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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.
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i think im fat.
i got my phisical like a week ago
and im 62 inches and i weighed 104 .
i think i gained like a pound or maybe lost idk.
but is that fat for me
tell the truth ♥
your bmi is 19. you're completely normal! and don't lose anymore weight otherwise your bmi will go down and you'll be considered underweight.
edit:
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
I need to lose weight. I need a pratical diet that I can go on that doesn't include special diet pills or insanely expesnive food.
I'm already working out 3 hours every other day, I just need to correct my diet.
Help out please? Thanks
Eats lots of fruits and veggies.
here's a list of negative calorie fruits and veggies:
Vegetables:carrots,broccoli,beets,cucumber,chili peppers,chicory,celery,endives,lettuce,cabbage,green beans, garlic, asparagus,turnip, spinich, radish, onion,zuccini,and bean sprouts.
Fruits:oranges, apples, strawberry, watermelon, raspberry,pineapple, peach,blueberry, cranberry,cantaloupe,grapefruit,honeydew melon, lemons, lime and mango.
those would probably be best to eat. 'cause when you eat them, they actually burn calories to digest.
drink lots of water. (8 glasses a day, suggested)
and just continue exercising, but don't over do it.
oh, and always always always eat breakfast. eating breakfast starts your metabolism for the day, and that's very important.
hope that helps!
13/F
Hi!!!,
Ok, my mom told me that I was to young for the book but I went ahead and read it anyway and it has Very described sex scenes in it, now ever since I read it i can stop thinking about it. I dream that I'm having it with my BF(we've touched e/o but never kiss or acually taken our clothes off) and last night I dreamed I had it and then I got pregnat and the baby died and.... oh my god. I was so scared. what should I do?
don't worry about it. you'll get over it soon :)
ok i have a aiptek is-dv digital camcorder. I hooked up the wire to the computer and then hooked it up to the camera and followed all the directions and downloaded everything i need and stuff. but usually when i plug in the camera a little window pops up asking if i wanna put the pics onto my pictures file and now it doesnt and either nothing pops up or it says theres a software error or something like that and the handbook thingy doesnt say anything about that. someone please help me!
maybe call the company or go on the campany's website.
good luck!
[[ 13/f ]]
I think I may have some type of mental disorder, I don't think its depression. Maybe ADD/ADHD. Let me explain. I cry a LOT. I am VERY VERY sensitive. I cry over everything, sometimes it causes arguments with my mom and stepdad, because my mom often tries to defend me when my stepdad gets angry when I cry when he dissapoints me. I am super sensitive, and I'm pretty sure that its not just my hormones. This has been happening since I was about 9. I'm terrified if someone gets mad at me and I constantly apologize. This might contribute to my crying. I just don't know what's going on. I need help.
add/adhd has nothing to do with your crying.
and you're normal. nothing wrong with you =]
i do the same thing. i cry a lot. i'm upset a lot. just the way some of us are.
my friend has tried to kill himself before. i just dont see why somebody why somebody would do that. because if you kill yourself, you automattically go to hell. and hell is more worse than anything you can be going through at the moment. so why would somebody wanna do this? i dont need help explaining this to my friend, he got help and he agrees with me on this.
There is no such thing as "hell".
And people lose faith. They lose hope. They want to let go. I've tried it, and I was completely lost when I tried it (several times, in fact). I felt like there was no reason to continue and I was pained too much. That is why.
is masturbating a sin? just a question---cuz i think its completely gross!!
No, it's not a sin. I even argued with my Christian friend about it and we looked it up online, it is not a sin.
And it's not gross. It's healthy. It releases chemicals in your brain that make you less stressed.
I don't know what group to place it in, but it is mental I can tell you that. My boy friend was the best person you could have ever imagined. Even though he is only 14 [so am I, female] He was great. He has the potential to do anything he sets his mind to, music, school, great with kids & adults, wonderful. One of the ,main thing I was attracted to, was his childness-ish. He was funny, not in a dirty way either, didn't swear, proclaimed to be saved and was ever-so respectful.
After about a few months af dating I allowed french kissing and holding, sorta a low quality makeout.Then it grew and grew, now, we didn't get into sex or anything and stayed on top of clothes, but I noticed a difference in him, about two months ago.He has always told me how he feel about everything, absolutely EVERYTHING, I asked him what was wrong, hios reply was always something but he never got to the point. I started telling him that there was somthing he wasn't telling me, he would always say no, there wasn't.
After a long while of thinking, praying and asking God for guidance, I realised that we should never have started the whole "kissing process" so we could regenerate our relationship, the way it was before. At first he was scared, he'd say "What?I thought everything was fine, why shouldn't we?" and My answer would alaways be "It is wrong and I believe God would rather otherwise" Then there'd be a conflict, and those always hurt the heart.
