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i had the second best day of my lifee today and i just really want to tell someone but everyone is busy!! and i'm really pissed off at everyone cause no one will talk to meee!

so i have science as the last period of the day, and i really really have a huge crush on this guy in my class. it's not like a pathedic crush where i have no chance with him - but i do have a chance with him cause he is not so cool (like me) and i'm not saying he likes me though - but he knows who i am :)

omg so you guys the bell rang, right, and 8th period ended, and i was walking towards my locker and "he" was in front of me for a little while and he just like abruptly stopped cause his locker was to the left, so he goes to turn around and he makes PERFECT eye contact with me and i was FREAKING out. like seriously.. he has no idea that that one second of my life made it the 2nd best day of myy lifeee!

so i got the screen name of one of his friends who happens to be one of my friends cause he is in a clique and i am acquantances / friends with all of them and sorta him (these are all not too cool guys) and so i was IMing my guyfriend and he told me the members of his science group for this project we have to do and he listed all my crush's friends EXCEPT my crush! so i wanted to ask him "what about ____ ?" but i didnt want my guyfriend to think i liked him or something. should i have asked him? who is my crush working with, then?

i am the type of girl who always becomes overly flirtatious and outgoing near my crush it's just my nature. how do i slow things down so i dont mess up my chances with him by going to fast when he doesnt like me?

i'm soo sorry this is so long but it just really made me happy and i would really like some optimistic advice!

i would have deffinately let his guy friend who is also your friend know that you like him...maybe he could give you the hookup... but yea im really happy for you ..i hope you get your man haha

-katie

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im 16/f and my b/f thinks im too clingy but i don't know how iam help? what should i do?

you just need to give him his space ...let him hang out with his friends too ..not just you. just be more flexible and not soo attached to him... just basically give him alittle space and dont use baby talk alot of my guy friends get annoyed by that ..hope i helped alittle

-katie

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whats the difference between having a "nice ass" or a "fat ass"? cause i personally hate my ass i wish i didn't have one but some people say i have a nice ass but i dont know whether to take it as a compliment or an insult. so does anyone wanna explain to me the difference, if any? thanks lotss.

if a guy says that you have a nice ass i would take it as a compliment and guys wouldnt really tell a girl who has no ass 'you have a nice ass' so obviously u do have a butt and its probably bigger then normal but use it to your advantage ; ) haha oh and a nice ass is pretty much a big ass but not like humongus i wouldnt think just nicely shaped but yea its def something positive hope i helped!

-katie

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im am a serious needle phobic. like i know its not a fear. like if i hear someone say i need a shot or that im getting a needle or blood shot i go ballistic. like yo udont know how scared i am of them. im a 14/f. last summer i didnt need one thank god. but the year before i did. and it was crazy. they had to have 10 nurses in the room.. they had 5 on top of me..i kicked my doctor in the balls (but that was by accident haha lol) i start crying and everything and i hyperventalate to the point where they have to stop what there doing and help me breathe. liek i cant get a shot! and its horrible. i got my blood test done where they had to put the needle in my arm once. my mom hasnt taken me back yet because she was hugging me and i grabbed her hair and ripped part of it out. like i cant stand needles. what can i do to not be soo afraid of it?

OMG im the same way...when i got my ears pierced they needed 5 nurses and i was only like 5 and i kicked like 3 of them and bruised them..and when i got my shots this yr i punched a nurse in the face... i felt horrible its just a huge fear of mine too... i tried to overcome it by getting my nose pierced and it helped alittle cause i really wanted it done so maybe getting like a piercing that u want will help you overcome it hope i helped

-katie

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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.

is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?

fraybay443 if you want just i-m me

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Umm does anyone know if a ipod nano can hold music videos??? like can i watch a video from an ipod nano or is it a waste to buy them if i have a nano????? plz help i dont wanna watse my money!!!!

nope you have to have a video ipod which you can buy it in either a 30 or 60 gig.. sorry

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Ok, so, I have a friend who is a boy, who has liked me for many years. I did not feel that way about him. Recently, we have gotten very close and I realised that I liked him back. He told me that he loved me, which scared me a bit. When he asked me out, I said that it didnt feel right, but it might do in te future. He said he was willin to wait. Recently, I have liked him a lot more, and now he barely even talks to me. I feel as though I am annoying him whenever I say anything and I dont understand. When I talked to him about this, he said it was because it hurt when I said no to him. I tried my hardest to reassure him, and things seemed okay. Now, he basically ignores me, and the sad thing is, now I think that I love him. Also, I think he likes another girl, who I dont know. It hurts. I dont know what to do. Should I tell him how I feel? Or should I leave him to get on with this new girl? He said that he still loved me, but I am not sure. Please help, I am very low at the moment.

if i were you i would tell this guy how you feel about him before he just gives up on you and moves onto this other girl...the worst thing he can say is that he doesnt like you anymore which if i were you i would risk being rejected and just tell him and quick! im sure he still has feelings for you if he reassured you that he would wait.. good luck!

