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So I currently have bangs across my forehead, and they are definitely not working very well - I have a horrible cowlic right in the front of my bangs. (causes horrible split and the bangs to stand straight up)

I was wondering if my hair would work to where the part was sort of like Lauren Graham's - further over to the side. (I'm getting my hair cut tomorrow and I'm trying to decide if I should have her go ahead and cut my bangs how they are or if I just have her trim them so I can grow them out) Are hers completely side bangs, or is the part just further over?

Here's a couple picture of what I mean: http://images.askmen.com/galleries/actress/lauren-graham/pictures/lauren-graham-picture-1.jpg

http://images.askmen.com/galleries/actress/lauren-graham/pictures/lauren-graham-picture-5.jpg

that's a little tough.
i think it would work out fine.
but if it doesnt then i suggest bobby pinning the side so the cowlic.
hers are side bangs i believe.
try it! you might like it!
and if it doesnt work out you can always try somehting else!

hope i helped(:

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For my tattoo, I'd like piano keys across my shoulders and a quote either above or below them. So far I found two beautiful quotes. Shakespeare's "If music is the food of love; play on." and Henry Ward Beecher's "Of all the music that reached farthest into heaven, 'twas the beating of a loving heart." Both have music and love, which is what I wanted since I am in love and love playing piano, but I just cannot pick!

that's no contest!
Henry Ward Beecher all the way!
the first one sounds just weird.
no offense, it's a beautiful saying but..
i wouldnt want something saying food on my arm for some reason.
i'm just saying what i would prefer.
and Henry's just sounds so awesome and cool.

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so this friday is my dad's birthday. he REALLY wants the new iphone. my mom is gunna give me enough money to go to the store and buy it, but the thing is, is that i'm 15. and my mom is working all day friday, and she really wants me to go get it so we can watch him open it and stuff. i'm 15..and not driving yet..but my friend, who's a year older than me, 16..said that she would drive me to go get it for him while my mom is at work. BUT..my dad is gunna be home with me on his birthday during the day..so...i need to come up with an excuse of WHY i'm leaving..the only think i've thought of is i'm going to a friends house and she's coming to pick me up...or that were going out to eat or something..but i want to have a reason of WHY i'm going out, without him being suspicious..cause we really want this to be a big surprise..

so..any suggestions?? THANKS!

how about you're gunna hang out with her?
you know shes gunna pick you up and go to her house.
i think a dad would fall for that!
just act like your gunna hang out.

i hope i helped!

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I sold a friend a car about two years ago which was financed. I then last year bought a car from him and still owe him $1800.00. Last year, he was driving the car and overheated it. the repair was going to cost $4000. he did not have the money. So I said my credit to ruined anyway why don't we just let the car go back to the bank. Didn't here form him for a while. Then this april he said the garage he took it to would buy the car for $2500 and give him check in my name. The guy gave him the check and I sent the guy a bill of sale saying once the check was deposited in my account within 30 days I would send the title after I paid off the bank. we had not made payments on it for months, but the bank said we could pay it off instead of the $4300 owed for $2900. For months I tried to get the check from my friend. He kept putting it off. Now, this week he says he deposited the check, that his wife wrote a bunch of bad checks and the money is gone.

Any ideas how to clean this mess up. The bank is expecting the money, i still owe him $1800, the mechanic has been expecting the title, my friend now owes that guy $2500, I am sure he has put a mechanics lien on the car, I didn't authorize any repairs on it. If I find the car, I could tell the bank, but they will take it back and auction it off, and still there will be the mechanics deal.

Help!

i suggest you go to court!

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\So there's this guy. I don't have any feelings for him at all, honestly. He's just really nice to me and we could be friends. But there's something he does that really annoys/confuses me. I want to know what he thinks of me.

During class, he's always calling my name and like whenever I'm in the hallway and he's behind me, he catches up to me just to talk to me. Sometimes he even ignores his friends for me.

