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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

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Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Since before we started dating, we've been saying "I love you" and I thought I did love him. But now I really know, I think I really love him. I mean it's so hard to describe. How can I really tell? And if I AM sure, how can I tell him that I REALLY DO MEAN IT. Some things he does makes me mad, but then when I think I'm mad at him I start crying because he's perfect. I never truly am mad at him. He's not like everyone else. I really am at a loss for words here. How can I tell if I really love him / if I'm in love with him. Thanks. I'd be willing to talk on email if you could really help.

Hunny, thats how I feel about my boyfriend. I'll tell you about how I know I'm in love. I cry when we fight, even when its stupid things. I can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to him, he really is all I think about anymore. When we first started dating, the first couple of months, all I did was talk about him to EVERYONE. And all my friends were getting mad at me, haha. All I want to do is talk to him, 24/7, I text him every minute. Hes 2 1/2 hours away from me, and I just can't wait to see him when I can. I keep everything we do. Like go to the movies, I'll keep the tickets, flowers, I'll keep.
To show him you really do love him, just tell him. I LOVE wearing his clothes. I'll do anything for him, really. Anything. He's truely my best friend ever, he knows everything about me, and I'm not scared to tell him my deepest secrets. Its really a gut feeling, and if you have it, then you should know that you love him. No one can tell you that, but yourself. Not me, not your friends, or family. Only you.
Be like I hope you know, I really do love you. Maybe make him dinner, make him a scrap book(I did that, super cute).
If you need anymore help, inbox me

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My 10 year old sister has a 13 year old friend and that friend is a complete girly girl and she constantly talks about her crushes (she can have 16 crushes at one time) her make up her clothes her nail polish blah blah blah now my sister is a tomboy and im not girly but im not tomboy and my sister kinda thinks its weird that her friend likes all that kind of stuff but her friend is always saying when your 13 you will feel this way and blah blah blah blah blah blah and my sister really will not feel that way ever thats not the way she is she start throwing a fit whenever mom wants her to go to the mall with us and she plays football and goes to school in those basketball shorts and long t-shirts and baseball caps she isnt going to change much in 3 years and she really wants her friend to stop saying all that stuff because its not true and you know that teenager feel like they know best and stuff but she is acting really stupid my sister just wants her to stop what should my sister do thanks to whoever answers this

Well, you REALLY need to use periods. That was hard to read. But I was a total tomboy in middle school, but whenever I was about 14 I started to dress more "girly" Not all out, like highheels, but better dressing. So she might change. But just tell your sister, so ask the girl to stop talking about and she should like me(your sister) the way I(your sister) am. Sorry I was mean about the period thing, I just like proper grammar.

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. We started going out in high school and last fall I went 2 and a half hours away to college, while he remains at home. He told me this weekend that the distance is getting hard for him. Does anyone know any ideas to help this problem. He comes up one or two times a month, we talk a lot and I don't have a car to go back home.

Any ideas would be so much help.

Im in the same boat as you. But my boyfriend is away, and we have been together for a year and a half. He comes home as much as he can. My mom wont let me drive that far to see him. We talk a lot, and to keep the "sexual" thing there, we send like sexy pictures of each other. Not naked, but like sexy ones. It just makes us like get happy to see each other. Try to find a ride home with a friend or someone that goes past your hometown or lives there too. Im sorry, they are hard. But love pulls everything through it.

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my boyfriend and i like trying new things when we make out. we've done it with gum, mints, and up-side-down (which is really hot, by the way).

what other things can we do or add to make it more fun? :)

Blind folded. Pop rocks. Teasing him with it. Like kiss him, act like your going to start making out, but pull away and laugh, do it a couple times, and then he'll want it really bad, and like on the forth or third one, he'll just grab you more then likely, or just go in for the kill haha. Tie him down and kiss him, so you have TOTAL control.

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16 f
i was going out with this guy on and off for 2 years. he was like the best thing that happeend to me. now we broke up and its official. he was my first love seriously. when i had a bad day he was the only one who could cheer me up. we had a bad breakup so yeah. he confessed that he cheated on me for 8 months and didnt breakup with me becuase he liked me and the girl at the same time. i feel horrible. i dont know what to do. i cant stop crying im so depressed. in 1 day i cry like 7 times. and i get horrible headaches but i cant stop crying like the tears just come out. i cant talk to anyone i dont feel comfterable talking to anyone about this, becuase i have always been the strong girl. but now im weak and i cant help it. i lost the only thing that i cared about in this world so much. how do i deal with this? i dont want to cry anymore i dont want to be dperessed. i keep saying to myself hes not worth it you need someone better but its not working. ugh i dont know what to do. help me please.