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me and my boyfriend have been going out since 4th march.. thats nearly one n a half months..
and all weve done is huggeD?? is ther something wrong.. its hard because i always give me friends advice about love and taking it to the next step, but i can;t even take on my own advice and do it myself. i don't know if its me or him. his always the one whos hugging me so it must be me. he sent a message the other night saying '' i love you, do you think we should take our relationship to the next level '' and i replied '' yes '' and then nothing after that.. we sat next to each other in the movies and nothing still happened~!! pls i need help.
thanks
love julia xxx

haha thats the same with me! ive been going out with this guy since feb 23 and we kissed for the first time yesterday...it wasnt even makeout it was just a kiss... im pretty sure that if you get really comfortable with the person it will become easier, but no theres nothing wrong with you...maybe hes just shy to make the move and doesnt want to mess up if i were you i would just do it myself... he obviously wants you to.

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I was suppost to get my period Friday and it's Sunday and still hasn't come. Is this normal? I got my firt period during summer so is it still irregular? I usually get it every 28 days but it's late for some reason. Is this normal?

yea thats normal it takes about 2 years for it to get normal dont worry about it

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My boyfriend is friends with this girl, and they seem like theyve become closer lately...it all seems innocent, because theyre "friends", for example she went to a hockey game and bought him a souvenier, and he calls her, etc.. This only worries me because I have a hard time trusting him & before he was friends with this girl, he used to like her. She also used to like him. It doesn't bother me if he is friends with her; but more the part that he used to be interested in her, and she used to be interested in him, does bother me. I know i can't tell him who his friends should be, and i've confronted him about "does he still has a thing for her" or whatever, and hes denied it, and she has moved on as well (apparently) but ... like i said i just can't bring myself to trust him because apparently he told his best friend, **who told me**, that he still "kind of likes her". meanwhile hes dating me. ugh. it disgusts me... like i said i wouldnt care if hes giving her attention as friends, but i do care because he used to like her/she used to like him. and it all is perfectly innocent "friendly" stuff, but idk it just bothers me.. what should i do about the whole thing?

if he still has a thing for her then i think you should just end it with him and find someone who will be 100% commitwed to you...its not fairof him to like some1 else too when you 2 are going out... yea it might be hard to break up with him but you might just end up getting more hurt in the end if you dont..hope i helped!

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Okay so I am NOT pregnant, this I know for sure because I took a blood test at my doctor a few weeks ago because I am going to South Africa soon.

I haven't gotten my period for 3 months! I am not anorexic or bulimic, I have not lost tons of weight resently, however, I am overweight. What really freaked me out is that I saw a hair on my chin!!!! I know it's normal for females to get facial hair but I never noticed this before.

Can I be going through menapause? Why haven't I gotten my period? Is this normal?? Have any of you ever skipped periods for this long??? AH I'm really freaking out here.

if your a teenager or below like 55 you arent going through metopause..if i were you i would go to the doctor just to make sure though

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I recently bought a puppy, a male teacup yorkshire terrier. What are some good names. He's dark brownish/black with alittle cream and white on his face. and he only weighs 1 pound if that helps.

charlie, luke, ripley, duke, mackenzie, willy, logan, hunter, wyley... ik these probably suck but hope i helped alittle..

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i hate my height..i'm 5 6...i hate being this tall...i'm 14/f...is there any ways of being shorter??

im 14 and 5'7 and if there was something that made me shorter i would buy it in an instant... but there's not sorry.. ill let u know if i hear of a miracle product haha

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my friend for 5 years is starting to like me (yes, i have my sources) and i don't know what to do because he asked me to prom and i want to go with some one else. if i go to prom with him, i will be sacrificing my chance to go with someone i actually like, but if i don't, im a total prick...what do i tell him?

has the person that you want to go to prom with asked you? if not i would go with your friend... you dont know for a fact if the person you really like would even want to go with you..but if you positive that the person you like would go with you then say no to your friend and go with him... otherwise i would go with your friend

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I am17 years old and 7 months ago my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I got pregnant and he left me, now I am pregnant with triplets. My mom says that I shouldnt give them away. I'm not sure what to do.