Now he gave me his msn password and I thought "I don't have anything to hide or lose" so I gave him mine. He forgot that He gave me his password and the other days I checked it.Was I ever shocked, hurt, crushed, heart broken...It just hurt so much, I was crying outloud saying "no....no, he couldn't have done this to me..." He had "porn4free!", "sexsearch", "you have received a wink from...blahdiblahblah"
PAIN CRWLS IN, I...I COULDN'T BREATH, I FELT AS IF IT WAS ALL MY FAULT AND THAT I WAS BLIND TO NOT HAVE SEEN IT COMMING.
Later to find out, He called me [after I ave him my two cents on msn, really, it wasn't much] He denied it, telling me they were spams...right.I didn't believe him, he blamed it on his computer breaking, and It was right in front of my face...all of it, his name, his way of talking, even his special password was there... the girls... the pain was Unbearable :"( ... Everytime I gave him proof, he said sorry and agreed...and He kept telling me half truths, I got him to tell his parents and they have taken the computer away form him for a month.
What could I do to help him[he said it started about after we stopped the kissing process [which was two months ago]And I want to know What can I do, how should I react? What can HE do, It is 2:30 in the morning, I couldn't sleep, I was bawling my eyes out and dind't want to bother everyone else.So I came down, wanting to ask questions to people, including you people.
I'm afraid to go near him showing my arms now, and look at my body in disproval, why did God create man to be pigs and women to be their food?
Thank you, I hope this question doesn't comfuse you, I just nee help, please.
Alright, I'm going to ignore the fact that you mentioned God about 5 times in this and I'm going to tell you something.
He's a FOURTEEN YEAR OLD MALE. Guys are horny. They always are, they always will be. It doesn't matter if they are Christian, they are still horny. It is perfectly NORMAL for him to be looking at porn and for him to be masturbating (not that you mentioned that, but when he's watching that stuff, that's what he's doing).
Everyone is curious, males are curious, girls are curious.
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with him looking at porn. nothing.
Let it go. It's fine. Just because he's looking at porn does not make him a bad person. He isn't going to try to get in your pants just because he watches porn.
Just let it go. Let him watch his porn. It will make him less stressed out.
I am into web design, and I would like a graphic design site, where I can post my things I made.
Besides freewebs, what site is 100 % free, and you start out from scrach. Like you imput your own stylesheet, make your own layout, and make everything how you want it.
Thanks!
you can do all of that on freewebs, but,
www.ripway.com
www.fateback.com (ads)
www.freehostia.com (this is pretty advanced)
www.host.sk
enjoy!
I'm a 15 year old girl...and i was just wondering how far you think i should go with a boy (please dont say "whatever i'm comfortable with")
and how far did you go when you were 15??
THANKS
Your age does not define your maturity. No one can tell you what is appropriate at 15. It's all about what you feel is right.
I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. You will only get people's opinions on this, you won't get a definate, dictionary definition of what is appropriate and what isn't at 15.
as for me, i'm 15 and i've only gone to second base (feeling up and such). i don't intend on going any further right now.
hi, i weigh 101 and i'm 5'4 and im a 16 yr old girl. im a ice skater and my coaches think im fat. i am very insecure with my weight and afraid to gain. i have decided that i am going to hardxcore diet but not become anorexic, what would be too skinny for someone my height and age.
101 for a 5'4" girl is underweight. i do not suggest losing anymore weight. show your coaches your bmi. http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
Alright i am a 15 year old girl. im pregnant. i have a great boyfriend. i dont get along with my dad or little brother. my mom and dad are getting a divorce. i choice to move with my mom. and my little brother choice to live with my dad. just recently i started cutting again. i no its not good and i talked to my boyfriend about it and ive been trying so hard to stop but there is so much drama. i just cry and i want to do it so bad. but i can i promised my boyfriend i wouldnt. my mom and i are moving out the end of the mnth. so i wont have to put up with my brother or my dad any more. but thats to long i cry everyday! and i want to cut everytime i cry or get angry. i need help!! and im crying out for help. i dont want to go talk to someone. i have a fear of talking to someone i dont know! so hopefully you guys can help me!
Cutting won't solve anything. I did it for over a year and it tore my life apart. If you haven't told your parents (or mom) already that you're pregnant, I would do that. And I would go to a therapist or counselor to help you through all this drama and stress. It sounds like there is so much going on, and no 15 year old should have to go through that. Please, help yourself before your cutting gets worse.
