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how do u know whos a poser or not? i meen i jus added someone that said they were vannessa hudgens and i sent her a comment and she sent one back and it seemed like her but how does a person truelly know? i looke up ashley tisdale and theirs like 6 people whos display says"official ashley tisdale".so whos real and whos fake cuz they all say that they are the real person!

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15 ½ \f\ virgin

okay I wanna go on the pill, but I don't know how to tell my mom! I know i'm young... I just don't know what to tell her.

Please, what could I tell her? Or any excuses? like bad cramps becuase of pms....

thanks in advance!

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how come its so suggestive? i mean i love the songs on the CD by the Fratellis.. but like I haven't bought the CD yet, and I want to, but I also kinda don't.. cause I'm not a lesbian and the cover is pretty suggestive... so I dont want people to think I am from the CD's cover. what made the fratellis put that as their cover anyways? thanks.

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list anything you girls put in your purses.


like my aunt was being funny and said all them 13 year old abercrombie chicks carry around their abercrombie totes and all they have in it is a bottle of lipgloss. lmfao.

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Next weekend I'm seeing my boyfriend! and we're going to be riding around in his car, and we've already talked about going further and going to a certain point. I'm going to let him finger me, but thats all, but I just wanted to know, there's nothing bad to it..right? Just make sure he goes slow since this is my first time, and make sure he has no cuts on his finger. Yeah, his nails are cut short, and they look perfect, also, his hands are medium-ish, they look perfect to me! =]

I'm just wondering about this cause I read a question on here and a girl was having side pains..and yeah just making sure. If anything bad can happen, then I'm not going to do it. I hope it's okay that I'm making sure of this. I love my boyfriend so much..but he's had sex before, and what if I let him "eat me out" sorry if thats bad, but I mean, lets just say I did, is it ok? do I make sure he didn't get a disease from the last relationship he had? What if he did, then don't do it? Or what if he didn't?

Please answer this, thanks!

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i am applying for a college right now, and its really high maintenance. i was just wondering what to write on that personal assement bit...i want to be a lawyer...it says describe your intrests and what do you want to become in life and why. i really dont know what kind o hobbies because my mum said the more intellectual i sound would boost my chances?? so what can i say?? i mean i am smart but its natural if you know what i mean...all i do mostly is watch t.v and go on the computer...not really impressive haha.
sorry its long...i just wanted to make sure you understood everything haha...and i talk a lot...better go now haha :-d
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OK. Well I have a bf but am not planning on having sex THAT soon but I still have a question.

I have been hearing and reading [on here] that your first time hurts. And im wondering, does it hurt like REALLY bad, or is it worth it?? Because im kind of scared because I do not want it to hurt.

THANKS! any advice is wanted!
14/f

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How long do you think it would take to "Fully" trust someone again for lying?!?!? I know it depends on the situation but on average?!?!?

Thanks

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So homecomings up in like 2 weeks, but I have a boyfriend that doesnt go to my school. I havent talked to him yet about it. I dont think its his descion though but i think he has a say in it. I really want to go because i didnt go last year. Im in 10th grade. But I mean do you think its cheating to grind with other guys? Part of me says not to go because i have a boyfriend so why would i want to dance with other guys but the other parts saying that i just want to dance and have a good time. I need some advice!

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whats the website for the magazine cosmo?

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i know this is a weird question but what does and orgasim feel like.

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15/f
okay, so this is probably going to sound really bad but i need help. i dont really know why but i love "getting around"- not sleeping around or anything though. but like every guy that im into ill make out with them and i always let them finger me. but girls are starting to hate me and saying im a whore but guys really like me. and i know most of them just like me cause ill let them play around with me but i really dont mind- i really like it actually. but after most weekends i look back on what all i did and i let like at least 1 guy finger me a weekend- a lot of times more. is that really bad or am i just having fun? and feel free to be honest. thanks!

