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Is he interested?
I really fancy this guy (lets call him J) in the year above me and I know he knows who I am and I've hung around with J and his friends, although never directly talked to him and I'm not sure whether he's interested in me or not.
Recently I went to this youth club and didn't know J would be there, but he was. When I sat down I was talking to this other guy (D) and then when I looked round as we had stopped talking me and J somehow managed to lock eyes and then we both quickly looked away. Then later, J came up to me and jokily warned me that D fancied me, I just laughed because he had made a joke like 'watch out, its dark!' but I didn't say anything back.
For the rest of the evening J sort of hung around with me and 2 of my mates, one of them who is like his best mate. He never said anything specifically to me though. When he and his best mate left I said bye to them and they both said bye back.
The next day me and my friend were on the train and so was J, when he saw us he went, 'Wow, its the girls from yesterday!' and I noticed that although he was talking to one of his girl mates, he kept looking back at me, but we never made eye contact.
And at school once he just stared at me for ages but he wasn't making eye contact so I couldn't be sure whether he was looking at me or someone behind me.
Then yesterday I went to the youth club again, he didn't really hang around with us for the first hour but I noticed him watching me when one of the guys got me up to do strange dancing (I felt like a total prat) and when another guy I'd never seen before came up to me, told me he loved me and then stood there hugging me for about five minutes, J smiled and made eye contact with me in a way that said 'He's crazy isn't he?' and I said, 'Riiight' (signalling that hug guy was strange) and smiled back at J. Then later we were sitting down and J sat near and when someone asked if we all (people in the area we were in) hung out together, he looked at me and then said 'yeah' (which is strange cos I don't hang out with him) and later on we made this eye contact and it was like no one else was there and it was just me and him, like we had this secret understaning, I looked down after a while. It was weird, but good.
I saw him today and it seemed that whenever someone talked to me he sort of looked at me in interest. But his eyes are really hard to read, when he's not making eye contact I don't know whther his eyes are just glazed over and he's just looking in my direction.
He seems to be not the type of person to approach someone he doesn't know very well and I'm the same, so I can see that it's going to be hard to get chatting to him.
Sorry if it was long, but do you think he likes me?
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it sounds that he is a really shy guy and well it sounds like he could like you! espesially from all the eye contact! i think if you really like this guy then if hes not likely to come over to you and talk then you should go over and talk to him. If you make the first move then he will feel less uncomfortable and this youth club sounds the perfect place to begin to talk to him. You could wait and see how it goes if you begin to hang out more because if he likes you then it will become really obvious in time. Or you could tell one of your friends who is good friends with J also soo and they could find out for you and then you could ask him about it, if you feel brave enough!!
i hope i helped! XD
xox Porsche
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i think he likes you but is just too shy to like do anything about it... if i were you i would maybe tell your friend that is friends w him to that you like him and to find out if he likes you to ...this way if j doesnt like you you dont have to feel totally rejected...hope i helped
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ya... u should just come up and say, do u like me? if he gets red or anythin' he likes if he doesn't and just walks away, he still likes u.
HAY! if that doesn't work, just come up and kiss the guy, see what his reaction is.
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