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AM I OR NOT (SEXUAL)
I have had sex with girls before and I like it when I am doing it except I want to stop and when my friends that I do it with come over we say we wont but it seems we always do no matter what. HELP PLEASE I am a Christian and I dont know why I am doing it I feel bad after but then lust comes in my life please help me get rid of it. HELP me give ideas or anything cause right now I feel my lust coming back and my friends in the other room waiting for me I said I was checkin my mail help what do I do.....!!!!!!!!!! :(
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Society, and your religion, tells you you should feel guilty about this. Don't. People are sexual beings, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Feeling lust for someone isn't going to destroy you, and you're not going to Hell. It's NOT a good idea to have sex whenever you want, only do it with someone you love and USE PROTECTION. Find a healthy outlet for the lust. Write erotic stories, or just fantasize.
No matter what, don't blame yourself for the natural feelings that you have. That is unhealthy and will lead to bad decisions.
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Greetings,
It's perfectly normal to feel lust, and it's also perfectly normal to masturbate.
Your guilty feelings may arise because you're not being true to yourself as a Christian. The guilt that you feel now is nothing compared to how you'd feel in nine months if one of these young ladies announces her pregnancy.
What's your rush to have full blown intercourse, anyway? Please remember during every sexual encounter, there's a chance of pregnancy or STD's (have you been tested?) even with the use of condoms (they break, sometimes).
Communicate your anxiety with these young women...if you can't talk to them about your feelings, what are you doing sleeping with them?
Honestly,
Cavatica
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hey. well just realize that...yeah ok so you're not supposed to have sex before you're married...but then again...look at all the people who have. you're not a bad person. i know how you feel. but if you dont have a problem with these things...why dont you just do everything but sex? and make sure that you're freinds know that.
OR. if you dont want to do anyhting at all. then just straight up tell all your freinds how it is. i know this is cheesy, but if they dont like you for it...then arent they just using you? real freinds dont do that.
good luck :)
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no offense but that's a real shame especially since you're a christian. you wouldn't do this if you were a truly devoted christian. but my advice if i guess wow, i'm really not sure i think you're in a tough situation .. it's temptation
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