The key thing if you keep yourself busy. Take on an after school sport, or help around the house. If you find yourself sitting around and thinking about him. Stop and go do something. Hang out with your girlfriends more, go to the mall. Don't be alone. I know how you feel, I'm the strong girl too, but just keep yourself busy. If he trys to make you jealous, don't fall for it. I hope everything gets better, if you need anymore help, ask. I'm here for you

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Okay, so I got naked (okay, he was naked; I was in my panties) with my guy for the first time today (we've been seeing each other for about four months, and there is a LOT of sexual tension/chemistry). Even though we didn't have sex, there was a lot of outercourse-type thrusting and I went down on him for a bit. The kicker? Despite being visibly aroused and hard as a rock, he couldn't stay *up*. It was the weirdest thing! He actually hung while hard, just hung! It was ridiculous; he kept flopping out of my mouth, and when he was thrusting, it just hung between his legs! (Despite being massively swollen and hard and with pre-cum and everything.)
Has anyone ever experienced this? Do you know what it could be??

(By the way, we're both 17. I've seen a fair few penises in my life, and never experienced anything like this--they've all managed to stand at attention quite well. He's never had any sexual relations--not even kissing--before me, so I didn't say anything. He's become very good at most things in which pants stay on, but this just totally baffled me. It was so weird!)

my boyfriend was the SAME way. Like we tried to do it before like twice, but it seemed like he couldnt stay "up" long enough, it was like once he put the condom on, he would go down. I think its bc its their first time, and their not really sure how to keep it up? If that makes sense. But just keep trying, and the more you do things, I think the more he'll stay "up"

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i use finesse shampoo and conditioner every night because my hair gets so greasy if i dont.
now its getting to the point where its getting greasy even though i shower. its also getting fried. I dont know why my hair is so damaged, i dont straighten my hair or blow dry it that much.. probably 2 times a week? i also have very very fine hair.

can anyone give me tips to have my pretty hair back??? thanks!

Try not putting the conditioner where it seems to be most greasy. I know if I put it on my bangs, they get greasy really fast. Carry baby powder with you, and apply some to your hands, and mix it in with your hair where its greasy. I hope I helped

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what are some really good excercises to get in shape really fast. i know it takes time, but are there any really good excercises that i can do?

Running is the best. There really isn't anything to get in shape, but running. That I know of. So start running, fast walking, jogging, 45 mins. 4-5 days a week. && eat healthier I hope I helped

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So i have been researching belly button piercing cause i want mine done. I was looking at videos on youtube and in all of them they like stick a mettal needle in i was wondering if they can just peirce you with a gun like they do your ears?

No, there is to much skin there. It doesnt hurt at all. I have my top and bottom done, a lot of people think it feels like a bee sting. It will hurt after, but only for about a day or maybe two.

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does it matter how you exercise/what you do or the fact that you exercise?

since its winter its still freezing out and i dont want to get a gym membership bc those never work out. indoors, videos get boring fast.

i was wondering if it were possible to loose weight if i just did jumping jacks and jumped rope for an hour each day? i heard 5 mins of rope is like running for half an hour.

The jump rope thing is false. Its more like 10-15 mins. But Anything you do is way better then just sitting around. Theres a little exercise thing I do.
Crunches on a big exercise ball. 30. Side crunches on the ball(for little love handles) 15 pushups. Stretch, laying flat on the floor, raising my legs and touching my toes with my hands, slowly lowering my legs, but not touching the ground, then back up. Do about 10-15 of those. I know I gave you more then what you asked for. I hope I helped!

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Does anyone know where I can buy the exact stuff these twins are wearing?

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=o3EAuMgetuA&sdig=1

thanks!

I wanna say Kids Gap. That looks like an outfit that would come from there. Or like the person below, Ebay would be good. But, they are from a different country, so that outfit might only be in China. I hope I helped

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ALlllright. so im a senior in highschool and my boyfriend is a sophomore in college. and we;ve been dating since like july. he comes home a lot and we have a realyl strong relationship and whatever. the thing is...my parents dont like the idea of me going to visit him, but i finally convinced them to let me go this weekend.
I want it to be really special and i just need some ideas of what to do...he already knows that im coming or else i would just surprise him completly....any ideas?

Bring movies, (ones that he would like) take popcorn, or take him out to eat. Make sure you get along with his friends, that would be a plus. Ask him to walk you around the school(if its not to cold.) Make cookies, get him a little gift maybe? I hope I helped! && good luck with the relationship!=D

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i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. he is paralyzed in his legs, but is still able to have sex. but when we do have sex, im always on top doing all the work. and thats starting to get old. is there any postions that we can try to spice up our sex life? some with me on top ( new ) or him on top without using legs would help.


Thanks.

or laying side by side. you infront and him behind you, just take your top leg and wrap around his waist, upper leg area. or have him sit up, in bed or a chair, and try it that way, sitting facing him, or away.

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okay so ive been to a lot of diffrent sites and i cant find the answer in sims 2 pets for PS2 theres a code to get a horse... can someone please tell me the code and step by step how to activate it and where to go .. thanks i rate high

http://www.alltipsandtricks.com/sims-2-pets-cheat-sheet/

&& right after they talk about the different furs for dogs & cats. I would just say the code, but I don't want to get in trouble.! =D

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okay so i have a very shiny forehead, but its not even oily. i have tried many things, and i even use face powder and wash my face evryday and that still doesnt work.. what can i do to make it stop shining?!?

