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where can i get free ringtones? annyyyboddyyyy know? i used to have phonezoo.com but now that site is full of stupid ones.
I use http://mobile17.com/ and http://www.myxer.com/
Does anyone out there know any good work from home opportunities...you know like data entry or some service I could provide where I wouldn't have to sell something, where I could make enough money to replace my job. I would in theory like to make about $500/week or more working 6 hours or less per day. There is one called Auction from Home (I read all the complaints about it so I'm not going to join that one) but I know there are some good ones that work and I would like to do something like that :) Thank you so much
My mom is a Medical Transcriptionist. It doens't seem that hard, you just have to know all kinds of different medicines and big words that I've never even heard of. Besides that, you just type what the doctor says. It's like a pre-recorded report of the patient, and you type it out onto a form and send it in (online). My mom does a bunch everyday and she makes a decent amount of money.
So about a month a go I was hanging out with my boyfriend and our friend and our friend said that he hadnt worked all that week and that he had been bored all week. Well later that night I called his girlfriend and we were talking then she said that she hadn't seen him all tthat week and I ask why and she said that he was working then I told her that he told me differnt and then she dumped him. A few people found out that I told her that and think I purposly broke them and now everyone including her is mad at me and its been about a month and they all keep talking bad about me and they talk bad to me to my OWN BOYFRIEND! He tells them I didnt do anything and sicks up for me but even my own cusin is mad at me. How do I fix all of this? can I fix all of this? I didnt mean to do it I told her to think about it before she dumped him.
What?
Smell is important in my book. But what scent do you guys love a girl to wear.. vanilla? fruity? perfumy? anything else? Lots of different responses would be great.
I've answered almost everyone one of your questions now, but will you please stop trying to impress the 'guy.' If you like yourself, he'll like you. Do what YOU want, don't try to find out what he wants and become it and mess around with his head.
I've hung out with this guy a couple times. There's been soo many PERFECT places and times to kiss him. How many times should two people hang out alone before something happens?
Depends on how often you hang out.
Do guys like to Talk on the Phone with a Girl at Night?
If the guy actually likes the girl, and the girl isn't boring to talk to on the phone.
What's an ideal outfit for a girl to wear to hang out with a guy?
Every guy likes different things. If you dress in mini skirts and skimpy tops like a slut, you can imagine what type of guy is going to be attracted to that. Dress in the style that fits you, that represents your personality, and that you feel comfortable in.
Do guys not like it when girls wear their hair in a ponytail? How do guys like girls to wear their hair?
Some guys think it's sophisticated, while some guys look at it like it's just messy and easy. Guys just like it when a girl takes care of herself. If you put it up nicely, then that's cool, but when you just throw it up, guys don't like that much.
17/f
in 9th grade i was bestfriends with this gurl Alyssa and this new guy came to our school his name is Emo and when i first saw him i liked him but Alyssa got to him first and so i had to push my feelings away and force friendship...and soon all three of us were really good friends..but one day Alyssa got into a car accident and the impact from the back of the drivers seat crushed her nose and part of her face so she was in the hospital for a very long time, mean while it used to be Alyssa,emo and me walkin down the halls but now it was just me and emo so we were both going through a lot of pain, which without her, it made us closer emotionally...and she got better but then not long after she cheated on him, and by this time he could tell me anything...so it was hard because her being my bestfriend i was telling him that she would never cheat on him, but i was wrong so it hurt me that i lied to him for her soo then he broke up with her and i didn't like Alyssa very much because she hurt him so me and Emo became closer and not but two weeks after we started dating...being with him was the best feeling i have ever felt...which was almost two years ago...he made me feel incredible..i can't recall a happier time...so anyways then we dated for almost four months and i heard rumors that he cheated on me with Alyssa and it was true he even told me...i was upset but he wasn't sure about our relationship he felt bad and so he broke up with me and i have had bad months trying to get over him he was able to move on but i havn't dated since we broke up which was nov. 28, 2007 and i had lots of drama with Alyssa but we are friends again today..and then i was finally getting over him. (2008, May) i was hangin with my parents when suddenly he called me and told me he wanted to be us again but shortly after Emo had gotten into some trouble and had to move half-way across the state (he is in foster-care) so we have been writing eachother back and forth thru mail and we started fallin for eachother again everytime i got a letter i cried..cuz i was happy and the lastime i saw him was in march or may of 2008.i cried cuz i wasn't over him....so he is supposed to come back July this year (2009) and its been a lil over a year i havnt seen him but yesterday Sunday (6/7/08) he was in town for a grad. party and i went with my friend Alyssa to see him and i had planned to tell him we were just gonna be friends but once i saw him memories came back and my adrenaline was pumping and i noticed the only reason i was to tell him we were just friends is because thats what everyone else wanted even my mom but i can't let him go.. and we didn't talk at first but he was tryin to get me to talk and hug him but i was afraid i would cry...overall he didn't want me to leave he kept makin excuses for me to stay but i cudn't and so when we left i cried so hard when i was walkin down my road to my house all i could think about was being with him and i didn't want his feelings to leave me again so i had thoughts of suicide because i just knew i cudn't be with him without someone being mad at me....i don't know what to do??? so PLEASE PLEASE give me advice i will never forget it Bless You
I hope Emo isn't his real name, poor kid. But anyway... since you "took him back" that fast after he left, he is now going to feel free to come and go whenever he pleases.
