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Q: Can you have sex when you are pregnant??

sur u can but sometimes u can end up with fewer babies. but i hope i helped and if theres anymore questions drop it in the inbox.

rate me pleaze & thankz

Q: Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum?

yes u can thats why u just have use protection. also if any more ?(questions) just holla back at me in my inbox.

also rate me and good luck

Q: Okay,my friends bf told my friend that he made a "uh oh".And he went to his ex-girlfriends house last night and they had sex and like he said that he made her pregnant.And my friend is really pissed cuz he cheated on her and she is also not really believeign that he made her preg. Cuz like how long does it take to know if you got someone pregnant?Well thx for the advice.BYE

mostly there r signs and aigns points to stomach reactions,aches,sore boobs and etc.

rate pleaze.

Q: if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman.

i really dont no if he was cheatin or not but he probably picked it up from porno zines or videos and maybe a friend told him.

rate me pleaze.

Q: Ok im 13 and all my friends have hade sex and have frenched kissed and all and i feel left out..I kinda wanna have sex but i dont know can my parents find out? heeeeelp pleeeaaase

if u want to have sex and dont want your parents to find out then # 1.use protection
2. do it in a secret place(a good one for ex. like his house or at yours only when ur parents r not there)pleaze rate me and ask me anything whenever on any subject.

p.s dont even look suspicious.

Q: What are all the flavors of condoms? Do they really taste good? What kind taste best?

it would be strawberry

Q: What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?

69 means when when u and the guy r givin each other head at the same time and wet means ur horney or ur ready for the big S.(SEX)pleaz rate and chow

Q: me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper?

dont worry he has to go deeper. rate my answer please. thankz

Q: Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE

i dont want to scare u but u might be pregnant, but all im sayin is go to a CVS or somethin and get a test (a pregnant test) and see if u r or not and what i want u to do for me is rate my answer and i really wish that u get the wright answer that u wanted.

Q: I'm 14/f. I'm really starting to like one of my brother's friends. My brother and his friend are 17. I get the feeling that this guy flirts with me but I'm not sure. How can I find out if he likes me without him knowing and if he likes me back what should I do about it? I seriously doubt that my brother would like me dating any of his friends.

If the mysterious guy gives u signs of a total relationship then u have to give a test but not a ordinary test. what u have to do is show your good side and if u could u can get to talk to him in a different place where u will prohapsly be alone and talk about accurate things instead of things like(DO YA LIKE ME AND SO,SO)u have to get to a part where he can get ta know u then thats when u ask.

also please rate my answer im outtie.

Q: Hey Every1,
Sorry I've been asking more questions then answering. But, you know "BoB"? The guy that I STILL like? Well, his GF...I'll say her name is Sally. So Sally really likes Bob and Bob really likes Sally. But Bob's friend...Kate likes Bob. So Sally came to me for advice because she thinks that Bob likes Kate as well. I told her that they have been friends for a long time and that Bob really likes you (Sally). Then she told me all the stuff that they do. Like everyday he sits by her at lunch, and how he doesn't hug her everyday, or tell her she's pretty. I personally think that she's just scared of loosing him, and she's making a big deal. So, Sally talks to Bob, and says him what she told me. Then she said that I hate Kate. And that I hate her because I'm Sally's friend. Which isn't true! And now Bob is mad at me. I wrote him a letter, told him I'm sorry, and that I DON'T dislike his friends (Mostly Kate), and today I asked him if he hates me. And he said, "no I don't hate any of my friends." What should I do? Sally is totally ruinening everything. She took the guy I like, and now she has made him mad at me! And we are suppose to be in love in one of our plays. And we have to kiss. How can he kiss me if he doesn't trust me, and is mad at me? Please help me!
~MiSSc~

well u shoud've told bob what was goin on about his friend relationships and his gf. maybe he would understand u know.

