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Im a freshman in highscchool and my bf's a senior. We havent been goin out for long but i really like him. My parents were fine with him at first but now they think we'r having sex and stuff, so they dont trust me. And my mom wont let me see him anymore, so its difficult because we never get to hang out. And im not aloud to go in his car, and now they wont even let me stay after school for extra help because they think im with him. They are being waaayy too strict and my mom never listens to me when i ell her this. I hate how shes so protective and she doenst let me do like anything. Its annoying and i seriously want to move out, but i cant. Its stressing both me and my bf out, but he said hes not goin to let it get to him because he really likes me and wants our relationship to last. But its so agrravating how they wont let me do ANYTHING! how can i get them to give me more freedom? and what do i do about seeing my bf?
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To make your parents trust you more, you should calmly and rationally try to explain to them that you understand the kind of behavior they expect from you and make sure they know that you wouldn't betray their trust or do anything you know they wouldn't approve of. About seeing your bf, you should respect your parents wishes and follow their rules because that is the way to prove how mature you are. As tempting as it may seem, if you disobey your parents and they find out (which they most likely would, eventually), it's not worth it because you would have to work even harder to undo the damage and regain their trust.
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well the best thing to do is not get in any troube, do things to let her see how mature you really are. right her a letter maybe ,and give it to her if shes not listening tell her you would neevr do it, because its not worth losing her trust or hurting her like taht. just be really honest with her and everything should go well. i promis. ask her what really changed her mind because there has to be something else
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i think that you should have a serious talk with your parents, becasue it could really help, and maybe mention him coming over for dinner so they can actually see that he is not like they think. That would be my approach.
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That is pretty strict. You should start with talking to your parents about why they dont want you to see him. Let them know that you know wand understand where they were coming from and just tell them that you aren't having sex and that you will talk to them when you start. Or you could invite your boyfriend over to dinner, if your parents want, and they can talk to both of you in a mature, calm way. Good luck.
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See if they will alow him to come over so they can get to know him and make sure they get to know the good part and dont do much in front of them be on you best and say you will do extra chors around the house or if you have a younger brother and sister offer to baby sit and see if he can come over and baby sit with you and sit your parents down and talk to them like you are an adult and have them understand that you are not intersted in sex even tho you might be tell them you are not and try earning there trust dont yell when you are talking to them.
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