to watch. just go to blockbuster and pick out a few of the new releases or something like that.

also besides movies...maybe since its like christmas you could make decorate cookies or make a gingerbread house? just something that you two can do together. and ps. frosting and boyfriends are fun. just have fun with whatever you do.
play games. just hang out and talk about anything. christmas, new years, sports, school, friends...just whatever is on your mind

have fun:)


so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|

15/m (link)
hey im 16. and ive done stuff with a guy who wasnt. yeah its a little differnet. but it didnt really make me not want to do stuff. I mean, at first i was just like...um this is different. but i dont think it really matters.




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