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okay so im 15/f and my boyfriend is 18. we started dating about a week ago. well hes older than me hes just a lot more experianced than me. we make out all the time and hes really like "fast" with it but its been fine with me. but i let him finger me last night and it was the first time someone has. well he was really fast and when it started to hurt i told him to slow down and he would just whisper to me that "ill be fine and he knows what hes doing" and he kept going just as fast. so i finally told him to just stop and he didnt and so i closed my legs and he just pushed them back and held me there until he was done.. im kind of scared now cause we've talked about having sex but im scared he'll hurt me a lot more and i dont really know what to do cause i dont want to break up with him but it really scared me when he was basically holding my legs apart when i was telling him to stop. what should i do?

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Ok... Im 17 turnning 18 in febuary... and i want to do something good... the problem is im not quite sure what to do... I'd like to have a big party, but im affraid to have it at home caus i know the place would get trashed... that and my parents would be there...
I was thinking i could rent a hall...or maybe even a cotege and invit fewer people...

What did you guys do for your 18th? Or other birthdays? What are some good party theems? or ideas?
anything is apreciated!
thanks!

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my boyfriend wants to finger me but ive never been fingered before and i know him well so im sure he will be rough .. when he starts to make it hurt what should i say to make him slow down a bit?

and please dont tell me not to do it- or talk to him before. thanks!

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i met a guy one night and we have talked since. we are really sexually active but havent quite had actaul sex yet but we always talk about it. but everytime we see each other all we do is like everything with each other but i told him im not sure about sex yet- idk what i should do cause i really like him and like playing around with him but i know if i have sex with him then i will probably get emotionally attached to him. so what should i do? and is what im doing totally sluttish since we're not dating or anything and i like still make out with other guys?

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what does fingering mean?? i was reading a book and these two people were making out and the guy put his arms under her shirt and it said he was fingering her bra. what does that mean? and what does it mean to pop your cherry?

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Well, here's the thing.
I've been dating my boyfriend Fred for 2 months. It'll be our two month anniversary tomorrow! Nothing has ever gotten in the way of our realationship, at least nothing until I went to Massachuttes. I mean, I've attracted other boys before, but I've always shrugged them off. I would say, "I have an amazing boyfriend, what else could I ask for?" But then I met Brandon. It was an instant attraction. So we would talk. Flirt. Talk. Flirt. And Flirt. I don't usually trust people but I instantly trusted him. When I left he gave me a hug and all his contact info. We talk like all the time and we both like eachother. He's not the the type that I usually go for. He's been through alot but he's really mature but at the same time so funny. I think that's what attracts me to him. We're so different, but at the same time, so much alike. Opposites attract. I mean, It's not like I don't love my boyfriend anymore. It's just differnt. I've talked to him about how I'm feeling, but I don't seem to say the right thing. Does this mean I've fallen out of love? Do I really have a choice anymore? Maybe I'm too young for anything. Please help. All advice is accepted.

In hope of help,
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I like this guy lets call him "Phil"(random name). I have a crush on him, he's at my new school. He plays guitar, is short, but cute, he luvs the same music i do(fob, mcr, p!atd, and to top it all off my locker is right next to his and we sit next to eachother for every class because of the seating chart. So today he sits next to me and my friend Tori for lunch. He says I remind him of his ex girlfriend. Now, from what I know from talking to him, he only has had one girlfriend and she and him were together 3 weeks ago, but he asked her to go to homecomeing with him, she said no and she brokeup with him. He was evidently head-over-heels for her.

FYI: I have a short attention span. So i just hear him say creepy and point at me. So i turned my head and said 'What's wrong with me being creepy?' He threw his hands up in surrender and said "You're not creepy at all! I said it's just creepy how much you are like my ex-girlfriend"

He's SO nice and cute! There's a Sady Hawkin's dance comin' up, so i was wondering what do u think he meant by that I'm like his ex, is that good or bad given the past.

I want him to know that I'm not some carbon clone of his ex if he does like me. How should I go about this.

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13/F

OMFG! I'm sick and tired of putting up with my dad! i hate him soo much! he's stupid and I'd wished he'd DIE! He's thrown me outside for saying goodnight, hes hit me for no reason, called me stupid names and menso(stupid) and a whole bunch of other stuff! My question is, How can I get him to divorce my mom?! how can I gt rid of him SOON?!?!?!? PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!! I hate him more than I hate the devil! if that's put in better words!!!!!!!!! UGGGH!!!!

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