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i sometimes feel depressed and like the world doesnt want me not all the time but most of the time!!!i have fun with my family sometimes but we argue all the time! then sometimes find myself faking injures so i can get medication but when my mom tells me to go get it from the cabinet i take more than im supposed to so it can make me go to sleep so i can hear anymore arguing! Then i find myself ctting constantly over stupid things! Then ill write sucide poems i keep them all in a box and later on when im fine i read them it makes me more depressed. I started smoking b/c i heard somewhere that it calms you down. sometimes i get frunk just so i cant remember what happened last night. i fell like im the worst person ever and i really want to die! does anybody have any advice? plz help
-lost hope
see a doctor or get counseling, because it will probably save your life and I feel for you, you have so much ahead of you and there ARE people who care about you and you can't let them down... i urge you PLEASE get help from a professional, but maybe try talking to your parents first because they can help too
[16/f] so here's the deal. i have a guy friend turned best friend. we've been friends for just less than a year and we've had our share of ups and downs. in the past 2 months, we've become really close. we used to go to the same school but not anymore but despite th distance we've managed to get closer. i go see him at least once a week now and he calls me everyday to tell me "i love you." he writes me letters, draws me pictures, takes me out to movies, and cuddles with me. lately he's been jokingly saying that he's my boyfriend and whatnot and i guess it got me thinking that there might be a possibility that he might like me. i used to like him LONG time ago but not anymore. all my friends, my family and EVEN his family says he likes me but i just can't bring myself to believe them. and just yesterday he asked me if he could spend new years with me instead of being with his family. i guess i'm just looking for a second and non biased opinion from someone else to tell me if it seems like this guy seems to like me. and if you think he does, should i confront him and ask him if he does? how do i avoid having him fall for me? should bestfriends ever turn into something more? i'm not ready for a relationship and i'm not looking to be with anyone for a long time coming. thanks for any help =)
I think he likes you, but it doesn't sound very deep or anything yet, and it seems like you're handling it fine. Once it gets to the point where you feel uncomfortable, just tell him you liked it better when you were just good friends and that you hope it can stay that way. good luck
What does Dolce vita mean? What does dolce mean?
sweetly, in music atleast
I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :)
It's great and i truly do think you would be ready from what you are telling me, but i mean, why not wait, if you KNOW that you are going to be together a long time from now. And knowing that God will forgive doesn't give you an excuse to do it. I'm sorry, but it is a sin, and if you are truly wanting forgiveness for something, then that means you regret it, and if you are asking for forgiveness before it happens, that won't make any sense. Just think. you are smart. use common sense, and don't ruin your life, don't take that chance.
Ok I have a presentation to make tomorrow (7 minutes long min.) and whenever I go up in front of the class.. i get soo nervous that my voice starts to shake! it is so embarrasing! and the weird thing is i really don't care about being in front of the class.. but for some reason my voice shakes? can anyone help me with my problem??
I have the same exact problem, what i do is i blank everything and everybody else out but myself and what i am saying/doing. don't worry about it, just try your best and it will work out fine. have confidence!
i tend to pop my pimples so i ended up with these nasty dark scars. what is something i can do so these scars wont show up or either go lighter so they arent much more noticeable?
Wear concealer, and go to the dermatologist, i think they have something to help that, and don't pop your pimples any more thats gross.
I have a big halloween party this saturday. Thing is .. everyone is dressing up slutty and fun and cute, but every costume i think of that hasnt been taken already, is just lame (think lindsay lohan's in mean girls) and i really need ideas for a halloween costume .. or something i can make up for one. IM DESPERATE!!! Anything you can think of, i will love u for life. (i rate high)
THANKS GUYS!!
YOU HAVE TO DO THIS its so original:
Wear a nude bra and whatever you want for pants, then take a black strip of poster board with "censored" on it, and put it over your boobs.
i have long (3 inches above my butt) semi-wavy hair, and i want to wear it down-ish (either entirely down, or mostly down) for homecoming. but i need a picture to take with me to the stylist, so if you have any pictures that are super cute, please send 'em my way
http://beauty.about.com/od/hairstylephotogalleries/ss/hairgallery_3.htm
AWESOME style-- its sooo hott!! You would love it!
I'm a republican, and every single one of my friends are democrats. If they insult the president (Even though they know that I'm republican) then it's okay, but if I say any republican views they all look at me like I'm a bad person. What should I do? I'm not the kind of person to just sit back in any type of debate but I can't help but feel like my opinion doesn't matter just because it's not a democratic one.
Your opinion does matter! My rule is that in public, you should keep religion and politics out of it... it could easily start a fight when people hold strongly to their beliefs. My suggestion: when politics comes up, try to change the subject
Ok I accedently ordered books from Scholastic (BIG MISTAKE!) and didn't pay for them because I didn't know it. Now they sent me a letter from a collection agency and they want me to pay! But I got on their web site and contacted them but they never responded and I couldn't renew my order! What can i do!?!?!? Please I WILL RATE EVERY 1 5's!!! SWEAR! 13/f
FIRST: ask your parents... they know best, and most likely have been in these situations before.
