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i dont know what to do. so confused.
my friend spent the night at my house and her cousin was at her house but he has aol and yahoo and stuff. so we were talking to him online. i think i like him. and he said he wants to be my boyfriend. but i already have a boyfriend. whos millions of miles away right now. he'll be back in September but i dont know what to do! my recent boyfriend is 1 year younger than me and this guy is 2 years older than me. (i know, i dont date guys my age lol) I don't know what to do! the one whos not my boyfriend is in a different town but it only takes about 6/7 minutes to get to his town and i go to my brothers house in that town almost every weekend and sometimes weekdays. but we go to different schools and stuff. the only way we would see each other is when he goes to my friends house..cuz their cousins...lol. and i live half a block away from my friend. and my boyfriend goes to my school and lives in the same town but i still never get to see him......hes in a different part of the school. i dont know what to do!! help me please. i dont wanna cheat. :( sorry its so long.
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Well, if you don't think you like this new guy more than your current b/f, then go for it. ask him out! but don't do ANYTHING until/unless you break up with your b/f first. Think about what you really want, before you do anything too. Who will you see more often? Who do you trust more? Who do you think it would last longer with? Who can you talk to about serious things, AND joke around with as well? (I don't know if that kind of stuff matters to you when it comes to guys, but it does to me.) If you go out with this new guy make sure it wouldn't cause any problems between you and your friend (for dating her cousin) or between you and any one for that matter. Just follow your heart!
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If you don't think the relationship with u and ur boyfriend will work out with the distance problem, then I would just wait til it doesn't work. Or if it does work, then you need to decide who's better for you. Who treats you right? Who wants you more? Hope I helped.
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Whatever you do, don't do anything with this guy unless you break it off officially with your boyfriend first. If you think this other guy is truly worth it and you like him better than your boyfriend, you should end things with your boyfriend - it's not fair to lead a guy on like that.
I know it may be frustrating having your boyfriend on vacation, but that's not a good enough reason to start thinking about dumping him. Again, if you like one guy better, don't lead the other on. So if you like your boyfriend better, make sure the other guy knows you just want to be friends.
Hope it helps - weird answer, I know.
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