Q: I used to have 2 best friends. Arina** nd Stacie** (** names have been changed) and I know 3 is a tricky number to work with when it comes to friends. So one night me and stacie were texting each other and shes like "i got a bf" and I say, "really, who?" "tyler" then I say, "wuts his last name?" "i dunno" then I say "and let me guess...u never met him before?" and she got all offended and called me a bitch when I was just kidding, cuz she went out with this guy tht lives in P.A and never met him before. So we stared fighting over the text messaging bickering back and forth. And we haven't been friends since June. And I don't think we ever will be again. But the sad part is my (favorite) other best friend, arina, turned against me for some reason and I think its because stacie is tellin her a bunch a trash about me. So me and Arina stopped talking to me and I really want to talk to her and ask her why shes mad at me. Its so painful it makes me cry. We were like the bestest friends. I was more close with arina than anyone. We shared such good times. I just don't know what to do cuz one day arina stared giving me the silent treatment without telling me why. So she just left me in the dark. I do not know how to solve my problem at all. Can you help me? I miss arina! :`(

call arina and ask to please dont hang up and talk to her or if that doesn't work try to pull her aside and talk to her.

Q: Well, my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks. And all the sudden today he breaks up with me!

Well, it was his friend since he was too chicken to do it on his own. I didn't believe his friend, so I called his house, and he said he was "God D*mn serious" but my boyfriend was laughing in the background and they were all laughing. And he just said the other day how much he liked me.

I cried for about an hour after that. If he's joking, though, I'm going to kill him. It scared me so bad. And I'm so confused. They won't tell me why, either. They just keep confusing me more everytime I talk to his friend.

They won't let me talk to my boyfriend either. They just keep saying "SHUT UP! GOD! HE HATES YOU AND HE BROKE UP WITH YOU. GET OVER IT!" but they keep laughing!

Do you think they're just joking or he really is breaking up with me they just think it's funny? Help!

Sorry this was so long. I rate!!

I really have a plan for u but u have to make it work ok. so heres the plan. U walk past your boyfriend and if they laugh (him and his friends)u roll your eyes like u r really serious and on that night u call him unexpectedly and u curse his a$$ out. If the ignoring doesn't work at all and his friends and him r laughing u grab a guy friend and pretend have somethin goin on just only to see if its jealousy that he has and/or u can grab some female friends and see if they have your back when u curse him out.

Q: I've got an EX who I went out with for about 2 years and we got together broke up got together so many times. We broke up over in the summer and got back together and he broke up wiht me that day. We've been dating around. I am like obcessed with the kid and I don't care how many times he breaks my heart I can't get over him and so he has been asking out like all my best friends and he is going out with a girl right now and he is sorta cheating on her with me and he likes me a little and ofcourse I like him..He doesn't want to get back together with me yett..I don't kno what to do because I kno he will soon but should I just forgot about him I mean he is a great guy and a great boyfriend and I can't see myself with anyone else. I don't know what to do. Please Help!

All i have to say is settle it wit him or u just need ta give him away to some other girl bcuz he is just goin to keep breakin your heart.

Q: ok i just got back from hangin with my love! hes soo awsome but at first im never comfortable then later i get comfortable with him (his family's always around..im a good family friend!) anyways..he always looks around bcz he knos ima see what or who hes lookin at and so i moved my head and he tried to kiss me but i moved my head to where he kissed my cheek...but see his family an me are cool so im sometimes embrassed but then again im not so i didnt wanna kiss him then i think i hurt his feelings..and i think hes mad now because hes all when we were leavin from my friends house my ride was waitin on me so i just got in the car and didnt say "bye" to his face and he called me when i was in the car an was upset..what can i say to his to let him kno that i love him but he wont believe me that i had to go he says it was an "excuse" even tho he was standin right there!?

Tell him about your embrassing thoughts and maybe he will understand but ask him for a place were u 2 can be alone.

Q: my ex-gf and i broke up a while ago and we both moved on with our lives. now every time i see her, i realize how much i wasn't over her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she might(probably not). sometimes i really wish i could just tell her how i feel and win her back, but i don't think that would work. wut should i do?

Go over to her one day and give her one single rose and ask her out for lunch or dinner and see what she is thinking about while u r on a get together date.Also ask her how does she feel about you both breaking up.

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