Sometimes I ignore him but he insists on talking to me. And like usually when we talk I think he's fun and easy to talk to. He also does this to another girl in my class, Sarah. He is closer to Sarah than he is to me. He has a grlfriend too, Mimi.

Okay so here is the problem. I don't mind that he has a girlfriend and a girl friend that he's close to. I don't have feelings for this guy. If it matters, I used to have a crush on him and I told him after I got over it. It didn't affect him, so I don't think that's important.

But the problem is sometimes when we talk I think he's really annoying because he brings up Mimi and Sarah, right? And he's like, "You know, Mimi is so perfect. She's so frikking cute."
Like, literally, out of nowhere. We aren't talking about relationships, crushes, or who we prefer or ANYTHING. We could be talking about a movie or a celebrity or something funny that happened in class that has nothing related to Mimi or Sarah and all of a sudden he goes, "Sarah is so pretty and cute. So cute." It's like, why are you telling me this?

Whenever this happens, I pretend I don't mind and go, "Yeah, she is adorable!" and then like get quiet because I don't know what else to say.

To be honest, I find it insulting that he brings up girls in my conversations. I know he doesn't talk about me that way to Sarah or Mimi. I don't mind if he does, but, c'mon guys, you wouldn't like it if your girl friend (just a friend) talks to you constantly about other guys.

So should I stop talking to him? It's getting on ym nerves. He's nice and all, but is he disrespecting me? What do you, a guy, think is on his mind when he does this? Maybe I'm overthinking it??

from my view of this, he seems to wanting to make you jealous.
but i'm not a guy, just givin ya my p.o.v.
you could ask him why he brings up these girls?

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http://littlebutterfy09.weebly.com/index.html Please let me know what you think and there are things i like put about me what kind of thing was get people interess more?
thanks

maybe add a little something that you're just like everyone else?
some people are weird about that, rude people!
btw, i love your art!
it's beautiful!
you could let people
comment on things possibly?
i hope i helped!

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i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and i was wondering, if you were going to get a present from your girlfriend, would you want a photoalbum?

Guys, please answer truthfuly. And girls, id like past experiences or stuff. Thank you so much. Im so nervous he wont like it =[

well, my sister did that to her boyfriend.
and put all this sweet stuff in it.
and then broke up with her.
sooo, i don't know what that means but don't put effort into it.
she regrets it!

sorry, not trying to make you sad about your wonderful idea! but just speaking from experience.

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(18/f) One of my really good friends confided in me and told me that they are thinking of committing suicide, and he made me promise i wouldnt tell anyone. I'm really scared for him and im not sure what i should do. i tried talking him out of it as much as i could but i am still scared he might do something.

you HAVE to tell someone.
if he actually goes through with it you'd regret it.
and remember, if he's not your friend after this, you'll know that you saved his life.

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I just moved into my new apartment and I'm really nervous to be alone! It's a stupid fear, I'm sure, but I'm having a hard time falling asleep now. Are there any ways to cope with nervousness? Can anybody say something to make me feel safer alone in my new apartment? I know I live in a good neighborhood but... :\ IDK!

you could get some extra locks?
and remember to lock the windows.
i can't think of much else.
just remind yourself everyday that you're safe.

i hope i helped in some way(:

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which ones help curb your appetite the best?
or just work well in general?
dont lecture me about losing weight by excercising. of course im going to do that too.