By the way, just because Alyssa liked him at the beginning meant you had to not like him? That's a big problem in itself.
But I don't understand what you're confused about. He lives far away. There's nothing you can do. You can keep writing him, but it's not like he's going to be able to move back, is it? Don't kill yourself over this. Boys will come and go. But remeber to always do what YOU want, and if you want to keep writing him...feel free to do so.
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this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..
last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life?
Honey, you ARE naive. He's probably just waiting for you to calm down. I know this is your first time to go through this, but it's going to happen plenty of more times. You have to learn to go with the flow and back off when people need space. You always wanted him to back off, now it's your turn to do the same. You've just got to stop and think clearly. Both of you do and say different things than you really mean. All this will be over someday, and you two will talk again. But when you're begging him, you're just feeding him the satisfaction he wants. He's going to keep doing this until you change. You have to MAKE him WANT to talk to you. I think it's your turn to ignore him now. People always want what they can't have. You think you can't have him, so you want him. Now you've got to turn this around and make him think he can't have you, and they will make him come crawling back. After time you'll learn how to play the game. And here's something you should remember: just because a guy cries and acts upset doesn't mean they're REALLY upset and it doesn't mean that they'll be upset later on. When they get home, they're going rethink it and their minds can change in an instant. So when he got home, I'm sure he did exactly what you were yelling at him to do.
okay i havent ever fingured myself. But my boyfriend ask if he could fingure me what do i do. i want to because i love him alot but i dont know what to do while its happening.
Please please please help me.
You still haven't learned how to spell it right.
Lol.
Are you going to rate me 1 again?
...What do you think you're supposed to do? Do what feels right. Do things to him. Kiss him. Touch his hair. Don't do something just because someone else says to.
whats the best way to coverup a compleatly stupid joke or statement so the people around you dont pay you out and say "dude thats soo lame". ??? (chick 14)
Just kidding.
everyday i getatextfrom "41414" telling me the wheather of a place i do not even know of.
how do i get this to stop?
Usually all you have to do is text 'STOP' back to the number.
how can you get rid of your period a.s.a.p
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Just wait.
You can't control nature.
If you find a way, lemme know.
Last night, i had a realllly amazing sexual dream haha
it was the first one that i've ever had.
i'm not a sexual person, but i masturbate a lot.
how can i get myself to have more sexual dreams?
i've tried lucid dreaming before, but i can never seem to get myself to realize i'm in the dream. i just can't do it.
any tips on how to lucid dream?
i really want to have more sexual dreams though, so if you have any ideas on how to that'd be great!
Think about sex more. Haha.
If you could get lucid dreaming down, you'd be able to decide what you want to dream about.
I'm able to lucid dream all the time, it's not that hard. Keep a dream journal and write your dreams down every morning when you wake up. Also, a big part of it, is during the day hold up your hand and ask yourself 'am I dreaming?' Then later when you're dreaming, you'll probably hold up your hand (since you think about it often, and that's what dreams are about) and when you see your hand, you'll ask yourself if you're dreaming.
OKay my boyfriend and i have dated for a really long time we have only made-out and held hands. i have never been fingured before and i want to experience it with him.. But i haven't ever fingured myself and i dont know what to do in this situation.. Do i just sit there or what
PLEEEAAASSEEE HEEELLLP!!