if i were you i would maybe have an open adoption so that you could still be able to see your kids but they would have a better life... they would get the care they deserve that you might not be able to give them also they might be able to have a somewhat normal life...if u keep these kids you will be exhausted and might not even be able to achieve what you want out of life...yea they are your kids and you probably want to keep them but think of them...would you be able to provide them with both a mother and father figure? would you have enough money to live off of?..children are not cheep ...give them the life they deserve and give them up... one day they will thank you for it

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I really fancy this guy (lets call him J) in the year above me and I know he knows who I am and I've hung around with J and his friends, although never directly talked to him and I'm not sure whether he's interested in me or not.
Recently I went to this youth club and didn't know J would be there, but he was. When I sat down I was talking to this other guy (D) and then when I looked round as we had stopped talking me and J somehow managed to lock eyes and then we both quickly looked away. Then later, J came up to me and jokily warned me that D fancied me, I just laughed because he had made a joke like 'watch out, its dark!' but I didn't say anything back.
For the rest of the evening J sort of hung around with me and 2 of my mates, one of them who is like his best mate. He never said anything specifically to me though. When he and his best mate left I said bye to them and they both said bye back.

The next day me and my friend were on the train and so was J, when he saw us he went, 'Wow, its the girls from yesterday!' and I noticed that although he was talking to one of his girl mates, he kept looking back at me, but we never made eye contact.

And at school once he just stared at me for ages but he wasn't making eye contact so I couldn't be sure whether he was looking at me or someone behind me.

Then yesterday I went to the youth club again, he didn't really hang around with us for the first hour but I noticed him watching me when one of the guys got me up to do strange dancing (I felt like a total prat) and when another guy I'd never seen before came up to me, told me he loved me and then stood there hugging me for about five minutes, J smiled and made eye contact with me in a way that said 'He's crazy isn't he?' and I said, 'Riiight' (signalling that hug guy was strange) and smiled back at J. Then later we were sitting down and J sat near and when someone asked if we all (people in the area we were in) hung out together, he looked at me and then said 'yeah' (which is strange cos I don't hang out with him) and later on we made this eye contact and it was like no one else was there and it was just me and him, like we had this secret understaning, I looked down after a while. It was weird, but good.

I saw him today and it seemed that whenever someone talked to me he sort of looked at me in interest. But his eyes are really hard to read, when he's not making eye contact I don't know whther his eyes are just glazed over and he's just looking in my direction.

He seems to be not the type of person to approach someone he doesn't know very well and I'm the same, so I can see that it's going to be hard to get chatting to him.

Sorry if it was long, but do you think he likes me?


i think he likes you but is just too shy to like do anything about it... if i were you i would maybe tell your friend that is friends w him to that you like him and to find out if he likes you to ...this way if j doesnt like you you dont have to feel totally rejected...hope i helped

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hey, i saw you told someone that like for tanning, to get fake bake. does it turn you orange?

nope it doesnt turn you orange i think it works well

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Ok Well For My Schools Cheerleading Team Our Uniform Tops Are Short , And They Show Past Our Belly Buttons, And I Dont Rillie Wnat To Show Off My Tummy.How Could I Loose 20 Pounds Buy Mothers Day ? And Also I Am Very Pale, And Everyone Else On My Team Is Very Taned , What Could I Do To Get A Tan So I Dont Stand Out So Much , And Look Like Im Very Ill All The Time?

get fake bake if you want to get tan and just run and do crunches and diet...dont eat any snacks just the 3 meaks...and dont skip breakfat you will gain more weight

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ok so theres this guy in my spanish class thats a year younger than me that i swear is perfect. hes taller than me hes cute hes smart hes funny hes athletic and hes so sweet. thursday after school i was walking in the hallway when he found me and asked me what i was doing over the weekend. i told him i was going to disney world because i was going there with choir and he was like oh yea thats right you told me that. and then we walked outside and both left. when i got home i realised he might have been trying to ask me out. but im not sure. hes really nice and he could have just been making conversation. he sits right infront of me and we talk alot everyday and he will just turn around and stare at me w/ a smirk on his face. i like him alot and i think he likes me too, but im not sure. im never sure! but anyways do yall think he was trying to ask me out and that he likes me? i dont know what to say to him to show him i like him without being just plain obvious. we would be soooo perfect together its crazy. thanks so much!

i think he likes you... if he didnt say anything after he asked you what you were doing like oh thats cool then he was deffinately trying to ask you out i think... just to make sure i would maybe ask him who likes online if he has a s/n or maybe just have one of your friends be like she likes you but if u tell her that i told you i will kill you or something like that so it doesnt look like your just flat out telling him

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what are some good quotes about being like young and crazy or living life to the fullest or always having fun(that arent too cheezy) that i could put on my myspace? or quotes about being young? thanks

www.holliesquotes.com usually has some really good ones hope i helped!

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