I agree with LOL!
i don't think any of them work.
just when your full stop eating.
and don't eat late.

hope i helped(:

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Alright, so I need an outsiders point of view on this please.
I have been dating this guy for about a week now and he is the first boyfriend I’ve had in almost 3 years. My problem is, is that the guy I’m with now, he isn’t really romantic like when we first met back in Jan (before I was even his gf) and he doesn’t seem as into me but he claims that he is when I try to talk to him about how I feel and we fight about it. Now I will admit I have insecurity issues that I am constantly working on, but it’s different because ANY other boyfriend I’ve ever had treated me like a princess, like they adored me and put me up on a pedestal. They would call me every chance they got, they always wanted to be with me, they would even do silly little things like put their MySpace status about something to do with me. And now, the guy I’m with doesn’t ever do that stuff. And there is this girl that even though she has a boyfriend still used to hook up with my current boyfriend and they are constantly like talking and even facebooking stuff comes between the two of them, which isn’t my main concern, but still. My question is am I asking for too much? Was it just a coincidence that I had boyfriends that adored me in the past or is this guy just not that into me? I don’t know maybe I’m being silly, I just don’t like feeling unimportant if I’m going to waste my time in a relationship.
Please don’t be rude, I’m really just looking for guidance from someone who isn’t in the situation.

it sounds a little bit that he's a jerk.
you maybe to good for him.
talk about your issues with him.
get time alone.
he has to know that you're not feeling loved.
that's very important in a relationship.

i hope i kinda helped(:

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A lot of celebrities died recently but I'm not sure if I caught everyone. I know, I know...it isn't really important or anything but I'm just curious. Michael Jackson's face is splattered all over the magazines so you can't really miss that. Billy Mays was a BIG shocker since he's been doing all of those infomercials for awhile. Farrah Fawcett died the same day as Michael Jackson so it was a little covered over with the news of the King of Pop passing away.

Anyway, what other celebrity died this past week or so that I may have missed? ... or was that it?

I think it was Ed something.
He was big.
Type in google Ed who died.
something like that.

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Whenever my mother brings up the subject that I need to get a job I have a feeling of dread and nervousness overwhelm me. I know I'm not incapable of getting a job though. Maybe I'm so nervous over it because I'm afraid I might mess up and get fired or something? I really need help getting over this stupid fear because it's really not good for me if I can't get of my butt to get a job at a fast food place when I'm a teenager how the heck am I going to survive all alone when I graduate? People are trying their hardest to get a job and I'm trying my hardest to run away from jobs! Please help!

look yourself in the mirror and say i can do it!
every single day.
it works i'm tellin ya!
Just try and you'll succeed.
if you get fired that's fate.
something better will come around.
hope i helped!

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This guy and I have been talking a lot lately. I really love talking to him. The thing is, we met online. I'm really skeptical about the whole online dating thing. He's such a good guy though. I really love talking to him and being friends with him. The thing is, we barely ever talk about anything serious. I'm just not sure how to bring anything serious into a conversation. I can't say I completely trust him, cause we met online. Plus i've only known him for a few months. I do trust him enough to tell him some things. Like if i'm upset he can always tell, and he always asks if i'm okay. I really hate it because some of the times I just have to lie to him and tell him i'm fine. The reason for that is I don't like talking about my problems and stuff because I feel like i'm complaining and i don't want to be annoying or anything. I really hate lieing to him. Anyway i'd really love to meet him and be friends with him after I finish high school. I don't want to rush anything because I really don't want to lose him or anything. He's really the only good friend I have right now. My question is, how can I bring up serious things when we talk and sound casual? Or at least bring up serious things in a conversation?

well first off this is very dangerous.
he could be some creepy old man for all you know.

but that's besides the point.
casually you could say hey, and then state the serious thing you want to talk about.
maybe you could ask him to talk on the phone?
and if he says no, red flag!
or you could take charge and just straight up ask.
he might think that was very brave of you.

it all kinda depends on the level of seriousness.
hope i helped(:

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Michael Jackson died today and he was only 50 years old. It really took me by surprise, but it wasn't as if I didn't expect it sometime fairly soon. There have been rumors flying around for some time now about his health problems. As a matter of fact, when Michael was on trial, one day he was late because of health problems. Obviously, the judge didn't feel that Michael's health was all that important because he threatened to have Michael Jackson jailed unless he made an appearance in the courtroom. Michael showed up in his pajamas. Does anyone else remember that?