You wait. Until you can calmy ask questions, and spell things correctly.
how do you have sex in the water.
The same way you have sex on land.
But you really shouldn't, because I've heard it can cause problems for the girl.
Dear Advice,
Im fat and ive tried everything from pills to being a little anarexic. What should I do.
Starving yourself and wishing it away won't do anything. Maybe it will for a short period of time, but after that, it will just get worse. Starving yourself can damage your body and make it harder for you to lose weight later on in life. The only way to do this, is to exercise, eat right, and drink lots of water. Just a few sit up and a jog around the block everyday can make a huge difference. Cut out the caffeine and junk foods and make sure to add fruits and vegetables to every meal. Not only will this make you lose weight, but it will also make you feel a lot better.
my cat is about a year old. shes very tiny, and has always been on the thinner side. there was even a time when someone made a comment about how "fat" she was getting.
well, a while back, she started throwing up. a LOT. like almost 3 or 4 times a week. she'd eat waaaay too much and end up not even chewing up half of it, and then she'd turn around and throw up anywhere.
since that has been happening, she hasn't been getting much nutrients. and shes also eating less and less and losing waaaaay too much weight. she's getting so thin and bony. she still goes outside and runs around and stuff, but im concerned about her weight. if she was a person, id call this bulimia. but shes not a person...shes a kitten. and im really worried.
can someone tell me what i can do? or if you recognize what this is?
It most likely has something to do with the food you're feeding her, or hairballs. She could be allergic to the dye in the food or anything, so you should take her to the vet to see what it is exactly that she's allergic to. It could just be a hairball though, so try feeding her some grass, and if that doesn't work you can go buy some hairball gel. It's edible, and you feed her just a little bit and it should help get the hairball up, and that should solve everything. Here's something else I found that might help:
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It could be a few things. For one it could be hair balls. Sometimes as they are trying to cough them up they throw up. However...it could also be the food you are feeding them. Check the bag, the ingredients should start with a protein...no yellow corn and no by products. As mad as it gets you, this is the sign of a problem. You may need to buy a better cat food. You get what you pay for and quite frankly if you can buy it at walmart or the grocery store its not a good cat food.
Call your vet and check into your cat food.
One last thing, your cat could be eating too quickly. Taking the food away at night might make your cat gorge itself in the morning and then it will throw up anyway.
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Thanks! I went to the pet store last night and got Iams. Talked to the vet there and she also suggested this! I hope it works!
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Unfortunately it is normal for some cats, so normal (especially in Siamese) that they've made a dry food specifically to stop that. Royal Canin Siamese 38 is the only food on the market made with that in mind and it's reduced the amount my eat-and-barf cat tosses up.
You're right about the fast eating being the main cause, the dry food puffs up in their stomach too fast, or the canned food thumps down without enough saliva to start the digestive process, and it all comes back up again, violently.
A pet supplies store would carry the RC S.38, it's $11 for a bag that will last you a month. It's done wonders for mine.
A 'home remedy' is to feed the cat without fanfare in a different room, away from other cats if you have others, and to put a golf ball into the center. The working behind this is that they take more time eating around the ball, slowing them down. But it only works sometimes.
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Do you feed your cat only once a day? Some people mistakenly do this. If you do, then she is starving by the time she gets her food. She then eats it too fast, which will cause her to vomit. By the way, what you are describing is called projectile vomiting.
She should be fed 2 times a day. If you ARE feeding her twice a day, she may just be one of these cats who wolfs down her food, which, as I said before, will cause her to vomit.
First of all, make sure she gets two meals a day. Then, in the morning, which is when you say this happens, give her only a teaspoon of food. Let her eat this & wait about 10 minutes. Then give her another teaspoonful, and so on. If she can handle this without puking, the reason is most likely that she is wolfing it down too fast.
If she still throws up her food, take her to the vet as soon as possible. If a cat is getting 2 meals a day, she shouldn't be that hungry. You did not say she throws up dinner, so I wonder if she is getting any other food besides her breakfast. How would you feel if you only got one meal a day? You would be starving, right? So would a cat. Feed her in the morning and in the evening.
If she gets 2 meals a day and the teaspoon test doesn't work and she still vomits, then you MUST take her to the vet. Aside from a starving cat eating too fast, there is no reason for her to be throwing up her food like that every day.
my friend thinks she is fat and guys always make comments about her being fat also. what do you think?
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Definitely not.