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hey everyone... Im just a girl that loves to give advice...and hopefully im good at it...dont get mad at what i say tho because all I do is tell the truth on how i feel
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland...the best state EVER
Occupation: middle school...it sucks majorly
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what? (link)
but do you love him? love is sooo complicated. maybe you should really ask yourself if you do. and if you are sure you do then ask him if he really and truely loves you if he doesnt tell him that you think you should break up even if it breaks your heart because who would want to be in a relationship where you only give the love and not recieve any in return


My boyfriends parents just said he could have the basement as a room to hang out in. He gets minor water leakage in one corner. We are going to move all the storage into the garage. the walls are already painted and in good condition. We are just going to use this room as a hang out. Any ideas or themes? Don't forget its all cement and has cement poles in there. Only 2 windows too.

Thanks!!!!! (link)
you should use like his favorite sport team as a theme then it would be personal to him and he owuld enjoy it you could put up some posters and stuff and paint the walls the teams colors


Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do? (link)
well now ther isnt anything you really can do you should have told them yes i still have feelings for him... even if it made you look bad you wouldnt have been lying but since you did you should tell her that it bothers you that they are or are going to go out


alrite..this is confusing and will sound dumb, but anyways i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for..awhile now and i wanna make out with him but i dont know how to bring it up...i don`t rly see him that much so idk..any ideas? (link)
just make the move at the right time and you will be able to tell when the right time is... you wont need to talk about...if he feels its the right time then he might make the move...but if he doesn't then you can... im sure your boyfriend is just as nervous as you are


My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:( (link)
he wont dump you if he really likes you so go ahead and tell him that you think the reason you broke up the other times was them and you dont want them to effect what he thinks again


what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it? (link)
there is nothing wrong with it people say its in the bible but so is brothers and sisters having sex...**think about it and you will realize what i mean**


i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
help (link)
NO NO NO!!! tell him he cant control your life...that is not a small cup size and that is kinda shallow of him to tell you that if he wants to be in your future and loves you he wont care that you have a 34b cup size


i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do? (link)
wear a ton of deoderant and spray water on your face so other people cant tell what is sweat and what is water


im going to my friends house 2morro and well the girl that owns the house i havent seen her ever since school ended!! shez my best friend!! but sumtimes my friendz think i act like a looser... i dont wunna look bad n act like a looser 2 so wut should i wear? my other best friend is coming and she alwayz thinks ima looser!! but she thinks that with alot of her best friendz were all so crazy!! lol. help!! =) (link)
if u r going kinda late go shopping and get a really cute skirt **light colors are cutest** and a white top **low cut if you are going somewhere with them or halter** if you arent going late then wear sofees and a tank top or halter **again light colors if you have them they are very summmery**


if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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juat say i already have a boyfriend if they say who just say he lives in a different town


all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out? (link)
start flirting with a bunch of guys and say something like "I'm so glad I am unatached cuz i can flirt and dance with a bunch of guys without feeling horrible" that will make them feel jealous that they cant


does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good! (link)
Papya...5*7*9...hollister is a little better...and those places all have clothes that are like the more expensive places but are cheaper


ok i have been seeing this kid for like a month and im really starting to like him alot... but we are just "dating" and now his ex is like trying to jump back in... which i think shes a total bitch and he knows i do... is this just jealousy im feeling or is there something i can do. i hope she doesnt steal him... .

nicole (link)
I think you and her are both jealous if your boyfriend really like you he will stay with you even if she tries hard as hell to get him back he is YOUR boyfriend not hers she just needs to realize that


i have had this best freind of mine since i was in 4th grade. recently in 8th grade she and i started acting really different. i cared what other people thougth of me, and she couldnt care less...i knwo i shoudlnt care...but thats not what im askin advice about. well one time she told me that she had to go to the doctor and i might never see her again and left it at that. so i was worried. well it turned out that she had family problems and she was cutting herself. well we 'broke up" as friends and my parents are always askin why dont i ever talk to her anymore. im afarid that they wont except that we broke up bcuz she acted weird and i just thougth she was plain weird for an answer...what do i do? (link)
I think you really need to tell your parents...and you should try to help your ex friend... even if she is your ex friend you should check out some clinics that specialize in trying to help people with that


ok im 14, im a girl. if i like a guy i never do anything...mabye flirt a lil bit but other than that i would always wait for the guy to make the first move...but now i feel like all my freinds always get the guys...but they never do anything..so what do i do? (link)
you need to go up to a guy you like but see if he was looking at you first cuz if he wasnt you dont want to be rejected...try to give him a flirty look then go up to him


I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
maybe try calling them??? that idea ever pop into your mind... it is such a simple solution... and suggest doing other things out of school besides a party that you throw


How do I get more friends?? I have two best friend but it feels like no one else is really my friend.... like I only have 2 friends!! I think I'm pretty... I mean people tell me I'm pretty and modeling agents come up to me (not to sound cocky but I'm just trying to tell ya the whole story) I used to be popular back in 8th grade but now I dont know what happend.... I mean I have A LOT of "not really/kinda sorta" friends. I know i need to "be myself" but I dont know how to... HELPZ (link)
I cant tell you how to be yourself... but to get more friends you are going to have to go up to people and say hi or whatever dont make them go to you


Hey I need advice um..i like this 12 year old girl and im 16 should i go outwith her because she likes me i only know her bout 8 weeks already we barely talk when we talk we see at other at dances i love her so much i kiss her on the first time we meet (link)
I think there is to much of an age difference...16 going out with a 12 year old??? that just isnt good..i know u like her but come on???




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