Seeing a counselor or therapist will help you tremendously.
if you need someone to talk to, let me know.
good luck!
OK, this isn't a "random weirdo" question, it just doesn't really fall under any other category. Any way, on with the question:
Is it normal, for a girl, to shave around the crotch? I don't mean shaving all of it, obviously. Just enough so that hair doesn't stick out when I wear a bathing suit?
completely normal
what is wrist banging?
when someone bangs their wrist against objects. it's self-injury.
OK, so me and my boyfriend have been having sex play. But, when I lightly circle around the tip of his penis....he says if I do that a lot it hurts. He says the same thing if I rub his testicles. I don't think this is "blue balls" cause he seemed to be making a big deal about it. So, apparently doing that a little bit turns him on...but too much hurts him. What is this and why is it happening?
from what i've read and such, the tip of the penis is very sensitive. there's a lot of nerves there.
as for testicles, i have no idea.
I think I may be bi... I never really thought about it before a few days ago, you see my friends and I were playing Truth (it's like truth or dare without dares)and "David" asked what my deepest, darkest secret was. I said that it was that I used to make out and do other things with a girl that used to live by me. Then I realized I do a whole bunch of other things, like look at women's faces and breasts. I never really enjoyed doing things with her, but it felt nice... sorta. I don't really want to be Bi (no offense!!! I'm an activist). Do you think this was just a phase or do I truly have feelings for women? I haven't had any feelings since and I don't intend on doing anything with girls again.
Thanks...
P.S. I have a boyfriend.
We're all a little curious at one point in our lives. And it doesn't matter if you're bi or not.
To me, it just sounds like you're curious and not bi. but that is just my opinion. you can only know yourself.
hey guys! i`m not really sure the purpose fo me posting this but yeah.. i am a 15/f and a Christian. i met this guy at church about two and a half years ago. his name is nick. he is the sweetest lil kid. he is one year younger than me and really cute! now i know he doesn`t like me but the other niite he called me and we somehow got on the subject of masturbation and whether or not i thought it was riite or wrong. i told him i didn`t think that it was wrong or anything and it kinda escalated from there. he told me to go to my computer and he sent me some sites of porn and i really liked them. then last niite, we watched tons of law and order episodes together because it had chris meloni in it (one of the guys from the sit he sent me). and then i mastubrated with him on the fone several times and he was too. is this wrong? i really don`t know what my question is so any comments or thoughts would be helpful!
Alright, just so you know, *no where in the Bible does it say it's sinful to masturbate*, so don't worry about that. But masturbating on the phone is completely fine, as long as you're comfortable with it.
Hi. I want to learn how to levitate the way that Chriss Angel does. (the MindFreak) Does anyone know how to, or knows any sites that teach this for free?
I'll rate high unless the answers are dumb.
Thanks in advance!
:D
Oh gosh...well. I really don't believe Chriss Angel does anything without the help of some sort thing, but the things he does is pretty cool, eh?
Well, it's a lot of mind over matter and it would take lots of training.
http://www.levitation.org/ here's a site. I looked at it real quick, I dunno if it gives you much info. It looks like it's about illusion which is what Chriss Angel does.
enjoy!
Today I was shopping with my mom, and i was picking out some clothes, i went over to show her what I found. & the first thing she says is "no black" and she walks away. So I like black clothes, so what?
And maybe I'm not the preppiest girl ever, and maybe I don't have the style that she wants me to have. But I should be allowed to wear what I want. I don't know what her problem is, at least I'm not walking around with bondage pants with 65486465 chains; (if thats what she is worried about)
So the thing is, I want to be able to wear the style of clothes I want. And how am I supposed to express myself if she won't let me buy the things I want? How do I explain to her?
Buy your own clothes. simple as that. or keep pushing the fact that you want to wear black.
Im 13/female and in school, im not really one of the popular people and i really want to be. What are some things i can do to get them to accepted me???
Popularity gets you nowhere in life. Don't even try it. Be YOURSELF. Not what others want you to be. If you be yourself, they'll love you more.
And hell, TALK to them.
But popularity is nothing. It doesn't show up on your college resume. It doesn't get you rich. It doesn't do anything.
Being 13 is an awkward time in life. I went through wanting to be "popular" in 5th and 6th grade and harshly learned that they'll never accept me because you can't be yourself with them. I have friends who are in the popular crowd, but I'm not popular. I just talk to people and ignore the fact that they are junior high royalty. They are normal people, just like you. They put their pants on one leg at a time, just like you (as my dad says, and it's very true).
Enjoy life at 13, don't fret about being popular. Like I said, it gets you nowhere in life. 20 years from now, no one will remember who was teen royalty in your school.