If you use liquid make up, it will make your forehead look shiny. Switch to a powder make up. Blend Natural from wal mart is REALLY good. I love it. Its 13$ tho, but I love it.. I hope I helped

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ok i want to kno if getting ur belly button peirced hurts, and if so how much???
is it relle hard to take care of and too much of a hastle? thanx

I have my top and bottom done, and they both felt like a bee sting. Both of mine got infected, but bc I went swimming in a lake, and I changed the other to early. Dont touch it more then what you need too. Clean it three times a day. DO NOT USE RUBBING ALCOHOL. It eats the infected skin, and then the skin to hold you barbell will be small(my top one is like that.) Dont make the mistake I did and change it to early. Make sure when your at home, to let it breath. Pull your shirt up and just let it breath. I hope I helped && good luck! =D

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Im a fucking fat ass. I need help to lose weight and no im not taking Fucking pills. How can i lose weight really fucking fast.

start running, thats the most important thing to do. Eat way better. stop eating junk food, no pop.

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Warning, this is kind of long, but I need help ASAP!!

Ok, so I just moved a week and 1/2 ago... (Dec. 21st). I already knew this one guy from here (don't remember how we met, but oh well...LOL), but right when I moved here, he moved to another town (Because of his mom's job). The other town is only 40 min. from here though so it's not THAT far!! These past few days we've been talking ALOT!! We talked for about 5 and 1/2 hours last night...We mainly talk online on yahoo. (I'm talking to him right now too!) I REALLY like him, and he likes me! But, I don't know what to do, like 40 min is still kind of hard, yano?
We're going to try to hang out this Friday (Jan. 4th) at the basketball game here.... He's SO sweet, nice, funny, athletic, and hot! He's so easy to talk to! We tell each other everything! I'm really falling for him...and he's falling for me... But I don't know... I just moved here, but I REALLY like this guy!
Please help! ASAP would be nice! :) Before Friday for sure! PLEASE!
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP IN ADVANCE! =)

it is. you never know, you might stay together when he goes to college, depends on how strong your love is!.. make sure you look really cute on friday!. try holding hands with him.. i hope you have fun love

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Like the title says.

I'm obese, well not really sure about that, maybe just a bit overweight. I weigh 140-145 pounds... I have one of those scales where you have to read off the little ticks, and sometimes it says 140 and sometimes it says 145, pretty inaccurate. I'm 5'3 or somewhere around there, maybe a bit taller since the last time I checked was 2 years ago [17 atm].

My goal is 130 lbs maybe 125 lbs, not 120 like the BMI says, only because my friend is 130 and she looks perfectly normal. And I also want to fit into a size 'medium'/'small' (depends on the store).

I do not have a huge problem with junk food, except that I have chocolate cravings (gotta love chocolate). I usually have eggs or a bagel for break fast, noodles or soup with crackers for lunch, and rice with some sort of meat whether it be chicken, pork, beef or fish for dinner + vegetables.

However I do need a fitness regime (what to do, amount of time, etc), I don't have access to a gym or any gym equipment. But I do have a puppy if he counts for anything.

I would also like a time frame for me to achieve my goal so I don't bum around, & so it gives me motivation to lose the weight.

Im not good with foods. But I play sports, and my grandpap is a fitness person. Take your puppy for walks!!! Or take him jogging with you. Its a fact that people that walk their dogs everyday, lose more weight then the people that dont. So take him for about an hour walk close to everyday, or 5 days a week. Go running, jogging, speed walking for about 45mins to an hour. Dont do the same thing everytime, bc when your body will get use to it, and it will stop losing as much calories it was. So switch up each time. When watching tv, do sit ups, or jumping jacks between breaks. I hope I helped!!

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i can never find makeup that makes my skin look nice.
i have acne (not bad) just a few pimples here and there and uneven texture + tone (it's especially dry in some spots to the point where when i put a bunch of moisturizer on my makeup still flakes but thats just in the winter) at the moment i use superstay silky and milani minerals from the drugstore, neither of which are too useful.

my friend uses bare minerals and says it works really good but she doesn't have any skin problems so idk.
i want something that will make my skin look smooth and nice without wasting money.

so:
1. is bare minerals good for acne prone skin
2. will it last throughout the day
3. will it work good on dry skin
4. is it worth the money

thankss

I have kinda bad acne. && I use this make up from wal mart, its called true natural. Its 13$ but I love it. Its almost like bare minerals. Its in the same container, and its minerals. Its really good! But you have to make sure you get your sick tone, if not it looks weird after you put it on. If you wanna try that at first, and like it, then maybe try getting bare minerals, bc Im sure it works a lot better. Or just stay with true natural. I hope I helped

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