People made it out to seem as if he was faking. Some people even made it seem like he was crazy and would do ANYTHING as he was suddenly "extremely unpredictable" and all. I guess he wasn't kidding or faking about having health problems, huh?

I'm going to miss Michael Jackson. He was a man who set out to hurt no one, but the world seemed hell-bent upon hurting him. Michael Jackson was seriously the King of Pop in so many ways. Maybe he's better off wherever he is since we trashed his good name without even giving him a chance to speak. I choose to believe that he is now seated up in Heaven, seeing God for the first time.

Does anyone feel like me about Michael Jackson or am I alone in this? When I was growing up Michael Jackson was such a big role model. Sure, he was a little weird but he seemed to care and love. I'm really hurt that Michael Jackson is dead :( almost like a large portion of my childhood has been abandoned.

i agree.
I believe he was a good guy.
and those nasty people accused him of wrong things.
its horrible for him to die with so much pain.

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DO you think its ok for your boyfriend to have a girl "friend", where he went to her house ONCE,without your permission,and you never meet her before?

it depends how long you've been going out.
I think he should've told you she was coming over before she did.
but, he may have felt that if he told you maybe she would'nt be able to.
it all depends with your situation.

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okay so ive been busting my ass working out today. i ran straight without stopping for 2 hours then i lost four lbs. I WAS SO HAPPY WITH MYSELF. i started thinking how much weight i could loose. then i drank water and chilled and my house. i went to go weigh myself and now im 3 more lbs!?????????!!! WAT THE F! this is so depressing that its bringing me to tears. i need to loose 30 lbs asap for modeling and i dont see how i can if the little that i eat and the water i drink make me gain 3 POUNDS. HELP SOMEONE PLEASE =(

ohh it's okay.
this is all natural.
and maybe you should stop checking your weight.
it will just make you feel more down about yourself.

some ways to help loose some weight is going to sleep earlier.
start taking vitamins. i recommend flinstones vitamins. - so you get all the nutrients you need that you dont get in other foods.
Eat more vegetables, cut down on red meat, caffeine, sugar and salt.
NEVER skip breakfest.
DONT let yourself go hungry.

start lifting weights also.
you have to turn that fat into muscle.

i hope i helped(:

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Like many other people out there my boyfriend and I will be going away to separate colleges in different states about 5 hours apart from each other. We have a strong relationship and we're going to stay together and work through whatever problems this might bring. We're determined to make it work.

Any good songs for this situation?

i don't know what type of music you like.
but heres some ideas..

So Far Away by Dire Straits
Leaving on a Jet Plane
Don't matter - akon
Hey There Delilah- Plain White T's

I'm just trying to help.

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okay so you're suppose to put the tampon in the hole closest to your stomach right? cause i tried opening like the lips and its really small...the tampon doesn't fit and i don't know if i should force it...helppppp =/

noo noo noo.
I'm pretty sure you put it in the middle hole!
i think that's right, almost positive.
you do not put it in the place where you pee.
do not do that.
I'm pretty sure it would hurt a lot.

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I always seem to go for the underdog in situations. The sort of self-conscious, not very attractive, nerdy funny sort of guys. I know there shouldn't be anything wrong with this, but I feel embarrassed in front of my friends. They all seem to think that I just lack self-esteem and go for people "not in my league"; people they wouldn't even glance at. This has stopped me from entering relationships or sexual relationships. I know I shouldn't care, it's not my friends' lives, it's mine, but still I worry they may be right. That I pick people based on feeling better about myself, or because i am incapable of being vulnerable, or something. It's bad because I do like to have the upper hand, so to speak.
I don't know how to feel about this. Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated!

I agree with the comment from NinjaNeer. You should be proud to like a different type of guy. Watch, those popular boys will be so unattractive when they grow old. They'll have bald spots. most of them. From expiernce that's what has happened. This may not help you a ton, but I just want to make you feel better about liking that type. Don't listen to your friends. Tell them your an individual and your proud to be one.

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