SECOND: try contacting the company by phone rather than computer, it is more reliable that way.
If you still can't figure it out, then I would just pay the money... It can't be that much can it?? because if you don't you could have late fees or something like that.
is there anyway i can make my face looks skinyer
Let your hair grow out long and don't make it look thick or round around your head (if it isn't that way already)You might also try searching google.
my friend spent the night at my house and her cousin was at her house but he has aol and yahoo and stuff. so we were talking to him online. i think i like him. and he said he wants to be my boyfriend. but i already have a boyfriend. whos millions of miles away right now. he'll be back in September but i dont know what to do! my recent boyfriend is 1 year younger than me and this guy is 2 years older than me. (i know, i dont date guys my age lol) I don't know what to do! the one whos not my boyfriend is in a different town but it only takes about 6/7 minutes to get to his town and i go to my brothers house in that town almost every weekend and sometimes weekdays. but we go to different schools and stuff. the only way we would see each other is when he goes to my friends house..cuz their cousins...lol. and i live half a block away from my friend. and my boyfriend goes to my school and lives in the same town but i still never get to see him......hes in a different part of the school. i dont know what to do!! help me please. i dont wanna cheat. :( sorry its so long.
*will rate 5's*
If you don't think the relationship with u and ur boyfriend will work out with the distance problem, then I would just wait til it doesn't work. Or if it does work, then you need to decide who's better for you. Who treats you right? Who wants you more? Hope I helped.
okay so i'm doing all my school clothes shopping on monday so i have to get all of them in one day. i was wondering what is like 'in style' and what i should definitely buy when i go. THANKS!
Basically some jeans with designs and stuff just for fun and some comfy t shirts with abstract pictures or sayings. If ur into the rockstar look-- you NEED some Gouchos!!!! They're awesomely cute and comfortable! Those with some hoop earings and a sequiny top (not too sequiny) but just a little shimmer would be a great outfit! Good luck!
I have very fine hair. It's about shoulder length and I have lots of layers and bangs (its blonde too by the way) The problem is it's super straight and kinda thin so when I roll it to make it look thicker in the morning it always ends up fallin down and looking icky. haha. what could i do to help my hair hold the curl, who should i get a special hair cut...if so what kind?
Get a curling gel-- I have curly hair that easily falls straight so to get the wet wavy hott look I would do that
It works well with thin hair cuz my good friend does that alot with her thin hair.
if ur reallly bored please help me...ahah. ok for the first day of school i wanna hav the best outfit...better than every1 else. It's gonna be around 80 degrees. I have no clue what I am going to waer. I love abercrombie and hollister..and i want to do something wild and fun... and hav people be like...whooaa. but not too whoaa. What should I wear. jweleary and shoes inlcuded. could u please giv me the links that the clothing is on and stuff...thank-you so much. I'll rate!! I do have a budget..no more than like $$150. thank-you
Okey, I dunno if u know what these are, but they're called Gouchos, and theyre really comfy and cute and very IN In IN so they're like capris but not jeans they're like athletic material- just they don't look like sweats or anything. So I think those and some cute Big earings to give the rock star look, and a frilly kind of top, with either gold or silver- I myself like bronzey gold... but you could probly find it at Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, or Urban Planet. Hope I helped!
i got brown hair dye on my pink shirt and i need a way to get it out!!!!!!!! except i have no money to buy anything sooo if theres any home remedy miracles to help please tell me!! if i dont get it out my parents will kill me!!
THANKS
First off, do NOT dry it at all, keep it wet, and in cold water too... i don't know any other way to get it out, but I do know how not to get it out permanantly-- by exposing it to heat or dryness.
ok i know this is bad but i just told my dad to burn in hell and hes REALLY MAD what do i do
Tell him you're really sorry and you didn't mean it, and for whatever reason you told him that, try to compromise. Don't try to act innocent towards him and don't try to get out of it. Just admit that it is your fault, as you did in your question "i know this is bad".
Do you think Nukum should be an olympic sport?
Not personally, but if you get really good at it and have a group of friends that are good, then maybe it's a possibility, but I think the game should stay more casual and uncompetitive.
What is this "&hearts" thing everyone is saying? Is it from a movie or did one person just say it so now every other stupid girl has to go along and say it to.
It shows up as a heart sometimes... I don't use it though...
school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers!
Here are some tips...
1: Go to a hair stylist and get it thinned out.
2: Do not blow dry.
3: (if curly) use a curling gel and let it air dry overnight.
4: (if straight) use a straightener to remove the waves and then brush-- your hair will be thinner by then.
5: Buy some cool clips and stuff that are different so that people will notice. I did that and all my friends (and even if they weren't my friends) said " where'd you get that?"
Hope this helps and good luck with your hair!