My name is Chelsea, I'm 17 & a senior in high school. I like giving advice and helping people in general. I have the most experience in areas like family issues, dealing with friends and losing friends, pregnancy scares, and moving. I've made mistakes and learned from them. That's where my experience comes from. So why not help someone in the same situation that you've already been in? I'll try to do just that, and if you have a question don't hesitate to ask!
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I have medium-long super straight blonde hair. i was going to go super hippie and grow it out to my butt, but lately i have been wanting to cut it really short.. any opinions? (link)
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dont do anything that your going to regret in the future, maybe cut it medium length, so that its inbetween both long and short =)
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~ (link)
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It doesnt solve anything to cut yourself. Dont take any of this offensivley though. Maybe just try to talk to some people and let them help you through it, and you'll get over it eventually. best wishes
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I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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He could be kinda shy.. maybe he does like you and doesnt know how to react. why dont you try to tell him how you feel and then something could happen , he could be waiting for you to make the first move. ya never know.. good luck
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I'm having trouble falling asleep. Does anyone now anything that could help me fall asleep easier and faster? (link)
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what helps me fall asleep is listening to music, i fall asleep a lot faster, or maybe watch a movie? anyway hope i helped =)
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IM USUALLY NOT ALLOWED TO SPEND THE NITE AT PEOPLE'S HOUSE BUT I ALWAYS ASK NE WAYZ AND THREE NITES AGO I ASKED MY PARENTS AND THEY SAID YES SO I SPENDED TEH NITE AT MY FRIENDS HOSUE LETS SAY HER IS aNNA* I'VE KNOWN ANNA FOR 5 YEARS AND I'VE ONLY KNOWN MY NEW FRIEND FOR 1. SO SHE GOT REALLY MAD AT ME FOR NOT SPENDING THE NIGHT AT HER HOSUE AND YES TO ANNA'S HOUSE BUT I GUESS MY PARENTS HAVE TO KNOW THE OTHER PEOPLES PARENTS TO LET SPEND THE NITE.I WILL RATE A 5 TO ANYONE WHO ANSWER THIS QUESTION!!!! (link)
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try to explain to your friend that your parents are really strict about who they let you stay over with. if she takes that offensivley, maybe ask her to stay at your house. that way they get to know her and they can chat with her parents and get to know them better too.
good luck
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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink! (link)
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try to tell your friend how much everyone cares about him and that it would be a big mistake to commit suicide. Just an idea: to make him feel better make like a video or something of all his friends and family telling them how much they love him and how sad they would be if he wasent in their lives, maybe knowing that he will change his mind..
good luck
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I did not know what category to put this under...
Ok it seems that I'm always at least half way depressed. I just stay stressed out. School, friends, family...and mainly this guy. But also, little things happen. I spill my drinks all the time...cut myself shaving all the time...trip and fall...stuff like that. What are some things I can do to take my mind off this guy? B/c he's what makes me so stressed out. So what can I do just not to worry so much and to be in a better mood? And not let little things get to me? (link)
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Heres my advice: try to hang out with your friends more often and start to go out places more often to try to get your mid off everything, espically this guy thats stressing you out. Maybe if it continues go to a doctor to see if you have depression...
good luck
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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Deffinetly tell your mom. He wont be able to hurt you if you get the heck outa that situation!! Tell your mom, and even the police. He's your dad and its not good at all for dads to do that!!
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
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I really dont think that someone at the age of 14 is ready for a baby, no offense. Maybe youre really mature but probably not mature enough at 14. And with all the bad luck youre cousin is having and his brother, If i were you, id wait. best wishes
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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I think that you should get out as soon as possible. If your husband is going to do that to you, then just get out. For you and your daughters sakes
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my mom wont let me play the gutire because she thinks its for boys only!!!! isnt that stupid?!?! my friends and i are in a band and i want to learn how to play the gutire! how do i convince her to let me??? (link)
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i play guitar. my mom was a little shocked when i told her i wanted to play, but after i told her how bad i wanted to do this and how much i would practice and how it would be worth it, she let me. so just make sure your mom understands how you feel about playing guitar
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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird?? (link)
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haha no way my mom has watched soap operas since forever and ive always watched them too..lol
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