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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks now. We both like each other alotalotalot.
We've hung out with each other every weekend. He met my mom & dad, i met his mom, and our moms met each other.
The previous times that he has hung out at my house, we've just cuddled on the couch watching a movie. We've never made out (once i tried to..), just regular kissed. We both want to makeout with each other, and we've talked about it. Except everytime we plan to, my mom is at the top of the stairs, or we're supervised SOMEHOW. When we try to go outside, my mom is always like "NO KISSING" and she watches us.
I've made out with my last boyfriend several times, without my mom getting involed. I don't know if it's possible for my to go over my boyfriends house, because i know my mom would be suspicious and know what we want to do.
well im 13 too, and wen i was with my boyfriend[ex] i didnt really know what to do and where and my mom got suspicious, but we ended up never making out.. : [...but im not quite sure where you can. BUt you could try to talk to you mom about it. talk to her about kissing, and then talk to her about the whole ordeal. it would be best if you did it right before bed, good time to let it sink in. this might not be the best thing if you know she doesnt approve of it, but if it becomes your only opption you should. but im sorry i dnt really know where because i dnt know where you live. but i hope it works!
Lauren
well here's a pic of me.
http://i19.tinypic.com/29zr6hg.png
&& i want to know.. what would be a nice hair cut?
i want it in layers and still kinda medium length.i want a really nice layered look but, i dont know how it would like on me. can someone tell me what would be a great haircut and pictures please to see how it would look.
i have a friend who has hair that is like yours. a shorter cut with layers would be nice. you seem to have thick hair so layers would be nice and easy. but not too many that are too short, just enough to make it look pretty, and still style it. a good legnth would be a little bit, about an inch and a half below you shoulders. hoe that helps.
Lauren
i dont know what to do. well for the past 4 years ive been smoking ciggarettes. alot of the time with my friends. none of my family knows. i'll be 18 soon in over a month so it probably wont be a big deal since ill be legal. but im sick of having to hide my smoking. its a horrible addiction, but lately ive been so stessed out they are all i have to help my stress. i dont want to tell my parents because i know they will punish me and be in complete shock. my moms boyfriend smokes all the time and ive been stealing his ciggarettes but im afraid he will find out and ill be in deep trouble. i dont know what exactly im asking for but in your opinion do you think i should worry about it for the next month or just eventually tell my parents after i turn 18. little things like going to the doctors and them asking me if i smoke i lie and say no. it does put my health at risk. i feel guilty for smoking..but i dont want to stop.
this is a really hard thing to deal with, but you will have to stopp. Nicotine patches might help, or anything of that sort. Plus, smoking that young is really unhealthy, smoking in general is, but that young is serious and you could get heart problems young or sick, and that would result in having to tell you parents the truth. SO you really should choose some nicotines guns or patches, which ive been told work real well. I have family members who smoked and it helped them. You may get sidaffects that make you VERY moody, but a good excuse is yor stress. MEanwhile you might want to try to find some new methods to get rid of your stress. there are books on it.
each year for easter my family gets together and has an egg drop contest. for those who don't know what an egg drop contest is, it's where you make kindof an apparatus for a raw egg so that it doesn't crack when thrown off a building. in the past years i haven't been too lucky with the contest and i was wondering what may be some good suggestions for it?
**please nothing about peanut butter, packing peanuts, jello, or balloons. i've tried all of these and they've failed me in the past
my brother recently did this in his physics class. YEs his didnt break and it did require balloons so ill skip that. But one thing you could try, which may or may not work, is to put it in a box of small rocks, and wen it is tossed make sure it is in an area that it wont have a huge impact. it sounds odd but it really did work!!! hopefully it does, and if you dont like that idea, you honestly dont need to use it. hope the advice wokrs though.
Lauren
i have a problem. ive been friends with this kid 'tom'. we're really, really close, and i just recently found out he likes me because he told one of my friends, who eventually told me. i was shocked, yet happy at the same time. Ever since i found this out, we have been together all the time in school. [in the halls, ect.] we also have a couple classes together and we text all the time in class. =X, ha, anyways, i have concluded that i really like him, alot, which is great for me because ive had trouble likeing someone ever since my last relationship i was in.[it was terrible.] But, theres one problem, hes 100% mexican, and pretty dark. Im irish, and my dad has a huge problem, and won't let me date anyone who's 'not white'. This bothers me because he is honestly, one of the nicest, and best friend i could ever ask for, and i really, really like him, and would love to date him. But i know my dad wouldn't approve. How could i try to talk to my dad about allowing me to be with him ? =/
If you really like this kid then you should give it a try, and talk to your dad about how he is a good guy. My first serious relationship was with someone who was black, and i went to a very white school, and my dad didnt seem to like it very much either. But a good way to resolve a problem like that is to talk to your dad, or even both your parents to let them know that even if he isnt white, he still is a good kid and they should give him a chance. If they dont like him in the end then they can deal with it. So dont let your parents get in the way if you truly like him, just talk to them. hope that helps
hey ppl! well, i'm 14/f. and my 8th grade promotion is coming up and i need a new dress. see, in January, i got this dress, but now i'm just getting tired of it and want something a little cuter. the dress that i had was really cute. but i think i just want a diffrent one. my mom said that we would go get a different one tommorow, and take my other one back. but i'm not quite sure what i'm looking for exactly.ok, i'm exactly 5 foot tall, weigh 170 i wear a size L or XL in dress ( i think) and i want something pretty. like a rose color or something. i have dark brown hair, so anything that will look good on brunetts. i don't think i'm missing anything, but if i am i will add more info. thanks so much everyone!!!!!!
i think you should get a dress that compliments you shape. now im not sure if your curvy or not but you might want to get a dress that is not too tight but not too loose. a rose color would be perfect, but maybe a little deeper depending on the style of the dress. It would probably be pretty if it was plain, not too many designs, or things that get in the way. You should also get a dress that isnt too long, so not floor length, but one that isnt showey. it should be like a normal dress, with small straps, no sleeves. For some reason i keep imagining a red dress that is slightly, but not too tight, that kind of flares out alittle at the bottom. I really hope that helps!
Lauren
Im a freshman in highscchool and my bf's a senior. We havent been goin out for long but i really like him. My parents were fine with him at first but now they think we'r having sex and stuff, so they dont trust me. And my mom wont let me see him anymore, so its difficult because we never get to hang out. And im not aloud to go in his car, and now they wont even let me stay after school for extra help because they think im with him. They are being waaayy too strict and my mom never listens to me when i ell her this. I hate how shes so protective and she doenst let me do like anything. Its annoying and i seriously want to move out, but i cant. Its stressing both me and my bf out, but he said hes not goin to let it get to him because he really likes me and wants our relationship to last. But its so agrravating how they wont let me do ANYTHING! how can i get them to give me more freedom? and what do i do about seeing my bf?
i think that you should have a serious talk with your parents, becasue it could really help, and maybe mention him coming over for dinner so they can actually see that he is not like they think. That would be my approach.